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cococandy:
I saw a harrowing video of a group of men cutting another man while he was still alive. Seemed drugged up but awake and alive. They were doing it to harvest his organs and sell. It’s such a disturbing thing I saw that try as much as I can, I can’t get it out of my head and my mind.

To Nairaland men, showing your nudity is worse than things like that. Their obsession with female private parts is something out of this world. I’ve never seen anything like it before. That’s why I’ll never judge a woman who’s doing anything that falls under their category of immoral behavior. I hope they continue to see and continue to stay mad about it

I just saw his response to you and hopefully no woman procreates with him. He is a dangerous influence for the boy child if he believes heinous crimes brings no shame to the parents. This is why some of them think training a boy is easier because they let boys be boys. Then raise the girls in perpetual fear of being victims of the boys actions.

This one needs our prayers, Coco.

Nice2023:
My dear,I saw that video 3years ago,my gosh,it was horrible.

U have just reminded me.

I lost my mind that day. It took me a while to recover and I’m so sorry I brought that memory back for you

Exactly. Boys are easier to raise because they don’t even bother to raise them. That’s why we have so many of them misbehaving up and down everywhere

pocohantas:
I just saw his response to you and hopefully no woman procreates with him. He is a dangerous influence for the boy child if he believes heinous crimes brings no shame to the parents. This is why some of them think training a boy is easier because they let boys be boys. Then raise the girls in perpetual fear of being victims of the boys actions.

This one needs our prayers, Coco.

cococandy:
Exactly. Boys are easier to raise because they don’t even bother to raise them. That’s why we have so many of them misbehaving up and down everywhere

You keep proving the topic to be correct.

cococandy:
Exactly. Boys are easier to raise because they don’t even bother to raise them. That’s why we have so many of them misbehaving up and down everywhere

@least we know why boiz misbehave, despite all the home training invested on a female daughter .... baddie everywhere

essentialone:
You missed the point.

A male child turning out right depends largely on parental training.

A female child turning out right is entirely dependent on Luck.

I have seen several hundreds of decent families and decent parents whose sons all turned out right, while the daughters are a source of shame to everyone.

Have you never seen such?

Lol nothing like luck there guy. It all boils down to parental control and upbringing of the children. How U bring up a child is how he or she would grow. Ur not even making sense. Do u even know in those decent families it's possible the daughters weren't given same treatment as the sons? Ur looking at it from outside in and U already assume u supported the parents in bringing up their kids. Children are neither demons nor saints. U begin to teach and build them from the onset as they grow so that whatever U put in them grows with them. U don't neglect those formative years and try to instill discipline in a child that's already grown up. They will only pretend when Ur around to avoid being scolded and act out when Ur not there. Let's tell ourselves the plain truths and stop the bs

kayperry:
@least we know why boiz misbehave, despite all the home training invested on a female daughter .... baddie everywhere

Don't mind them. It's not every time you appoint yourself as Defense Attorney of your gender. Sometimes just be objective and call a spade a spade.

Having a female child is a punishment.

essentialone:
Don't mind them. It's not every time you appoint yourself as Defense Attorney of your gender. Sometimes just be objective and call a spade a spade.

Having a female child is a punishment.

i guess that reservation is for female daughters that get there parents to kneel down nd raise up their hands pele

essentialone:
Having a female child is a punishment.

How many female children do you have?

DaddyCoool:
How many female children do you have?

Once ultrasound detect female, na abortion straightaway

dkidd:
Lol nothing like luck there guy. It all boils down to parental control and upbringing of the children. How U bring up a child is how he or she would grow. Ur not even making sense. Do u even know in those decent families it's possible the daughters weren't given same treatment as the sons? Ur looking at it from outside in and U already assume u supported the parents in bringing up their kids. Children are neither demons nor saints. U begin to teach and build them from the onset as they grow so that whatever U put in them grows with them. U don't neglect those formative years and try to instill discipline in a child that's already grown up. They will only pretend when Ur around to avoid being scolded and act out when Ur not there. Let's tell ourselves the plain truths and stop the bs

Where nothing is guaranteed, the element of luck can not be discarded. so many factors come to play esp. on how a child turns out.

Aint you forgetting environment and peer factor are major contenders here and cos children build up resistance toward parental control most naively sway toward xternal factors.

i strongly feel as a parent you need some element of "LUCK" for your kids not to get carried away by those two contending forces as they cross into adulthood

essentialone:
Once ultrasound detect female, na abortion straightaway

So you haven't had any! So how do you know how it feels for a man to have a girl-child he can hold anyhow and hug anyhow any time he wants, and bathe and dress up any time he wants? Something you'll never experience - innocent feminine energy beyond virgin, that belongs to you 100%. You'll never experience that - In fact if you come too close to someone else's girl-child people will look at you suspiciously!

iamtoofan:
Where nothing is guaranteed, the element of luck can not be discarded. so many factors come to play esp. on how a child turns out.

Aint you forgetting environment and peer factor are major contenders here and cos children build up resistance toward parental control most naively sway toward xternal factors.

i strongly feel as a parent you need some element of "LUCK" for your kids not to get carried away by those two contending forces as they cross into adulthood

No mind am make he dey there dey form Parenthesis

essentialone:
Once ultrasound detect female, na abortion straightaway

ALOL !! sey make i lie for you .... female daughters are more intriguing,intuitive, smart and better companion ... as a father were you miss all that is when she hit puberty and start having eye for boiz.
if only daughters wont grow into adult i will like to have dozen .. omg

Male son are just there sha ! they might not impress you as a father until dey start chasing gurlz or bringing different gurlz home omg

iamtoofan:
ALOL !! sey make i no lie for you .... female daughters are more intriguing,intuitive, smart and better companion ... as a father you'll miss all that

A man who never experiences female child is missing a lot. How do you know how it feels as a man, to have a girl-child you can hold anyhow and hug anyhow any time you want, and bathe and dress up any time you want? You'll never experience innocent feminine energy beyond virgin, that belongs to you 100%. And you can't get it elsewhere - if you come too close to someone else's girl-child people will suspect you're a pedo!

DaddyCoool:
A man who never experiences female child is missing a lot. How do you know how it feels as a man, to have a girl-child you can hold anyhow and hug anyhow any time you want, and bathe and dress up any time you want? You'll never experience innocent feminine energy beyond virgin, that belongs to you 100%. And you can't get it elsewhere - if you come too close to someone else's girl-child people will suspect you're a pedo!

You keep coming back to the Truth.
I quote you "if you come too close to someone else's girl-child people will suspect you're a pedo!"
So it means you that have a girl-child have sleepless nights, and more headache when people come close to your girl-child. Is there any form of punishment or mental torture worse than that? Whereas you have no such sleepless nights when people come close to your male child.
Sometimes do not rush to respond to a Thread. Think, so you understand what it means. It does not have to align with your beliefs or likes for it to be True.

essentialone:
You keep coming back to the Truth.
I quote you "if you come too close to someone else's girl-child people will suspect you're a pedo!"
So it means you that have a girl-child have sleepless nights, and more headache when people come close to your girl-child. Is there any form of punishment or mental torture worse than that? Whereas you have no such sleepless nights when people come close to your male child.
Sometimes do not rush to respond to a Thread. Think, so you understand what it means. It does not have to align with your beliefs or likes for it to be True.

You're talking like a fool. A total FOOL. (Note: I didn't say you're a fool, just talking like one).
See below

iamtofan
ALOL !! sey make i no lie for you .... female daughters are more intriguing,intuitive, smart and better companion ... as a father you'll miss all that

If we stand by your logic giving birth to a male child is a death sentence, since male children have been killing their parents and siblings recently

essentialone:
You missed the point.

A male child turning out right depends largely on parental training.

A female child turning out right is entirely dependent on Luck.

I have seen several hundreds of decent families and decent parents whose sons all turned out right, while the daughters are a source of shame to everyone.

Have you never seen such?

You've said it all here...

ABANGWABOI:
You've said it all here...

Said what all? He's talking rubbish

DaddyCoool:
Said what all? He's talking rubbish

You can disagree with a Post without calling it Rubbish. When they asked your Parents to send you to a proper Secondary school, they were considering the Cost, and sent you to just anywhere, "after all, it is just WAEC they will still get".

essentialone:
You can disagree with a Post without calling it Rubbish. When they asked your Parents to send you to a proper Secondary school, they were considering the Cost, and sent you to just anywhere, "after all, it is just WAEC they will still get".

I was only stating a fact without insulting you - your post was non-sense (or rubbish). Not you personally, but your post. But you're insulting me personally - mark of poor upbringing and low iq.
But this is NL - you fit in well

DaddyCoool:
I was only stating a fact without insulting you - your post was non-sense (or rubbish). Not you personally, but your post. But you're insulting me personally - mark of poor upbringing and low iq.
But this is NL - you fit in well

No post is None-sense or rubbish. It only differs from your opinion, ideas, or beliefs. You can state your opinion without insulting another's opinion. Doing so is actually the sign of poor upbringing and low IQ. And scroll back. I never insulted you. Just stated the obvious, based on your response. A better secondary school, would have taught you choice of words. When you lacked it. You revealed the obvious.

Whatever you criticize in other people's children, make sure that your own children do not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's wives, make sure that your own wife does not end up doing the same things.

Whatever you criticize in other people's husbands, make sure that your own husband does not end up doing the same things.