₦airaland Forum

Myrrhis:
Majority of Nigerians are compassionate people, regardless of what we read on this forum.
They're always willing to help the helpless, and they hardly ignore the cry of a woman/mother.

True but u can't say the same for a man in need even if he's close to death. They rather scorn, mock and ridicule him for his situation than help. And yet the women will still say men get away with a lot

saphiere:
I have never seen irresponsible beings like this gender before. My business with them was over years ago.

BTW: Any lady that loves and supports VDM is very useless and lack self-esteem.

Do you have brothers, Do you have a father did you arrive at this conclusion because of the way they behave or treat your mum? Whatever the case, I am so sorry about your experience. Hopefully you find healing some day

chukwuibuipob:
Some peepz deliberately spread their legs wide apart to collect yogurt and trap unprepared/jobless man.Some gave birth to sorrow.No wonder,you see touts disturbing our peace

Why in the first place will you carry a child for someone you're not married to?

The Bible may seem old fashioned to many but applying it's advice would have prevented this tragedy.

She heard japa and just open leg waaaa even after home boy don tell you say he is not ready to be a father. Anyways let her calm down, there’s no way a well thinking man will abandon his kids, kon be twins sef. He will definitely come back he just needed to focus on his grind, that’s all.

Prettychild:
The man is just wicked. You know you don’t want to be a father, why not zip up? But No you will be having unprotected sex and expect the lady to risk her life via abortion

Child birth is a risk, Abortion is a risk too. The guy is as stupid as the lady. The man should know having unprotected sex can result in preganancy and not have it. The woman too should know that a man having unprotected sex with you is not commitment or indication that he wants to have. She shoul have realized that she had so much more to lose, especially considering the guy already told you he was travelling. That is even the kind of man u should extract proper commitment from before opening ur legs.

Abee79:
Post his picture let's help you drag him.

Advice other young girls to stop spreading their legs for someone they are not married to, at the least they should protect themselves. Drag him and other young girls will think they can do same and drag the guy if he misbehaves.

If man does not want the pregnancy, why force it on him for goodness sake? A grown woman like this lady will nack raw, collect Ice-Cream and will expect it to just go away without being on contraceptive pills or day after pills? What did she think will happen?
Abeg she should face he wahala herself. Kangaroo wants t use belle to trap man.

mechanics:
Because they are dating does not mean he will marry her, she was in haste to get married to him, she shouldn't have opened her legs for him.

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SlavaUkraini:
Trust me, that guy will come looking for those kids tomorrow.

it's a two way thing sha.if he comes back looking his children definitely he will first opt for paternity test.
I honestly hope the man is the father Sha because I see no reason why a guyman is running away from his twin even if the lady's plan was to trap him with the pregnancy.

BannedUser:
Why is Punch twisting this story? This is what she said on Twitter:



She tried to tie him to herself with the pregnancy but she failed. How did she suddenly become pregnant when she became aware that he was traveling abroad?

The useless Olosho wanted to destroy someone’s destiny., but Yoruba demon pass the Olosho

Hmm! This one go jam Yoruba demon.

I thought it was only Nigerian girls that dump their Nigerian boyfriend once they get visa and Japa. Hmmm . Women, stop opening your legs or bending over for any man who never marry you the right way. OYO will be your case. Sorry your story. Sad story. The guy could have felt he was only chopping but without condom!!! Haaaa evil man. Japa no mean say problem in life finish. Fear God men. Women fear God too. Sex don't mean he loves you nor will marry you. Even getting pregnant for him is no guarantee. Leave him to God. If you no open leg and he force you, he is cursed for life.

dkidd:
True but u can't say the same for a man in need even if he's close to death. They rather scorn, mock and ridicule him for his situation than help. And yet the women will still say men get away with a lot

What about that fishpie guy?

I think some men just love to complain and play the victim.

JovialJune:
How can a lady hook him with pregnancy when they both had unprotected sex?

This is the 21st century, adult men should be thinking maturely and logically not this type of daft statement.

Women bear the highest risks that accrue from premarital sex. That's just facts. Matured thinking or not, protected sex or unprotected sex...women bear the highest risks...biologically, emotionally, financially, exposure to disease etc. Yes, women have higher risk of contracting STD from sexual activity.

The man may be immature, irresponsible, wicked or whatever, but she's carrying the burden of that immaturity now. At least in the USA government can force him to pay child support. In Nigeria, no such thing, so anyone taking that risk should be prepared to shoulder the burden.

Good Luck to Nigeria.

Don't worry, when it's time for wedding, house warming, graduation, receiving awards etc Nigerians would force you to force them to accept him back with open arms and do for him everything a deserving father deserves.
That time if you just ignore him, he will run to the press and say you gave his children away in marriage without consulting him or respecting his authority. Nigerians would then force you to even beg him and apologize that he chose to abandon you guys.

obaidan:
Advice other young girls to stop spreading their legs for someone they are not married to, at the least they should protect themselves. Drag him and other young girls will think they can do same and drag the guy if he misbehaves.

Tell other young men like you not to be putting their pipe in every hole they see until they are married.

TinubuCriminal:
Every woman's dream is to be used and dumped

are you serious about this

JovialJune:
How can a lady hook him with pregnancy when they both had unprotected sex?

This is the 21st century, adult men should be thinking maturely and logically not this type of daft statement.

So you have never heard of woman telling man,"it's ok, it's my safe window", while knowing fully well she's is ovulating just to trap the man.

Myrrhis:
What about that fishpie guy?

I think some men just love to complain and play the victim.

Yeah one off of 1k as against 999. Indeed...

Atuero:
Na wa ooooo
5M gotten already?


Na to fabricate my own sorrowful story go drop for X to cash out be the new format

Share Update o

xtianchris:
Share Update o

I no dey stingy

Atuero:
I no dey stingy

Hahaha Bless up bro .

It will be better to hear from the man before judging him. The pregnancy issue may have k-leg for the man and his people to have denied the woman in this manner. His family may even see her as a gold digger for trying to tie the man down with pregnancy even after he had declared to her that he wasn’t ready to settle down yet.

Shoir😕
You for tied him down with pregnancy 😆

Godwin4444:
A fool looking for sympathy, someone already tell him your plans n he made it clear he doesn't need a baby but ur long throat made u feel u can tie him down

I don't pity people like this

All I read is a suffering guy who was very open and truthful to his girlfriend, and at the very moment when his struggles was rewarded with victory, the girlfriend decided it was time to place more burdens on the pathway.

Who does that?

No be Chevron or NLNG guy wey dey relocate. Na common frustrated lecturer.

And it was at that very time you conveniently got pregnant for a struggling guy who has just found his most desired breakthrough?

This girlfriend is a destiny destroyer, and the guy realised this. But the guy was also foolish to loose guard to the point that a woman can get pregnant for you when you are a broke ass.

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Edo-Poly-Lecturer- boyfriend

Èléyî gídí gán 🤣

dre11:
https://punchng.com/how-my-edo-poly-lecturer-left-me-with-twin-pregnancy-to-japa/?amp

ondo men are useless they like running away from responsibility and ondo women are also prostitute they can born five pikin to 5 different fathers.
Stay far away from ondo if you love yourself.

BannedUser:
Why is Punch twisting this story? This is what she said on Twitter:



She tried to tie him to herself with the pregnancy but she failed. How did she suddenly become pregnant when she became aware that he was traveling abroad?

foolish talk. Did she get herself pregnant? If he doesn’t want to be with her, does that means he should not take care of his kids?

dkidd:
First of all the Op must u emphasize on the state or ethnicity of the guy? Meanwhile for the lady looking for sympathizers, a guy told u his dreams and plans to make a better man out of himself and all u could come up with is the old trick of trapping a nigga down with babies Really Even though the idiot refused to use protection were u thinking he was hustling visa for both of u? Oh u definitely had plans of tagging along but then guess the guy was too focused on the mission ahead. It's only sad because u have involved innocent lives into this mix and please when u talk about about their daddy to them in future which u most likely will, also explain to them how their daddy had big dreams and plans and actually worked towards achieving them and how u single handedly tried to ruin it for him but he had to leave to pursue his dreams. Pray for him to be better and he will surely come back for u except no be him get those kids. For him to tell u at all of his traveling plans shows he rates u and had nothing to hide but I guess ur the one with a sinister motive and if him want release akamu u go dey use legs dey trap am inside like crab when hold food... see the result now?

Wow... I been no read am finish sha but the guy for no treat her like that though even if he's not sure of the paternity just do what u can. At least she didn't stop ur movement. That's sad. Lol some even see who stand by them but them dey mumu find how to run away with baby. Madam pray for mercy God will see u through if not for anything but for the sake of those two blessings. And she sounds like a good girl who made some wrong choices. Well what do I know she might be the tiger forming good because she needs help but even at that the guy no for deny her and the kids.

I wonder how a family, a full grown will abandon his own blood? His own kids? God forbid! Even if you are in doubt, do a DNA test and confirm the paternity of the kids not running away. For the fact you slept with a woman has connected you to her.

obaidan:
Advice other young girls to stop spreading their legs for someone they are not married to, at the least they should protect themselves. Drag him and other young girls will think they can do same and drag the guy if he misbehaves.

Biko, allow us to drag this one fess! 🤣

verifiablefacts:
So you have never heard of woman telling man,"it's ok, it's my safe window", while knowing fully well she's is ovulating just to trap the man.

A lady will tell a man something like and he would believe? You guys can't think for yourselves? If he protects himself regardless of what she says would he die?

Prettychild:
The man is just wicked. You know you don’t want to be a father, why not zip up? But No you will be having unprotected sex and expect the lady to risk her life via abortion

As usual u won't blame the lady at all.