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BeyondCertainty:
This man has a scarcity mindset.

Money can't keep a woman.

It is not an insult giving her number to other men since you are yet to marry her.

Why give a woman that sum every month? Insecurity! yeah.

Don't buy that stupid idea of 'privacy' check her phone anytime you want to.
You'd only be saving yourself from a lot of problems.

pongwa:
mofo! You never marry her na

Alex80s:
The Man want to dey enjoy free kpekus with different styles, and doesn't want to pay for it officially;/Unless the girl is not interested in marriage. Any smart girl cannot stop giving men her number if she is not sure she would settle down with her boyfriend.

okerekingsley90:
nawao truly the world isn't fair to men

BeyondCertainty:
That banny no fear you at all.

DyshApp:
Nigerian man cries out for advice as he complains over girlfriend’s habit of giving out her number to other men, despite being in a relationship with him.

The man made his complaint known in a post on Facebook relationship platform.

According to the man he and his girlfriend had been dating for two and a half years.

During this time, because of her frustrating behaviour he had put her on a 30K monthly allowance but she keeps displaying a troubling behaviour.

He stated that his girlfriend always gives out her number freely to other men.

When he confronted her, she opined that he hasn’t married her yet so she’s free to do as he likes.

The man has come online to seek advice from social media users over his puzzling issue.

He wrote …

“I am fed up of my Gf behaviors.. its been 2 and half years now we’ve been dating… I try all my best to satisfy her. I even considered giving her 30k monthly maybe she will change. But all to no avail.. she love giving out her number if guy approach her… how can she be in a serious relationship with me and still giving out her number. That’s an insult to me.

She doesn’t even allow me check her phone.. she always say I haven’t marry her. So she is free… I am tired of her. Her mum knows me a lot. She knows I am the only guy dating her. We love each other a lot. But I don’t want to share her with someone else.. my friend advise me to go and lock her in alfa place. So she will love only me. But I want to seek advise before doing anything.. I will read all comments..”

Savedday2:
We have said it here B4! All 9ja girls are ashawo

The truth of the matter is that, the fact that you haven't caught your girlfriend/sister/wife doing ashawo work doesn't mean she is not an ashawo. They are all the same.

Habbeyy:

30k wey you suppose share give bambiala for street since you no need am.

She is simply looking for a better option

yungkels:
The man, the gf, her number, the relationship, the other guys are all stu.pid...

Treasure17:
It's a big red flag.

finallybusy:
…and this is why I don’t do relationships.