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If he didn't pick your call the first time, assume he is busy, the second time, assume he is away from phone -probably in the toilet or on an emergency.

If he didn't pick the third time -assume he is sleeping. If he didn't call back latest the following day and you know he is alive, hale and healthy.

END THE RELATIONSHIP and never look back.

No one gets too busy to pick the calls of someone they love and respect. Thank you!

© Seun Oladele

I no dey o!

seunoladele:
If he didn't pick your call the first time, assume he is busy, the second time, assume he is away from phone -probably in the toilet or on an emergency. If he didn't pick the third time -assume he is sleeping. If he didn't call back latest the following day and you know he is alive, hale and healthy. END THE RELATIONSHIP and never look back. No one gets too busy to pick the calls of someone they love and respect. Thank you!

© Seun Oladele,
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Girls do this a lot. Why are you attacking guys?

Then what advice do you have for guys that girls to that to ?

Cos 99.100% women do that a lot.

Mine is that if I call you once and you no Pick I'm deleting and blocking your line straight up, I don't care how busy you are that will make you not to pick my call, even if you are about to cross the road simply stop at the middle of the road and pick my call, that's how important that i am to any girl that i consider to have one or two with.

The same apply to Ladies and Women.

Three times is even too much........once I call you twice, and you didn't pick up the call nor call back, I no dey call you again until you call me. Shikenna

Call once and if he didn't pick, ignore his existence and sleep off on him when he eventually calls or chat

I think this behaviour is more prevalent among female gender than guys, most especially on Facebook or WhatsApp.

Nevertheless, immediately you notice your partner is putting up such behaviour, just know, it's time to move on, unless you like to be dating yourself going forward.


This has been the most effective way to end relationship amicably in recent times.

Twice is the normal one for me, third time should be emergency.

No response sometimes is also an answer, so no need of calling again. Whenever the person come back from Pluto, I'll wait

seunoladele:
© Seun Oladele

na una sabi

With your constant billing, why would he pick your call... ?

You nor get Papa ?

Call your father, he go answer you.

If you see another girl dey Bill your Brother anyhow, you go like am ?

All these Parasites with their useless entitlement mentality.

See....

If you call me 4 times, I nor answer you, end the relationship...

There are many fishes in the River

Trash

Which kain small pikin matter be this?

How do this make the frontpage

seunoladele:
© Seun Oladele

you have mental health problems to have come up with this sickening assumption

Characteristics of a Nigeria girls.

Reading

Who be this mugu up there? ^^^^

I don't double call or double text .

I always get so busy that I seldom pick my calls, that doesn't mean I don't value and respect my woman. It's just for my woman to understand my busy and tight schedule. However, I called when less busy.

It’s okay to take breaks. It’s okay to do something simply because you have to. Don’t allow for the rush of the day to burn you out. Please take time for yourself. -

Call way day always come with biling

Yes

Una still de do relationship for this jagaban era?

helinues:


Twice is the normal one for me, third time should be emergency.

No response sometimes is also an answer, so no need of calling again. Whenever the person come back from Pluto, I'll wait

Meanwhile, if such fellow is in distress, or perhaps her phone got stolen or loss.

End the relationship and never look back,don’t even bother to know what is happening or the reason he is not picking,after them don take you collect 3points…if someone is owing you and you called for a day without response,just forget about the money and move on.

Ummm nope. Ladies, don't be too fast if you really love your man. Sometimes, people's reluctance to answer phone calls isn't about you, but rather deeply rooted psychological issues. They might love and care about you, but struggle with phone conversations due to anxiety, past traumas, or sensory sensitivities.

Rather than assuming they're ignoring or avoiding you, consider having an open and empathetic conversation with your partner to understand their perspective. Ask gentle, non-judgmental questions to uncover the underlying reasons behind their phone inavoidance.

Some potential questions to explore:

- What makes you feel uncomfortable about phone calls?
- Is it related to a past experience or anxiety?
- Do you feel overwhelmed by the sudden, immediate nature of calls?
- Would you prefer alternative communication methods, like texting or video calls?

By actively listening and seeking to understand their emotional needs, you can:

- Strengthen your connection
- Find alternative communication channels that work for both
- Build trust and empathy

Remember, effective communication is key to resolving misunderstandings and nurturing a healthy relationship.

But your gender can't do without men for feeding and all ... that's why they hang on

I see people in toxic r/ships and are still in it. Most of them ladies can't provide for themselves,so they tolerate every nonsense.

As a guy, I call twice... I expect the girl in question to reply my call. If it doesn't happen, then goodbye.

If he’s not picking your call, stop calling him

The earlier the eve's gender know and realize that men are always busy,the better for Dem ......Cuz how can you just end your relationship with me simply because I was too busy to pick your calls,just for a week?