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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha male?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??

Start smoking weed bro...it will make you focus and active as a man.

Was your older siblings always suppressing you into doing things that you don't want to?

Were they always intimidating you into doing the chores at home as the last child?

Coz this can contribute to your weakness.

To come out of it, is simple. You must be deviant and disobey people. Do things they way you want and don't let people tell you otherwise. You must learn to manage your mistakes and face the consequences and feel free to chase them.

JASONjnr:
Was your older siblings always suppressing you into doing things that you don't want to?

Were they always intimidating you into doing the chores at home as the last child?

Coz this can contribute to your weakness.

To come out of it, is simple. You must be deviant and disobey people. Do things they way you want and don't let people tell you otherwise. You must learn to manage your mistakes and face the consequences and feel free to chase them.

Funny enough......I was raised mainly by [/color][color=#990000]
Funny enough.....I was raised mainly by my mum.....I didn't grow up with most of my elder siblings sef..... Few years I stayed with my siblings I was way much younger then.....I wasn't coerced into doing any house chores.....infact wasn't doing any house chores then.

Account123:
Funny enough......I was raised mainly by [/color][color=#990000]
Funny enough.....I was raised mainly by my mum.....I didn't grow up with most of my elder siblings sef..... Few years I stayed with my siblings I was way much younger then.....I wasn't coerced into doing any house chores.....infact wasn't doing any house chores then.

You were over pampered and you never experienced tough childhood life of struggles.

You never fight for your plate of food or clothes or slippers.

You got everything at ease and they hated to see you cry as they'd ensure to give you what you want on a platter.

Danmmm it's an animal kingdom bruh. Effeminate or not, you should learn to throw a few blows. The purpose is not to win, but to make sure they see you as a potential threat even if you lose.

One way you can break the barrier called fear, is gym registration. Few muscular development in the right places will keep those niggazzz miles off.
Keep a hard UNFRIENDLY face on all the time. Smiling is admitting weakness.
Then if you are lucky to have a reasonable HEIGHT, your problems are solved.

Let no MF intimidate you bro regardless where you are except it's in the night. Run away, then wait till day time and visit them right in their house and cause alot of trouble.

JASONjnr:
Was your older siblings always suppressing you into doing things that you don't want to?

Were they always intimidating you into doing the chores at home as the last child?

Coz this can contribute to your weakness.

To come out of it, is simple. You must be deviant and disobey people. Do things they way you want and don't let people tell you otherwise. You must learn to manage your mistakes and face the consequences and feel free to chase them.

No cap. Wish i have you as an elder bro when i was growing up.

Na parents and elders they Bleep most people up sometimes unintentionally but other times deliberately.

By respecting yourself

Account123:
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha male?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??

i guess u are from the rich family.

Mrwhite09:
i guess u are from the rich family.

Nope....I am not.

Develop self confidence.

Account123:
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha male?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??

It's all in ur mind son... All in ur mind and when U are really ready U will learn it

A man that is afraid of his fellow men,is stupid,na since be life but make sure you focus on making money,no go dey think say Tue bully na because they better pass you,stand up to them and you will see,them go start to ask weather you get Godfather

SIMPLE!!! Always look people dead in the eyes till they blink and learn to be non reactive, show no fear and speak calmly even in the face of danger. Don’t go physical unless someone attacks you first (everybody de fear court). In general I’ve noticed every Nigerian de fear both who de come and who de go.

Account123:
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha male?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??

Only the gym can help you.

My first year in the university, I used my head to remove one final year student two teeth for lodge. The idiot wanted to bully me because he got his friends around. I got arrested by the police...my friends called my mum.

As mumsy enter police station and behold the hefty muscular guy with plaster for mouth, she asked the officers if we fought with weapons. Officers said No, na so mumsy begin para them. I was lanky then, and the guy been get muscles full body.

All the female police officers on duty yab the guy tire that day. No one believed I was the one that injured that guy, not even the officers or my mum. My mum was so proud of me that day.

The police released me to her and she was happy to pay for the guy's medical bill.

Always fight fire with fire, don't give bullies chance to intimidate you.

I will advise you to enrol in a taekwondo and boxing class.
Knowing you can beat people up will naturally raise your confidence level and you stop tolerating nonsense and bullshits

Gym. Gym. Gym
If u no get money for gym find street gym wey be free

From comments above:

Smoking weed to boost confidence is a bad idea.

Gym registration may be a good start

Taekwando/boxing is a good one.

Money may/may not be good because even with your money, you can still be physically bullied. In fact anyone with more money with bully you both physically and financially.

All I can say is that for any one to successfully bully you, he has already first bullied you mentally. Pay more attention to your strength of mind.

Account123:
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha male?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??

Juss watch blue fim sir!(((thank me later)))

People can't easily intimidate you when you look them straight into their eyes! People can't successful lie to you when you look then straight into their eyes

When we were small, my dad flogged my elder brother, told him that the next time our neighbor beat him and he did not bring back my neighbor's front tooth to him, he will kill him. One hot afternoon, my brother joyfully presented a tooth he knocked out from that bully to my Dad! Case closed that day.

Zonefree:
My first year in the university, I used my head to remove one final year student two teeth for lodge. The idiot wanted to bully me because he got his friends around. I got arrested by the police...my friends called my mum.

As mumsy enter police station and behold the hefty muscular guy with plaster for mouth, she asked the officers if we fought with weapons. Officers said No, na so mumsy begin para them. I was lanky then, and the guy been get muscles full body.

All the female police officers on duty yab the guy tire that day. No one believed I was the one that injured that guy, not even the officers or my mum. My mum was so proud of me that day.

The police released me to her and she was happy to pay for the guy's medical bill.

Always fight fire with fire, don't give bullies chance to intimidate you.

Make money.. Enough of it,and your boldness go come out .. Dress nicely and work out regularly..

MOST TIMES PARENTS CONTRIBUTE TO THE STATE OF THEIR CHILDREN, WHEN I WAS IN PRIMARY SCHOOL, NOT MANY PEOPLE WENT TO SCHOOL IN THE LATE 70S , THERE WAS A PARTICULAR BOY LIVING ALONG MY STREET OR SO I THOUGHT THAT WAS ALWAYS CHASING ME EVERYDAY AS I COME BACK FROM SCHOOL, HE WILL CHASE ME UNTILL I GET TO MY DOOR, THEN HE'LL GO BACK, WE WE'RE AGE MATE I GUESS, SO ONE DAY I WAS COMING BACK AS USUAL, HE WAS AT THE ENTRANCE TO MY HOUSE, I TRIED TO ENTER HE CHASED ME I DODGED HIM AND RAN INTO THE COMPOUND HE FOLLOWED, I QUICKLY OPENED THE DOOR AND RAN IN, BUT THAT DAY MY DAD WAS AT HOME, HE ASKED ME WHO WAS CHASING ME I POINTED OUTSIDE, HE OPENED THE DOOR AND SAW THE BOY WALKING AWAY, HE CALLED THE BOY HE CAME MY DAD ASKED IF THIS IS THE BOY THAT CHASED ME I SAID YES, HE LOOKED AT ME AND ASKED THE BOY IF HE WANTED TO FIGHT HE SAID YES, MY FATHER SAID OK FIGHT HIM, DON'T BE SCARED I WILL NOT BEAT YOU, IF YOU CAN BEAT HIM BEAT HIM VERY WELL, I WILL LOCK MYSELF INSIDE. MY FATHER ENTERED INSIDE AND LOCKED THE FRONT DOOR TO THE HEARING OF EVERYONE, THEN THE FIGHT STARTED, BEFORE I COULD KNOW IT THE BOY WAS ON THE FLOOR, I WAS POUNDING HIM, I PACKED SAND AND FILLED HIS MOUTH. HE GOT TIRED AND RAN, SINCE THAT DAY, NO GOLIATH CAN STAND IN MY FRONT, THE BOY WAS NOW SCARED OF ME.

Account123:
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them...

You really are a lost cause, if you buy into redpill nonsense, and allow random internet nobodies to define you.

First you may need to build some internal confidence, there are different ways for this, but the most common one is to try to start workingout, exercising, or engage in sports. Heck even meditation, you need to build a strong sense of self and these activities help.

Secondly you may need some exposure to your weakness (shouting) in a less hostile form, maybe engage in friendly heated debates with friends, and build up a tolerance for being shouted at and being able to give a rebuttal. If you ever feel anxious the best way to overcome it is took people in the eyes, not looking away.

Ask yourself what is it you are afraid of when in a confrontation?

Try stop being a weakling first

IMAliyu2:
You really are a lost cause, if you buy into redpill nonsense, and allow random internet nobodies to define you.

First you may need to build some internal confidence, there are different ways for this, but the most common one is to try to start workingout, exercising, or engage in sports. Heck even meditation, you need to build a strong sense of self and these activities help.

Secondly you may need some exposure to your weakness (shouting) in a less hostile form, maybe engage in friendly heated debates with friends, and build up a tolerance for being shouted at and being able to give a rebuttal. If you ever feel anxious the best way to overcome it is took people in the eyes, not looking away.

Ask yourself what is it you are afraid of when in a confrontation?

Honestly it's not easy as it seems.....