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I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

It is distasteful

Redflags no need to have taken this route if they were marriageable. Eligible bachelors are seriously searching but what we have around are not to be taken seriously. Sad

What were they doing when they were younger?
How many have they rejected coz of different reasons?
How many serious lads have they friendzoned?

I can only laugh......last time they even held a church service with all attendees decorated in Thier wedding gowns .

Most of this ladies where busy waiting for already made rich men and busy turning down average men asking for their hands in marriage.

Coolsat:
Redflags no need to have taken this route if they were marriageable. Eligible bachelors are seriously searching but what we have around are not to be taken seriously. Sad

May not be what you think. My experience is that the ladies who find it most difficult to marry are some of the best behaved. And the society creates many of the problems like high bride prices, etc.

JimD:
[quote author=Anguldi post=130968018]I disagree, they have bad attitude during their prime.
Your prime is your selling point 💯

I am expensive to maintain , na commodity Rolls-Royce ko!!! Private jet ni!!!

Reality will humble you

But men create them.
Read HOW NIGERIAN MEN DESTROY THEIR WOMEN AND TURN AROUND TO BLAME THE WOMEN

What were they doing when they were below 25 years Old? That's the best age for a woman to attract a suitor

Welcome to the era of almighty desperados

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

This shows one of the negative side of modern living.

Our forefathers married many wives and also families arranged marriage for their children. This largely ensured that majority of the women had husbands.

Today, polygamy is frowned at and arranged marriage is seen as a taboo by many.

The young ladies are now expected to source for husbands by themselves and some fail to get husbands.

Also many young men can not afford to marry because the financial requirements exceeds their capabilities unlike in the old days where the financial requirements to raise a family is very low.

dumahi:
May not be what you think. My experience is that the ladies who find it most difficult to marry are some of the best behaved. And the society creates many of the problems like high bride prices, etc.

I disagree, they have bad attitude during their prime.
Your prime is your selling point 💯

I am expensive to maintain , na commodity Rolls-Royce ko!!! Private jet ni!!!

Reality will humble you

The solution is for the government to mandate financially capable men to each marry at least 3 wives

Some are catching cruise, others are catching feelings ...

Content generation.

God knows how much I detest all these useless creatures, both men and women, who see everything as opportunity for social media 'content'.

Hmm

Go and read Isaiah 4:1,

In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”

Make that baby mamas for pic and 3 and 4 marry the father of their children, not a freshman wey never marry b4.God av mercy

Na another time in lifetime experiences of humans.

Ladies, use your prime well. E get why, BEAUTY FADES

Being rude in the name of woke . It's crazy, you will see their mothers well behaved and mannered.
My ex girlfriend is back on my case, she's 33 now and hopeless. This is someone that goes on dates while we were dating. Imagine the heart ache 😥, all of a sudden am a spec.
A quick reminder, secondary school just released a set of fresh breeds. Hold your man tight 💯🔥

Ladies, start working you asses up. Who said you can't be rich and well doing. Go out and look for jobs and start businesses that will become empires. Stop urgent 2K and I've not eaten. My sub is finished. Na orphan you be

Am been invited to come and eat. As a guy man, I've given several hands. All exes are coming back.

Hmm

It's natural. Just check their age and sympathise with them.

Very healthy .

10yrs of APC rule is turning Nigerian men into women .

So it's normal for the women to start toasting the already Shylock men

Wrong choice of words. They need a companion, someone to love and be loved in return, not necessarily a husband. A husband might just be a burden to them and not necessarily love them.

The economy + "westernisation" is not helping matters,
but na so Bible talk sha.

Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

Single mother of 3 at 27 years of age needs a white husband.

Her terms: Ready to be a good housewife.

God help you with your search.

Stupid desperation
Has any man ever married a woman because she set up a camera and was wailing. It devalues you
Instead
Join a dating app or singles meeting in your church. Attend events, put yourself out there in a less disgraceful manner.
Above all- build your life and finances. The right person will come. Guys are also attracted to a woman who is successful not someone seeing marriage as escape from poverty

Hmm

This one wey dey find white husband never need husband

I find both this and the trending social media match making weird.

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

They've realised the rubicon had seemingly been crossed (men may have Sincerely approached them for marriages).

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Some are just catching cruise