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CyrusVI:
How's the wife being bullied??



I was about to say that this look like a thing you would do to a married woman

Your comment shows I guessed correctly

Yes. I will do this to a married woman without a bat of an eyelid and in my case, I will not send malt and pringles to the husband. This husband is very lucky so let him drink his malt and pringles in peace and allow the innocent woman breathe.

Jackanda1:
A woman throwing around private information like this recks of insecurity and desperation.

I suspect you are 40years and above or you're physically challenge?

Whichever your situation, i hope you achieve your aim. Everyone deserves happiness

hmmmm,plz rest

A4alpha:
Na so una go dey throw-way face dey simp about.. Simple, anytime he comes around to pick or drop her come out and confront him, maybe try and reason with him tell him how you don't like the idea picking and dropping your wife that you want it to stop henceforth. If he insists then whatever he see he go take am like that.
We are talking about wife here not some gf stuff remember.

When you said confront. I thought you meant make the OP carry fight go meet the man.

But normally, if OP reason the other guy normal normal as man to man. The other guy supposed respect hinsef, steer clear of the man wife.
After the OP don follow the other guy reason , if the other guy still come mad dey trespass. The OP suppose treat the other guy fuckup for backstage.

Blackbishop:
This kind of reply don't come from ladies which begs the question if truly you be woman

hmmm,am tired of people asking if am a woman or not,plz u people should allow me rest,,search facebook for Dee prin cess datz my accnt,am a lady plz,or abi i shouldnt b commenting on any post again?

Jackanda1:
A woman throwing around private information like this recks of insecurity and desperation.

I suspect you are 40years and above or you're physically challenge?

Whichever your situation, i hope you achieve your aim. Everyone deserves happiness

plz am nt being desperate,am jst trying to clear u dat am a girl,,search fr Dee prin cess on facebook datz my accnt,am jst new to dis forum,and besides am using a small phn,i jst read news and comment,datz all i do here,if u guys wants me to stop commenting,i will

If your story is true, then your wife get ojukokoro for soft life wey you never fit afford. She has told him you're broke and that's why he had the balls to send you a running bele combo of pringles and malt.

Solution:

1. If that dude comes to your house again, walk up to him & let him know he should never pick or drop off your wife again.

2. Make peace with your wife and let her know you love her and will always protect and provide for her. If you have a car, drop her off as much as you can. some these new wifeys want to behave single even after marriage hun.

3. No listen to all these idiots saying you have insecurities. Na so them go Bleep your wife under your nose if you don't take charge of your home.

4. Good luck 🤞

Deprincess4321:
hmmm,am tired of people asking if am a woman or not,plz u people should allow me rest,,search facebook for Dee prin cess datz my accnt,am a lady plz,or abi i shouldnt b commenting on any post again?

You support domestic violence right?

Sapasenator:
You support domestic violence right?

i dnt support domestic violence,bt i dont support cheating and manipulative women always trying to claim right

Go and do DNA test guy
And report back

Deprincess4321:
i dnt support domestic violence,bt i dont support cheating and manipulative women always trying to claim right

Is there any evidence of cheating other than the suspicion of the husband? Did he catch them red handed in the act?

Are you saying giving someone a lift is tantamount to cheating? You don't known how stressful and costly transportation is in Nigeria.

Deprincess4321:
ur nt d first persn saying dis,,bt am a wat else do u wanto knw abt me? jst dat am a total different specie,i dnt entertain rubbish and irresponsible humans

I would appreciate if you would delete your personal information from this post abeg.

Deprincess4321:
plz am nt being desperate,am jst trying to clear u dat am a girl,,search fr Dee prin cess on facebook datz my accnt,am jst new to dis forum,and besides am using a small phn,i jst read news and comment,datz all i do here,if u guys wants me to stop commenting,i will

If you're indeed a lady. Then you are trolling. 21st century Nigerian girls' IQ be like 0.2

Sapasenator:
Is there any evidence of cheating other than the suspicion of the husband? Did he catch them red handed in the act?

Are you saying giving someone a lift is tantamount to cheating? You don't known how stressful and costly transportation is in Nigeria.

you dont really get it,go back to the storyline u wil see were d man outlined that she is starving their bby,and she has stopped cooking in d house,,and dis her co worker has being dropping and picking her ,wat are u saying? Look cheating is not only by having sex with another persn outside,,what she is doing is cheating,and she is disrespecting the man by doing that,and she dosnt v regards for him,,imagin collecting another man malt wit prinklings fr ur hubby,datz see finish and manipulation abeg,,anyways me i read meanin to little thngs oh,bt itz ok sha,he should handle it his own way

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

you are overthinking it. nothing is going wrong

FRANCISTOWN:
If you're indeed a lady. Then you are trolling. 21st century Nigerian girls' IQ be like 0.2

itz ok sha,i dnt jst wanto creat any issues or cause problems,bt am saying wat i would v done if i was in his place

Deprincess4321:
you dont really get it,go back to the storyline u wil see were d man outlined that she is starving their bby,and she has stopped cooking in d house,,and dis her com worker has being dropping and picking her ,wat are u saying? Look cheating is not only by having sex with another persn outside,,what she is doing is cheating,and she is disrespecting the man by doing that,and she dosnt v regards for him,,imagin collecting another man malt wit prinklings fr ur hubby,datz see finish and manipulation abeg,,anyways me i read meanin to little thngs oh,bt itz ok sha,he should handle it his own way

Starving the baby was a reaction after the man went "physical" on her because of mere, unsubstantiated suspicion.

Do we even know the level of the "physical" altercation?

The man had hurt his wife and expected her to carry on as if nothing happened.

This singular action will draw the wife even closer to the other guy if there is anything going on.
He will be the one consoling and helping the woman to heal from the abuse of the husband.

Deprincess4321:
you dont really get it,go back to the storyline u wil see were d man outlined that she is starving their bby,and she has stopped cooking in d house,,and dis her co worker has being dropping and picking her ,wat are u saying? Look cheating is not only by having sex with another persn outside,,what she is doing is cheating,and she is disrespecting the man by doing that,and she dosnt v regards for him,,imagin collecting another man malt wit prinklings fr ur hubby,datz see finish and manipulation abeg,,anyways me i read meanin to little thngs oh,bt itz ok sha,he should handle it his own way

So taking a free lift to work, saving on transportation cost, so she and her husband can have more money at their disposal is now tantamount to cheating.

Just pray you never come across or marry an insecure sensitive man like the op. Your eyes go see pepe.

FRANCISTOWN:
I would appreciate if you would delete your personal information from this post abeg.

i dont know how to do that deleting oh,cuz am using a small phn

Sapasenator:
So taking a free lift to work, saving on transportation cost, so she and her husband can have more money at their disposal is now tantamount to cheating.

Just pray you never come across or marry an insecure sensitive man like the op. Your eyes go see pepe.

ok oh,v heard u,,bt wat abt u marring dat kind of wife? Dat wil starve ur bby n stop cooking fr u all in d name of seeking attention frm men outside?

Sapasenator:
Starvating the baby was a reaction after the man went "physical" on her because of a mere suspicion.

Do we even know the level of the "physical" altercation? The man had hurt his wife and expected her to carry on as if nothing had happened. This singular action will draw the wife closer to the other guy if there is anything going on.
He will be the one consoling and helping the woman to heal from the abuse of the husband.

dis is nt an excuz at all

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

I can bet you are not married, I used to think I was super secure not when I counted the loss, as soon as a man was making advances towards my wife, when it comes to wife is an attack on a family and an entire reputation even destiny of children is involved. These are not things u play with

Deprincess4321:
ok oh,v heard u,,bt wat abt u marring dat kind of wife? Dat wil starve ur bby n stop cooking fr u all in d name of seeking attention frm men outside?

I can't because I will buy a car for my wife and she will never be needing a lift from co-workers. If I ever suspect the guy, I will ask my wife to invite him home so I can have a chat with him.
I am not the jealous or suspicious type.

Deprincess4321:
i dont know how to do that deleting oh,cuz am using a small phn

I think these may have been the reasons he asked you to take down that introduction...It is because (1)You can never tell who is trailing you to hurt you seeing you are a manager work for the former governors wife..Even if the position sounds big with small salary..this could become a danger to your safety or security...
(2) Secondly... Introducing yourself that way sounds like someone who may have some atom of pride even if you do not really have it...
On this group... Please be careful and do not show too much emotions as it could paint a different picture about you...Just maintain some level of balance...When I saw where you come from .,.it caught my attention cos i ocmw from the same state...
I care about you so much ..I can also see you spent a little bit above just two days on this platform...
thanks Princess

A4alpha:
There is not like jokingly here, he should confront the MF and warn him to stay away and never ever give lift, make sure this warning is recorded, you might need it later. Men should learn to maintain boundary and don't cross the redline. Op that's (most) women for you, they try to downplay their idiocy making it look less an offence cos that's their current state of mind as they try to filter, digest and validate their next line of action while hanging onto an excuse to finally cheat. heating her to her means validation and a big push to fall into the MF hands.
Journey of a 100 miles start with one step, from dropping her off to picking her from your house and next show of effection to her family in other to win her over. Note, the easiest way to a woman's heart is through her children (just be kind and friendly with her kids then identify with the husband).

Her eye don dey outside already just watch and monitor her to find good ground to finally dump her arse. Meanwhile hitting her is so wrong and it's totally foolish to do so. you fit woza her a life changing hot slap or two then bounce and go somewhere and chill.

Perfect!, One slap that establishes everything!

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

You see female don't just understand there self. Yes because as a married woman I don't see any reason you will be close to other gender and you think nothing will happen. Abi no be we men ni

But the way I see that marriage, is going

oloriooko:
bro,
this is your wife not a stranger, be calming down stop the fight and work things out with her, ask sensible questions; i mean talk with her be sincere to help her out not to "catch her in the act" kind of thing
she might be going through a challenge where she needs help to figure out things and overcome such
stop making her feel like a criminal rather let her know you are there for her and its the two of you side by side
if she's being distracted by the office guy, you're to proffer solution to this and appeal to her initial love for you and your union
a lady with a child will not go all out to destroy her home and if you think she's on this path, bro it's your life duty to bring her to her senses by talking with her not to her.
your wife is your first daughter, treat her as such
she will lose out if she allows that office guy destroy her home so if you truly love her, fight for her not against her
the loads of your work is with her and you have little to do with the office guy

wish you the best and don't underestimate the place of prayer in this matter
ciao!

modified
looking at your username gives me the chill
are you clean from these accusations? don't you do your own runs too?
just asking sha

Best advice. Honestly, you took words out of my mouth

Methinks this man is already sampling your wife's kpekus. I said that because aside taking her to and from her work place, he may also be taking her out and that explains the prinkles and malt she wants you to enjoy too.

She loves you though but that craze of not privatizing their kpekus during marriage always make these ladies baby mamas in the end.

Galinton:
But [s]you, try and buy car too na. Your wife dey get free car you want stop her?

Too many insensible children in Nairaland these days

Get a side chic and emotionally prepare to move on, cos she will cheat on you.

Galinton:
But you, try and buy car too na. Your wife dey get free car you want stop her?

what has he having a car or not having has to do with a married woman setting boundaries for herself? If you like do everything for women person wey no go stay no go stay. See how you are now making it the fault of the dude for his wife not having a vehicle, isn't she working and she hasn't gotten one for herself means it's actually not easy as you portray it to be.

A woman who wants to protect her home must set boundaries as regards other men and not having a car has nothing to do with been open to other males when you are in marriage.

Sirhush:
You see female don't just understand there self. Yes because as a married woman I don't see any reason you will be close to other gender and you think nothing will happen. Abi no be we men ni

But the way I see that marriage, is going

my dear dnt mind all this people dat pretains not to see anythng wrong wit wat she is doing