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Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 1:01am On Oct 12, 2024
Dearlord:
Bros you just fighting yourself for no reason.
Simple... grin grin
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 1:02am On Oct 12, 2024
Everyone should learn to live good and honest lives and there won't be anything to hide.

If my rich, young and stunning Asian ex allows me access to her phone, emails and account details, etc. yet I never stole her money or even thought of it (cuz a woman's money is NOTHING to me) na one Nigerian mgbeke with cheap bleaching cream go deny me access all because she wants to protect her promiscuity.

I'm outta here. Lemme go check my crypto long trade that I started when BTC was 59k and I think it's 63k now. Make I go take profit exercise, shower, watch Tiktok and sleep off.

Equality will never work in Nigeria. For the ladies, we love you all, but we'll never tolerate second class behaviour. There are SIMPs who are ready for that, not us.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Files: 1:03am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens
If you know so we'll. Why are you not married
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 1:12am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Too much ego is the reason some men are introverts. They don't want to banter to avoid looking stupid or tagged "talkative or cho cho cho." That is what men fear the most
So, you do want to banter but you will first blind your own eyes so you don't see the banter you get in return?

Cho cho cho indeed, iLegendd.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 1:16am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
All this because of Guinness?
3, Oh, 3 Guinnesses, I must to confess. shocked

I ain't been dis dunk in ages! cool
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 1:18am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
I have never met a woman with a crypto account — I'm always the one that introduce them.
The 2k women you are used to, bah?

No wonder.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op):
I saw this on Tiktok and I laughed. So true. The moment women are the ones calling you a real man, you're a gonna—a big SIMP.

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 1:31am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Giving a woman freedom is a sign that you don't care about her and you're careless.
Not true, iLegendd.

You see, or rather, I'm very certain you don't see since you are covering your eyes, a woman is not some slave one goes to the market to buy and possess as something that therefore belongs to you to enslave by limiting its freedom.

If you cared, you will be trustworthy and you will trust. And it is your careful trust and your trustworthiness that will actually show you care and free you both, instead of enslaving yourself in the benefit calculating relations you seem to be used to.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum:
iLegendd:
No matter how educated a woman is, she can't win me in an argument that requires logic and nature. If I quit, it's just because I feel I have spoken too much already and I'm looking too available. Over availability reduces value.
Everyone here can see you quit because you lost to an educated woman who beat you so much she educated you.

And trust me. You learnt.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by NamelessOGBENI(m): 2:03am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
I saw this on Tiktok and I laughed. So true. The moment women are the ones calling you a real man, you're a gonna—a big SIMP.
This one is no brainer, I avoid that term like plague, real man bawo let me be but truth be told man, you're doing a great job and those folks trying so hard to disprove what you've written are actually proving themselves wrong, human nature will always come to play when matters like this are being brought up and that's why many will rather hold their peace and not say a word but then, some will be trigger against their will to say something and at the end they'd share a helping hands in confirming what we already know.

Thumbs up, man.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Positiveme2020: 2:16am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens
Nice write up. Am saving this.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 2:28am On Oct 12, 2024
I won't lie, men are really hurting our fragile feminists. We're too wicked. We need to repent for worse. cheesy

It's always the comment section that you'll see blood. As a man, just make money (so that you don't beg), have principles (so that you don't bend) and be bad (so that you don't SIMP) with a mixture of kindness (so that you won't look totally wicked) and everything is yours.

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 3:06am On Oct 12, 2024
Men, invest o! Any little cash, invest. Don't go drinking Guinness of 10k. 2 = 20k. That is about $12 which you can use to learn crypto trading. Use YouTube — all the info are there for free.

Some women have oil-wells in-between their legs and there are millions of SIMPs around the world who are eagerly waiting to pay for it. Even with all the money she has made from her oil-well, if you marry her, you'll still foot the bills. Not all women use their oil-wells for money, some have dignity, but most don't.

You're on your own. Even after you've made it, for 5-10 more years, act as if you haven't made it yet. E get why.

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by makavellidon(m): 3:08am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens
And you expect me to read this?...
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Ishilove: 3:16am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
You don't know anything about me, yet you assert what I am. And worst, you ask me who knows who I am to trust you.

Please don't you bother trusting me. Our association, what else it might be, is definitely not based on trust, but on the evidence that is before us. And it is an obvious fact that you are not in a position to derive any benefits from me not to talk of being my friend, as there's far too many decent people who'd qualify long before I consider pigs.
Tell them, mama
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Ishilove: 3:23am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
Show where I asked you for 2k please, so people know I'm poor. Everything else you said na story.

The pint of Guinness I have in my hand alone as I type this is like 10k, and its my second, all bought by myself plus the 2 I've already brought for my girlfriends who are with me. By the time I'm done, I alone would have spent 50k and they too would have brought rounds, and that's not adding the 30k entry fee for one to the venue.

Its not about being better than you with your small tiny ego you see, but about value. And its obvious that the only thing you think is worth anything about you is between your legs and not in any way what's between your ears.

Up your game dude. You are flailing here like a limp diq.
It's on Nairaland that they have 10 PhDs and enough money to feed the starving countries in Africa. Offline, 9 out of 10 times, their reality is the opposite. They come online to live out their fantasies and escape the bleakness of their existence.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Ishilove: 3:29am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
What if she had a crypto account that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?
Set awon "letter for husband permission to travel"
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Ishilove: 3:37am On Oct 12, 2024
Just wasted several minutes of my life reading crap. I have always known this OP always posts rubbish, so I blame myself for not exiting the thread when I saw his username on the first post.

Darn it, I need less social media in my life because of these kinds of silly articles🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by anonimi: 4:19am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
I prefer some Asian countries over the West. They uphold most of African values while being more developed, organized and law abiding than Nigeria.

But, I love Nigeria for some reasons. You can evade tax easily here and I have access to real natural food unlike abroad where I had to buy everything and some are even GMOs.

Coupled with the free light in my region, good weather and close to zero natural disaster except flooding and road accident.

We are blessed in Nigeria, na just leadership and lawlessness spoil everything.
What kind of leadership are you providing by evading taxes?
Is that how to be a law abiding citizen of our country and continent?

Why are you such a hypocrite on every issue, as budaatum pointed out huh
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by FitCorper:
iLegendd:
As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank account, yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.
That word you mentioned struck a cord. Majority women don’t know that men are few. They mistake a guy being old as him being a man. Men no many for this world again.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Lanre1st(m): 5:26am On Oct 12, 2024
Adasun:
Lols, I just dey nod through the write up...no woman that loves me ever hide her phone. U dey craze? They even willing drop it for me to hold for them self.


I also noticed,they like keeping there money with me too.
See double standard! You are saying "THEY" which means you yourself have options and possibly hiding something for her.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Fattprince23: 5:27am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.
I wouldn't have guessed you to be a female, I've known this moniker for a long time now(over 5 years) always thought you are a male.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Fattprince23: 5:32am On Oct 12, 2024
Lanre1st:
See double standard! You are saying "THEY" which means you yourself have options and possibly hiding something for her.
If you read the write up well with sense, you will know the standards are different. Trust me, you guys with this line of thought always get burnt.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by tete7000(m): 5:41am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens
Sometime when I see what some of you waste precious tines to write and post, I wonder If you have anything meaningful you do with your life except thinking of girlfriend, boyfriend matter.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by okerekingsley90: 5:45am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.
Are you femininehuh??
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by okerekingsley90: 5:55am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
With the rate of infections and careless expenses on transportation, you think I'd stoop so low? No, Brother, I won't.

Men are investing in assets that'll appreciate in value in 5 years, not on a smelly vagina of an infected or frustrated feminist.

Most frustrated feminists have cats, dogs, and other animals as pet and they sleep with these animals because men don't want them and when they contract diseases from these animals, they become born again and look for a naive Church member or a good guy to infect and spread it.

They just hate men and want every man dead, but we, as men, don't hate women — we just hate how they lie, cheat, become disrespectful and still want equality in a world where 98% of what they enjoy, including their dil*dos and phones are built by men.
You de vex o grin
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bewla(m): 6:32am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens
be honest if she be your dog

will you still be faithful to her and marry her

after given all for years to get you where you hope to be before marriage
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by illicit(m): 7:02am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
He will definitely come here to tell you if he ever does, because that's what small minded people do.

Personally, I'd rather smash you, if just to spite him, than let that pig be in the same room as me. You up for it? I'll book you in when I'm available, though you might need to wait a very long time.
Pls book me instead

🙏

I never knew u were female

Don't let anyone make u brag, that's not who u are, thats how narcissists operate
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Filmdirect: 7:08am On Oct 12, 2024
A true alpha male, secure in himself, used to wealth (different from riches) accustomed naturally to the finer things of life will never boost or laud himself. He or she will never write a long essay to announce his achievements or self value.

Wealth whispers, riches shout.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 7:11am On Oct 12, 2024
illicit:
Pls book me instead

🙏

I never knew u were female

Don't let anyone make u brag, that's not who u are, thats how narcissists operate
Lol grin

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Mcslize: 7:18am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
He will definitely come here to tell you if he ever does, because that's what small minded people do.

Personally, I'd rather smash you, if just to spite him, than let that pig be in the same room as me. You up for it? I'll book you in when I'm available, though you might need to wait a very long time.
This is what we are saying. Some of you bunches of women are quite vindictive. You want to use ObalendeCMS as a second option just to spite a man you're dieing for who doesn't give a fvck about you? If this isn't stupidity, tell me what it is.
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