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LoveUdie:
Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity before marriage, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it very active, interesting, sweet, appealing, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the varieties of "soups" or "delicacies", be it onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you need. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for many years (I am not yet a veteran o). As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me strike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross disrespect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1


By Coach Joshua

LoveUdie:
Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity before marriage, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it very active, interesting, sweet, appealing, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the varieties of "soups" or "delicacies", be it onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you need. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for many years (I am not yet a veteran o). As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me strike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross disrespect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1


By Coach Joshua

pansophist:
You're giving polygamy a narrow spin.

Lots of Women want polygamy, and lots of women will choose a wealthy polygamous man than an ordinary civil servant. Or they frolick with these wealthy men even when they know he has other mistress.

Polygamy also protects women. It's better to be a second wife with all the conjugal protections for she and her kids than to be his mistress, or sleeping with different men.

LoveUdie:
Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way.

Gerrard59:
...In fact, I dare say women don't like sex once they have given birth...

Gerrard59:
Funny enough, that is something modern women haven't realised. Polygamy is disadvantageous to men because it entails responsibility. Most people in the world don't like extra responsibilities. So a dutifully polygamous man should be applauded.

davis51:
Omo talk for urself leave us alone.. Can u eat only beans for 45 years or more

LoveUdie:
Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity before marriage, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it very active, interesting, sweet, appealing, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the varieties of "soups" or "delicacies", be it onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you need. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for many years (I am not yet a veteran o). As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me strike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross disrespect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1


By Coach Joshua

haybhi1:
That said. Libido in a woman is a function of her hormones and psychological state. While hormonal changes after childbirth can affect libido, it's a misconception that women lose interest in sex entirely or gradually as you implored. After removal of placenta, oestrogen reduces and libido follows suit. But they soon get their libido back during ovulation, esp after breastfeeding. However, physiology of every woman is different from the other. Women experience changes, like fluctuations, in their sex drive postpartum (due to stuffs like fatigue, breastfeeding, and emotional adjustments). So sexual desire in each woman is different, as it depends on individual's hormone status and his/her psychological state.