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Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

essentialone:
Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

Problem is not really in giving birth to female, the problem is much more in you. If you are not even responsible, even if you give birth to male child, he may end u becoming ipob that will work for ekpa futureless Biafra in empty stomach only to wait for wages when Biafra is realized in endless loop. You can not be a goat and expected to give birth to a dove.

What is the advantages of giving birth to four males at espense of females when two join ipob and two join bokoharam. It is a clear sign of failed parenting. At the end of the day when Nigeria army descend on them, it will end up as waste of time and regret. Pray for God to give you any gender that will not bring shame to you and you should also be a responsible parent and not a useless parent

If I give birth to a female I'll just dedicate her to God, let God use her as he wish. 7 days after birth I'll hand her over to God, God will be her new father, I'll just be a care taker

essentialone:
Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

No worry make your son kill just one girl make dem catch am.

How?

How you raised your kids would determine how they behave in future

The way they display pants and private parts all over facebook reels makes me already Pen a letter to God never to give me a girlchild by the time I'm ripe for production

GOFRONT:
The way they display pants and private parts all over facebook reels makes me already Pen a letter to God never to give me a girlchild by the time I'm ripe for production

Exactly my point. A wayward male child can still turn around to be a successful man in the society.

But if you ever have a female wayward child, you may die of shame, regret, depression, and hypertension.

Females are totally shameless. Go on social media and see. Check even among the celebrities. Female child is a punishment.

essentialone:
Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

Not just giving birth to female children, but having children generally is punishment. Except it's self inflicted punishment because people choose, for reasons I don't understand, to have children. Nobody is forced into having children, it's a personal choice.
As for me, I've decided to be child free or voluntarily childless. Children are nothing but a waste of my time, money (most importantly), space, and energy. I just want to keep all my money I make for saving and spending on myself only, I don't want to have to spend a dime on anyone else, especially not nonsense childeren.

Don't blame girl child you gave birth to them into this wicked world. They didn't tell you to give birth to them so yimu

essentialone:
Exactly my point. A wayward male child can still turn around to be a successful man in the society.

But if you ever have a female wayward child, you may die of shame, regret, depression, and hypertension.

Females are totally shameless. Go on social media and see. Check even among the celebrities. Female child is a punishment.

Truth is those shameless females u see are as a result of poor parenting. Their parents failed. So having a female child is never a punishment. If at all it's even sweeter. For me I will teach her everything I know and I mean everything and expose her to truths about life as she grows. And when she is of age the difference will be 7up. If u as a guy hear her talk sef u go arrange urself if ur brain power no reach capacity. Only her aura and self confidence alone will choke u before any other thing. Omor abeg girl child sweet especially if she has a great father

aisha1314:
Not just giving birth to female children, but having children generally is punishment. Except it's self inflicted punishment because people choose, for reasons I don't understand, to have children. Nobody is forced into having children, it's a personal choice.
As for me, I've decided to be child free or voluntarily childless. Children are nothing but a waste of my time, money (most importantly), space, and energy. I just want to keep all my money I make for saving and spending on myself only, I don't want to have to spend a dime on anyone else, especially not nonsense childeren.

I actually thought u were playing but all ur topics are centered around it... God abeg o

essentialone:
Exactly my point. A wayward male child can still turn around to be a successful man in the society.

But if you ever have a female wayward child, you may die of shame, regret, depression, and hypertension.

Females are totally shameless. Go on social media and see. Check even among the celebrities. Female child is a punishment.

What are you even saying? So we should overlook the remarkable girls and women who are making Nigeria proud. Haven't you heard of several brilliant and remarkable female individuals in Nigeria like Amina Yusuf, Faith Odunsi, Victory-Yinka Banjo and so on.

What are you even looking for? Why is it only females who are displaying their pants and private parts all over social media that you are noticing?

You are just running from responsibilities. It would be better if you decided to abstain completely from having children because even male children need proper training and deserve good fathers.

essentialone:
Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

you are right

My next house neigbour has put to bed about 3 hours ago....A baby girl. I only pray she doesnt grow up to create a facebook reel about kpekus kpekus kpekus like her elder genders in the Industry

Hopefully some day they use the same energy to address the crimes and insecurity in the nation that isn't carried out by the girl-child. Because obviously the highest the girl child does is "sexual waywardness". Which is somehow worse than what lands the logical set in prisons world over. Briliant logic!

Merry100:
What are you even saying? So we should overlook the remarkable girls and women who are making Nigeria proud. Haven't you heard of several brilliant and remarkable female individuals in Nigeria like Amina Yusuf, Faith Odunsi, Victory-Yinka Banjo and so on.

What are you even looking for? Why is it only females who are displaying their pants and private parts all over social media that you are noticing?

You are just running from responsibilities. It would be better if you decided to abstain completely from having children because even male children need proper training and deserve good fathers.

For each remarkable female you mention, I can mention 20 brilliant and remarkable male all doing great and better stuffs.

essentialone:
For each remarkable female you mention, I can mention 20 brilliant and remarkable male all doing great and better stuffs.

Baba every child is a blessing. How they turn out in future is as a result of parental guidance,love and care. There's also several girls with beautiful minds too who don't conform to all these negatives which are all over the place. It's up to us as parents to do our jobs and do it right

Good to have a healthy balance of both, especially if you're male.
Your old age go tell on you no worry.

pocohantas:
Hopefully some day they use the same energy to address the crimes and insecurity in the nation that isn't carried out by the girl-child. Because obviously the highest the girl child does is "sexual waywardness". Which is somehow worse than what lands the logical set in prisons world over. Briliant logic!

I saw a harrowing video of a group of men cutting another man while he was still alive. Seemed drugged up but awake and alive. They were doing it to harvest his organs and sell. It’s such a disturbing thing I saw that try as much as I can, I can’t get it out of my head and my mind.

To Nairaland men, showing your nudity is worse than things like that. Their obsession with female private parts is something out of this world. I’ve never seen anything like it before. That’s why I’ll never judge a woman who’s doing anything that falls under their category of immoral behavior. I hope they continue to see and continue to stay mad about it

How will I get breasts to suck if people stop giving birth to females?

pocohantas:
Hopefully some day they use the same energy to address the crimes and insecurity in the nation that isn't carried out by the girl-child. Because obviously the highest the girl child does is "sexual waywardness". Which is somehow worse than what lands the logical set in prisons world over. Briliant logic!

To suck your breasts just dey hungry me

cococandy:
I saw a harrowing video of a group of men cutting another man while he was still alive. Seemed drugged up but awake and alive. They were doing it to harvest his organs and sell. It’s such a disturbing thing I saw that try as much as I can, I can’t get it out of my head and my mind.

To Nairaland men, showing your nudity is worse than things like that. Their obsession with female private parts is something out of this world. I’ve never seen anything like it before. That’s why I’ll never judge a woman who’s doing anything that falls under their category of immoral behavior. I hope they continue to see and continue to stay mad about it

Cutting up a fellow human being while he's still alive? That's wickedness of the highest order.

Meanwhile you can contact me to schedule a breast sucking session to help you get over the trauma

TheBreastSucker:
wickedness of the highest order.

Well, That’s something guys know how to do. But God forbid a woman shows her nudity.

Oh The horror

essentialone:
For each remarkable female you mention, I can mention 20 brilliant and remarkable male all doing great and better stuffs.

Even common sense will tell you that your theory is wrong. If it were correct, then in every school in Nigeria - primary, secondary, and tertiary institutions - there would be a ratio of 3 brilliant female students to 60 brilliant male students. Why don't male students alone top all classes? Why do female students top classes as well?

dkidd:
Baba every child is a blessing. How they turn out in future is as a result of parental guidance,love and care. There's also several girls with beautiful minds too who don't conform to all these negatives which are all over the place. It's up to us as parents to do our jobs and do it right

You missed the point.

A male child turning out right depends largely on parental training.

A female child turning out right is entirely dependent on Luck.

I have seen several hundreds of decent families and decent parents whose sons all turned out right, while the daughters are a source of shame to everyone.

Have you never seen such?

cococandy:
I saw a harrowing video of a group of men cutting another man while he was still alive. Seemed drugged up but awake and alive. They were doing it to harvest his organs and sell. It’s such a disturbing thing I saw that try as much as I can, I can’t get it out of my head and my mind.

To Nairaland men, showing your nudity is worse than things like that. Their obsession with female private parts is something out of this world. I’ve never seen anything like it before. That’s why I’ll never judge a woman who’s doing anything that falls under their category of immoral behavior. I hope they continue to see and continue to stay mad about it

You are yet to get the point. I am not saying who is better between Male child and female child.

I am referring to the shame and trauma brought to their parents.

The guys in question you just mentioned are criminals who may never get caught. And so it brings no shame and disgrace to their parents, not taking anything away from the wickedness of their actions.

But you see female children. 90% are source of endless public shame to their fathers. Most times their mothers care less. Often because they too passed through same system. Until you are a Father, you may not fully understand.

If you are a lady here and your father is still alive, ask him to be honest about this issue and tell you his fears and worries. You go shock.

Shameless gender who do nothing but bring unseen tears to their parents.

I totally get the point. You think daughters being wayward is more shameful than sons being wayward or criminals.

If as a human, a daughter being wayward brings you more shame than a son being wayward too or worse a criminal, then you’ve lost the plot.

Means you consider bad behavior worse based on the gender of who’s doing it. And more insidiously, extreme bad behavior leading up the harm, hurt and possibly death of others is less in your opinion when a man does it versus when a woman decides she wants to be free to use her body as she pleases

I totally got your point and it’s reprehensible.
Shame on you

essentialone:
You are yet to get the point. I am not saying who is better between Male child and female child.

I am referring to the shame and trauma brought to their parents.

The guys in question you just mentioned are criminals who may never get caught. And so it brings no shame and disgrace to their parents, not taking anything away from the wickedness of their actions.

But you see female children. 90% are source of endless public shame to their fathers. Most times their mothers care less. Often because they too passed through same system. Until you are a Father, you may not fully understand.

If you are a lady here and your father is still alive, ask him to be honest about this issue and tell you his fears and worries. You go shock.

Shameless gender who do nothing but bring unseen tears to their parents.

essentialone:
Some will say, what of your mother and sister and bla bla bla.

Those things don't distract Truth.

Giving birth to female children, is a punishment.

My brother tell this to ur family members.

How old are u?
Well,people like u would be blessed by the same thing u condemn.

U have no right to say this,nor anyone.

I have six boys who are my cousins from my mum's younger sister,all of them are all liabilities.

I have six boys from my uncle side,six of them combined deadload liabilities only their last born a girl,that is worth the talk.

While also,i have in my wife's side,6 girls and a boy,all the girls including the only boy,are all doing wonderfully well.

Now,what do u say about the examples I provided earlier?

cococandy:
I saw a harrowing video of a group of men cutting another man while he was still alive. Seemed drugged up but awake and alive. They were doing it to harvest his organs and sell. It’s such a disturbing thing I saw that try as much as I can, I can’t get it out of my head and my mind.

To Nairaland men, showing your nudity is worse than things like that. Their obsession with female private parts is something out of this world. I’ve never seen anything like it before. That’s why I’ll never judge a woman who’s doing anything that falls under their category of immoral behavior. I hope they continue to see and continue to stay mad about it

My dear,I saw that video 3years ago,my gosh,it was horrible.

U have just reminded me.

essentialone:
You are yet to get the point. I am not saying who is better between Male child and female child.

I am referring to the shame and trauma brought to their parents.

The guys in question you just mentioned are criminals who may never get caught. And so it brings no shame and disgrace to their parents, not taking anything away from the wickedness of their actions.

But you see female children. 90% are source of endless public shame to their fathers. Most times their mothers care less. Often because they too passed through same system. Until you are a Father, you may not fully understand.

If you are a lady here and your father is still alive, ask him to be honest about this issue and tell you his fears and worries. You go shock.

Shameless gender who do nothing but bring unseen tears to their parents.

Emotional damage! Guys come and hold your brother o, hold am well o 😂🤣🤣

It's not only 90%; it's 100%. There are more than 100 million females in Nigeria, and you have probably not met even 0.1 percent of them in person, and not even up to 10% are online creating content.

Community chief, it is possible that in your community most females are shameless, but the whole Nigeria is not your community.