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I will say my own issue as funny as it may sound, taught me a whole lesson, dated my wife for a year and half and we decided to get married, we were staying in delta state and decided to relocate to Lagos, my wife is pretty type, curvy and all. I’m tall and fit too. We moved to Lagos last year October and I observed some changes in her, she’s the type that when we stepped out, she’s gets attention, two months later, she said we should open our marriage, that maybe we rushed ourselves, that we should meet other people to see if we want to continue with the marriage.
She said she’s ok with me going on dates with other girls so I should let her too. I noticed this happened cause of the constant attention she gets, after few weeks, I agreed but I already zero’d my mind the marriage is over, I moved out Jan this year to a new apartment, just last month here.
She called me that we should close the marriage back, said her suggestion worked and she found out that we are meant to be married, I told her I’ve already moved on from the marriage and I just want a legal step to meet her people to end everything, she has been asking her people to beg me.
Calling my line endlessly and telling me I found someone else and I didn’t loved her in the first place.
Isn’t this stupidity and witchcraft at play
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What most women fail to realize is that over 90% of the men hovering around them just want sex with no commitment.

If you're fortunate to find a man who takes full responsibility for you, don't joke with him. If you all the attention you're getting from other men get into your head and let him go, you might regret your decision.

Henry2405:
I will say my own issue as funny as it may sound, taught me a whole lesson, dated my wife for a year and half and we decided to get married, we were staying in delta state and decided to relocate to Lagos, my wife is pretty type, curvy and all. I’m tall and fit too. We moved to Lagos last year October and I observed some changes in her, she’s the type that when we stepped out, she’s gets attention, two months later, she said we should open our marriage, that maybe we rushed ourselves, that we should meet other people to see if we want to continue with the marriage.
She said she’s ok with me going on dates with other girls so I should let her too. I noticed this happened cause of the constant attention she gets, after few weeks, I agreed but I already zero’d my mind the marriage is over, I moved out Jan this year to a new apartment, just last month here.
She called me that we should close the marriage back, said her suggestion worked and she found out that we are meant to be married, I told her I’ve already moved on from the marriage and I just want a legal step to meet her people to end everything, she has been asking her people to beg me.
Calling my line endlessly and telling me I found someone else and I didn’t loved her in the first place.
Isn’t this stupidity and witchcraft at play
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When your married is made for the 23rd century... that's what happens

Is this a joke?

I love what that guy did. That guy deserves a cold Heineken(Mortuary standard).

Don't take her back, she's a wh.ore and she belongs to the street.

The attentions got into her head, but later realised those men are only coming from the cake.

OP if you take her back, then you should be the S.I unit for foolishness... Allow her enjoy whoring fame...

OP copied a SHITTY story from Reddit and edited it with pidgin.

Nigeria is getting more LIBERAL everyday but NO Nigerian girl would tell her husband that she'd like to "open the marriage".

Open marriage where people are legally married but still Bleep and date other people requires a level of STUPIDITY and CUCKOLDERY that I hope Nigerian men are yet to attain.

Also the idea of moving out, especially in Lagos where where accomodation is like gold, and leaving your apartment for a woman is also FOREIGN.

OP, get sense!

She wants to enjoy single life not knowing that her admirer only wants to taste her honey pot. Thank God the man knows what he want. Good riddance.

How could she expect to eat her cake and still have it back. Anyways the deed has been done

Henry2405:
I will say my own issue as funny as it may sound, taught me a whole lesson, dated my wife for a year and half and we decided to get married, we were staying in delta state and decided to relocate to Lagos, my wife is pretty type, curvy and all. I’m tall and fit too. We moved to Lagos last year October and I observed some changes in her, she’s the type that when we stepped out, she’s gets attention, two months later, she said we should open our marriage, that maybe we rushed ourselves, that we should meet other people to see if we want to continue with the marriage.
She said she’s ok with me going on dates with other girls so I should let her too. I noticed this happened cause of the constant attention she gets, after few weeks, I agreed but I already zero’d my mind the marriage is over, I moved out Jan this year to a new apartment, just last month here.
She called me that we should close the marriage back, said her suggestion worked and she found out that we are meant to be married, I told her I’ve already moved on from the marriage and I just want a legal step to meet her people to end everything, she has been asking her people to beg me.
Calling my line endlessly and telling me I found someone else and I didn’t loved her in the first place.
Isn’t this stupidity and witchcraft at play
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I salute those of you men still going into marriage during this End Time Period of the world

Namaster:
OP copied a SHITTY story from Reddit and edited it with pidgin.

Nigeria is getting more LIBERAL everyday but NO Nigerian girl would tell her husband that she'd like to "open the marriage".

Open marriage where people are legally married but still Bleep and date other people requires a level of STUPIDITY and CUCKOLDERY that I hope Nigerian men are yet to attain.

Also the idea of moving out, especially in Lagos where where accomodation is like gold, and leaving your apartment for a woman is also FOREIGN.

OP, get sense!

ur brain is full of pig dung sir. Sorry Sir.

I sense lies here, green lies for that matter. But if this story na true atall, then no be for 9ja this one go happen. Inasmuch as we dey batch these non-virgin women a.k.a boreholes, we should give them their credit atimes.
A 9ja woman can't say such, she go rather dey cheat for your back but no go ever ask for open marriage

Lolz 😂 😂 see the way you are respectfully insulting him....

Lieutenant83:
ur brain is full of pig dung sir. Sorry Sir.

Story story...

Story!!!

Fake story. This can never happen in Nigeria

What is this? Is she okay?

Henry2405:
I will say my own issue as funny as it may sound, taught me a whole lesson, dated my wife for a year and half and we decided to get married, we were staying in delta state and decided to relocate to Lagos, my wife is pretty type, curvy and all. I’m tall and fit too. We moved to Lagos last year October and I observed some changes in her, she’s the type that when we stepped out, she’s gets attention, two months later, she said we should open our marriage, that maybe we rushed ourselves, that we should meet other people to see if we want to continue with the marriage.
She said she’s ok with me going on dates with other girls so I should let her too. I noticed this happened cause of the constant attention she gets, after few weeks, I agreed but I already zero’d my mind the marriage is over, I moved out Jan this year to a new apartment, just last month here.
She called me that we should close the marriage back, said her suggestion worked and she found out that we are meant to be married, I told her I’ve already moved on from the marriage and I just want a legal step to meet her people to end everything, she has been asking her people to beg me.
Calling my line endlessly and telling me I found someone else and I didn’t loved her in the first place.
Isn’t this stupidity and witchcraft at play
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Hope you took you own cut before you opened the marriage.

Rexymania:
What is this? Is she okay?

This happens a lot of time

Sapasenator:
Fake story. This can never happen in Nigeria

Pray you don’t experience such

RoyalBlu:
Story story...

Story!!!

To whom it may concern

Dear Op,

if you take her back, then you are not a wise person.

beware of attention seekers

RoyalBlu:
Story story...

Story!!!

Evening News Paper🤣🤣🤣

Whether true or not, anytime a man doesn't agrue with you [women] relating on matters that you[ladies] know is not right, just know you have lost the man.

A man corrects and scolds you[ladies] cos he likes you and sees a future with you. Otherwise, you are just in for fun sake but he will only portray you a lovely girlfriend in your presence by giving you a free environment to do whatever you like.

Women will first self destruct before their eyes clear.

Imagine suggesting to open marriage simply because of cheap attention you get from men

Wether this is true or not, women are capable of things like this, and guy make sure you dump her and don't look back or feel remorse/regret because you just dodge a fucking bullet.

Your luck here is that children are not involved yet.

Shey though Lagos men giving her attention meant well for her, she will lurrrnnn

Manculated:
Evening News Paper🤣🤣🤣

Even after three soldiers. I still gallant.

Na every female be evening newspaper for una shallow mind for this forum. Chai.

Repent!!!

RoyalBlu:
Even after three soldiers. I still gallant.

Na every female be evening newspaper for una shallow mind for this forum. Chai.

Repent!!!

Lol dearie All na Cruise jare.

You will pass for a good wife.

World war III for don start like this if na one of your colleagues on here i quoted🤣🤣🤣

Manculated:


Lol dearie All na Cruise jare.

You will pass for a good wife.

World war III for don start like this if na one of your colleagues on here i quoted🤣🤣🤣

E sure me now say you really like wahala.

My colleagues. Chai ehhh.

There should be a limit to these kind of cruise you know. Cos life nor balance like that. You get.

DND069:
Whether true or not, anytime a man doesn't agrue with you [women] relating on matters that you[ladies] know is not right, just know you have lost the man.

A man corrects and scolds you[ladies] cos he likes you and sees a future with you. Otherwise, you are just in for fun sake but he will only portray you a lovely girlfriend in your presence by giving you a free environment to do whatever you like.

True talk

Any naija girl wey mistakenly go fall into relationship with me is OHO!

ObalendeCMS:
Any naija girl wey mistakenly go fall into relationship with me is OHO!

Las las na still then you go marry

Though this story may not be true. But it's a sad reality of the influence of Western culture.
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