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vanbonattel:
Wow, what a nice way of forcing your views on others.

I will stop and lift/toast anyone I like. Na you buy motor for me?

Iamblessed85:
Was once like you. You will learn the hard way

vanbonattel:
No, I won't change. I will give help to who I like.

Nonexisting:
Be very honest. How many times have you stopped to help your fellow man with lift or are you talking in future tense.

illicit:
I am afraid, that's not how things work tho

Poor girls dey fine well well

vanbonattel:
Many times, but more girls than men.

Nonexisting:
Why the impartiality?

Nonexisting:
Why the impartiality?

Proserpina:
Cry from now to tomorrow, men go still do "do you mind if I give you a lift"



Craziest thing? Op may not have a tyre

Proserpina:
Cry from now to tomorrow, men go still do "do you mind if I give you a lift"

pansophist:
Because men are good people.

vanbonattel:

Proserpina:
Lol good people indeed like we don't know where 90% of the help leads.

pansophist:
Many time it doesnt lead anywhere, and we still give a lift. And if it does lead somewhere, now tell me precisely what is wrong with a man wooing a woman he likes?

Proserpina:
Logically, it's not wrong. You use what you have to get what you want. It's fair.

Morally, it is. It encourage the notion "nothing goes for nothing"

Socially, it creates an imbalance in the dating world.

Lol yeah I left 10% for those times it leads nowhere with women's rejection taking 8%

pansophist:
How is it morally wrong? Or can you give an example of the ''nothing goes for nothing''?

Secondly, How does it creates an imbalance in the world?

If the intentions of the men are genuine, then there is nothing wrong toasting a woman, and there is also nothing wrong if the man doing the toasting have a car.

vanbonattel:
Don't mind them,I will see a fine babe and leave her on the hot sun or rain because I dey form super man.

Proserpina:
When a guy help with the intention of asking a lady out it creates the impression that he wasn't genuine from start. Even if he had no intention from the beginning the moment he decided to go beyond offering a ride , there's a question mark to what his motive was from the beginning. Most women take men's help with a bargaining chip in mind . It's one of the reasons women sees genuine givers as aliens and men don't want other male colleagues picking up their wives for work .

Lol... This sounds exactly like when guys complain about not getting good girlfriends, that all women these days are materialistic and I ask , who set the dating standard? No be Una spoil them? .
If men with cars use their cars to get more women, what happens to the average dude without a car? Before you know it, average Kabiru is out there trying to sell his kidney to get a 1990 Honda before Emeka uses car to steal his Orente

This is not about a man with a car wooing a babe but a man using his car to woo a babe there's a difference. Na man dey do man but una no go gree.

Iamblessed85:
If you were the one trekking, would any woman driving ever listen to your advances? Wont she look at you like you are retarded?

Infact she will consider you an insult to her status. So why don’t men learn from women?

Same way i always see men asking out waiters and waitresses at joints. Will you as a man ever be able to do this if you were a waiter and a sexy chick came to your joint to eat?

Men please wise up.

If you have a car, donot toast any lady without one/ if you are rich, donot toast any broke lady.

Women taught us this and we learnt from the best.

BigYash:
Na why the small small girls dey save your number with mu gu na..

Bola4boy:
girls that actually enjoy the favour and pray silently that such guys should woo them. It's simply attractions. The guy is attracted to her feminine features and beauty while the girl is attracted to the comfort. So it's very balanced.

I give many girls lift and deliberately refuse to collect their number after chatting and all. I see disappointment in their faces. Emi ika

Proserpina:
Cry from now to tomorrow, men go still do "do you mind if I give you a lift"



Craziest thing? Op may not have a tyre

vanbonattel:
Don't mind them,I will see a fine babe and leave her on the hot sun or rain because I dey form super man.

Proserpina:
When a guy help with the intention of asking a lady out it creates the impression that he wasn't genuine from start. Even if he had no intention from the beginning the moment he decided to go beyond offering a ride , there's a question mark to what his motive was from the beginning. Most women take men's help with a bargaining chip in mind . It's one of the reasons women sees genuine givers as aliens and men don't want other male colleagues picking up their wives for work .

Lol... This sounds exactly like when guys complain about not getting good girlfriends, that all women these days are materialistic and I ask , who set the dating standard? No be Una spoil them? .
If men with cars use their cars to get more women, what happens to the average dude without a car? Before you know it, average Kabiru is out there trying to sell his kidney to get a 1990 Honda before Emeka uses car to steal his Orente

This is not about a man with a car wooing a babe but a man using his car to woo a babe there's a difference. Na man dey do man but una no go gree.