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Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 4:40pm On Aug 25, 2024
PureFace1:
You are not the only regular customer they are serving or are you the one using all the petrol in their station? so you think you are the only regular customer on the queue ? what if all of them also demand for special attention ?

You are a man but your entitlement mentality is sickening and even more pathetic than women, you are not the only customer patronizing them, in fact the petrol you are buying from them is just a drop in the ocean.
Mehn, there's no entitlement mentality here. If I had wanted that I would have gone straight to the manager and I would hv gotten what I wanted. I only brought this here from my own woman angle that refused selling to me as at when I wanted.
And talking about not being the only regular customer, I can't beat my chest that I'm among top 10 customer they have.
Everyday I buy 45k worth of fuel, and I and some few people do this when majority don't go to their station cuz it's in an obsolete area.
And now the place was full bcuz their favorite filling stations doesn't have fuel, and you want them to neglate us that are their regular patronizers.
It ain't done that way my friend, it happens everywhere. They're always special customers.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by SmellingAnus(m): 4:45pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
Forgive her... Accept her back... Stop that daily contribution/Akawo you do for her... If she stays with you for one year without complaining Marry her...
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 4:55pm On Aug 25, 2024
SmellingAnus:
Forgive her... Accept her back... Stop that daily contribution/Akawo you do for her... If she stays with you for one year without complaining Marry her...
Thank you for your advice, but what you called daily contribution to her is nothing to me. Someone that stops me losing almost 10k everyday.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 5:18pm On Aug 25, 2024
Raalsalghul:
Maybe, it's just me but I see nothing wrong with what she did.

You never know if her boss/manager is lurking around hence why she decided not to jump the queue.
Lolz, her boss would have given me asap
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Karleb(m): 5:24pm On Aug 25, 2024
Raalsalghul:
Maybe, it's just me but I see nothing wrong with what she did.

You never know if her boss/manager is lurking around hence why she decided not to jump the queue.
Bros, love should be sacrificial.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Mom007(f): 5:32pm On Aug 25, 2024
You see this nairaland... its the last place you should come to if you want to hear truth. Some frustrated beings will just start replying you with garbage that they can never say to your face.


Bro, you have every right to be angry! Not as if you wanted to buy on credit or something... you were gonna pay. May we never depend on such people in our time of need.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Biglittlelois(f): 5:43pm On Aug 25, 2024
Nigeria can never be great because of Nigerian men, from the young ones to the old they are all corrupt, like to cut corners and cheat people, yet they complain about politicians everyday while they are exactly the same, someone said an average Nigerian complains of politicians because they are not at the helm of affairs, if they were they will do worse, now I truly believe him.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by D111: 5:50pm On Aug 25, 2024
Don't be too hard on the girl, maybe her boss is around at that time she was just being careful of what might later happened If she attend to you immediately.so my guy pick her call and let bygone be bygone
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 6:18pm On Aug 25, 2024
PureFace1:
Your brother is just an attendant not the owner.

If you love your brother you wouldn't allow him to be taking that kind of risk that can put his job on jeopardy. A lot of big men come to the fuel station you know and it will only take one or two complain from the big men that know the boss very well to get him sack.

Will you provide another job for your brother if he lose it because of you, it's not all boss that tolerate nonsense you know
But the big men will keep quiet when a police officer, army officer bypass the line. Or when the owner of the station orders any of the attendant to bypass the line and sell to anybody he wants to.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by ugwumichael(m):
Anabosee:
Oga calm down this is Nigeria.
If your junior brother is working at a queued up fuel station, you will be happy with him that he didn't sell for you before the fuel finish?
Talk truth o today is Sunday
Would you be happy with yourself if your brother jumps queue for you and it leads to disturbance in the station and the management gets to find out, and after close of work for the day he comes home and tells you he has been sacked as a result of trying to favour you.
Talk truth oo today is sunday
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by ugwumichael(m): 6:47pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
But the big men will keep quiet when a police officer, army officer bypass the line. Or when the owner of the station orders any of the attendant to bypass the line and sell to anybody he wants to.
Are you familiar with " he who pays the piper dictates the tune "?
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by ugwumichael(m): 6:49pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Lolz, her boss would have given me asap
If you really loved her, then you should have approached her boss and not her, so you don't put her job on the line
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by faithfull18(f): 6:51pm On Aug 25, 2024
She did the right thing, next time give her your keg and the money, she would have filled it up before you get there if you want to use 'I know the attendant' privilege.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by tochez24(m): 7:30pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Why is everybody all about the 2k I'm giving her. So I will be giving somebody 2k and I won't have a savings of my own.
Some people spend more than 2k everyday on frivolities, do we advice those ones too to be saving the money.
People spends more than 2k on beer, smoking and what not everyday, should they have been saving that too.
Ok most people that hasn't been giving babes, or drinking or other frivolities. How much have they save?
Enough of all this 2k should have done this or that for me
You still haven't learned⚠️

Life will teach you the hard way🙄
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Juliearth(f): 7:38pm On Aug 25, 2024
Namaster:
OP is FOOLISH and ENTITLED.

Regular customer of a Filling station? grin
Wants special privileges? grin

Foolish man.

ALL the money that you've spent at that Filling Station is less than 1% of what they make per day.

Your spending is a BIG DEAL to you but it's CHICKEN CHANGE to the Filling Station.

Let that SINK in!

Only privilege you deserve is being attended to AS and WHEN due.

Also the fact that you're fucking a fuel attendant, who's practically a salesgirl, does NOT give you the right to JUMP queues in a time of DIRE fuel scarcity.

Nigerians complain about corruption and nepotism in the political class but are EAGER to take advantage of the same when it benefits them.

People had been on that queue for HOURS and you wanted to CHEAT them because you are a "regular customer" who's fucking a salesgirl.

What an ENTITLED joker!

ALSO putting a girl on a DAILY allowance is STUPID!

If you work at least 5 days a week and save 2k each day instead of giving it to a girl, you'd have 40k saved each month.

If you started since February when you began dating, you'd have ALMOST #250K extra saved.

Anyway, the girl did the RIGHT thing!
Did I type this? No truer words than these. The change we desire starts from grassroot acts such as this..
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Bimpe29(m): 8:56pm On Aug 25, 2024
I'm truly sorry on behalf. However, your girl stance is entirely commendable and worth emulating, particularly in the present day Nigeria.
Clearly, she demonstrated fairness and justice which is absolutely remarkable. This attitude and sense of entitlement have been disastrous for us in our quest to develop as a nation.
The man knows man syndrome, na my personal person as well as my tribal guy of a thing keep marginalizing and preventing some people from getting opportunities they actually merited.
Please forgive her fairness and encourage her to always be fair and just in her little capacity, thereby we will all have a change of attitude and ensure that our personal interests will not at any time influence our official decision.
The change has just begun with your darling girlfriend.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by liveyourlife007(m): 9:02pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Seriously, ok you that your brain is full and smoking. Kindly share for us thank you
Another bus driver spotted
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by RoyalBlu(f): 9:29pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Sorting of feelings has been done already, just wanted to sample the opinion of people
Sample the opinions of nairalanders? cheesy

You go legit enter panic mode.

It's been an enlightening thread no doubt.
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 9:46pm On Aug 25, 2024
RoyalBlu:
Sample the opinions of nairalanders? cheesy

You go legit enter panic mode.

It's been an enlightening thread no doubt.
Me panic ke, instead I enjoyed every bit of the convo I had here
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 9:51pm On Aug 25, 2024
liveyourlife007:
Another bus driver spotted
You spotted or I told you myself
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 9:53pm On Aug 25, 2024
tochez24:
You still haven't learned⚠️

Life will teach you the hard way🙄
Hahaha, life will teach me the hard way just bcus of 2k that people spend more than on a daily. Some of you are funny I swear
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 9:59pm On Aug 25, 2024
ugwumichael:
If you really loved her, then you should have approached her boss and not her, so you don't put her job on the line
I love her and there's no job on the line for her. In fact we have discuss exactly what happened ystday some months ago and she jokingly said she will do as if she didn't see me on the line. So it was an opportunity to test her, thats why I didn't go to her boss
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:01pm On Aug 25, 2024
ugwumichael:
Are you familiar with " he who pays the piper dictates the tune "?
Yes of course, and how does it apply here
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:02pm On Aug 25, 2024
you are dating your own shadow!
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:08pm On Aug 25, 2024
Karleb:
Bros, love should be sacrificial.
Thank you bro
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:09pm On Aug 25, 2024
Biglittlelois:
Nigeria can never be great because of Nigerian men, from the young ones to the old they are all corrupt, like to cut corners and cheat people, yet they complain about politicians everyday while they are exactly the same, someone said an average Nigerian complains of politicians because they are not at the helm of affairs, if they were they will do worse, now I truly believe him.
And what's your meaning now, go straight to the point and let me reply you
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:10pm On Aug 25, 2024
D111:
Don't be too hard on the girl, maybe her boss is around at that time she was just being careful of what might later happened If she attend to you immediately.so my guy pick her call and let bygone be bygone
Thank you, we have since settled and she's laughing her head off with most of the comment on here
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:16pm On Aug 25, 2024
ugwumichael:
Would you be happy with yourself if your brother jumps queue for you and it leads to disturbance in the station and the management gets to find out, and after close oecwo k for tde day he comes home ajd tells you he has been sacked as a result of trying to favour you.
Talk truth oo today is sunday
Me I'm not talking about brother or lover levels here, what about attending to your regular customers first.
Ok for example, you own a business and you have one or two regular customers that patronizes you and making your business to stand. Then all of a sudden the commodities you're selling became scarce in other places and you're the only one that has them.
When your shop or business place is full with new faces that wants those goods and suddenly your regular customers came for those goods too, who will you attend to first
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:23pm On Aug 25, 2024
Juliearth:
Did I type this? No truer words than these. The change we desire starts from grassroot acts such as this..
And what's the truer words you think he just spilled if not jargons.
Oh! It's bcus he said saving the 2k instead of giving it to her would have yielded millions of me right?
So in you guys mendulla oblongata, you really think I will be giving someone 2k everyday without saving for myself.
And with you guys logic, can we also go and tell those who drinks bottle of beer worth more than 5k everyday to be saving them also so that it can yield billions in a couple of years time.
And you guys ignore the part where I said this particular girl made me stop gambling that eat up to 10k everyday from me, and it's giving her 2k I should now be worried about.
Abeg make una talk another thing
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:34pm On Aug 25, 2024
Bimpe29:
I'm truly sorry on behalf. However, your girl stance is entirely commendable and worth emulating, particularly in the present day Nigeria.
Clearly, she demonstrated fairness and justice which is absolutely remarkable. This attitude and sense of entitlement have been disastrous for us in our quest to develop as a nation.
The man knows man syndrome, na my personal person as well as my tribal guy of a thing keep marginalizing and preventing some people from getting opportunities they actually merited.
Please forgive her fairness and encourage her to always be fair and just in her little capacity, thereby we will all have a change of attitude and ensure that our personal interests will not at any time influence our official decision.
The change has just begun with your darling girlfriend.
Lolz, you're right in some ways but not all.
Let's even leave she's my girlfriend but a regular attendant. This is a station I buy my fuel everyday with other few people when majority ignore them, and time for scarcity came and all of a sudden she has to do right thing by attending to those that came first and ignore their regular customers.
But when there will be fuel everywhere those many people will now go back to their own regular station and they'll expect we that they ignore to come back abi?
.
Let me put this question to you.
You're an article and commodity dealer, you have some specific customers that at least twice every week they come to buy from you wholesale thereby keeping your business afloat. Then all of a sudden, those commodities became scarce and only you have them. Then every dick and harry now started coming from nowhere to get those commodities, and you have them few left and your regular customers needed them also, who will you sell those goods to.
The new comers that came from nowhere just bcus the goods are scarce or your regular customers?
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by Kvarachi(op): 10:36pm On Aug 25, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
you are dating your own shadow!
Lolz, you think so. She's laughing at your comment like this
Re: She Ignored Me When I Needed Her Most by RoyalBlu(f): 10:43pm On Aug 25, 2024
Kvarachi:
Thank you, we have since settled and she's laughing her head off with most of the comment on here
OP!!!


*This thread just hold me local. cheesy
Normal me wey nor dey comment pass five times for one thread. Chai.
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