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immortalcrown:
So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever?

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

You Dey mind am nothing hunger can not do lol

Merry100:
The fear of being used and discarded is one of the reasons why some Nigerian women demand money in relationships.

In general, Nigerian women are very supportive; they do not prioritize their partner's financial status or income. Once they have fallen in love, they are willing to support their partner through thick and thin. However, some women in certain parts of Nigeria, such as Lagos, are more demanding.

Lagos is an expensive city, and as a result, the lifestyle can be quite extravagant. There is an abundance of bars, clubs, and other nightlife options in Lagos compared to other cities, which has led to a culture where sex is overhyped and frequently demanded. If the emphasis on sex were reduced, the demand for money and other financial gestures would also decrease.

In Lagos, many guys prioritize sex greatly in relationships. Some even date women whom they don't perceive as their ideal spouse, solely because they need a sexual partner. A guy can utilize a lady as his girlfriend just to satisfy his sexual urges for up to six years, breaking her heart. Many women in Lagos are already aware of these tactics. That is the reason some choose to date men who can spoil them with material things, ensuring they gain something from the relationship. This way, they won't feel used if they happen to fall into such an unfortunate situation.

How do I unread this??

Mumu made up stories!

Merry100:
In general, Nigerian women are very supportive; they do not prioritize their partner's financial status or income.

Is a lie

Regina Daniels says hi

If bigerian girls all think like this then you guys are mostly don for.


I have many young lings who are all marrying non Nigerians Once they travel.

Dome no dey reach 6 months sef. You guys need to change your game, but now its in the dna.

advanceDNA:
U have shifted goal post.... u have shifted to a guy giving his girl money...

U said girls demand for money becos they don't want to lose....And I said Any Girl that meets a guy or is in a relationship with such mind set has a prostituté mindset....

If ur boyfriend give u money...how's that's demanding?? U didn't ask so u can quickly collect and not lose......he gave u himself...

Please explain free sex??

Comrade, easy on the babe,she obviously doesn't know anything.

Sex, sex and sex. No investment talk, nothing like research work, scientific discoveries and things that can benefit mankind. Na wah oo

If all men decide to go to the paths our grand parents treaded these girl's will learn. You ain't adding value to my life, u ain't raising a home, I should just count money and give u. Dey wait.

So somebody siddon write this kin thing?

Does the woman not enjoy the do too

Does she not reach orgasm too

So why does it sound as though its one sided

Does it even make sense for the man to pay.

If the man want to dash the woman money, that's fine but not payment for do

The marital bed is undefiled
Marriage should be between virgins if possible
That way the use and dump and materialism would reduce

who is dis foolish op posting rubbish this evening... don't allow me insult u tonight


if u don't have anything reasonable to say, why not switch off ur fone, instead of posting this rubbish

Merry100:
Why not read properly before commenting? It does not prevent the discard, it only ensures they gain something from the relationship.

Hungry girl thinks this way.

immortalcrown:
So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever?

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

At least if they are dumped after that dem go use that money hold body nah as Consolation!!

Op, there is no justification for monetising sex, except you are a PROSTITUTE!

Flee youthful lust

All fornicator will go to hell.
Repent!

@op stop encouraging sins

ultraviolet27:
At least if they are dumped after that dem go use that money hold body nah as Consolation!!

Did you read what you typed at all?

What do you call a lady who demand for money before sex? The answer is a Prostitute.

Same to a guy who demand for sex and is a pervert. You don't colour it.


A relationship shouldn't be established on If you gain I must gain, that is nonsense.

Nonsense and Ingredients

Merry100:
The fear of being used and discarded is one of the reasons why some Nigerian women demand money in relationships.

In general, Nigerian women are very supportive; they do not prioritize their partner's financial status or income. Once they have fallen in love, they are willing to support their partner through thick and thin. However, some women in certain parts of Nigeria, such as Lagos, are more demanding.

Lagos is an expensive city, and as a result, the lifestyle can be quite extravagant. There is an abundance of bars, clubs, and other nightlife options in Lagos compared to other cities, which has led to a culture where sex is overhyped and frequently demanded. If the emphasis on sex were reduced, the demand for money and other financial gestures would also decrease.

In Lagos, many guys prioritize sex greatly in relationships. Some even date women whom they don't perceive as their ideal spouse, solely because they need a sexual partner. A guy can utilize a lady as his girlfriend just to satisfy his sexual urges for up to six years, breaking her heart. Many women in Lagos are already aware of these tactics. That is the reason some choose to date men who can spoil them with material things, ensuring they gain something from the relationship. This way, they won't feel used if they happen to fall into such an unfortunate situation.

Your opinion

Booked

I wish to stop having free sex...

I am doing too many favours

A woman would demand as long as d man demands.how will she be available for him tell me,so it's better d man too dnt demand for anythg

Op with all due respect,sense far from you.. Because the sex that I know is between two adult persons,and it pleasure the both of them.. It’s also people like you that will say men enjoy sex more than women,forgetting the many nerve endings in the VJ .. Now with this your stupid write up,what moral lesson can the Gen Z reading learn from it?

MiracleLAWRENCE:
Op give yourself a hot slap

And a very hard knock

Merry100:
The fear of being used and discarded is one of the reasons why some Nigerian women demand money in relationships.

In general, Nigerian women are very supportive; they do not prioritize their partner's financial status or income. Once they have fallen in love, they are willing to support their partner through thick and thin. However, some women in certain parts of Nigeria, such as Lagos, are more demanding.

Lagos is an expensive city, and as a result, the lifestyle can be quite extravagant. There is an abundance of bars, clubs, and other nightlife options in Lagos compared to other cities, which has led to a culture where sex is overhyped and frequently demanded. If the emphasis on sex were reduced, the demand for money and other financial gestures would also decrease.

In Lagos, many guys prioritize sex greatly in relationships. Some even date women whom they don't perceive as their ideal spouse, solely because they need a sexual partner. A guy can utilize a lady as his girlfriend just to satisfy his sexual urges for up to six years, breaking her heart. Many women in Lagos are already aware of these tactics. That is the reason some choose to date men who can spoil them with material things, ensuring they gain something from the relationship. This way, they won't feel used if they happen to fall into such an unfortunate situation.

To a large extent, you're right.

Not an excuse to be an olosho or runs girl pls.

ultraviolet27:
At least if they are dumped after that dem go use that money hold body nah as Consolation!!

The same money they have spent already even before the relationship ended ? ??lol..some of you are funny

On point jare, I get you..
Don't mind them jare, awon werey wa obo ofe.

The selfishness stinks ...
People should pay first (are you a commodity?)
And even after they pay , you turn them to ATM...wertin your papa and brothers combined no fit give you since Dem born you , you go wan collect all from the same innocent guy within a short timeframe.

We need to tell ourselves the truth ....don't collect or ask for money if you don't want to be used as a commodity- instead model best practices and persevere while thinking self reliance for no one owes you nothing in this world .

The problem many have (especially in Nigeria) is trying to be clever by half and wanting to eat their cake and still having it .
Tok much sense don Kee many females and shemales ...Dem don turn single till 49

advanceDNA:
U have shifted goal post.... u have shifted to a guy giving his girl money...

U said girls demand for money becos they don't want to lose....And I said Any Girl that meets a guy or is in a relationship with such mind set has a prostituté mindset....

If ur boyfriend give u money...how's that's demanding?? U didn't ask so u can quickly collect and not lose......he gave u himself...

Please explain free sex??

your DNA is really advanced. Ride on bro. I'm enjoying the flow. 😁

Merry100:
Gala hawker is not human being abi, dindinrin.

If a lady demands money from you, since it is so simple to say no you should be able to open your big mouth to say no, instead of coming here to bleat like goat on top my post.

Only a gigolo will date a lady with the intention of using her and dumping her. Show your intention stop deceiving ladies, it is as simple as that. It's still you people that will complain about a lady's body count.

I did not even encourage ladies to demand money from their boyfriend, I only stated the obvious and you are crying here like egbere.

Why should a lady demand money for sex (knowing fully well that it's even the lady that enjoy and love the sex more)? If you can't cope with the sex demand, simply reject the offer, instead of demanding for money. Any Nigerian girl that is demanding money for sex is already categorized as a sex worker, because she is ready to sleep with other 1million men for money. There are many other ways to obtain the sincerity of a man, other than demanding money from him. Are Nigerian girl (especially Lagos girls) even the only girls in the world, don't you see your counterparts in other countries. Working class Nigerian girls don't seems to exhibit this bad habit, but the lazy ones with passive minds, lacking creativity in their heads only see the offer as oppourtuniy for them to make money, because they lack any other ideas to generate money for themselves. And they intentionally seduce the man to rob him of his hard earned money. Better change or else that your yansh go burn for inside fire.