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Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

Contributor or collector? . I'm not understanding

Well, you were not only a mugu but you're the one who's currently holding the trophy of mugus

Just take a look at how banny just dey use your head all these while.......Even my own banny who just rounded up her own NYSC no even bring that kind leg before me cuz she know say I no go ever gree for her gimmicks . Guy,you settle down loose guard like big time

Anyhow cha,thank God say you don finally drop your preek and begin use your brain dey reason like a man ...

Well,make I no talk pass like this make e no be say I join people wey dey scatter people relationship for Nairaland........Good night

I JUST HAVE TO TYPE IT IN CAPITAL LETTERS.

Depends.
Define mugu, then judge for yourself

But WHY ?

Are you her FATHER ?

Yes You are because you are not married to her. You are not suppose to give her money on regular basis because you are not her dad or her husband. You are simply a boyfriend who she can dump at anytime. Know your role and limit and stop playing captain hero.

Wait

is it feeling of insecurity that men don't, or no longer love women when men don't send women money, at least every week

Or should we say that the women are in relationships for sake of convenience


Ok, men also need to be pampered with money. We are human beings; we have feelings too

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

you can NEVER do something that you believe is right, and claim to be wrong doing it... if thats what you desire to do , and you believe its right
(and aint illegal) then DO IT.
if this woman decides to not want to be with you because you cant cater for her needs, then it means she wasnt the ONE.

She's a useless girl. Greedy and Connie human oga run from your life na small boy go dey bang her there

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

Ok. Have u fukk her yet sir?. (no oofencse)

Make e no be say na her real boyfriend she dey send all her money to ooo

MrCork:
Ok. Have u fukk her yet sir?. (no oofencse)

some one is doing that to her and she is using the money the mumu brother send to her to cook for the person f*******k her that is why if your girlfriend is doing her NYSC far away from you have it in mind that she may be faithful or not when the news gets to you that she is not faithful you will not kill yourself over the news

Yes u re

Why are guys not bold enough these days.

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

You're not just mumu, you're idiot join

You are not a mugu.

Answers to the question below will determine if you are a SIMP or a MUMU but certainly not a MUGU.

1. How much savings do you have in your account for yourself?
2. How much do you have for emergencies for example, let's say you lose your job, are you able to survive in the next 6 months without a job?
3. How much do you have in the savings for investments to improve your financial status?
4. Do you give to your family members?

DAMN!!!!!!

A maga? on top the peanut you're sending her?

What can 10K buy in this era for crying out loud? Is it not your mates who're sending their girlfriends 500K every week?

Broke nigerian men like you have no business being in a relationship, go and use that time to make money but you people will never listen.

You're a big mugu for not kys

How and when did Nigerian men become this?

I know women are very good at games but this is a basc thing na

You don't have to be an Einstein to know you're the dullest around

Seems men are the ones with fish brain and yea, a whole lot of them are

MrBrownJay1:
you can NEVER do something that you believe is right, and claim to be wrong doing it... if thats what you desire to do , and you believe its right
(and aint illegal) then DO IT.
if this woman decides to not want to be with you because you cant cater for her needs, then it means she wasnt the ONE.

Akpabio22:
She's a useless girl. Greedy and Connie human oga run from your life na small boy go dey bang her there

Dont u get tired advising fo-ols?

In a patriarchal system, I'll never understand how men became this effeminate

There are thousands of this kinda guy around and I'm not kidding

Your own MUGU na capital letter

Paying a girls school fees or monthly salary is top tier foolery, she earns from multiple sources monthly but instead save it for her self while she waits on you to sustain her

Do you think tomorrow if you ask her to lend you money from her savings for a project of business she will give you?

Before we answer you, tell us how much you send to your parents

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

You re not a mugu but verified Maga

Sheistoopretty:
A maga? on top the peanut you're sending her?

What can 10K buy in this era for crying out loud? Is it not your mates who're sending their girlfriends 500K every week?

Broke nigerian men like you have no business being in a relationship, go and use that time to make money but you people will never listen.

You like violence ba, you will get what you're looking for soon.

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

I thought humans were perceptive beyond this extent. You know the answer to your question.

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

If she doesn't break up with you after 3 months then you're not

Sheistoopretty:
A maga? on top the peanut you're sending her?

What can 10K buy in this era for crying out loud? Is it not your mates who're sending their girlfriends 500K every week?

Broke nigerian men like you have no business being in a relationship, go and use that time to make money but you people will never listen.

ur papa no get shi shi your brothers broke like hell fire your Toto done finish for doggy can you senior brother boast of a million naira in his account useless olosho

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

if you look very closely to what she used to save your name it will not be a surprise to see ATM 1 or paypig 2

My brother , that's the truth.

CHIDINMALOVE:
Make e no be say na her real boyfriend she dey send all her money to ooo

Some men will use their most productive days to please someone who is not committed to them.

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

Are you for real?