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Dimples2022:
Do the right thing, it’s not that complicated, since adults are meant to clean up their messes and face the consequences of their actions. That’s what an adult does.

If I tell my wife this...she will be upset with me. If it turns out Rita's baby is my daughter, I'm afraid she may leave me. But this all happened before I met her.

Middleborn:
If I tell my wife this...she will be upset with me. If it turns out Rita's baby is my daughter, I'm afraid she may leave me. But this all happened before I met her.

Please refer back to the original comment for all future questions! Good luck

Thank you.

SyrusdeHansome:
All i can say is that u're not a good man nd i am not either. Ur fellow man had a gf but u kept fucking her even when u knew everything nd 2moro if the truth comes out abt the little girl's DNA we all will focus on rubbishing the woman while u'll be treated like a king.

Guy, we all make mistakes. I really loved the lady and was hoping she would chose me. They weren't engaged at the time.

Cutehector:
The only thing i am thinking about right now is Peter Obi winning the election. Any other thing is inconsequential.

It's a sweet dream that will never come to pass. If only wishes were horses, then beggars will ride high

jahsharon:
It's a sweet dream that will never come to pass. If only wishes were horses, then beggars will ride high

it will occur.

We all have spiritual connections with our children and those who meditate and know how to listen to their inner being, can feel this. Asides from the timing of her pregnancy, and the striking resemblance she has of my family, i have a strong connection with her little girl.

BATified2023:
that’s a big lie


If op wants to die quick he should talk about Rita’s baby, one thing about women is that they can go to any length to cover up their mess

Once Rita hears that she will just kpuff op on a low n she will b free for life

Can people be that mean and ruthless?

Anyway, I'm still silent about the entire thing. I chat with Rita from time to time.
I'm thinking that the husband might just have to find out himself...and I know that may not be too far into the future.

So I ran into a lady two months ago while I was in the hospital with my wife and daughter (my daughter was ill).

She smiled at me and struggled to call my name, and eventually pronounced it correctly. I didn't recognize her, but she knew me. When I asked where we may have met, she said we hadn't. At this point, my wife looked at me with squinted eyes.

The lady then called her name (Afua).
At that moment my memory took me aback to Rita. Afua is Rita's best friend that I hadn't met. Rita had told me all about Afua and how they were best friends for life.

I immediately smiled back and told her I had heard so much about her, but hadn't met her yet. Then I wondered, if I hadn't met the lady, how did she know me? When I asked her, she said she saw pictures of me. Now, I didn't know Rita shared our story with her friend.

She looked so excited to meet me, and I could feel that she knew about the paternity of Rita's daughter. I had to explain to my wife that she's a good friend of Rita that I hadn't met.

Afua had a look that only I with knowledge about the events regarding Rita and I could understand. She obviously saw me from afar, recognized me and came to me with this "I finally meet the father of my friends daughter" face.
Most certainly she knows about the sexcapades Rita and I had.

Middleborn:
Afua had a look that only I with knowledge about the events regarding Rita and I could understand. She obviously saw me from afar, recognized me and came to me with this "I finally meet the father of my friends daughter" face.
Most certainly she knows about the sexcapades Rita and I had.

You have a wild imagination.

We4all:
You have a wild imagination.

I looked at the lady and she had unsaid words. This is not just my bias. After meeting her, that was proof, no matter how inconclusive that there is a secret Rita and Afua keep.

Trust me, there's a mighty chance I'm correct.

Middleborn:
I looked at the lady and she had unsaid words. This is not just my bias. After meeting her, that was proof, no matter how inconclusive that there is a secret Rita and Afua keep.

Trust me, there's a mighty chance I'm correct.

Trust me, it is not every biological child you should lay claim to. In this instance, just let it go until your Rita says otherwise.

Klass99:
You resurrected your thread from early 2023 with an update in late 2024.......very interesting.

Did you ever mention to your wife that you may have another daughter?

You seem so certain Rita's daughter is yours but only a DNA test can confirm that.

I haven't told my wife because I don't know what may become of us after I tell her.

After we got married, I was still actively communicating with Rita, mostly through chats. My wife noticed that Rita was a special friend to me and she asked if I dated her. I didn't know how to answer so I told her Rita wanted us to go out but we were just good friends. She believed me.

I didn't tell her the truth because I realized that my wife can't handle the truth.
After I told her she says I shouldn't be close to Rita cos she considers her in the same category as my ex.

I did an experiment one day. Once, Rita posted some videos of her daughter on Whatsapp. I thought I should show my daughter who is 3 years now and ask her who she thinks the girl is. When she saw the video she says 'its me". But says she doesn't remember when we videoed it. Their voices also sound the same.

At this time, I haven't spoken to Rita about it because I know for sure that once the can is opened I'm not sure where it could lead to. I think Rita will deny. She might start resenting me. But to me, the evidence is there to see.
I know only a DNA test can solve all of this...Rita will not agree to it, i know.

You are a problem somebody. Face your front and let her face hers.