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EreluRoz:
Nice piece. It's sad you are just writing this for writing sake but don't believe in it because of your strong belief in redpill. Redpill is anti love infact it frowns fiercely at it.

JESHAL007:
@caveadullam, one thing I noticed about life is that most people are fools and dumb, sadly I'm in that category but I'm making conscious effort to improve myself by conditioning my mental frame to accept truth, knowledge, wisdom that has to do with reality, but opening my inner understanding is lonely and sometimes depressive, there was a time i only believed truth came from powerful and successful people, anything they say is golden like my pastor oyedepo, i judge truth based on the character, likeability and status of the individual rather than the substance of the message, same way people judge based on halo effect or people feel rich by having luxury goods( luxury effect), babacave on twitter, your Nairaland posts, corporate machiavelli, illimitable men, have become my daily devotional, I love all your works because it doesn't indoctrinate me into a dogma but forces me to use my brain and think, it makes me also realistic in my assessment which makes me act in ways that would guarantee the best outcome for me, you are filled with wisdom, then I believed Oyedepo spiritual wisdom yielded his supernatural success but didn't realise that he profited by creating a cult like following marketing delusional optimism and false hope rooted in Bible teachings to the masses and elites simultaneously,he also spiritualised the basics of personal development, babacave you are wiser than Oyedepo by far, by 1 billion percent, I wish I can see you physically and give you a hug, you are my online family for life, you even have higher transcendental values like honour, courage,etc. Corporate Machiavelli is the psychopathic version of you, you are a blessing me, a highly under rated asset in our generation, just imagine 30% of Africans think like you, we would be in the mess we are currently facing, i now understand people around me better, I now understand my nature better, I now understand women better, I now understand the world better, seriously speaking truth is not for the weak, it's hard, it's painful to reconstruct your inner psychology from the scratch, that what Nairaland and your tweet has done to me


Thank you sir
My mentor

JESHAL007:
Yes sir, I would love your advice for young men on how to navigate the world especially with redpill awareness because you are an outlier in society so you would function optimally and not be ostracized, gynocentricism is gaining ground via globalisation, religion is hegemonic in Africa, how can young men survive this tough times and terrain. Also I would love general advice for a young man to not just to attain success but to live a more fulfilling life regardless of the conditions he find himself

CaveAdullam:
We talk too much about heartbreaks. Yet, never have we had a heart of love.

You that can't love. So, how can you say "someone broke your heart?"

You have never truly loved someone. Perhaps you have never really experienced genuine love from someone.

What of those whose hearts were truly broken despite the length and magnitude of their love?

Well, it's unfortunate that their pearls found their way with pigs. Or, they'd expect pigs to appreciate their pearls; however, became disappointed because the true nature of pigs is to dwell among things that are shallow, watery, and muddy.

Your genuine heart has drawn you to a place where you can hardly love. Or, perhaps, your naivety has made you retract into a shell. You don't want to hear anything about love again or even come close to it.

You are now afraid to love because your heart is broken.

Or, the kind of love you expect isn't what you can dispense but want another person to dispense to you. The problem is you want to be loved in a way you can't love. You demand so much love from someone, yet your supply is low and almost non-existent.

Our experiences have created different ways we see love. Love is love. But the drawing tools of our experiences have drawn many shapes of love for us to the extent that we don't even have a correct knowledge of what true love is.

Our perception of love is identical to our experiences of love, which, of course, is an incorrect definition of love because love has its specific meaning and can't be redefined based on our experiences.

We now live with restrictions. Meanwhile, love has no restraint. Love ought to be eternal, like the love of God. But the flaws of humans can't make it so - individual ambitions creep in and vitiate it to satisfy us and gratify our feelings rather than for a lovely coexistence between pairs or groups.

Love is the most used, misused, and abused word. The sound of it thrills us, but the work necessary for it to create lovely music and leave traces of a nostalgic comeback isn't present.

We love the talk of love but can't do the work of love. Because anything relating to work is tedious and requires the best part of us - time, attention, sweat, blood, and resources.

To many of us, our love is periodic - we are only loving when the settings are comfortable. When situations skew to the dangerous angle, like the fickleness of a breeze we quickly disappear with no traces any longer.

True love borders on many terrains that the average human can't marathon across. We always think we understand love because we have finished the first lap. This is where many of us construct our perception of love, being ignorant that the race doesn't come to an end.

To love is work.
To love is to be loyal.
To love is to be permanent.
To love is to be present and strong.

Love takes great effort and consistency.

Love is kind.
Love is endurance.
Love is companionship.

Love is "no matter the condition or situation, I will always be by your side...for better or worse; in riches or poverty; in health or sickness; in peace or chaos; in foolishness or greatness; in beauty or ashes...till death do us apart. And even in death, within the belly of the ground, we will continue from where we stop".

You can call this "crazy love". But it is a love borne out of passion and purity of the heart. A heart that wants to love genuinely without rules.

Love is beautiful.

But to many of us, "I love you" is mere words.

It is the action that follows that shows how much we understand love.