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GOFRONT:
Your wife fit don collect reach over 3.5 already.....

The guy fit don carry ya wife to shopping mall go flex sotey he even remember to buy you Pringles and Maltina..... ....

And you know women with their Fish brain......He go just dey press her mumu botton kawaii..

Only a matter of time before the guy lash ya wife and DNA issue would start from there.

Guy! Why?? 😂…be like you don see the past, present, and future of this matter 💔

Deprincess4321:
tnks a lot fr atleast beliving dat am nt fake,,cuz i notice dat any little comment i make on this forum,people do say am a guy and d call me names like moniker,whch i dnt even knw d meaning of that

I believe you are real and authentic...they feel this way because some people on this platform are impersonating and using a false identity to either deceive,confuse hide and steal from other's...
If you do not mind...I would like to know you better!!!
Please stay safe always...okay?

advanceDNA:
Dash the couple one naa..since u are sounding like it's not a big deal and a norm for all couple to have in nigeria....
Cheap tokunbo Toyota Camry around 7 to 8million ...and if God bless u to do more..u can dash them brand new Hyundai like 28million

What's with Nigerians and toyota? what happened to Nissan micra or fiat 500?

All married couples should work on getting a car period especially when kids start coming.

ottajah:
I believe you are real and authentic...they feel this way because some people on this platform are impersonating and using a false identity to either deceive,confuse hide and steal from other's...
If you do not mind...I would like to know you better!!!
Please stay safe always...okay?

alrt tnks a lot,,u said u wanto knw me more, am Joy

Uptheante:
He's just being sarcastic.
He's mimicking how a typical Nigerian woman will advice a random man that is unrelated to her if he finds himself in such situation

lol,i didnt see dis backup coming sha,bt tnks

advanceDNA:
Lol....
They call u names like Moniker got me rolling on the floor

hahahaha,my dear datz wat d r calling me oh,n funny enough i dnt knw d meaning of that

brodalikeme:
See better second wife Ohh.
Good reasoning. Make God bless you with better husband.

lol,Amen to dat,tnks sir

Send the woman out of your house! Let her move in with the very caring guy. Within 1 or 2 weeks she will come to her senses because that guy is probably married or in a relationship and only wanted a fling with her. That's what most women don't realise is this, the so called nice guys giving you lift are nice for 1 reason!

Most of these working class car owners can be IRRESPONSIBLE, set boundaries when you know a lady is married, ofcourse there are guys who hit on married women.

Galinton:
pls how?

Is car something he will just go and pick from the road side? Do u know that a bike currently cost as much as 1.3million, a keke napep costs 2.5 million, a Korope is above 3 million? Imagine what a car would cost and in this economy

I dislike those kind of ladies!

Galinton:
But you, try and buy car too na. Your wife dey get free car you want stop her?

You're such a big fool, he should steal to please a woman, you're the one that will blame him

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

Nigeria men and their stupid way of thinking, they think they're smart but empty upstairs it won't reach three months before they start fucking even if they have not start

diogo23:
Nigeria men and their stupid way of thinking, they think they're smart but empty upstairs it won't reach three months before they start fucking even if they have not start

Why so much hatred for Nigerian men? What have they done to you?

Deprincess4321:
plz am nt being desperate,am jst trying to clear u dat am a girl,,search fr Dee prin cess on facebook datz my accnt,am jst new to dis forum,and besides am using a small phn,i jst read news and comment,datz all i do here,if u guys wants me to stop commenting,i will

Now you're over doing the thing. Smh

Deprincess4321:
hmmm,am tired of people asking if am a woman or not,plz u people should allow me rest,,search facebook for Dee prin cess datz my accnt,am a lady plz,or abi i shouldnt b commenting on any post again?

Don't get it wrong. Am not against neither am I doubtful. For a woman to speak this straight, damn am impressed.

Ouchbabe:
I guess your wife is being naive and there is nothing serious going on between the colleague and her.
A promiscuous wife will act smarter, you won't know another guy bought the malt and Pringles. She will be cheating on you codedly.
Mind the advice you take online. Some of these keyboard warriors telling you to dump her, pursuing her bla bla bla will never do so if it happens to them.
Sit your wife down and talk sense to her. Let her know you disapprove and will never want to see them together

You said, she still naive? That's for a wife that still loves and wants her husband and by extension know that she would loose, if she leaves husband?

You said, he should sit her down and talked nonsense? I doubt if you read the post to the end.

You are confirming thr is no serious something going on btw them with level they have reached now? If they are picking & dropping ur wife daily by unknown man, how would you feel? What you expect neighbours to be saying?
I think you are the one, that NAIVE when it comes to issue of man & woman relationship.


NB. AS HARDSHIP IS GROANING NOW, WHICH MAN WOULD BE STRESSING HIMSELF AND WASTING HIS FUEL, TO CARRY WOMAN,WHO IS NOT HIS WIFE OR DAUGHTER, TO & FRO EVERYDAY? can you do that? Think about critically pls.

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

Op, hustle very hard, buy motor and look for a female neighbor that also needs help and be dropping her off.

1Sharon:
What's with Nigerians and toyota? what happened to Nissan micra or fiat 500?

All married couples should work on getting a car period especially when kids start coming.

Lol..u are funny....u think everyone has the grace to earn enough to buy a car.......u dey form papaz...

..may b u should look around you in case you u have not been looking..there is no cheap car for some pple....both purchase and maintenance cost is out of their reach.....some pple can't afford have more than food and rent ....not that they don't want a car

Double0h7:
If transportation costs that much then maybe op should enjoy his Pringles and malt and not interrupt his online in-laws with this nonsense.

Witchcraft as usual... ....because he can't buy car he should allow another man disrespect him ya his love....well done

Deprincess4321:
hahahaha,my dear datz wat d r calling me oh,n funny enough i dnt knw d meaning of that

Lol.....Moniker is not an insult.....Moniker is ur nairaland username...

Pple sometimes use it when they are trying to refer to a user without typing your username ....
for example...."that moniker is always emphatic

Deprincess4321:
alrt tnks a lot,,u said u wanto knw me more, am Joy

Yeah,I would not just want to know, I would love to know you more!
I am Ottah Ejah,I come from Cross River, such a coincidence.smiles.

Here's my email ottajah2015@gmail.com

Please you can send a "Hi" message over there so that it affords us the opportunity to know better and get other personal information.. okay?

ottajah:
Yeah,I would not just want to know, I would love to know you more!
I am Ottah Ejah,I come from Cross River, such a coincidence.smiles.

Here's my email ottajah2015@gmail.com

Please you can send a "Hi" message over there so that it affords us the opportunity to know better and get other personal information.. okay?

alrt,bt sorry am using a small phn,i cnt email,jst reading news and commenting,,nice knwing u

advanceDNA:
Lol.....Moniker is not an insult.....Moniker is ur nairaland username...

Pple sometimes use it when they are trying to refer to a user without typing your username ....
for example...."that moniker is always emphatic

hahahahaha woyooo,,am lauging my ribs out,r u serious? And v byn thnking somethngs else,tnks a lot fr explaining beta

Blackbishop:
Don't get it wrong. Am not against neither am I doubtful. For a woman to speak this straight, damn am impressed.

alrt itz ok,sorry i was taking it d oda way round,cuz people on dis forum do thnk am a guy,cuz of d way i do comment on some posts,tnks fr dat

Jackanda1:
Now you're over doing the thing. Smh

Mr Sir plz v a nice day

Proserpina:
Lol... Park and go . That's how easy it is to dissolve marriage. If he has problem with the new person coming, he will send her away too right? .

From Op's story, his wife is naive (only a naive person will give a gift from opposite gender to his or her partner) . She's yet to understand what marriage entails and I believe she has a lot of growing up to do, same as Op. Both of them need to learn to settle misunderstanding without going to the extreme ( throwing punches or neglecting responsibilities).

To the wife, she's not cheating and she's being bullied. To the husband, he's being disrespected. They have to help each other see where they wrong one another and that can only be done through communication. I believe they are newly wed so they have lot of adjustment to do.

Husband should help the wife see the need to set boundaries, Wife should help husband see he can correct without being defensive or offensive. That's all.

I see the other guy planned it all. Sow a seed of discord, then serve as a shoulder to lean on abi as a shoulder to place her leg on . Guess what... He's getting there

If the wife is naive as you said, she can easily be outsmart by the outside guy because the guy knows the game. What will give the guy effrontery to come dropped married woman at her house, probably she might have told the guy about her husband's weakness. The guy will use and dump her, then her eyes will be open, I hope by that time it will not be too late

Deprincess4321:
alrt,bt sorry am using a small phn,i cnt email,jst reading news and commenting,,nice knwing u

It's cool....No worries at All.

I admire your level of reasoning. You are a rationally minded person...I am actually sapiosexual...thats the reason I wanted to get to know more about you..
Thanks 🙏 Dear..
Peace out

[quote author=ottajah post=131152024]It's cool....No worries at All.

I admire your level of reasoning. You are a rationally minded person...I am actually sapiosexual...thats the reason I wanted to get to know more about you..
Thanks

A4alpha:
There is not like jokingly here, he should confront the MF and warn him to stay away and never ever give lift, make sure this warning is recorded, you might need it later. Men should learn to maintain boundary and don't cross the redline. Op that's (most) women for you, they try to downplay their idiocy making it look less an offence cos that's their current state of mind as they try to filter, digest and validate their next line of action while hanging onto an excuse to finally cheat. heating her to her means validation and a big push to fall into the MF hands.
Journey of a 100 miles start with one step, from dropping her off to picking her from your house and next show of effection to her family in other to win her over. Note, the easiest way to a woman's heart is through her children (just be kind and friendly with her kids then identify with the husband).

Her eye don dey outside already just watch and monitor her to find good ground to finally dump her arse. Meanwhile hitting her is so wrong and it's totally foolish to do so. you fit woza her a life changing hot slap or two then bounce and go somewhere and chill.

once Op calls the man and the man inturn tells his wife... His wife will give the man different sexx styles just to apologize for the attitude of the husband... The husband should just kiss the marriage good bye .. He actually handled it poorly....

Sapasenator:
"We had a serious argument that turned physical"

OP more explanations required for the above, did you beat your wife? What have you done to her when it turned physical?

The economy is very harsh and do you realize how much your wife saves in transport cost because of this kind act of this good samaritan. I do not understand the reason for your insecurities. You claimed the kind dude "now picking up your wife from the matrimonial home", what is wrong with that? Did you expect your wife to be picked up from the airport?

This guy is doing your wife a great favor and on top even sent you pringles and malt.

Fiscus105:
You said, she still naive? That's for a wife that still loves and wants her husband and by extension know that she would loose, if she leaves husband?

You said, he should sit her down and talked nonsense? I doubt if you read the post to the end.

You are confirming thr is no serious something going on btw them with level they have reached now? If they are picking & dropping ur wife daily by unknown man, how would you feel? What you expect neighbours to be saying?
I think you are the one, that NAIVE when it comes to issue of man & woman relationship.


NB. AS HARDSHIP IS GROANING NOW, WHICH MAN WOULD BE STRESSING HIMSELF AND WASTING HIS FUEL, TO CARRY WOMAN,WHO IS NOT HIS WIFE OR DAUGHTER, TO & FRO EVERYDAY? can you do that? Think about critically pls.

Oga you are entitled to your own opinion. I gave my own advice. Give him yours please.

Op if you can see this , I advised you about getting advice from random people online.
Some of these men are getting worse treatment from their wives but will always come online to form macho.

No marriage is easy, sit your wife down and talk to her