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This is one of the reasons most girls are not productive, always on transit from one location to another giving different styles all in the name of hook up. If you ask them what do u do? She will say I sell hair, perfume, men's clothing when her entire goods is not up to 50k, n some will say massage therapist. The most annoying one is that, someone without any source of income except her body will not look for money to start business but she will be serious looking for money to buy iPhone 15. It's well.

BaddieFreak:
I don’t even know who the fvck you mentioned. If you so much love what they post then go to their threads and start commenting there not on my own thread. That is why nairaland has the follower button but your daft brain full of maggots won’t let you know. I use my socials to while away time, when I am free or when I feel bored and If you are pained about that, I will suggest you hug the nearest transformer or jump into the third mainland bridge. Or na you buy me data or phone! Broke mdafvcker with extreme low esteem. Pained a lady is doing well by herself!

Anyone that comes for your stupid self is broke. Richest woman on nairaland..corpse like you. Rich and busy woman that’s always active on nairaland..don’t you have a business to run? Oh I forgot, the business exists only in that stupid brain of yours filled with how to chop man money. Your mother is with a poor broke ass man that beats her everyday..go and advise her first.
And yes I’m pained a lady is doing well creating stupid threads on nairaland A business woman that has no thread dedicated to business. Just stupid threads.

Caramia2020:
This is one of the reasons most girls are not productive, always on transit from one location to another giving different styles all in the name of hook up. If you ask them what do u do? She will say I sell hair, perfume, men's clothing when her entire goods is not up to 50k, n some will say massage therapist. The most annoying one is that, someone without any source of income except her body will not look for money to start business but she will be serious looking for money to buy iPhone 15. It's well.

Massage therapist, boutique owner is their cover up. Na hook up them dey do. Like we don’t know the update.
And it’s hook up girls like OP that create threads advising women to follow rich men.

Duchexx:

Anyone that comes for your stupid self is broke. Richest woman on nairaland..corpse like you. Rich and busy woman that’s always active on nairaland..don’t you have a business to run? Oh I forgot, the business exists only in that stupid brain of yours filled with how to chop man money. Your mother is with a poor broke ass man that beats her everyday..go and advise her first.
And yes I’m pained a lady is doing well creating stupid threads on nairaland A business woman that has no thread dedicated to business. Just stupid threads.

And ain’t you supposed to be off to work, you can’t because you don’t have one. It is Idi&ts like you that think everyone has to work like a Chinese factory machine before being acknowledged. If you like don’t find a job to do and make money. Keep arguing up and down, when the time comes, na your breakfast story we go see online. I will be here to witness it jobless man and I am sure why you are vexed up is because you are broke and this thread is bringing all sorts of emotions on you but instead of you to look inward and find a job, a grown man is arguing with someone that is comfortable enough to feed his family, keep playing, you will all learn! A word is enough!

Duchexx:
Massage therapist, boutique owner is their cover up. Na hook up them dey do. Like we don’t know the update.
And it’s hook up girls like OP that create threads advising women to follow rich men.

How many you don carry to know sey na hookup dem dey do? I don forget sey you no get money, Jobless man.

You would think 90 percent of nigerian men are rich.

BaddieFreak:
And ain’t you supposed to be off to work, you can’t because you don’t have one. It is Idi&ts like you that think everyone has to work like a Chinese factory machine before being acknowledged. If you like don’t find a job to do and make money. Keep arguing up and down, when the time comes, na your breakfast story we go see online. I will be here to witness it jobless man and I am sure why you are vexed up is because you are broke and this thread is bringing all sorts of emotions on you but instead of you to look inward and find a job, a grown man is arguing with someone that is comfortable enough to feed his family, keep playing, you will all learn! A word is enough!

It’s too much garri that would make you see “Duchexx” and assume I’m a man. Olodo..when did men start bearing duchess? A fool at 40!
You see the time difference between my response..you’ll tell I’m a busy woman with a real life outside NL not you that has nothing going on. Sleep and wake up on nairaland. Better go and save that poor woman you call mother before they finish her. Tiger on NL..coward in real life. Hungry goat fishing for rich men. Ashawo kobo kobo. Say na “I have a boutique and church and community”

BaddieFreak:
1. Avoiding Unnecessary Stress

Dating a man without financial stability can lead to a lot of stress. Constantly worrying about money can take a toll on your relationship and your mental health. Financial struggles often lead to arguments and dissatisfaction.

2. Seeking a Man, Not a Project

When you date someone without money, you might find yourself taking on the role of a caregiver or financial supporter. A relationship shouldn’t be a project where you have to fix your man’s financial issues.

3. Setting Standards

It’s important to set standards for what you want in a partner. Financial stability should be one of those standards. It’s not about being materialistic; it’s about ensuring that you’re with a man who can contribute to a stable and secure future.

4. Building a Future Together

If you’re looking to build a future with a man, financial stability is crucial. Whether it’s buying a home, starting a family, or planning for retirement, having a man who is financially secure makes these goals achievable.

5. Emotional Well-being

Being with a man who is financially unstable can take an emotional toll. The constant worry and stress about money can affect your happiness and overall well-being. It’s important to prioritize your mental and emotional health in a relationship.

Ladies, don’t ignore the fact that financial stability plays a significant role in creating a happy and secure partnership.

So ladies, don’t settle for less than what you deserve. Aim for a man who can offer you not just love, but also the stability and security you need to thrive together. Even Davido said it in his song Assurance: That love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter. Abi Regina Daniels wey marry Ned Nwoko, no dey enjoy her life despite the earlier backlash she faced from people. Na better money dey cook good food, ladies don’t let any man convince you otherwise.

Money will definitely build a strong and happy relationship not the unnecessary headaches lack of money brings, so men work hard and stop chasing girls up and down if you don’t have money because I am tired of you guys saying a woman dump you for a richer person. Ask yourself, won’t you dump yourself too? Just saying!

Life is very unpredictable..you can start well and end badly...when my father met my mother he could conveniently send 50 children to any university in the world while paying her bride price he over did it that the inlaws till date no man has ever done wat he did in that family. he sold one of his houses for 2m in 1998..he ended up a poor man with a house but I haven't done half of what he has achieved in his life..where he has been to ppl he has met even though I am doing well for myself...alot of youths into fraud will end up poorer than a church yet I give you 20 to 25yrs that you will wonder if they ever touched money a girl can meet a guy with cash and thinks she has found a provider a capable man let the money run dry she will realise she married a beast..lack of money changes a man makes him violent or lose self esteem completely he has to fall into one other plunge into the debt of alcohol and drugs.

BaddieFreak:
How many you don carry to know sey na hookup dem dey do? I don forget sey you no get money, Jobless man.

If I were a man..I won’t even look at foolish women like you. Broke women will never be my type. “Living large” but na Nigerian used Toyota you borrow pose with😅😂 churchrat

BaddieFreak:
Lol. Men are supposed to be the head, you are supposed to be rich enough to lead the family, marrying a broke lady is different from marrying a broke man. What a lady brings to the relationship is beyond that.

So,what does a lady bring to the relationship apart from pussy?

Sp1ritHusband:
Ereluroz, Iyaebethegreath, rest abeg with this alternate moniker.

I don't use alternate account please

EreluRoz:
I don't use alternate account please

Why op write and sound like you?

Make you incels dey there make gay boy dey scatter una head. Nairaland na comedy.

The only girls will be giving a man these conditions should be virgins. If you want absolute traditionalism from him, then you must show up with absolute virginity.

You can't be saying your money doesn't matter, and a man is a provider, but expect him to provide for something other men got easily.

Such a basic rule of mating, but something women hate to hear.

BaddieFreak:
Who disvirgined the women? MEN! Who impregnated them? MEN! Who advised the women to go for abortion ? MEN!Ain’t they all men? But you same men wants to eat your cake and have it. Sha go and hustle if not don’t come online and rant that one lady dump you oo

If it's not rape, then the ladies have the absolute responsibility to close their legs. It's like blaming a woman for eating a man's money. When in reality, he could have just lock up and refuse to give her one Kobo.

But I get it. Accountability are infinite enemies of women. It's always someone's else fault.

Duchexx:
If I were a man..I won’t even look at foolish women like you. t

Dey play

pansophist:
If it's not rape, then the ladies have the absolute responsibility to close their legs. It's like blaming a woman for eating a man's money. When in reality, he could have just lock up and refuse to give her one Kobo.

But I get it. Accountability are infinite enemies of women. It's always someone's else fault.

Same trite words ...
I wonder if you people reason at all.
It's not calculus. If you complain about promiscuity yet every time you see a lady your first instinct is her unclothedness,then what are you?


You ( and women ) mess up the dating scene. Then start talking of accountability of women.
Let everybody date for the right reasons, mbanu!



Yesterday you were talking of women ghosting you after dates . It was our fault. Now too,we are talking of men vices,it's still our fault

Please go back to your vacation abegi.no much difference between you and the economic disenfranchised twats on the redpill thread.

pansophist:
The only girls will be giving a man these conditions should be virgins. If you want absolute traditionalism from him, then you must show up with absolute virginity. If

You can't be saying your money doesn't matter, and a man is a provider, but expect him to provide for something other men got easily.

Such a basic rule of mating, but something women hate to hear.

Yen yen yen...
Imagine telling a man what to do with his money? Who on God's green earth are you to tell women what to want or choose?.

Since you are economically stable( hoping it's not audio money) why is it peppering you that women have choices? Is it your business whether they qualify or not? Are you the men giving the money?

You will tell men what to want, and also still tell women what to want. Only you guys police every body choices .

Hoard your "change" from non virgins if you wish. Better do you. It's a free world . By the way if twisted bleeps and dusties have the right to demand purity from a lady,why can't a lady do so?

Seems you suffered rejection in the past over finances and you are still sore over it,heal.

Women will always prefer richer men,if you hate this fact, cry

RealityKings:
Dey play

Orobokibo1 respect yourself!

pansophist:
If it's not rape, then the ladies have the absolute responsibility to close their legs. It's like blaming a woman for eating a man's money. When in reality, he could have just lock up and refuse to give her one Kobo.

But I get it. Accountability are infinite enemies of women. It's always someone's else fault.

Every time you pull up the women are not accountable stunts I just laugh because why not? , that’s all you say everytime. Are you guys accountable? have you ever thought deeply about it? Always wanting to eat their cake and have it lmao

Tightpussy2024:
Yen yen yen...
Imagine telling a man what to do with his money? Who on God's green earth are you to tell women what to want or choose?.

Since you are economically stable( hoping it's not audio money) why is it peppering you that women have choices? Is it your business whether they qualify or not? Are you the men giving the money?

You will tell men what to want, and also still tell women what to want. Only you guys police every body choices .

Hoard your "change" from non virgins if you wish. Better do you. It's a free world . By the way if twisted bleeps and dusties have the right to demand purity from a lady,why can't a lady do so?

Seems you suffered rejection in the past over finances and you are still sore over it,heal.

Women will always prefer richer men,if you hate this fact

@ the bolded, they don’t want to face the reality. My question is will they date their broke ass self too? No, but they quickly turn into panic mode when a lady tells them to hustle first before jumping into relationships.

Duchexx:
It’s too much garri that would make you see “Duchexx” and assume I’m a man. Olodo..when did men start bearing duchess? A fool at 40!
You see the time difference between my response..you’ll tell I’m a busy woman with a real life outside NL not you that has nothing going on. Sleep and wake up on nairaland. Better go and save that poor woman you call mother before they finish her. Tiger on NL..coward in real life. Hungry goat fishing for rich men. Ashawo kobo kobo. Say na “I have a boutique and church and community”

I knew you were daft but I didn’t know you were this daft and I am a little disappointed in myself for engaging words with you. How am I supposed to know that you are a woman? How is Duchexx the same as Duchess? Duchexx doesn’t even have a meaning! A fool at 40 you say, but look at yourself in the mirror, who is the fool now I won’t be engaging you till further notice that is if you have something reasonable to say regarding this topic which I know you don’t because your brain is as empty as your bank account.

Duchexx:
If I were a man..I won’t even look at foolish women like you. Broke women will never be my type. “Living large” but na Nigerian used Toyota you borrow pose with😅😂 churchrat

A car you and your generation will only dream about. You will never be able to afford one Go and buy a car first then come back to me. I don’t engage with people without cars of their own Dry crayfish

pansophist:
If it's not rape, then the ladies have the absolute responsibility to close their legs. It's like blaming a woman for eating a man's money. When in reality, he could have just lock up and refuse to give her one Kobo.

But I get it. Accountability are infinite enemies of women. It's always someone's else fault.

God bless youu 4 saying the truth

pansophist:
The only girls will be giving a man these conditions should be virgins. If you want absolute traditionalism from him, then you must show up with absolute virginity.

You can't be saying your money doesn't matter, and a man is a provider, but expect him to provide for something other men got easily.

Such a basic rule of mating, but something women hate to hear.

Only a dull woman would hate 2 hear d truth

Duchexx:
It’s too much garri that would make you see “Duchexx” and assume I’m a man. Olodo..when did men start bearing duchess? A fool at 40!
You see the time difference between my response..you’ll tell I’m a busy woman with a real life outside NL not you that has nothing going on. Sleep and wake up on nairaland. Better go and save that poor woman you call mother before they finish her. Tiger on NL..coward in real life. Hungry goat fishing for rich men. Ashawo kobo kobo. Say na “I have a boutique and church and community”

Hmm i thought girls are useless like the op,but i found a responsible one here,just like i said before,its only a broke ass or a cheap olosho that will be obsess with mens money,why do u think guys always says we girls are useless, its these set of animals that caused it

Leemzyy:
Hmm i thought girls are useless like the op,but i found a responsible one here,just like i said before,its only a broke ass or a cheap olosho that will be obsess with mens money,why do u think guys always says we girls are useless, its these set of animals that caused it

Go back to your hut and sleep, day never break oniro oshi

Duchexx:
So she’s lying but you that claim to have a boutique, a church and a community is saying the truth? Girl, you need to take a chill pill. I have read this thread from beginning to the end and while you try to mask the fact you’re broke..what you say gives you away. No wealthy woman “living large” would brag it or even write the trash you wrote. While I don’t subscribe to broke shaming people, every thing you wrote just gives you away.

Like sis just imagine,not like i once brag that i own this or that,i am still a young girl depending on my daddys wealth and soon 2 be hubby,i dont know why she is pained with i my hubby family status,its not my fault that am getting married 2 a millionaire son while she is still single at 40 whoring around,only a lier would think every1 lies like he or she does!

BaddieFreak:
Go back to your hut and sleep, day never break oniro oshi

What are you doing at this time?did u went 2 your mumu mommys house 2 save her 4rm your drunkard unfortunate dad?or just returning 4rm your night olosho runs(cus i am very sure thats your job)?

Leemzyy:
Like sis just imagine,not like i once brag that i own this or that,i am still a young girl depending on my daddys wealth and soon 2 be hubby,i dont know why she is pained with i my hubby family status,its not my fault that am getting married 2 a millionaire son while she is still single at 40 whoring around,only a lier would think every1 lies like he or she does!

Abeg abeg, You started the insults and you expect me to keep quiet and fold my arms. If you can’t take it, don’t give it! Na because of you men dey talk sey women don’t like accountability. If you didn’t come at me, why should I come at you?
And Why are you so pained on an educative thread that was not intended for you if not that you are insecure. Oniro oshi

Leemzyy:
What are you doing at this time?did u went 2 your mumu mommys house 2 save her 4rm your drunkard unfortunate dad?or just returning 4rm your night olosho runs(cus i am very sure thats your job)?

Pick one and send it as a souvenir to your wretched husband and imaginary rich Daddy

BaddieFreak:
Abeg abeg, You started the insults and you expect me to keep quiet and fold my arms. If you can’t take it, don’t give it! Na because of you men dey talk sey women don’t like accountability. And Why are you so pained on an educative thread that was not intended for you if not that you are insecure. Oniro oshi

Am not dating a broke ass like you,my last reply 2 you is;stop opening out your smelly leg 4 men,stop being a public product that men use,clean mouth and pass 2 the next customer aint you ashamed?chochovini dad can you imagine what dis low life prostitute is saying?,well and lastly save that your dullard mama at the village 4rm that illetrate man before her corpse will be brought 2 you,i am being nice 4 advising you cus i dont give older mamas advice,work on your life,i wouldnt reply u again,byee dirty low life public pig!!