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Meaning:
Strictly speaking, my body is shaking hypothetically.

I think what caused the first mess up was the fact that early stage into our relationship she really did appear like "The One". So I already poured all my hope and trust into her and the relationship that when it ended. I was so drained.

It was like what you just narrated. In fact, many pastors and prophets did tell me that she is indeed my ticket to wealth, but like you pointed out. I was still damn broke when she was with me.
Though she was extremely supportive and kind.
But the lady herself lacks self esteem, how could you end up being a side chic to a guy all because he was handsome? Boss, that sh!t is mental. That's exactly what I can't wrap my head around.
I get people who advised me not to be vengeful, but honestly, not being able to avenge myself is what is hurting me right now.
I'm looking for a way to get even at all costs.

Please boss, what would you recommend?

No need to avenge yourself on her. That's not the redpill way. The best revenge is to ignore her and move on. Ignore her calls and chats. Never go back to a woman like that.

If you try to get even, it may cost you more than you know. You feel anger which is normal but don't let it consume you. Why? Because there are a million other beautiful girls out there. Why waste time and emotions on one who sold herself so cheaply. Let it go, work on yourself and try to travel to other African, Caribbean or western countries and you will see how blessed you are to be a Nigerian man. Girls more loyal and beautiful are waiting.

Once again, don't let anger and revenge consume you. It's not worth it

Namaster:
Take her back and donate your balls to a ritualist.

You are very OBVIOUSLY the consolation price. She chose to be a SIDECHICK to a guy who already had a GF than be your main girl.

She has ZERO respect for you.

If you take her back, you'd FOREVER be a PLACEHOLDER until she finds the next dick she wants to jump on.

At that point, all the work you've done to REPAIR your self-esteem will CRUMBLE like dry leaves.

By the way, IGNORE the SPIRITUAL scammers who are telling you that she's the key to your BREAKTHROUGH.

If they are so ATTUNED to the spiritual realm to the point of seeing the FUTURE, how come they've NOT seen their way to becoming a BILLIONAIRE.

Don't they like financial breakthrough too?

You are VULNERABLE. The scammers smell your waivering resolve so they are telling you what they THINK you want to hear.

STOP consulting with CROOKS like that.

Also, you have EVIDENCE that whatever they are implying is a LIE. She already caused you to LOSE a huge sum of money and a STREAM of income.

Plus, stop thinking about "AVENGING" yourself. You already fuccked the girl for FIVE years. And the person she left you for has DISCARDED her like Suya wrapper.

She's WORTHLESS to you. And she KNOWS it.

Continue to IGNORE her. IGNORE her until she begins to doubt her own existence.

NO need to do something SILLY to "avenge" yourself.

Seconded. Follow this advice op, he said it all 💯

1Sharon:
You have to start by thinking critically. What makes you think being with her will get you some financial favours?

Honestly, I'm drawing a blank. Yeah, she got connections with some really upper ups but I'm failing to see how that can be any beneficial.
I've been able to establish friendliness with some high profile people which hasn't yielded nothing to be specific.
I mean, no one is entitled to receive help from anyone save himself.

heartofcity12:
Seconded. Follow this advice op, he said it all 💯

'been waiting for you.
Thanks boss.

luminouz:
No need to avenge yourself on her. That's not the redpill way. The best revenge is to ignore her and move on. Ignore her calls and chats. Never go back to a woman like that.

If you try to get even, it may cost you more than you know. You feel anger which is normal but don't let it consume you. Why? Because there are a million other beautiful girls out there. Why waste time and emotions on one who sold herself so cheaply. Let it go, work on yourself and try to travel to other African, Caribbean or western countries and you will see how blessed you are to be a Nigerian man. Girls more loyal and beautiful are waiting.

Once again, don't let anger and revenge consume you. It's not worth it

Hmmmm..... Thanks boss. We will keep ignoring her like we've done for the past two years.
You are amazing

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

She didn't initially break up with you because you were not handsome enough for her; But rather because you desperately DESIRED her.

And she treated you like a piece of shit because she felt you don't DESERVE her.

There's a Big difference between desire and deserve.

I'm not an handsome guy also, but my women have rarely ever break up with me just to go date a guy finer than me. That's because I don't operate with the "desire" mentality. I operate with the "deserve" mentality.


Do you ever wonder why it is that some people get some things easily in life? Whilst others, even after a lot of effort still find it hard to get their desires .

This is because the universe operates on a deserve principle—not desire.

Everyone desires, but not everyone deserves.

You'd heard me in the past say something like, "Bank easily gives loan to those who don't need the money. Women easily give sexual relationships to men who don't need the sex."

For example--- when you go to a bank and request for a loan of 50 million, the bank will request for things like your financial statements of your previous transactions, your networth, your assets, collaterals or any other necessary things.

The bank request for things because they want confirm if you're worth the 50 million cash loan that you are trying to get. They want to first confirm if you truly "deserve" the money.

First of all, you need understand that the Bank won't just credit you 50 million cash loan just because you "desire" it. They only credit you if they are sure you "deserve" it.

The bank feel "safe" giving loan to the person who don't even need the loan to begin with. That's why fellas like Aliko or Elon will get loan at the snap of their fingers to build million dollars refinery or to purchase Twitter.

Feel free to Read IAmHim1 on "The Scam Of Monthly Salary And Long-term Ajo Contribution" to understand paradigm behind banks giving loan.

https://www.nairaland.com/8199081/scam-monthly-salary-long-term-ajo#131749032

Anyways, let's continue.

The woman feel safe dropping her panties for the dude who don't need the pussy. This is the guy who can "take or leave it". The woman think, If you don't need my sexual companionship, then I think you 'deserve' my sexual companionship.

There is psychological sense of "safety" at play here.

When you're interacting with a beautiful girl with a "desire" frame of mind, you will be busy in your head trying to think of the next best thing to say, so that she won't lose interest in the conversation. You puts way too much importance on her sexual companionship. You make the woman out to be something far greater than she is.

But when you are in a "deserve" state of mind, you're simply giving her the choice to "take it or leave it". If she's interested, great! If she's not, great.

The typical woman don't give shit about how much you love her or how much you desire her. That's because she's already used to hundreds and even thousands men desiring her.

Okay, Meaning, Back to you again...

She initially left you for a more handsome colleague because you didn't prove to her that you "deserve" her. That is, you didn't prove to her that you DON'T NEED her sexual companionship.

This is why she treated you like a piece of shit: because your place her companionship on pedestal.

Now, you say, "she no longer meet my spec. I have a better taste now."

That's Powerful. Because now you're operating from a "deserve" mindset. You have prove to her that you DON'T NEED her anymore. This is why she's now begging you consistently to accept her again.

In summary,

If you want to accept her back, IT'S YOUR CHOICE to make.

But I'll advice you not to accept her back just to avenge. You are more mature than that.

Since she no more meet your spec, tell her to move on.

And you go meet other girls who are now your taste.

The prophecy is for you to never leave her because she holds the key to your breakthrough right? It's very simple. Accept her back solely for that and also as your public toilet. Even though she is not your spec now, once in a while we lower our standards just to flush our dicks so instead of masturbating, use her as your sperm dump. Keep her somewhat close and when it's time for you to marry, introduce her to your wife and thank her for her service. Just keep her close enough for now until after the breakthrough. For more doses of wickedness to the evil gender, call upon me at any time brother.

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

I'm going to say some really uncomfortable truth and I don't care whether you like me or not.
First of all, how did you know she left you because she met with someone handsome?

Are you trying to say during the course of you guys' 5years dating, she never met a dude more handsome than you?

I understand that people will try to bend the truth so that they can absorb themselves of any guilt and responsibility.
In all your narration, you never said anything that you did wrong in the relationship.
What kind of a guy were you when she was with you.
^{See, I know that women are set of no good binturis, but I know women don't always go for looks when it comes to attraction, at least I agree with the redpill on that.}
Women have told me several times that they will never date me because of my looks.

The most important for a man is composure. A man must not lose his composure, the moment you are desperate for a lady. Any form of attraction she got for you automatically drops through. See, this is the absolute truth, no matter how much a girl is into you, the moment you become thirsty of her, she'll begin to see you as a loser.

^{You might be thinking she left because you were not handsome, but that's your insecurity speaking out loudly into your own ears.}

Insecurity itself is a repulsive character that chases women away from men. It's the opposite of confidence, women hate men who are not confident in themselves.

I've said it. I no send anybody papa on this platform. I speak the truth as it is.

Lemme ask you some stuffs. During the time you guys were dating.

1. Did you cheat on her?
2. Did she tell you she left because the guy was more handsome?
3. Did you show any form of insecurities?

You see how I cleverly avoided the spiritual part right? It's because, anyone with at least 1 IQ should not believe that horse dung.

Nonexisting1:
The prophecy is for you to never leave her because she holds the key to your breakthrough right? It's very simple. Accept her back solely for that and also as your public toilet. Even though she is not your spec now, once in a while we lower our standards just to flush our dicks so instead of masturbating, use her as your sperm dump. Keep her somewhat close and when it's time for you to marry, introduce her to your wife and thank her for her service. Just keep her close enough for now until after the breakthrough. For more doses of wickedness to the evil gender, call upon me at any time brother.

I don't know why. But I naturally appreciate wicked people. You are just like me. But in my own case, I'll pick a date for introduction that I'll never attend.

It's an eye for an eye over here.

Meaning:
Ha! At the moment the only thing that can finish me is money. You know, it's never about her. It's about me. I didn't want to miss my chance at wealth due to my hardness of heart.
Forgiveness is prolly the hardest thing for me to do.

But just like MrBrownJay1 said. Ain't no such thing. Make I basta. Where are the atheists on this platform sef. I need some morale.

cc: FRANCISTOWN
LordReed
Jaephoenix
HopefullLandlord
MindHacker
1Sharon.

Nigga you have been having some quality advice here. What do you need from us again? You can call kobojunkie to help out

Oga op swallow your ego
Accept her back
Forgive her, you can see that she has tasted other gbola abd found yours palatable
Give her second chance at least for sake of your financial breakthrough

Pukkalolo:
She didn't initially break up with you because you were not handsome enough for her; But rather because you desperately DESIRED her.

And she treated you like a piece of shit because she felt you don't DESERVE her.

There's a Big difference between desire and deserve.

I'm not an handsome guy also, but my women have rarely ever break up with me just to go date a guy finer than me. That's because I don't operate with the "desire" mentality. I operate with the "deserve" mentality.


Do you ever wonder why it is that some people get some things easily in life? Whilst others, even after a lot of effort still find it hard to get their desires .

This is because the universe operates on a deserve principle—not desire.

Everyone desires, but not everyone deserves.

You'd heard me in the past say something like, "Bank easily gives loan to those who don't need the money. Women easily give sexual relationships to men who don't need the sex."

For example--- when you go to a bank and request for a loan of 50 million, the bank will request for things like your financial statements of your previous transactions, your networth, your assets, collaterals or any other necessary things.

The bank request for things because they want confirm if you're worth the 50 million cash loan that you are trying to get. They want to first confirm if you truly "deserve" the money.

First of all, you need understand that the Bank won't just credit you 50 million cash loan just because you "desire" it. They only credit you if they are sure you "deserve" it.

The bank feel "safe" giving loan to the person who don't even need the loan to begin with. That's why fellas like Aliko or Elon will get loan at the snap of their fingers to build million dollars refinery or to purchase Twitter.

Feel free to Read IAmHim1 on "The Scam Of Monthly Salary And Long-term Ajo Contribution" to understand paradigm behind banks giving loan.

https://www.nairaland.com/8199081/scam-monthly-salary-long-term-ajo#131749032

Anyways, let's continue.

The woman feel safe dropping her panties for the dude who don't need the pussy. This is the guy who can "take or leave it". The woman think, If you don't need my sexual companionship, then I think you 'deserve' my sexual companionship.

There is psychological sense of "safety" at play here.

When you're interacting with a beautiful girl with a "desire" frame of mind, you will be busy in your head trying to think of the next best thing to say, so that she won't lose interest in the conversation. You puts way too much importance on her sexual companionship. You make the woman out to be something far greater than she is.

But when you are in a "deserve" state of mind, you're simply giving her the choice to "take it or leave it". If she's interested, great! If she's not, great.

The typical woman don't give shit about how much you love her or how much you desire her. That's because she's already used to hundreds and even thousands men desiring her.

Okay, Meaning, Back to you again...

She initially left you for a more handsome colleague because you didn't prove to her that you "deserve" her. That is, you didn't prove to her that you DON'T NEED her sexual companionship.

This is why she treated you like a piece of shit: because your place her companionship on pedestal.

Now, you say, "she no longer meet my spec. I have a better taste now."

That's Powerful. Because now you're operating from a "deserve" mindset. You have prove to her that you DON'T NEED her anymore. This is why she's now begging you consistently to accept her again.

In summary,

If you want to accept her back, IT'S YOUR CHOICE to make.

But I'll advice you not to accept her back just to avenge. You are more mature than that.

Since she no more meet your spec, tell her to move on.

And you go meet other girls who are now your taste.

You must be a prophet of some sort. I really really did pant after her like crazy. I built my whole life around her existence. I thought this love of a thing was real.

Please do you have a WhatsApp channel or a telegram group where we can speak.
You speak like a legend.

FRANCISTOWN:
I'm going to say some really uncomfortable truth and I don't care whether you like me or not.
First of all, how did you know she left you because she met with someone handsome?

Are you trying to say during the course of you guys' 5years dating, she never met a dude more handsome than you?

I understand that people will try to bend the truth so that they can absorb themselves of any guilt and responsibility.
In all your narration, you never said anything that you did wrong in the relationship.
What kind of a guy were you when she was with you.
^{See, I know that women are set of no good binturis, but I know women don't always go for looks when it comes to attraction, at least I agree with the redpill on that.}
Women have told me several times that they will never date me because of my looks.

The most important for a man is composure. A man must not lose his composure, the moment you are desperate for a lady. Any form of attraction she got for you automatically drops through. See, this is the absolute truth, no matter how much a girl is into you, the moment you become thirsty of her, she'll begin to see you as a loser.

^{You might be thinking she left because you were not handsome, but that's your insecurity speaking out loudly into your own ears.}

Insecurity itself is a repulsive character that chases women away from men. It's the opposite of confidence, women hate men who are not confident in themselves.

I've said it. I no send anybody papa on this platform. I speak the truth as it is.

Lemme ask you some stuffs. During the time you guys were dating.

1. Did you cheat on her?
2. Did she tell you she left because the guy was more handsome?
3. Did you show any form of insecurities?

You see how I cleverly avoided the spiritual part right? It's because, anyone with at least 1 IQ should not believe that horse dung.

Whether I cheat or not is inconsequential in this case. But I was thirsty of her like crazy. I was too desperate and needy which made me too domineering.

The reason I said cheating on her is inconsequential was that, though I cheated with four different girls, but SHE WAS NOT AWARE . So it wouldn't make a difference.

She didn't tell me she left because the guy was more handsome. But it's evident the guy was more handsome.

Nonexisting1:
The prophecy is for you to never leave her because she holds the key to your breakthrough right? It's very simple. Accept her back solely for that and also as your public toilet. Even though she is not your spec now, once in a while we lower our standards just to flush our dicks so instead of masturbating, use her as your sperm dump. Keep her somewhat close and when it's time for you to marry, introduce her to your wife and thank her for her service. Just keep her close enough for now until after the breakthrough. For more doses of wickedness to the evil gender, call upon me at any time brother.

She's no longer sexually appealing to me boss. There is this new girl I met, though we don't have anything going on yet. But she has a very interesting thing behind her, plus she's young too and she's been giving me lots of green light here and there.
I will need a kind of help to utilize and take advantage of this green light.
Looking at her face and her behind alone makes me happy and relieves my stress.
There is no way I'm abandoning a Bugatti for Peugeot 504.
That girl no hungry me knack again.

jaephoenix:
Nigga you have been having some quality advice here. What do you need from us again? You can call kobojunkie to help out

On the spiritual stuff sir.

Kobojunkieee kobojunkiee

galantjoe:
Oga op swallow your ego
Accept her back
Forgive her, you can see that she has tasted other gbola abd found yours palatable
Give her second chance at least for sake of your financial breakthrough

This gbola is golden now. My pride is like a can of malt. There is no way on earth I can swallow that.
Let her end in regrets knowing that she can't can't have a taste of this glorious gbola anymore.

Meaning:
On the spiritual stuff sir.

You despise this woman ---- that much is obvious from your post--- but your greed for money is your only reason for wanting to consider her. You see her as nothing better than a "money ritual dummy of sorts"--- you only consider her because using her might bring you money, according to these babalawos-abi-na-prophets of yours. So how come you never realize at all say na you be your own problem in all of this?

Meaning:
Twice shy my boss.

ahswear

Meaning:
Whether I cheat or not is inconsequential in this case. But I was thirsty of her like crazy. I was too desperate and needy which made me too domineering.

The reason I said cheating on her is inconsequential was that, though I cheated with four different girls, but SHE WAS NOT AWARE . So it wouldn't make a difference.

She didn't tell me she left because the guy was more handsome. But it's evident the guy was more handsome.

In my own reasoning, if she never cheated on you before she broke up, then she is even better than you. At least, she grew out of love , but you are unfaithful.

She's by far better and more disciplined than you.
What are we even saying sef. There is no discussion here.

Kobojunkieee:
You despise this woman ---- that much is obvious from your post--- but your greed for money is your only reason for wanting to consider her. You see her as nothing better than a "money ritual dummy of sorts"--- you only consider her because using her might bring you money, according to these babalawos-abi-na-prophets of yours. So how come you never realize at all say na you be your own problem in all of this?

My prophets.

How am i the problem?

FRANCISTOWN:
In my own reasoning, if she never cheated on you before she broke up, then she is even better than you. At least, she grew out of love , but you are unfaithful.

She's by far better and more disciplined than you.
What are we even saying sef. There is no discussion here.

But she didn't know.

Meaning:
■ My prophets. How am i the problem?

Deep down you know your scammers-in-the-lords aka prophets, abi na babalawos we go call them, are lying to you. You said it yourself that you don't believe them. So, why are you giving yourself stress about what they said when you have no reason to want the girl back? That is how you are your problem here.

Please set that girl free by telling her you don't in fact like her at all.

EreluRoz:
Don't take her back, any girl that can easily fall for a man just because of looks has high tendency of promiscuity. Also anyone who treats you bad in your down times does not deserve to be part of your good times.

Somehow I felt your pains that's why I told you the truth unlike my normal self here. 😆.

Heal and move on, your destiny can't be tied to someone that trash treated you.

Loyalty is what a man should watch out for in a woman while comfort, leadership and core family values should be what a woman look out for in a potential husband.

If you were my brother I'll personally chase her away from your life with or without your consent and Yes I go all length for my loved ones.

First time I would read a sensible comment from you.
Keep it up.

Meaning:
You must be a prophet of some sort. I really really did pant after her like crazy. I built my whole life around her existence. I thought this love of a thing was real.

Please do you have a WhatsApp channel or a telegram group where we can speak.
You speak like a legend.

My details are on my profile, you can shoot me a message

Pukkalolo:
My details are on my profile, you can shoot me a message

Thank you boss. I've sent you a PM. Please boss, I'll need a direct mentoring on this redpill thing. Frame and manipulative tactics.
One's gotta think like a thief to catch a thief.

Kobojunkieee:
Deep down you know your scammers-in-the-lords aka prophets, abi na babalawos we go call them, are lying to you. You said it yourself that you don't believe them. So, why are you giving yourself stress about what they said when you have no reason to want the girl back? That is how you are your problem here.

Please set that girl free by telling her you don't in fact like her at all.

Honestly! I do not like her. And there is no way in hell I'm ever gonna marry her or someone like her.
Kobo, did you know this girl we are talking about is even fair?
No disrespect to fair peeps.
I met another girl who is just dark. Dark girls are the representation of pure beauty, not this albinos them.

Apologies if you're fair.

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

Going forward, I want you too tattoo this in your brain so you never forget: "With women, length of time does NOT matter as much as quality of time"


You mentioned 5 years like you're surprised she left you after so long. Well let me break it to you, you can date a woman for 100 years and once you start acting like a bìctch, she'll leave you.


I'm not surprised your relationship fell off after years. 3 years is the most amount of time relationships tend to fall off.

Why? Life tests the man and he fails miserably in her presence. She tests him too and he fails miserably and consistently.

I'm pretty sure she mentioned that guy to you or hinted at him to test you but rather than acting secure & sure of yourself... you started doubting, begging and trying to please her.

And ultimately... she felt you were no longer man enough. Whenever a woman "treats you like rag" it simply means you are no longer the man she thought you were. You fùcked up in how you led the relationship

No woman leaves her relationship for another guy because "he's handsome" she might cheat because of that reason but she'll not walk out of that relationship because of "handsome" She won't even leave a relationship because of "sex"

Anyways... to answer your specific questions


1 There's no need to go beyond this point. If she doesn't understand loyalty... she's immediately disqualified as a potential partner.

Also as general rule, never take back a girl that went to fùck a guy and wants to come back.

What you can do (if you like) is to keep fùcking her


2) Exactly. Relationship is for people that love each other. If you hate, there's no point stressing over it. You will just end up bringing more problems for yourself. You can keep her as a fwb

3) Now that you have higher taste, go for those girls and date them

4) Your ego shouldn't be bruised because of that. Women want what other women want. You made her the center of your life and attention. Made her look like your only option so she lost attraction for you

5) You're wrong. You're the one she really likes. But you lost frame in your relationship and now she tried the colleague thinking it will be better. But unfortunately the guy can't take her seriously since he saw her cheat on you with him.

She likes you more but it doesn't matter anyways. Boundaries have been crossed and nothing you do now will fix it or get things back to where they were

If you accept her back... She'll lose respect for you. Because no quality man that has shìt together with tons of options will take her back after what she did. And she knows this.

6) The best revenge you can give is to get your life back on track. Make money and upgrade yourself. Trust me if it's pain you want to cause her... nothing will be more painful than that


Otherwise, any other form of revenge is pointless. You shouldn't be dating a woman just to revenge. Too much waste of resources that can be channeled into more productive activities

Hope this helps