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TheWinterBird:
If you've been in "lots of relationships" and no girl has ever gotten you anything - despite your "heavy spending" on them, then the problem is you. Maybe you should stop hopping from relationship to relationship and find a quality relationship to be in. Quality over quantity. You should at least get something on your birthday and Christmas.

are you for real...guys are complaining about you girls mentality and you're here talking about something else

MrNice04:
Jess I don't have time for that just that they assume I'm rich even when I don't own a car they feel I can afford it

Can you afford bicycle as we speak
Between God and man
Between me and you .
Remember to keep the Sabbath day holy

MrNice04:
wow...this is a classic submission... Thing is I have a list of things I need in a woman...but most girls I meet don't think all my boxes

The list of things you think you need from a woman are pure illusion.

The real things will be revealed to you when you do away with those needs.

MrNice04:
lol .....btw there are girls that buy things for their boyfriends...

Of course... But not from those billing girls....all they know is to ask right from the start .that's why I said it's not hard to spot them...

advanceDNA:
Baba.....if you are superficial..the chances superficial things will drive you to superficial girls is high.....

The last thing I will do is approach a random girl on the street, mall, or online because of fine face, yansh or brezz, by telling her she's fine

....man, of course she knows shes pretty, infact she already probably has an inflated sense of self...it will end in exploitation because there is likely no attraction, likeliness of any kind from her end.

Me I cant approach a lady without noticing something impressive about her, and it can never be yansh, brezz or face....

Altogether...me I have a principle...I give only when i like....I resist all billings even if she claims her shes dying im the hopsital
Its because u guys wants to form capable for girls that don't even like you that makes u fall for billings...and sadly they don't see u as capable, because u gave them stuffs...they just see u as mugú

you're right the only thing I got from them is sex of which we all know is superficial...I'm even tired of it

Carcholce:
The list of things you think you need from a woman are pure illusion.

The real things will be revealed to you when you do away with those needs.

my list I'm difficult woo...1 beauty 2 be educated 3 have something doing 4 no cheating 5 no nagging

MrNice04:
you're right the only thing I got from them is sex of which we all know is superficial...I'm even tired of it

It good that u now realize you want more from ur relationships..It will help u easily decipher al all these shédí bàlà bàlà girls before u even get close to unnecessary billings

They see you as Mr. Nice guy.

Do you know how I escape from meeting these kinds of women you are trying to run away from?

During talking stage I intentionally talk and finance and responsibilities in relationships and I see them bringing their stinginess, entitlement , and self centeredness in full public glare themi toss them to the trash. I loathe people who don't believe in do to others as you like others do unto you.

If you continue this way , they will sap you the little energy you have and dump your sorry ass.

Be warned

Cesarr1:
Can you afford bicycle as we speak
Between God and man
Between me and you .
Remember to keep the Sabbath day holy

lol...stop whining me woo...that I don't own a car doesn't mean i can't afford it

idahme:
They see you as Mr. Nice guy.

Do you know how I escape from meeting these kinds of women you are trying to run away from?

During talking stage I intentionally talk and finance and responsibilities in relationships and I see them bringing their stinginess, entitlement , and self centeredness in full public glare themi toss them to the trash. I loathe people who don't believe in do to others as you like others do unto you.

If you continue this way , they will sap you dog the little energy you have and dump your sorry ass.

Be warned

you're right bro...they say they don't have that's my anger...

MrNice04:
lol...stop whining me woo...that I don't own a car doesn't mean i can't afford it

Oya send me 2k make I take guide this Sabbath day my oga 🙌

MrNice04:
you're right bro...they say they don't have that's my anger...

It's a big lie they do. Women even have more resources than most average dudes on the street.

idahme:
It's a big lie they do. Women even have more resources than most average dudes on the street.

I want to eliminate those stingy girls how do I do that please

advanceDNA:
It good that u now realize you want more from ur relationships..It will help u easily decipher al all these shédí bàlà bàlà girls before u even get close to unnecessary billings

exactly....though some of them are very good in bed 😂😂😂

MrNice04:
exactly....though some of them are very good in bed 😂😂😂

Yeah...thats all they good for....

..Atleast now....u wont confuse want you want with what you need....

Are you me? Think say na only me nih. Despite being a naive simp na stinginess be my problem you spend on me without expecting something and you press my mumu button officially. Empathy and generosity is one of my qualities in a babe

Ballzproblem2:
Be selfish with your resources foolish man, anybody that doesn't sacrifices for me I no go sacrifice for am ,na my policy.

You do for me I do for you

Bro focus on your life first .

MrNice04:
my brother if I send my pics you'll understand...the say I look fresh like a rich kid

I'll tell you for free
Your love language is words of affirmation. You are moved by words .you feel through words

MrNice04:
I want to eliminate those stingy girls how do I do that please

Watch their actions when it comes to sharing and not what they say with their mouth. Givers are usually empathetic once a girl isn't empathetic know she will be the last person willing to share.

As I told you on my last comment I intentionally bring up topic of shared interest between the two during the initial days of communication. Questions like what do you expect your boyfriend to do for you? Listen closely and watch how non-empathetic once list different things that only money can give , usually selfish desires. But this want be a problem if those desires they want from you they can also provide for you also, so as a means to checking that selfish desires you reverse the scenario and ask them if it's also fine for you to be beneficiary of those goodies they desire from you? Then watch how you differentiate between empathetic and selfish ones from their answers. This is the first test , the next is to watch those words come to fruition through actions.

N/B This should be for ladies you intend to have permanent and long time relationship with and not for fling, using this will make you have low success rate witg women but surely anyone you do have you will be pleased with her.

MrNice04:
Good day romancelanders ,happy Sunday to you guys,I have an issue I want table before you my friends and I trust your judgement on this issue, alright I'm 28 years old and I've been into lots of relationships but one thing I've observed is that no girl has ever bought any gift for me despite my heavy spending and when I confront them,they'll say they don't have money,a lot of them see me as rich even though I'm just managing,just that I'm not the stingy type...how do I go about this please

Tor!
Write it on your forehead ‘ I need gifts from my girlfriend’

Cesarr1:
Sorry what's apa

Spending anyhow

This is front page worthy. A lot of guys are performing fatherly roles to ungrateful ladies.

The golden rule- Never go extra mile (borrowing) or inconveniencing yourself for any woman you are romantically attracted to.
Except if it's your wife

nlfpmod

Never place anybody needs above yours as a man 👂🏽,you’re by default setting an independent entity,make good use of your resources while you’re still in your prime and develop yourself.

Nigerian girls lack contentment and they treat relationship as a job,which is why you should approach it as well like an employer…

If an employee is not bringing interest or benefit to an organisation(Which You as the man ),then that employee deserves to be sacked and replaced with a reputable one..

Carcholce:
You don’t have to do hit and run else you’ll continue running and never get the real experience to filter out the good ones from the bad ones. The mistake I made in the past.

If you are spiritually inclined, you can spot a girl that is manageable and ready to learn. Even if her head is full of shlt at the time you meet her, provided you notice she’s willing to learn, no need to hit and run. Teach her the things you know about life, give her corrections at the appropriate time.

Watch what happens after. A lot of women are ready to learn from us but we are not ready to teach them. Some of us do not even have anything tangible to teach them. The honest truth.

You are right on this. At the same time, most men don't wanna be patient with women anymore cos of their past experience with them.
Most men dont wanna be a prey.
Most men don't wanna compromise.
Most men dont wanna be vulnerable.


Cos all these cost them a big wound in the past. I doubt if corrections/solutions can be made to re normalise things in this generation. Else it gonna keep getting worse and tougher.

JOACHINpedro:
This is front page worthy. A lot of guys are performing fatherly roles to ungrateful ladies.

The golden rule- Never go extra mile (borrowing) or inconveniencing yourself for any woman you are romantically attracted to.
Except if it's your wife

nlfpmod

go and read his recent post 😁😂