₦airaland Forum

michlins:
the person earning the least money should take care of the child until he or she is old enough to start schooling. These days, there are avenues to earn significantly from home if you are serious about it

Earning significantly from home while also being the stay home partner is spoken like someone who’s never cared for an infant a day in their lives. Unless you’re not actually doing the work. Nobody will pay you significantly for sitting at home and pretending to work while in reality you are tending to a crying baby every 30 minutes, changing a diaper every 2 hours. Rocking the baby to sleep, feeding the baby every 3 hours then burping them for 10 minutes after that . Keeping them entertained or they’ll start screaming.

Infants are a full time job. Realistically working from home while nursing an infant is easier to say than do. Only people who don’t know what’s involved speak flippantly about it like this

JovialJune:
You are eternally daft

Why not blame the father too, can't he also take care of his child? They should resign from their job to take care of their kid while to provide for them financially, dummy.

Who is this MUGU?......
So you value money more than your child?.....
This is what the society have thought you and the reason the society keep decaying.....
I don bon am finish, anything he like make he be, no time to train or know what the child is up to because you are chasing money, when the children becomes problem to the society you begin to blame others
Village people....

Justice need not be delayed on this matter as it is glaring that the daycare failed in delivering its service
That daycare should be closed by now and I think the mother of the baby needs a psychological examination.
What is she looking for that made her took the little baby to a daycare.?
Parents should keep their babies till after 3 years before taking them to daycare.

Somebody needs to go to jail immediately whether it's a fellow kid or a human or animal or alien.

That daycare should be named.

Tallesty1:
If your career/job is more important to you than your kids, please don't have kids.

Mumu comment

Gerrard59:
There needs to be a regulatory body that guides the monitoring and approval of daycare centres. This centre ought to be shut. Other parents should withdraw their children from the place. The name of the daycare centre (which wasn't stated) should be publicised so unsuspecting parents know what it is meant for.

It is not every school that should have a daycare.

There is a regulatory body and that daycare is definitely in trouble. Lagos is a lot of things but you do not want to come to its attention in matters like this

cococandy:
Earning significantly from home while also being the stay home partner is spoken like someone who’s never cared for an infant a day in their lives. Unless you’re not actually doing the work. Nobody will pay you significantly for sitting at home and pretending to work while in reality you are tending to a crying baby every 30 minutes, changing a diaper every 2 hours. Rocking the baby to sleep, feeding the baby every 3 hours then burping them for 10 minutes after that . Keeping them entertained or they’ll start screaming.

Infants are a full time job. Realistically working from home while nursing an infant is easier to say than do. Only people who don’t know what’s involved speak flippantly about it like this

THEN DONT GIVE BIRTH . simple

Kbrule:
Mumu comment

its actually ttue. your child should come first then career 2nd. unless you want to tell me your parent abandoned you for their career then i will understand this your mumu comment reply

mmadu4:
the parents of this innocent child should be publicly beaten and then sent to jail for being stupid and dumb enough to send their probably 8 months old baby or less to day care in this our Nigeria wey everybody dey vex .

Nigeria is a funny place to live. We attack the victim leaving the daycare. Are daycare not supposed to be regulated business and registered to operate with policy guidelines? Did the parents not pay for the service. The government/regulatory agency ought to be swift in this investigations and provide quick justice. You have no control over anything in Nigeria. That us a jungleland! How do working parents care for their kids without daycare?

bashlek:
This country is not smiling oooo…..Father and mother need to work to cater for family. What if the baby is like 3rd born and her siblings are in school & father not earning huge ? How will the family cope ?. Am not sure u have experience of what am saying dear

If the father's salary is not enough, then tell me why they should have a third child?

People here have been attacking me, but I chose to ignore it because they’re Nigerians and tend to reason like Nigerians, so I understand.

Look at Nigeria today—anyone earning 150k is broke, and the average Nigerian man cannot marry a woman who earns more than he does. So, he’ll settle for someone earning minimum wage or slightly above it, meaning the family's total monthly income is less than 250k. And yet, some people think these families should consider having three kids?

Now, how many Nigerian families even make 250k monthly? I swear, they’re not the majority. Out of roughly 250 million people, only about 5% have 500k in their accounts, and yet we’re out here having kids like it’s a competition.

Go to the streets, and you’ll see kids hawking and working to support their parents. But if you suggest that parents who can’t take time off work to properly care for their children, due to poor earnings, should rethink having kids, they come for your head. Some will even complain about the gap in their CV.

You can’t afford to put your kids in a daycare where their safety is reasonably guaranteed, and you can’t take time off to care for them. So what’s the point? You end up with unfinished responsibilities, a job that feels like a prison sentence, neglected children, and your mental health in shambles—all because you want to have kids like everyone else.

No wonder we have so many jobless and unemployable people everywhere that can easily be recruited into gangs and criminal groups. A goat’s head costs 10-15k. A human head? 10k. But if I speak up, I’m the one in trouble.

mmadu4:
THEN DONT GIVE BIRTH . simple

Now, this is hilarious 😂 😃 😄 😁 🤣

You must be a clown 🤡

Carcholce:
I’m alive bro.

Na luck. The risk was more. Imagine struggling to enter a vehicle jam-packed with Pepper and other suffocating food stuffs. What about struggling to enter motor and someone hit your head or pushes her to fall.
This is the safest, things just went wrong, younger children stay there.

mmadu4:
THEN DONT GIVE BIRTH . simple

Tell your fellow men

cococandy:
Earning significantly from home while also being the stay home partner is spoken like someone who’s never cared for an infant a day in their lives. Unless you’re not actually doing the work. Nobody will pay you significantly for sitting at home and pretending to work while in reality you are tending to a crying baby every 30 minutes, changing a diaper every 2 hours. Rocking the baby to sleep, feeding the baby every 3 hours then burping them for 10 minutes after that . Keeping them entertained or they’ll start screaming.

Infants are a full time job. Realistically working from home while nursing an infant is easier to say than do. Only people who don’t know what’s involved speak flippantly about it like this

I have a child and until he can fully express himself, no school for him.

[quote author=honniemail post=131915964][/quote]Don't mind the fools, they just open their mouths to spill rubbish. When you have children, you stop working and begging your husband for money to buy pants and sanitary pad.

michlins:
I have a child and until he can fully express himself, no school for him.

That’s great. But not everyone can be in that position. That’s why instead of blaming other parents who don’t have a choice but to entrust their young kids to daycare so they can go earn a living, we should hold the daycare centers to higher standards

Is there no cctv monitor there ?

onome25:
God wetin baby want go learn for daycare hia....😡
Some family if them just get money na to de form oloye all the time
Daddy & mummy , na only u as a parent fit look after Ur child oooooo; no say i no tell U.

wait tell u marry and ur wife is working. You will remember this nonsense.

mmadu4:
its actually ttue. your child should come first then career 2nd. unless you want to tell me your parent abandoned you for their career then i will understand this your mumu comment reply

your child should come first and start eating stone Abi?.

cococandy:
That’s great. But not everyone can be in that position. That’s why instead of blaming other parents who don’t have a choice but to entrust their young kids to daycare so they can go earn a living, we should hold the daycare centers to higher standards

until the daycare standards rise, safeguard your own kids your own way.

I know people who have no business going out daily but will dump kids at daycare with the excuse of leaving the stress. In my opinion,if you earn 150k monthly, you have no reason to leave your child at daycare especially for a state in Lagos where transportation will eat at least 40% of your salary.

mmadu4:
the parents of this innocent child should be publicly beaten and then sent to jail for being stupid and dumb enough to send their probably 8 months old baby or less to day care in this our Nigeria wey everybody dey vex .

Until u born ur own picking.

U no go know why it is not easy any where.

michlins:
until the daycare standards rise, safeguard your own kids your own way.

I know people who have no business going out daily but will dump kids at daycare with the excuse of leaving the stress. In my opinion,if you earn 150k monthly, you have no reason to leave your child at daycare especially for a state in Lagos where transportation will eat at least 40% of your salary.

You have not provided any solutions. Just for them to stop working.

I’m assuming you’ll take on their bills as soon as they stop working?

Sad indeed, first day out of the house ideally should be a good experience for the infant. This should be thoroughly investigated and Justice for this young one is a must.

Both the parent and the school are mad

Pepperdemisback:
Na luck. The risk was more. Imagine struggling to enter a vehicle jam-packed with Pepper and other suffocating food stuffs. What about struggling to enter motor and someone hit your head or pushes her to fall.
This is the safest, things just went wrong, younger children stay there.

Not luck. Children have died in day care centers or gotten major health problems/injuries from there. Will you say they were unlucky?

In the old days, most especially in the villages, it was a norm for mothers to leave nursing babies at home and run to the market or farm to get produce. They don’t go there and relax, but in a haste manner and return home to their babies. No death was ever recorded in my experience.

GloriousGbola:
There is a regulatory body and that daycare is definitely in trouble. Lagos is a lot of things but you do not want to come to its attention in matters like this

Lagos dey try for some of these things. Other states ought to follow, but I think these "new" developments come after economic development and demographic cosmopolitaness. For instance, Ogun and Oyo aren't like Lagos.

michlins:
until the daycare standards rise, safeguard your own kids your own way. I know people who have no business going out daily but will dump kids at daycare with the excuse of leaving the stress. In my opinion,if you earn 150k monthly, you have no reason to leave your child at daycare especially for a state in Lagos where transportation will eat at least 40% of your salary.

Actually, as a result of this incident, the standard for opening a daycare in Lagos has increased. Bad things have to happen first before good things arrive. This incident will lead to improvements of standards. China today emits less because of the terrible smog its cities experienced in the 2000s.

As for the earnings aspect, you're technically right. Most parents especially working moms literally work to pay their children daycare whereas the money wouldn't have been spent if they stayed at home. Unfortunately, the labour market doesn't forgive a huge career gap. The solution is for policymakers to make it easy for working mothers interested to return to the labour market.

SlavaUkraini:
Father..... Who did this to my Son ?

Owner...... A fellow kid did this to him

Doctor...... An Animal did this to him

Me...... The fellow kid that attacked this little boy is a dangerous animal.... A Cannibal

That Daycare centre admits both Humans and Dangerous animals, therefore it should be avoided.

Please Note:

If your mother or mother-in-law is still alive and well, please don't waste your money on these useless daycare centres.

Bundle your pikin give your Mama daily and give her the money that you would rather pay to a daycare centre.

Your Mama go happy well well....

Your pikin body go strong well well because our Mama dem sabi take care of small children.

Your Mama nor go allow one "animal pikin" come bite your child for face like this.

Well said it's a good suggestion but let's ask the woman if she can live with her in-law?

bukatyne:
Now, this is hilarious 😂 😃 😄 😁 🤣

You must be a clown 🤡

Very very hilarious.

abbeyd2:
Well said it's a good suggestion but let's ask the woman if she can live with her in-law?

Any woman that cannot live with her mother in law under one roof is not fit to be a wife...

Especially if the mother-in-law is not the troublesome type.

Such a woman can poison the husband.

Better divorce her and marry another and if you cannot see another that can tolerate your mother, ..... remain single.

Blood will flow
Heads will roll

I go kill the owner Burn the School. I can't even imagine the Father's pain right now.. The Daycare is done though, the bad PR will end it...

SlavaUkraini:
Father..... Who did this to my Son ?

Owner...... A fellow kid did this to him

Doctor...... An Animal did this to him

Me...... The fellow kid that attacked this little boy is a dangerous animal.... A Cannibal

That Daycare centre admits both Humans and Dangerous animals, therefore it should be avoided.

Please Note:

If your mother or mother-in-law is still alive and well, please don't waste your money on these useless daycare centres.

Bundle your pikin give your Mama daily and give her the money that you would rather pay to a daycare centre.

Your Mama go happy well well....

Your pikin body go strong well well because our Mama dem sabi take care of small children.

Your Mama nor go allow one "animal pikin" come bite your child for face like this.

Them go fear say their mama or inlaw mama Na witches and wizards