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budaatum:
I value you! And the reason I value you is you value yourself immensely.

My hope is, more men will be like you instead of the pigs most seem to want to be.

iLegendd:
E be like say I go ignore you before you push me into exposing my worth.

Just know that, academically, I was top 3 in Nigeria and top 2 abroad with a distinction.

Physically, I'm muscular and healthy — I never miss exercise.

Spiritually, I'm average — deviating from religion gradually.

Financially, I don't begged for money no matter the hardship from family members or outsiders — I give (especially when I have) before people go start to dey send DM to bill me.

Intellectually, I find solutions to problems faster than most people I have ever met home and abroad. It's only my guy in Spain that finds solutions faster than me. I don't know where that one got his own brain. I'm still the one that taught him female psychology and how to get any woman and last long in bed while he taught me a lot about technology hacking, etc., which is even my field.

With my big muscle and big dick, you known no say I suppose get standard and pride? So, I choose, not you.

If you call someone like me with all the muscular and brain weak, I wonder what you'll call other men.

Feminist no really get brain and choice sha. Always attacking men toll menopause and they become bitter. For me, I like women and will always treat them well, massage them, cook for them when I'm happy, f*ck them like no one ever would, pamper them, fight with them, reconcile, f*ck them again, spend what I'm willing to lose, etc., but don't ever insult me directly or indirectly or my mom or even any of my siblings — I don't forgive or forget. I have a journal where I write everybody's offences down no matter how little it is.

So, that's a little bit of me.

iLegendd:
All my girls have access to my phone and ATM pins. I can hide something in a phone and no living thing will see it.

My phone is like a computer. Different operating systems: Window, iOS, Ubuntu, Linux, etc. You won't even see option to switch. If you do see, you're just way to good in IT. Even after that, how do you gain access with multiple authentications?

This is just to protect my crypto accounts from everything incase I'm travelling with my phone and I get into trouble with men in uniform. I'm not hiding a crime, just protecting my money from uniform criminals.

iLegendd:
I have never met a woman with a crypto account — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their accounts with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's password or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.

cococandy:
Pls loud it.

The ones that adopt old western culture formed by terrible western ideals now want to claim it’s African culture and anyone who rejects it is woke and too westernized. Oh the irony

iLegendd:
E be like say I go ignore you before you push me into exposing my worth.

Just know that, academically, I was top 3 in Nigeria and top 2 abroad with a distinction.

Physically, I'm muscular and healthy — I never miss exercise.

Spiritually, I'm average — deviating from religion gradually.

Financially, I don't begged for money no matter the hardship from family members or outsiders — I give (especially when I have) before people go start to dey send DM to bill me.

Intellectually, I find solutions to problems faster than most people I have ever met home and abroad. It's only my guy in Spain that finds solutions faster than me. I don't know where that one got his own brain. I'm still the one that taught him female psychology and how to get any woman and last long in bed while he taught me a lot about technology hacking, etc., which is even my field.

With my big muscle and big dick, you known no say I suppose get standard and pride? So, I choose, not you.

If you call someone like me with all the muscular and brain weak, I wonder what you'll call other men.

Feminist no really get brain and choice sha. Always attacking men toll menopause and they become bitter. For me, I like women and will always treat them well, massage them, cook for them when I'm happy, f*ck them like no one ever would, pamper them, fight with them, reconcile, f*ck them again, spend what I'm willing to lose, etc., but don't ever insult me directly or indirectly or my mom or even any of my siblings — I don't forgive or forget. I have a journal where I write everybody's offences down no matter how little it is.

So, that's a little bit of me.

pocohantas:
Simple...

iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens

pocohantas:
The problem is when married men like you speak, they call them simps. I wouldn't know why the idea of treating their wives with fairness and respect rubs them off in a wrong way. How did he convince himself a good woman wouldn't mind submitting her phone while you hide yours and cheat. Like you have rightly said, it has to be a woman with low IQ
One whose self-esteem has been badly damaged. That is not a good woman. She is a woman who needs therapy. A woman whose hands are tied - most likely by lack or fear.

There are levels of love and intentionality you wouldn't experience if you don't treat your partner fairly.

iLegendd:
Na women na. Las las, na man wey dem no dey respect go still hang their legs for up, except they're lesbians, as most of them are.

As long as a cho cho cho woman will one day humble herself and spread her legs for a man, from a gender she feels she's equal to, she has been defeated.

Only a woman that'll NEVER allow a man breed her will be considered a strong woman — the rest are just depressed noisemakers with flat yansh, tiny breast, also ugly face, etc. that men have rejected and out of anger, they started hating men.

You hardly see beautiful and endowed women hating on men except she was too full of herself because of her assets when this was younger and now men are no longer interested because of her current age.

18 to 25 or max, 27 is all we want—even men at 60. Only teen boys from 13-19 want older women for the fun and humiliation so they can brag to their friends and say, "I have knacked your aunty—you think say I be small boy?" It's just for the pride. When they grow, they'll switch to 18-25 years girls, except the old woman is tooooo rich.

If a woman can't take advantage of this age 18-25 bracket, she has 6 options left.

1. She gets lucky and a SIMP or Church member finds her worthy (all these career women think we care about their money and career — we only care about their respect and faithfulness)
2. She becomes an angry feminist
3. She switches to lesbianism
4. She adopts a child
5. She goes diabolical
6. She stays single, rich and happy (but deep down, she's not happy—make we just pretend say she dey happy for peace to reign )

iLegendd:
I have never met a woman with a crypto account — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their accounts with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's password or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.

bukatyne:
Interesting thread to start the weekend.

The OP contains a few nuggets; Yes, a woman's phone should be more accessible than her body, ditto a man and trust (both ways) is mandatory in a relationship.

Then it went downhill.

But again, what do I expect from a man who saw his father command his mother to sit at home after she dresses up from an event? As much as we hate to hear it because it is a wide net dragging a lot of people, family background matters a lot except we deliberately rise above it.

Write ups like the OP's thrive because a lot of women (by nature/nurture) lack self-worth, have a low self-esteem and/or self-respect.

When you know you are enough in yourself and derive your worth from God, you would naturally repel a number of men. And it is fine.... you only need 1 that your values align.

And while knowing your worth, get knowledge..... Ubun.ja's threads here are a great place to start. As you read, you notice the that traits you would have excused out of innocence are actually deliberate efforts to break your spirit and sap your core.

anonimi:
What kind of leadership are you providing by evading taxes?
Is that how to be a law abiding citizen of our country and continent?

Why are you such a hypocrite on every issue, as budaatum pointed out

pocohantas:
The problem is when married men like you speak, they call them simps. I wouldn't know why the idea of treating their wives with fairness and respect rubs them off in a wrong way. How did he convince himself a good woman wouldn't mind submitting her phone while you hide yours and cheat. Like you have rightly said, it has to be a woman with low IQ
One whose self-esteem has been badly damaged. That is not a good woman. She is a woman who needs therapy. A woman whose hands are tied - most likely by lack or fear.

There are levels of love and intentionality you wouldn't experience if you don't treat your partner fairly.

iamtoofan:
if family background matters in your context, why do we have an increase in divorce rate, the ladies wana be baddie and baby mamas, where did we pick that from cos its not in our background

GOD saw man was bored, then he thought of creating "woman" ... aunty repeling men is nothing short of a "defect"
True you only need one man, buh how you wan meet that "one man" without trials and open mind

Many ladies see there mothers as mumu,slaves, if 80% ladies wont want to be like there mother, people are already living way pass background

iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens

iLegendd:
You won't understand. I get your point. Sometimes, you need to stoop. Even Falana that we respect is jumping from one Interview to another talking too much. Sometimes, you need to lose respect to pass your message across.

What if I want to turn everything to a book? Don't you know this serves as a public writing pad? I'm an author, so don't worry too much about me. I'm always 10 steps ahead of her, trust me.

I appreciate your concern, though.

iLegendd:
Yes. Na she go even vex return am. Na screenshots of business ideas, transactions, trading, unfinished books, investment plans, this and that and lots of boring things she go see. It seems a lot of Nigerians have too much to hide. E come be like say na only me and a few be sane person for this country.

But, let me ask you. Between Ned and Regina, who do you think has access to the other person's phone?

pocohantas:
This is a VERY stale and slow take. I have never said I don't have or need a man, so I wonder why you keep quoting me with this retarded bullshit like you have something on me.

I do have one, thankfully he isn't on NL typing epistles on his supposed crypto and checking my phone.

If there is anything you should focus on, it is when you and your kind would hook these good women. I mean, when will you leave feminists and show us your good woman? How you treat her and how feminine/happy and kept she is. Pipe dream hah? I know right.

Tallesty1:
If husbands understood the impact their actions have on their children, they’d act differently.

A daughter often learns what love looks like from how her father treats her mother. If he shows love and respect, she grows up expecting the same in her relationships. If he mistreats his wife, she may tolerate similar behavior from others, thinking it’s normal.

A father’s treatment of his wife doesn’t just affect his marriage; it shapes his daughter’s sense of worth and what she’ll accept from a partner. Men need to realize that loving their wives is also teaching their daughters to value themselves.

So, I don't understand why someone would mistreat his wife and, in doing so, damage his daughter's future relationships just to prove what?

budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?

TheFinesseKid:
modern day lifestyle na curse to humanity olohun. This woke nature is why the world is as it is currently.

iLegendd:
If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You sound like an arrogant feminist from a broken home. (No insult intended). Any woman brought up by good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature and your emotions will always expose you. Trust me. (No insult intended, dear).

The moment I notice you're already playing a hide-and-seek "arrogant feminist" game with me, you're already a sex object to me. I'll even encourage you to call your man when I'm banging you. You're just there for my pleasure and nothing more. Once again, no insult intended — I'm just being real.

Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.

iLegendd:
Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.

budaatum:
So, you hide things in your phone that I can not see, but think you have the right to see what I hide in my phone, and you think I'm too dumb and can not hide things in my phone that you can not see?

Seriously, I'm glad you think I'm dumb. For while it makes it easy to swindle you, your arrogance (insult not intended) helps me justify my action.

And please note, you are benefits. I treat my friends a lot better.

budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?

Zooposki:
Go read this study and stop the foolishness.

From what the neurologist got looking at 46,000 scans of the brain, men and women are not the same specie, the women have much stronger frontal lobe function and hence the female brain is a lot more wired for leadership.

For men, their emotional brain is much busier than that of the female( hence why you see them mostly gaslighting women and crying on top of women’s matter every damn day). Hence why you see them opening women threads up and down. Why you see them 14x more likely to commit crimes etc etc.

iLegendd:
Calm down and take a deep breath. I'm ahead, except you want to take a swipe at me, then continue. Aren't you being entertained? Some people will have to pay for this entertainment.

Too much ego is the reason some men are introverts. They don't want to banter to avoid looking stupid or tagged "talkative or cho cho cho." That is what men fear the most.

People like us don't focus on what people think.

pocohantas:
I have never thought of it this way.
But reading your opening paragraph, you perfectly captured it.

Na them be this @ attached pic.