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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Omoluabi16(m): 4:15pm On Aug 21, 2024
I wouldn't use the word 'unhappy'. But then, I consider marriage a form of achievement. They call it settling down, don't they? She should've have included both genders. Forget all this talk of baby mama. The baby mamaism syndrome is a reflection of the kind of family you come from. Deep down sef, men dey go Shiloh dey go hustle wife. You're 45, still following Nkechi, bisi and Hauwa up and down who go respect you?
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by EreluRoz: 4:19pm On Aug 21, 2024
Pinicop:
I'm over 40 years.
I'm financially OK.
I'm physically, psychologically, and physiologically fine.

I'M SINGLE AND WILL NEVER GET MARRIED.
IN FACT, I HATE THE CONCEPT.
Something is wrong somewhere you just haven't figured it out.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Starz825(m): 4:22pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.
Dem ask you ABT men ...this yellow girl grin
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by t2luv1: 4:25pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.
I guess that just proves the point that women are like a freight train always looking for something to hitch to.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by EreluRoz: 4:27pm On Aug 21, 2024
luminouz:
So a man needs marriage before he has a woman and some kids?

Nawa for your reasoning oh
Yes a man needs marriage to bring forth kids into existence. Were you conceived out of wedlock? I'm sure the answer is No. So who taught you all this woke (sick) mentality that it's ok to have a child without marriage? How many children born out of wedlock are proud to be product of adultery/fornication?
The word "Bastard" still exist and it'll never go into extinction. There are still some families who don't allow their sons/daughters marry a bastard.

"Bastards" are kids born illegitimately(product from two unmarried people).
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by chidiokay: 4:54pm On Aug 21, 2024
cococandy:
What they fail to understand is that present day monogamy was started and enforced by them. Now they complain about it.

In the same vein, male centered polygamy can only work through cultural and religious oppression of women such that they are shamed or forced by family and religious institutions to stay with men who don’t think they’re worth being faithful to.

If we really let them achieve their dream sexual utopia without the application of female subjugation and slut shaming, na dem go cry. smiley

Like the wise ones say, toto has no meter.

I’d strongly advise everyone to respect themselves and their chosen partners but they won’t listen to an evil feminist like me 🙂‍↔️
i find it abysmal that you share same sentiment with that one on some matters ... is it that your experience don't count or your marriage influences your aspersion

i strongly believe the side of life people see is what modulates there views/perception about life

ok, In climes black women had there sexual utopia delivered to them, my interest is weytin dey use am achieve ..... smiley @least we see the ones that are immmune to men subjugation and slut shaming even left their marriage asap ...kii lor fii dà


coco your deposition sometimes would
have made sense if you were not under a man ... toto has no meter but should a blind man fall into a well he knows wink tongue
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by omooba969(m): 4:55pm On Aug 21, 2024
cococandy:
You don’t have sense
.

Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by cococandy(f): 4:57pm On Aug 21, 2024
This makes no sense.

Do you want to retype it?

I couldn’t make heads nor tails of it
chidiokay:
i find it abysmal that you share same sentiment with that one on some matters ... is it that your experience don't count or your marriage influences your aspersion

i strongly believe the side of life people see is what modulates there views/perception about life

ok, In climes black women had there sexual utopia delivered to them, my interest is weytin dey use am achieve ..... smiley @least we see the ones that are immmune to men subjugation and slut shaming even left their marriage asap ...kii lor fii dà


coco your deposition sometimes would
have made sense if you were not under a man ... toto has no meter but e get elasticity and ideal width tongue
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by advanceDNA: 4:58pm On Aug 21, 2024
Omoluabi16:
I wouldn't use the word 'unhappy'. But then, I consider marriage a form of achievement. They call it settling down, don't they? She should've have included both genders. Forget all this talk of baby mama. The baby mamaism syndrome is a reflection of the kind of family you come from. Deep down sef, men dey go Shiloh dey go hustle wife. You're 45, still following Nkechi, bisi and Hauwa up and down who go respect you?
The issue here is..why do you feel that such pple are looking for respect....??

Do you know how many married men being disrespected for various reasons...??

Do you know how many single men that are highly respected??
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by mrkings84(m): 5:02pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.
This na true, me never marry and me need a wife now by fire and by force
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by omooba969(m): 5:08pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
Yes a man needs marriage to bring forth kids into existence. Were you conceived out of wedlock? I'm sure the answer is No. So who taught you all this woke (sick) mentality that it's ok to have a child without marriage? How many children born out of wedlock are proud to be product of adultery/fornication?
The word "Bastard" still exist and it'll never go into extinction. There are still some families who don't allow their sons/daughters marry a bastard.

"Bastards" are kids born illegitimately(product from two unmarried people).
Insensitive people like you are the ones who know who's a bastard and who's not. Stop the name calling and learn to know that the world has evolved, it makes no difference if your parents are married or not married. The sky is spacious enough to accommodate whoever wants to fly.

Stop this nonsense that's becoming your trademark...STOP! 🛑
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by omooba969(m): 5:09pm On Aug 21, 2024
advanceDNA:
The issue here is..why do you feel that such pple are looking for respect....??

Do you know how many married men being disrespected for various reasons...??

Do you know how many single men that are highly respected??
Lol 😆
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by advanceDNA: 5:11pm On Aug 21, 2024
chidiokay:
i find it abysmal that you share same sentiment with that one on some matters ... is it that your experience don't count or your marriage influences your aspersion

i strongly believe the side of life people see is what modulates there views/perception about life

ok, In climes black women had there sexual utopia delivered to them, my interest is weytin dey use am achieve ..... smiley @least we see the ones that are immmune to men subjugation and slut shaming even left their marriage asap ...kii lor fii dà


coco your deposition sometimes would
have made sense if you were not under a man ...
U don't have to put someone in a box because of their comment..........
.sometimes people live lives contrary to their true self.......and sometimes its just online yarns or being a devil's advocate ......
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by chidiokay: 5:14pm On Aug 21, 2024
cococandy:
This makes no sense.

Do you[i] want to retype[/i] it?

I couldn’t make heads nor tails of it
do you need a soft copy for personal use or why the wish undecided

my dear @least you sha get the middle, at all at all na im bad wink
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Thabothabo101: 5:14pm On Aug 21, 2024
Any runs girl in the Lekki area? Hit me up. Free drinks at farmcity.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by EreluRoz: 5:18pm On Aug 21, 2024
omooba969:
Insensitive people like you are the ones who know who's a bastard and who's not. Stop the name calling and learn to know that the world has evolved, it makes no difference if your parents are married or not married. The sky is spacious enough to accommodate whoever wants to fly.

Stop this nonsense that's becoming your trademark...STOP! 🛑
You see how you are pained for stating the obvious truth that's how pained kids brought into existence feels when they are being labeled such , so why put an innocent child into such torture by bringing them into the world illegitimately? It's never going to be a normal thing the way some of you are trying so hard to make it. Do right and save that child some lifetime heartache.
Some of you now form woke over recklessness, it's recklessness and irresponsiblity to bring forth a child outside wedlock, so deal with it Mr Woke.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by omooba969(m): 5:18pm On Aug 21, 2024
qtguru:
Personally we are not as bad as the AA community. Nigerian men and women are sought after outside Nigeria because of our values, take away the economic burden and you see that we are better off for Marriage.
Did you say Nigerian women?? 😂😆
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by femi4:
Shinjawestern:
"No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married"

Nigerian woman reveals.

How true is this?
100% correct. Marriage is the highest for them in this part of the world
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by CaveAdullam: 5:30pm On Aug 21, 2024
cococandy:
Or maybe they really like each other and want to be together without sharing themselves with other people. It can be that simple
This is just by the wayside.

Happily ever after is not the sole basis of marriage. The aim is to reproduce, survive, and persist in the gene pool. It's just a subconscious desire, built into the animal framework. You don't think or deliberate on it. It just happens.

However, your point is the starting line for such to occur.

They love themselves. Want to live together.

But underneath, nature and biology is running its course.

Well done.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by chidiokay: 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2024
advanceDNA:
U don't have to put someone in a box because of their comment..........
.sometimes people live lives contrary to their true self.......and sometimes its just online yarns or being a devil's advocate ......
i can't even think of any box that can contain coco except you meant a bus

when you live a life contrary to your real self that fake life bro, if the intent is to decieve can you decieve yourself smiley

where playing the devil advocate becomes a constant k, someone needs a Dna test undecided
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nahunger(m): 5:39pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.
Dey whine your self
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nahunger(m): 5:40pm On Aug 21, 2024
Natbrowny:
Come to zone 4. Me and u get 2 Jack Daniels to drink.

U valid
I fit show too 😁😁😁
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nahunger(m): 5:42pm On Aug 21, 2024
Streetdoctor:
I disagree, unhappiness of a man boils down his pocket or account.
Niggars wey some married men dey envy like mad
You dey mind the broke simp
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nahunger(m): 5:43pm On Aug 21, 2024
luuvv:
You need a psychotherapist
You need a gynaecologist
Spits of posters head 🤧
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Ezyp(m): 5:48pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.
Funny how ladies feel men think like them.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Pinicop(m): 5:50pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
Something is wrong somewhere you just haven't figured it out.
Hmm....

I just don't want a permenant problem and/or liability.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by chidiokay: 5:56pm On Aug 21, 2024
Omoluabi16:
I wouldn't use the word 'unhappy'. But then, I consider marriage a form of achievement. They call it settling down, don't they? She should've have included both genders. Forget all this talk of baby mama. The baby mamaism syndrome is a reflection of the kind of family you come from. Deep down sef, men dey go Shiloh dey go hustle wife. You're 45, still following Nkechi, bisi and Hauwa up and down who go respect you?
Men attend shiloh to pray for prosperity cos that all it takes to get coupe wife ... but you can't deny women attend singles meetings more than men.
Don jazzy no get wife, go on his page n see if he is respected or not
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by wjxavier(m): 6:00pm On Aug 21, 2024
Zooposki:
-Lol. Not every woman wants to get married o.

-She is just projecting, meaning she herself won’t be happy until she gets married.

-What do men bring to marriages apart from money, that is, if they even have the money?

-Learn to love yourself and let you make you happy. That is the ultimate nirvana of life.
- Every woman wants it. Even those who think they don’t deserve it and claim they don’t need a man.

- You are projecting my dear. You don’t sound very happy yourself.

- Men bring leadership a woman can NEVER give herself. Which is why women-led societies do not last.

-If self-love was enough, God would not mandate a man to love his wife. And never the other way around.
You girls are incapable of love for anything other than your offspring and money.

Pens up!
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by advanceDNA: 6:00pm On Aug 21, 2024
chidiokay:
i can't even think of any box that can contain coco except you meant a bus
why do u want to put people in any box...?? Just try to relate with their comment based on the context they use per time....

chidiokay:
when you live a life contrary to your real self that fake life bro, if the intent is to deceive can you decieve yourself smiley
it's not fake life per se...it's called trying to be conventional. pple live like that because life throws a lot of things at people contrary to what they truly want and they are are just surviving and managing it... For example some pple don't want to be married...but it's conventional or socially acceptable to be married...so they get married and have children...but deep down they don't want that life...

chidiokay:
where playing the devil advocate becomes a constant k, someone needs a Dna test undecided
so you cannot make a comment thats not driven by your personality or life style or situation... ?? That means you can't be fair or objective in your views
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by omooba969(m): 6:03pm On Aug 21, 2024
EreluRoz:
You see how you are pained for stating the obvious truth that's how pained kids brought into existence feels when they are being labeled such , so why put an innocent child into such torture by bringing them into the world illegitimately? It's never going to be a normal thing the way some of you are trying so hard to make it. Do right and save that child some lifetime heartache.
Some of you now form woke over recklessness, it's recklessness and irresponsiblity to bring forth a child outside wedlock, so deal with it Mr Woke.
You're not making sense and just as I have always envisaged that you have a twisted orientation and thought process. Why would anyone, in their right mind, label his neighbour, what are you trying to achieve?

How's it your fvcking business if one's parents are married or not married?
What right do you have to label your fellow man?

Something is wrong with you aswear! cool
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Banbanna(m): 6:03pm On Aug 21, 2024
A very sound advice and POV. I just don't get it when some people places their happiness or pursuit of happiness on getting hitched to another man or woman rather than solely on themselves. What if that person shows his/her true colours, or becomes some of their worst nightmare, or encounters some damaging life changing misfortune?

I think these are all assumptions. They are always quick to think that one needs a life partner to be truly happy and complete ignoring the fact that you'd definitely be unhappy if you marry the wrong person.

Well, llife lessons are there for us all to learn, some of us just have to learn it the hard way
Zooposki:
Lol. Not every woman wants to get married o. She is just projecting, meaning she herself won’t be happy until she gets married. What do men bring to marriages apart from money, that is, if they even have the money?

Imagine someone looking for another person or institution to make her happy. Aunty, you came alone to this world and you will die alone. Learn to love yourself and let you make you happy. That is the ultimate nirvana of life.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by qtguru(m): 6:11pm On Aug 21, 2024
omooba969:
Did you say Nigerian women?? 😂😆
Yes, standing on that statement 100% Nigerian women are solid in my own experience. might be your environment though
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