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Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Henry2405(op): 12:05pm On Jul 23, 2024
There is something bothering me I need advice….There is dis girl I meet wen I got admitted in 2021, she was in ND2 while I was in ND1,I asked her out then she declined saying she wasn’t ready for anything relationship and the other things done inside. Besides I am not a virgin but she isnt, fast forward to dis year after her one year IT, back to HND 1 while I am currently doing my 1yr now…so early dis year she started giving me green light, showing interest in me, so suddenly ending of March dis year I accepted and we started dating (This girl na church girl,u should understand wat I mean). but before we started I told her I no be church Guy, like am say my own na to go Sunday service come back house anything fellowship I no de go and I no be virgin, she said she will make out tym for church and me I agreed. Omo relationship start we normally kiss and do pre-intimacy and touch her clit, but I don’t finger her she don’t want it but dis girl she cooks for me even wen I don’t have money to cook she cooks for me with her own money…so suddenly dis month as we were chatting she said she is stopping all we have been doing like de kissing and de pre-intimacy of a thing that it is a SIN, that it stops blessing from coming 🙄and more, over that it is bringing down her spiritual life💔😔 That it wont stop her from loving and caring for me 😒🥺 me am confuse coz I love dis girl but e don tey wey I fk and she is saying all this to me ….and she is my neighbors for lodge nt de same lodge but her window is facing my door and I don’t know if I am to cheat😔💔and 2morrow now she fit still no marry me and end up marrying another person(somebody who is prayerful like her and goes to church like her like she do say and I de pray but no be dis speaking in tongue and I no de go church like am) then giving everything to the person and I go come loose. I really need advice please…🙏
No insult please"
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Zxcvbnmghtr: 12:10pm On Jul 23, 2024
undecided
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Zonefree(m): 12:19pm On Jul 23, 2024
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Deprincess4321(f): 12:34pm On Jul 23, 2024
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
hahahaha,,abeg i no plan to laugh
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Deprincess4321(f): 12:35pm On Jul 23, 2024
Wetin i go comment nw??
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Henry2405(op): 12:35pm On Jul 23, 2024
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
Too bad
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by tivhador: 12:51pm On Jul 23, 2024
She don't like you no more, the end. If you still pinning for her attention still, then I feel sorry for your mother cheesy
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Agboki: 1:48pm On Jul 23, 2024
Henry2405:
There is something bothering me I need advice….There is dis girl I meet wen I got admitted in 2021, she was in ND2 while I was in ND1,I asked her out then she declined saying she wasn’t ready for anything relationship and the other things done inside. Besides I am not a virgin but she isnt, fast forward to dis year after her one year IT, back to HND 1 while I am currently doing my 1yr now…so early dis year she started giving me green light, showing interest in me, so suddenly ending of March dis year I accepted and we started dating (This girl na church girl,u should understand wat I mean). but before we started I told her I no be church Guy, like am say my own na to go Sunday service come back house anything fellowship I no de go and I no be virgin, she said she will make out tym for church and me I agreed. Omo relationship start we normally kiss and do pre-intimacy and touch her clit, but I don’t finger her she don’t want it but dis girl she cooks for me even wen I don’t have money to cook she cooks for me with her own money…so suddenly dis month as we were chatting she said she is stopping all we have been doing like de kissing and de pre-intimacy of a thing that it is a SIN, that it stops blessing from coming 🙄and more, over that it is bringing down her spiritual life💔😔 That it wont stop her from loving and caring for me 😒🥺 me am confuse coz I love dis girl but e don tey wey I fk and she is saying all this to me ….and she is my neighbors for lodge nt de same lodge but her window is facing my door and I don’t know if I am to cheat😔💔and 2morrow now she fit still no marry me and end up marrying another person(somebody who is prayerful like her and goes to church like her like she do say and I de pray but no be dis speaking in tongue and I no de go church like am) then giving everything to the person and I go come loose. I really need advice please…🙏
No insult please"
Una dey try 4 dis generation of kids,wetin person wey Neva dey feed himself dey use woman do?
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Njc1(m): 2:33pm On Jul 23, 2024
grin
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by A4alpha: 3:38pm On Jul 23, 2024
Go and read your books, fvck is not the reason why your parents sent you to school.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Elaineiowa: 4:23pm On Jul 23, 2024
Agboki:
Una dey try 4 dis generation of kids,wetin person wey Neva dey feed himself dey use woman do?
😹😹😹😂
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jul 23, 2024
You are not emotionally damaged by the thoughts of how your parents struggle to pay your school fees, by the thoughts of how you can make distinction to get good job after graduating in a very competitive job market or by the thoughts of how to survive in a dying economy like Nigeria after leaving the walls of your polytechnic. But here you are feeling emotionally damaged because a girl has ceased to allow you kiss her and press her breast. Just send me your address, I wan come deliver my advice to you in person.

Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by imagrg(m): 4:33pm On Jul 23, 2024
Answer this question:
Na toto you wan fvck or you wan marry am?

If na toto you wan fvck, you better relocate oh.

This girl na marriage material.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by rickleye: 4:48pm On Jul 23, 2024
Henry2405:
There is something bothering me I need advice….There is dis girl I meet wen I got admitted in 2021, she was in ND2 while I was in ND1,I asked her out then she declined saying she wasn’t ready for anything relationship and the other things done inside. Besides I am not a virgin but she isnt, fast forward to dis year after her one year IT, back to HND 1 while I am currently doing my 1yr now…so early dis year she started giving me green light, showing interest in me, so suddenly ending of March dis year I accepted and we started dating (This girl na church girl,u should understand wat I mean). but before we started I told her I no be church Guy, like am say my own na to go Sunday service come back house anything fellowship I no de go and I no be virgin, she said she will make out tym for church and me I agreed. Omo relationship start we normally kiss and do pre-intimacy and touch her clit, but I don’t finger her she don’t want it but dis girl she cooks for me even wen I don’t have money to cook she cooks for me with her own money…so suddenly dis month as we were chatting she said she is stopping all we have been doing like de kissing and de pre-intimacy of a thing that it is a SIN, that it stops blessing from coming 🙄and more, over that it is bringing down her spiritual life💔😔 That it wont stop her from loving and caring for me 😒🥺 me am confuse coz I love dis girl but e don tey wey I fk and she is saying all this to me ….and she is my neighbors for lodge nt de same lodge but her window is facing my door and I don’t know if I am to cheat😔💔and 2morrow now she fit still no marry me and end up marrying another person(somebody who is prayerful like her and goes to church like her like she do say and I de pray but no be dis speaking in tongue and I no de go church like am) then giving everything to the person and I go come loose. I really need advice please…🙏
No insult please"
So she is Pentecostal and you are likely denomination oriented like Anglican , Methodist or Baptist.
In any case she is okay to toe the line( kiss and heavy petting ) but not cross over. You want full service without paying for it .
She sounds like a decent lady who was reminded of holiness and therefore stopped before going too far.
There is nothing wrong with you . You have just come across a girl that checks all your boxes.

I wouldn’t corrupt you in telling you what we used to do back in the day .
However, if you feel content she is the one develop the relationship - or let her go and find another that will satisfy your animalistic present need.
** always use rubber **
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Remijuice: 4:50pm On Jul 23, 2024
Enjoy her free meals and face your study.

E be like say nothing do you for this economy?
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Bignuell(m): 4:57pm On Jul 23, 2024
Bro if for say me and you get refinery, NNPC, tinubu and co for don adjust. Stop all these please
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by PJtech: 5:16pm On Jul 23, 2024
OP you're m@d. You wan spoin person life

If she gets pregnant how do you intend to take care of her?
Infact G@d pun!$h you

If to say you starve like 3 straight days you no go dey reason toto matter
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Aremu01(m): 5:52pm On Jul 23, 2024
This is not enough to damage you emotionally
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Nicepoker(m): 5:54pm On Jul 23, 2024
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
He is beyond redemption cheesy
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Nicepoker(m): 5:55pm On Jul 23, 2024
Op I will give you one good sound advice. But on one condition. Let me insult you first pls. grin
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Atolu01: 7:16pm On Jul 23, 2024
"I go come "loose"" indeed. Sicko.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Jflex07(m): 9:28pm On Jul 23, 2024
Another mumu on the sprawl.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Tonyx5(m): 9:56pm On Jul 23, 2024
No go warm eba chop
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Polynek(m): 10:02pm On Jul 23, 2024
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.
grin grin grin
Bro ur comment at times eehn grin
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by MrMcJay(m): 11:32pm On Jul 23, 2024
Zonefree:
Your redemption is still very far...I pity your family.

Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by Nijimog: 7:42am On Jul 24, 2024
Don't shit were u eat

And

Don't shit were u live

Hunt out , don't Hunt In

When u do d above, u are giving yourself respect and people will definitely respect u
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by laivwire(m): 7:43am On Jul 24, 2024
Your visions do not align, quit the relationship for peace of mind.
Re: Am Emotionally Damaged I Need Help !!!! by brodalikeme(m): 10:43am On Jul 24, 2024
Henry2405:
There is something bothering me I need advice….There is dis girl I meet wen I got admitted in 2021, she was in ND2 while I was in ND1,I asked her out then she declined saying she wasn’t ready for anything relationship and the other things done inside. Besides I am not a virgin but she isnt, fast forward to dis year after her one year IT, back to HND 1 while I am currently doing my 1yr now…so early dis year she started giving me green light, showing interest in me, so suddenly ending of March dis year I accepted and we started dating (This girl na church girl,u should understand wat I mean). but before we started I told her I no be church Guy, like am say my own na to go Sunday service come back house anything fellowship I no de go and I no be virgin, she said she will make out tym for church and me I agreed. Omo relationship start we normally kiss and do pre-intimacy and touch her clit, but I don’t finger her she don’t want it but dis girl she cooks for me even wen I don’t have money to cook she cooks for me with her own money…so suddenly dis month as we were chatting she said she is stopping all we have been doing like de kissing and de pre-intimacy of a thing that it is a SIN, that it stops blessing from coming 🙄and more, over that it is bringing down her spiritual life💔😔 That it wont stop her from loving and caring for me 😒🥺 me am confuse coz I love dis girl but e don tey wey I fk and she is saying all this to me ….and she is my neighbors for lodge nt de same lodge but her window is facing my door and I don’t know if I am to cheat😔💔and 2morrow now she fit still no marry me and end up marrying another person(somebody who is prayerful like her and goes to church like her like she do say and I de pray but no be dis speaking in tongue and I no de go church like am) then giving everything to the person and I go come loose. I really need advice please…🙏
No insult please"
So you want to die a sinner? If so, don’t take anyone with you. If you make more spiritual commitment to God, na you go enjoy am las las.

Just make the sacrifice to be.good boy now, you will be better off academically, career wise, physically and health wise God bless you bro
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