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A very inconvenient truth.
There are some women in this world that were not created for one man. Their physical, psychological, emotional, and even spiritual architecture/composition were never designed to be possessed by one man.
I say this because lots of men have married these types of women with devastating consequences for themselves and broader society.
Before you propose marriage to such woman, take a detailed and honest (not wishful) look at her. See her for what she is, not what you want to see or hope she'd become in the future. Be fearless and honest to yourself, not society.
There are women that can't walk 100 meters without a man stopping her to talk to her. And it is not her fault. She just exudes raw sexual attraction, by nature.
Is that what you want in a wife?
Some men are comfortable with that, while others cannot handle it.
The dominant culture today belies these truths, but they remain truth.
So, before you kill another man for looking or chatting your wife, please make sure you first accept responsibility for marrying such a woman.
The woman you marry speaks more about you than about her.

Normal, some women go born for different men and still successful on her own 💯

When you have a love map and follow it, you shouldn't fall into the hands of the ladies you explained above.

Cheating in a relationship is just the most senseless thing to me. If you are tired of a relationship, gerrah from it without cheating.

helinues:
When you have a love map and follow it, you shouldn't fall into the hands of the ladies you explained above.

Cheating in a relationship is just the most senseless thing to me. If you are tired of a relationship, gerrah from it without cheating.

Absolutely true.
The problem is that a lot of men don't have such map/plan.
In fact they only start to seriously think about marriage after they see a certain lady for the first time and get magnetized by her attraction.
Greed plays some role in it too. Good ol' competitive spirit of men also play some part -the "I want her to be MINE only" spirit.
They hardly ask, "should I even be caught dead with this type of woman?"
The men usually get to the "oops!" moment when they'd already fallen head-over-heels with such women and married them.
Suddenly when she starts becoming her natural self and men start flocking around her, the husband start looking for "magun" and other deadly means to drive the men away. Usually too late by then.

OP,

I think what you should simply say is that Ladies of today are getting polygamous like Men.

The way Many men can't do with one Pvssy, Dat's how many Girls can't do with just one PREEK.

You are wrong.

I do not have comprehension issues but I still do not get what u are saying

Are those qualities a blessing to the women or a curse??

A woman that 'exudes raw sexual attraction to all men' would feel bad knowing every single guy that passes her by only sees her as a potential intimacy gadget

I even thought u were about to like extraordinary qualities like that of Dora Akunyili or NOI which would make their husband worry about the kinda high quality men ready to frolick with them. I didn't know it's about sexiness

No woman is created for multiple men What have disciplined and non disciplined women..

VinnyBaba:
OP,

I think what you should simply say is that Ladies of today are getting polygamous like Men.

The way Many men can't do with one Pvssy, Dat's how many Girls can't do with just one PREEK.

Well, I don't think it is a new thing. I think it has been like that from ancient times.
If you've read and researched this topic as I have, you will come to the same conclusion, too.
The difference today is that we have the internet and smart phones. So information get out more.

As for men, the family institution always accommodated/favored their polygamous possibilities.
That is why we have polygyny even today, as legal marriage constructs.
Patriarchy (or rule by men) ensured that women's sexual proclivities were suppressed and kept hidden.
Some ancient cultures didn't do that though, but the western culture we practice today certainly did that (hide women's sexual tendencies).
So, please forget about the talk of "ladies of today": this isn't a new thing.
The new thing about it is the internet and smart phones.

DevilsEqual:
I do not have comprehension issues but I still do not get that u are saying

Are those qualities a blessing to the women or a curse??

A woman that 'exudes raw sexual attraction to all men' would feel bad knowing every single guy that passes her by only sees her as a potential intimacy gadget

I even thought u were about to like extraordinary qualities like that of Dora Akunyili or NOI which would make their husband worry about the kinda high quality men ready to frolick with them. I didn't know it's about sexiness

I will answer your question when I get back.
Stay tuned.

kim Kardashian comes to my mind,if like fine pass Neymar,rich pass Saudi prince you can't tie that bitch down.

Women were created for man satisfaction

DevilsEqual:
I do not have comprehension issues but I still do not get that u are saying

Are those qualities a blessing to the women or a curse??

A woman that 'exudes raw sexual attraction to all men' would feel bad knowing every single guy that passes her by only sees her as a potential intimacy gadget

I even thought u were about to like extraordinary qualities like that of Dora Akunyili or NOI which would make their husband worry about the kinda high quality men ready to frolick with them. I didn't know it's about sexiness

I'm back now...
So, what I'm saying is very simple: SOME (please note the "some" for emphasis) are that way, BY NATURE.
It is not a question of "blessing or curse". It is just what it is.
The women I refer to are very comfortable in that nature. They are not complaining. Others are however complaining either against them or on their behalf.
My problem is that a lot of men don't know that such women exist, and get entangled with them in marriage only to find out later that she is of this kind. Then the men start killing men over the woman without accepting their own responsibility in marrying such woman.

I will cite one real life example next...

You project your insecurity as defect in others. This is new

Man will still talk to your worwor woman, deal with your insecurity

This REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE happened in Anambra state ( I won't mention the town for privacy reasons)...

Two married men were "fighting" (one was even making serious moves to kill the other) over a certain MARRIED woman.
The woman in question is of the type I described above in the OP (deadly attractive and so forth).

The woman's husband was/still is very comfortable with the nature of his wife ,and going about his normal business, while two other married men were about to kill each other over his wife. Think about that for a second...

The woman's husband married her knowing fully well what he was "buying", and was living with her happily.
But other men who couldn't possibly do same even though they had their own wives almost killed themselves over this woman.
Imagine what would have happened if one of these married men fighting over her actually married her.
They would have killed a lot of men over her.
That is my concern: that some men can't understand that SOME women are of this nature and are willing to kill other men because of such women.

It's better to avoid such women because how can a wife become a community tool, it kills in so many culture.

Proserpina:
You project your insecurity as defect in others. This is new

Man will still talk to your worwor woman, deal with your insecurity

Oga are you discussing this topic at all, or even following the narrative here?
Na so mental illness dey start o..

Op is scared to say women are also polygamous in nature......

Eyah

Some men are not meant for one woman e.g. Davido.

bizbro:
Some men are not meant for one woman e.g. Davido.

Exactly!

Biglittlelois:
Op is scared to say women are also polygamous in nature......

Eyah

You are making a logic error (inductive reasoning) here.
Example, some women are polygamous, therefore ALL women (as you allude to above) are polygamous.
That is NOT true.
Some (in fact a significant if not majority) of women are perfectly monogamous.
That is why I chose my words carefully in the original post.

onumadu:
This REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE happened in Anambra state ( I won't mention the town for privacy reasons)...

Two married men were "fighting" (one was even making serious moves to kill the other) over a certain MARRIED woman.
The woman in question is of the type I described above in the OP (deadly attractive and so forth).

The woman's husband was/still is very comfortable with the nature of his wife ,and going about his normal business, while two other married men were about to kill each other over his wife. Think about that for a second...

The woman's husband married her knowing fully well what he was "buying", and was living with her happily.
But other men who couldn't possibly do same even though they had their own wives almost killed themselves over this woman.
Imagine what would have happened if one of these married men fighting over her actually married her.
They would have killed a lot of men over her.
That is my concern: that some men can't understand that SOME women are of this nature and are willing to kill other men because of such women.

You're using two shameless men to judge the entire race of men. Yeah, the world doesn't work like that.

Caramia2020:
It's better to avoid such women because how can a wife become a community tool, it kills in so many culture.

You seem grasp some of the point of this post.
Others are busy accusing me of insecurity and some even alluded to me being afraid to admit that some women may be polygamous. lol
What is the essence of my post then if I nurse such biases?
I'm perfectly comfortable with a woman being like I described in the OP. She did not create herself!
I may not marry her, but some other men would happily do so.
My only thing is that some men rush to POSSESS them, only to wake up later in the marriage to find out this issue.
In my book, such women should either be left alone, or be married to men who understand them and are willing to live with them.
There are MANY such women in the world who are happily married.

SenecaTheYonger:
You're using two shameless men to judge the entire race of men. Yeah, the world doesn't work like that.

I never generalized. You are the one generalizing by ascribing the anomaly to "entire race of men".
I only cited an example (admittedly extreme and discomforting) of such things. But it still illustrates the problem.
SOME men fall into it, NOT ALL men.
There are derivatives (others like it) well hidden under typical Nigerian societal secrecy and hypocrisy.
Only God knows how many men have died from such things.

BEFORE you marry that girl, have you done an honest assessment of her, to see what she REALLY is, and not what YOU want to see?
And if you marry her anyway and later find out that she is not meant for one man, are you willing to either divorce her or live with it (i.e accept responsibility for the situation) without killing other men who sleep with her?
Those are the questions.

My mission here really is to help men accept nature the way it is, rather than trying to kill one another over it.

Only the billionaires are meant to have as many wives as possible because they can take care of them

Not some poverty stricken Nigerian men we have. Infact, a poor man has no business having morethan 1 child

Sheistoopretty:
Only the billionaires are meant to have as many wives as possible because they can take care of them

Not some poverty stricken Nigerian men we have. Infact, a poor man has no business having morethan 1 child

How many children does a poor woman deserve to have?

Stone03:
No woman is created for multiple men What have disciplined and non disciplined women..

There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting multiple men, they also get bored of the same dick just as men get bored of constantly banging the same toto day-in-day-out

lots of little ‘boys’ won’t be able to comprehend the OP but it’s normal, it’s just how nature made those women…….some might not even be drop dead gorgeous but would have this wild sexual looks that would make lot of men to imagine hitting her coochie even if it’s just once.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting multiple men, they also get bored of the same dick just as men get bored of constantly banging the same toto day-in-day-out

Whether it's men or women, it's a product of untamed mind. Nobody gets bored of his husband's prick or his wife's vagina if she or he disciplines the mind to focus on the she or he got.

Tell yourself that all toto na toto, all prick na prick. Once you ejaculate nothing more.

AKA Saida bol

onumadu:
A very inconvenient truth.
There are some women in this world that were not created for one man. Their physical, psychological, emotional, and even spiritual architecture/composition were never designed to be possessed by one man.
I say this because lots of men have married these types of women with devastating consequences for themselves and broader society.
Before you propose marriage to such woman, take a detailed and honest (not wishful) look at her. See her for what she is, not what you want to see or hope she'd become in the future. Be fearless and honest to yourself, not society.
There are women that can't walk 100 meters without a man stopping her to talk to her. And it is not her fault. She just exudes raw sexual attraction, by nature.
Is that what you want in a wife?
Some men are comfortable with that, while others cannot handle it.
The dominant culture today belies these truths, but they remain truth.
So, before you kill another man for looking or chatting your wife, please make sure you first accept responsibility for marrying such a woman.
The woman you marry speaks more about you than about her.

So?