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heartofcity12:
I wonder…

Now,I will love to shed more light on these because I got that gut feelings some readers were taking aback by it.
Men,you need to disillusion yourselves from these "soulmates" believe.
Women know better .[/b]
Women's idea of "soulmate" is strongly rooted on your ability to provide her a better chances for the survival of herself and her children.
For men,it's primarily governed by feelings .
Women are pragmatic in situations like these,men live on the idea of it, largely governed by emotions .
You could vividly remember when you where younger, there's that girl you thought was your "soulmate",life happened,and you moved on ,met another "soulmate" in a later period in your life,maybe in the university or college,you can literally lay your life for her,but again,shit hit the fan,life goes on.
Maybe these time around you have met another "soulmate" ,and that's the shit you're dealing with right now.
I want to call your attention to a picture you could vividly relate to. You happen to meet one of these your "soulmates" when you're younger,now, what impression would you still have about them and yourself ?
Most likely, embarrassed and disgusted at yourself for probably disgracing yourself and your ancestors for simping for that lady some once upon a time.
That's life bro, you got better,more refined and your taste changed.
It's safe to say your choice of "soulmate" is highly dominated by emotion and your environment at that point in life, it's fluid and dynamic.
That's it guys, that's it.
The idea of "soulmates" have made men basically subject their progeny to untold pains.
Cases of SS man marrying an SS woman,believing "she's the one",thereby subjecting the child to a lifetime of drugs and medications. Your children don't deserve these.
Trust me ,they don't.
Cases of men killing themselves when a lady moves on to better options ,with the believe he will never found "his missing rib" and better woman out there. I wish he knew better.
Many men has gotten themselves stuck in a life of misery because of the notion that she's "the one".
What of cases of men divorcing and remarrying over and over again because he believed there is a special woman out there for him ?
Many disheartening tales out there just because a man believed the lie of "soulmate".
There's only good and bad women out there, there's no one specially designed for you.
Men, it's your responsibility to make a good of the woman you want to have serious commitment with,else you're going to pay dearly for your weak masculinity.

Best regards.

JESHAL007:
YOUNG MEN LET ME BE HONEST WITH YOU TODAY.

You see that girl you are dating now, she has a higher chance of making it in life faster than you.

This is why you shouldn't spend all your youthfulness building relationship with a woman.

The truth is she can easily walk out of that relationship and go ahead and marry an already made man, a man who has figured his life out, who has money and enough resources and on the strength of her marriage with the already man she has made it in life.

Whereas, you as a man is own your own, nobody is coming to save you, nobody cares about you, people don't even love you until you have value.

You see why investing all your youthfulness with a woman can be very dangerous and unhealthy for your future.

Women has more leverage early in life than man, like this like this, she's already winning you, the world is more fair to her than you and this is why you need to focus more on your purpose than you are focusing on her.

If you fail to make it in life, you will suffer in her hand, she will finally dump you for another man who didn't fail to make it.

Forget all those romantic bullishit she use to assure you " that she will be with you forever" its a lie, when jungle mature she will disappear.

The truth is most women are just managing your brokeness because they don't have a better option yet the moment a better option present itself she will abandon you and forget all your sacrifices and all her words, women knows nothing like loyalty.

This is why as a young man, you don't have to spend all your time focusing and chasing women up and down, women are big distraction to a man who is not purpose driven.

They will drain you and leave you.

Hustle for yourself, take your life more serious, read books, learn skills, develop and harness your masculine power, be more focus on becoming a better man, invest in your mind at the end of this is the only thing that will never leave you through thick and thin.

Be wise.

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pansophist:
1. Since you have started it, then please complete it, to avoid wasting the time/resources/efforts already invested. Also, having a university degree has its own privileges, regardless of the field of study.

2. But you must formulate a career/moneymaking plan that is transnational, i.e., not location and naira-dependent. Some people do it on YouTube, some do it via online selling, freelancing, IT, etc.

3. If you have nothing to your name and have to grow from zero, then your best shot at success is in a field that is skill-based, not degree/certification-based, although, certification can be a complement.

4. This means that you are good at those skills, e.g. Usain Bolt doesn't have a degree in running, but he trained for over 20 years just to run for 10 seconds and be the fastest man.

5. So learn a skill, be it making the best suits, making the beast steak, or being a god in programming, app design, writing, website building, etc. You don't have to do the skills I mentioned, they are just examples.

6. But you must know also that you do not have the privilege of being selective or picky or doing your hobby. My hobby is sleeping at home and hope my account balance increases, but life doesn't work that way.

7. So it is about the formula that works, and skill-based professionals will always be sought after. Get your degree for the sake of it, but along the line, create time to perfect a skill, and then monetization is next.

8. But one that is easily accessible to all regardless of background is IT-related fields. So programming, designing, website building, animations, sketching, UI, etc., or creating IT solutions for business.

9. If you go to Udemy.com, there are some Nigerians teaching there, and they have students from all over the world paying for their courses. Even on YouTube, there are big Nigerian chefs selling courses in USD, and making thousands monthly.

10. It is about taking your destiny into your own hands. So you must first understand you don't have a country, and operate on that basis. So your flesh should be in Nigeria, but formulate your affairs in a way that your income does not depend on it.

11. Now all these might take you years to achieve, depending on the fire burning inside you, but if you are serious, it can take you two years, or even less.

12. Another advantage of a skill-based strategy is that it is less expensive. If you want to be a programmer, for example, you need only a laptop, free courses that are scattered online, and DRIVE. The drive is the most important thing.

13. You have to want it like you are dying tomorrow. And spend at least three hours (usually 8hours) on it every day. Elon Musk, for example, that man has more drive than me.

Go check out his working routine, and you will understand why some people are poor, and some are wealthy. Elon Musk is a man who sleeps on the Tesla factory floor, working round the clock, just to make use of every second in a 24-hour circle.

14. Such drive is what you need, and no forces on earth will be able to stop you. Even Nigeria, lol. Just make sure your skill is something transnational, so no barbing, painting, a vulcanizing. You can't export, duplicate, and scale such skills.

Rillycool:
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JESHAL007:
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KingEarnest:
Am i the only one that saw fellowship leader?

sajmark:
Barka da Salah

JESHAL007:
YOUNG MEN LET ME BE HONEST WITH YOU TODAY.

You see that girl you are dating now, she has a higher chance of making it in life faster than you.

This is why you shouldn't spend all your youthfulness building relationship with a woman.

The truth is she can easily walk out of that relationship and go ahead and marry an already made man, a man who has figured his life out, who has money and enough resources and on the strength of her marriage with the already man she has made it in life.

Whereas, you as a man is own your own, nobody is coming to save you, nobody cares about you, people don't even love you until you have value.

You see why investing all your youthfulness with a woman can be very dangerous and unhealthy for your future.

Women has more leverage early in life than man, like this like this, she's already winning you, the world is more fair to her than you and this is why you need to focus more on your purpose than you are focusing on her.

If you fail to make it in life, you will suffer in her hand, she will finally dump you for another man who didn't fail to make it.

Forget all those romantic bullishit she use to assure you " that she will be with you forever" its a lie, when jungle mature she will disappear.

The truth is most women are just managing your brokeness because they don't have a better option yet the moment a better option present itself she will abandon you and forget all your sacrifices and all her words, women knows nothing like loyalty.

This is why as a young man, you don't have to spend all your time focusing and chasing women up and down, women are big distraction to a man who is not purpose driven.

They will drain you and leave you.

Hustle for yourself, take your life more serious, read books, learn skills, develop and harness your masculine power, be more focus on becoming a better man, invest in your mind at the end of this is the only thing that will never leave you through thick and thin.

Be wise.

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Martinez39s:
A lot of women are not just smart. What men want is very clear but yet the beautiful and young ones can't use the knowledge to their advantage. Rich men are scarce compared to the number of women, so why not be smart to stand out among the women competing for them?

Even if a woman will fake it, here is how a woman stands out in the eyes of a rich simp and HOOK HIM so he can take her to the altar:
1) Be feminine in all way possible,
2) Learn how to cook and do other home keeping skills,
3) Learn to massage his ego by voluntarily letting him be the head of the home and the relationship as much as possible, and don't challenge him,
4) All give him a sense of trust eg. If he demands to go through your phone, let him; if he demands you delete all your ex-boyfriends' contact, delete them etc.,
5) Be respectful,
6) Get him to spend heavily (invest) on you.

This might look like slavery to the dumb ones, but those that know the ABC of the game will key into this even if it means faking it. This is just how hook a rich simp, and what happens after he has spent heavily on you and married you is up to you, but be careful as actions have consequences. Funny enough, when this is applied, the doors to the rich simp's heart and resources will be opened to the woman. In a world of wayward and pompous women, rich simps rejoice when they find a woman like this... they treat her like diamond. One thing girls don't understand is that rich men don't care about your money, your intelligence, or educational qualifications. If women mimic the qualities in the list, they will see wonders.

If a woman likes, let her start acting pompous and feeling untouchable and like the best thing to happen since slice bread, she is on her own. When a woman who keys into game I listed comes along, say bye to your rich catch.

It's good to follow education and career, but it shouldn't be solely depended on and it doesn't make a woman the best thing since slice bread. Smart women who know their game take out time to secure high value men. Education and career might not make her amount to anything much or give her as much as she would get from a wealthy simp. Regina Daniels is enjoying life better than many career women, and their is a reason why Davido went with Chioma instead of his baby mamas.

Some just waste their opportunities riding many dicks, pursuing education till they have passed their prime, letting fùck boys fall their breasts and widen their pùssy, and becoming single mothers for fùckboys that are sure to abdicate their responsibilities. Anyway, if luck is on their side, they will still find rich simps after all these shortcomings since many simps are daft, have no back bone, and have no self-respect.

JESHAL007:
THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as sex freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very sexual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks sex at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with sexual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to scantily clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and sexual, they take in images that create sexual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their sexual advances. Rejecting a man sexually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband sexually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during sex gives her husband 80% ego boost on his sexual performance.

8. Sex is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for sex.

10. A sexually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his sex kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight vagina does wonders on the penis than any man will tell you.

12. Men love sexual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away is like slapping him.

15. Men like a woman who loves sex.

16. 60% of the reason he is marrying you is because of sex.

17. Men love sex.

Men are wonderful. Men are sweet. Men are awesome.

It is not the fault of a man he is very sexual. God created him that way. When a man is completely loved, cherished and honoured for who he is and what he is made up of, he will love you, adore you and cherish you forever.

luminouz:
That's still simping!!!

That's not what the redpill teaches...Why would you say sending money for validation is redpill...
Redpill has many facers. Rich simps join to understand game and become better at not simping... Others are hustlers who need the redpill for motivation and less distraction.

You don't just open your mouth wa-wa and say what you don't know. I don't lack women and I'm here....so what's my purpose here then...to still please the same pussies I already bleeped? I need the redpill to be better at every facet/level...not just women shiit, even though we discuss feminine dynamics here.

Rukevwe999:
Most simps, if not naivety or infatuation,suffer from Nice Guy Syndrome. The kindness they show to women is done with an ulterior motive; they think like this "if I buy this stuff for Sandra, perhaps she'll recognize what a nice guy I am and would want to date me. And if I keep up with the act she'll sleep with me "
Some simping are just awkward and poorly planned sexual strategies.
If many guys were able to attract women with no hassle or were in loving and fulfilling relationships, they won't be in the redpill. Redpill awareness is golden but some guys here have unresolved issues in their lives and have turned the redpill into a copium to feel better about themselves, not for the self-improvement it teaches.

luminouz:
You have a point that some guys are still at the anger or rage stage but I think it's due to the fact that they lost so much and been taken for granted for so long that they get angry at themselves for being so blind. Many guys pass this stage and become stabilized though.

Surely you can agree with me that many men are not in fulfilling relationships in Nigeria because it's one-sided and redpill is saying enough is enough of that shiit. Look at it this way, if you are full of food and have means to always get some, will you still scramble for a plate of Amala and ewedu distributed at a party you were invited to? Nope...we are always gravitated towards what we don't have...not what we already did.

Your opening statement was the best of all. Simps do shiit for validation. I have seen it all my life and I still saw it yesterday. The urge to do something so a girl sees you as Mr. Nice guy or 'responsible or real' man sometimes overpowers these simps and they can't help themselves. But that's why we are here, doing what we are doing and despite being vilified and abused for it, we are still strong. Men have to be strong enough to lead or the human race is doomed.

olamoses75:
I would rather spend millions on gambling than using my money to prove a point to a leeche

killsmith:
Some of the men wey women give bastard, na men wey use money collect broke man babe. Broke man come dey chop am for back.
This life no just balance.

Modified: Make una no vex o. Na beer parlour wey I go relax this night with green bottles, gist of DNA test come up, men begin discuss am.

One of the men wey dey the joint talk say, him girlfriend wey him date for 3years, one rich man come from nowhere collect the girl marry am because e get money.
Him come vex dey fucck the lady for back. Him don give the woman 5 kids. Him talk say e ready to give the woman 10 kids so that the rich man go spend him money train children since e get money.

Cold just dey catch me since. Things dey happen o.

chukshobayo:
But I am curious as to why the man has not kpai. I asked because I have always heard that the fasted way to kpai as a man is to sleep with a married woman.

luminouz:
You have a point that some guys are still at the anger or rage stage but I think it's due to the fact that they lost so much and been taken for granted for so long that they get angry at themselves for being so blind. Many guys pass this stage and become stabilized though.

Surely you can agree with me that many men are not in fulfilling relationships in Nigeria because it's one-sided and redpill is saying enough is enough of that shiit. Look at it this way, if you are full of food and have means to always get some, will you still scramble for a plate of Amala and ewedu distributed at a party you were invited to? Nope...we are always gravitated towards what we don't have...not what we already did.

Your opening statement was the best of all. Simps do shiit for validation. I have seen it all my life and I still saw it yesterday. The urge to do something so a girl sees you as Mr. Nice guy or 'responsible or real' man sometimes overpowers these simps and they can't help themselves. But that's why we are here, doing what we are doing and despite being vilified and abused for it, we are still strong. Men have to be strong enough to lead or the human race is doomed.

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chukshobayo:
@Luminouz. Please I sometimes have issues with talking dirty to a lady when other ladies are around as I have the notion that she may be feel somehow since it will give her the slut look before the other ladies. Is it only me that feels this way?

@Martinez I am beginning to see what you said about maintaining the redpill is more work than starting redpill. I have been tempted to let my guard down just because I want to have a lady to maybe settle down with, I am like I can manage this one but when I think about stories that touches I just put myself in check. Men it is a difficult road.

Skepticus:
Spread the word. I'll pick the latter.

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