₦airaland Forum

Pinicop:
Hmm....

I just don't want a permenant problem and/or liability.

wjxavier:
- Every woman wants it. Even those who think they don’t deserve it and claim they don’t need a man.

- You are projecting my dear. You don’t sound very happy yourself.

- Men bring leadership a woman can NEVER give herself. Which is why women-led societies do not last.

-If self-love was enough, God would not mandate a man to love his wife. And never the other way around.
You girls are incapable of love for anything other than your offspring and money.

Pens up!

qtguru:
Yes, standing on that statement 100% Nigerian women are solid in my own experience. might be your environment though

SocialJustice:
Look at you arguing for women even with their daily actions in relationships and marriages.

I personally don't see why I should be saddled with any woman. I want my kids too and that's it, she has all the freedom to fly as she wants.

I want a lot of kids too with diversity, one woman can't do it.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

PerfectStranger:
No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

rickleye:
When you are 60 and all alone . You’d quickly discover that you have nobody to share memories with . And when your kids are all grown up and have their own families to raise , you’ll understand loneliness.
I have uncles who separated from their wives and in their old age suffered a lot . To even operate the microwave is wahala. They go down 2 flight of stairs only to forget their keys and have to climb up and down again.
He died 2 days before anyone noticed and he wasn’t sick . Died normal causes.
Nah, because a few bad eggs give marriage a bad name doesn’t mean marriage as an institution is bad or outdated.
Someone to travel the world with share the hugs and tears.
Just ask the right questions , and put your head to the ground and you’ll find a good woman. She may not be perfect but at least your last days wouldn’t be filled with pain and loneliness

Holluwhakemmy:
From your last paragraph I don't think you can be a responsible father to your children if your mindset about marriage is to have baby mama's and raise your children outside. Think twice before you land yourself into trouble. Ire ooo

PerfectStranger:
Didn't condemn marriage totally, only said if one can't find a befitting woman for marriage they can switch to plan B ok

EreluRoz:
Yes a man needs marriage to bring forth kids into existence. Were you conceived out of wedlock? I'm sure the answer is No. So who taught you all this woke (sick) mentality that it's ok to have a child without marriage? How many children born out of wedlock are proud to be product of adultery/fornication?
The word "Bastard" still exist and it'll never go into extinction. There are still some families who don't allow their sons/daughters marry a bastard.

"Bastards" are kids born illegitimately(product from two unmarried people).

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

EreluRoz:
Exactly and redpill too

Holluwhakemmy:
From your last paragraph I don't think you can be a responsible father to your children if your mindset about marriage is to have baby mama's and raise your children outside. Think twice before you land yourself into trouble. Ire ooo

rickleye:
When you are 60 and all alone . You’d quickly discover that you have nobody to share memories with . And when your kids are all grown up and have their own families to raise , you’ll understand loneliness.
I have uncles who separated from their wives and in their old age suffered a lot . To even operate the microwave is wahala. They go down 2 flight of stairs only to forget their keys and have to climb up and down again.
He died 2 days before anyone noticed and he wasn’t sick . Died normal causes.
Nah, because a few bad eggs give marriage a bad name doesn’t mean marriage as an institution is bad or outdated.
Someone to travel the world with share the hugs and tears.
Just ask the right questions , and put your head to the ground and you’ll find a good woman. She may not be perfect but at least your last days wouldn’t be filled with pain and loneliness

SocialJustice:
Look at you arguing for women even with their daily actions in relationships and marriages.

I personally don't see why I should be saddled with any woman. I want my kids too and that's it, she has all the freedom to fly as she wants.

I want a lot of kids too with diversity, one woman can't do it.

luminouz:
How is that your business?

That's how you lots try to shame men into slavery when they gain absolutely nothing from a marriage,so you don't tell a man what he should do with his life. At least he is not leaving his kid to suffer. So stop with the 'responsible' bullshiit you lots use to blackmail men.

Holluwhakemmy:
I did not direct my comment to you, if you like go for 20 baby mama's it's your headache.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

luminouz:
And I won't let you shame a man who decides not to marry you. He gains nothing from it but slavery and pain. So I will comment as I want and you can't do shiit about that

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

Holluwhakemmy:
I have advised him and he has explained everything to me. So go and rest your opinion is meaningless

Holluwhakemmy:
Alright, God will do the right thing for us. Amen

PerfectStranger:
Single or taken?

advanceDNA:
why do u want to put people in any box...?? Just try to relate with their comment based on the context they use per time....

it's not fake life per se...it's called trying to be conventional. pple live like that because life throws a lot of things at people contrary to what they truly want and they are are just surviving and managing it... For example some pple don't want to be married...but it's conventional or socially acceptable to be married...so they get married and have children...but deep down they don't want that life...

so you cannot make a comment thats not driven by your personality or life style or situation... ?? That means you can't be fair or objective in your views

luminouz:
You assume that your wife won't die before you or you won't before her...who told you she would be there for you when your kids are all grown and left the nest? I can't count how many men are living alone while the wife are traveling around the world visiting their kids and never looking after the husband.

MEN GAIN NOTHING FROM MARRIAGE. I KNOW THAT LIKE I KNOW MY MUDAFUCKING DIICK

HandsomeSkeleto:
But then, you can't tell us here that she is a virgin!

So, this means that even though she claims she is not bothered, she still seeks men from time to time, albeit secretly.

Bottom line: She would have slept with so much men in her lifetime that a few years from now, no man will want her again.

So, where does she go from there

Deception! Sheer hypocrisy!

DrFunmisticGlow:
You want to have illegitimate bastards outside and drama free life.
Those two words don't belong in the same sentence. The DELULU is strong in this one

Uchesis:
Its easy to call poor man's children born outside as illegitimate bastards.


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Can you call Davido's children with his baby mamas a bastard?

jorion:
Very good question...

chidiokay:
i dont think it is wrong to put anyone in a bus when its obvious they dont know where they are going or you find them at wrong location

chidiokay:
bro there is nothing conventional about living a double life, there is no inbetween you are either being real or fake

chidiokay:
i believe in "common sense" ... whatever condition you find yourself let people see the real you... baba who go like you go like you.

chidiokay:
Tbh, how can someone not want to marry or have children , bro that is a defect ,

chidiokay:
even God couldnt stand to see adam being alone, woman was not in God's creation blueprint, but baba God sharperly improvised cos loneliness suite no one lets not fool ourselves

chidiokay:
Rihanna is one crazy bitch, she once discard the thought of marriage or having kids ... but today aunty rihannna is mesmerized having a family .. no one has children n wish deep down they didnt..

chidiokay:
i started watching L word series from my teen age .. i realized even gays and lesbians crave family & children cos it is in human core nature

chidiokay:
if you marry a good man dont come line to join the bandwagon men are scum that's my point [

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

Holluwhakemmy:
Thanks I'm Engaged