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ExceptionalCool:
Hi everyone!
I am really having a hard time, I have been acting strange to people and I want to change.

ExceptionalCool:
I feel sad most days and I try my best to pray and it has been difficult.

ExceptionalCool:
I get distracted by things

ExceptionalCool:
and lowkey want a man but at the same time, men dey fear me? I don't know how to move forward.

advanceDNA:
U talk ambiguous.....Na only sabi wetin u mean by acting strange, so stop acting strange
looks like everything still dey alright ....no worry when things start to go south for real....u wont find it difficult to pray..


U have a vague/ambiguous way of talking. what do mean by distracted by things??


Then be more approachable....dey greet pple for area when u pass by....wear a smile..
..if u are too tall...no wear heels join...na few men dey like very talk girls....
If you too fat....go gym....
If u too ugly .....I cannot help you

ExceptionalCool:
Hi everyone!

I am really having a hard time, I have been acting strange to people and I want to change. I feel sad most days and I try my best to pray and it has been difficult. I get distracted by things and lowkey want a man but at the same time, men dey fear me? I don't know how to move forward.

Please, kind advise only.

rickleye:
You need to get laid ! You need to release stress and tension . Then work on yourself. Be among happy people .

ExceptionalCool:
Thanks but no thanks.

Exceed15:
Relax man. I think you are too hard on yourself. Everyone is fighting a battle. In all, please keep your mental health. Find things that make u happy. Leave what is beyond your control now and focus on what u can do.

ExceptionalCool:
Sir? Okay but you don't have to be mean. I feel I am depressed but things are still good for me and I am grateful to God, that he is still providing for me. I won't take take that for granted. I want to heal, I want to be a better version of my self. I want to date. I want to chop wellar . I want to go on dates. I want to try to understand myself better.

rickleye:
I didn’t say with me but someone you care about with no strings attached.

ExceptionalCool:
Sir? Okay but you don't have to be mean. I feel I am depressed but things are still good for me and I am grateful to God, that he is still providing for me. I won't take take that for granted. I want to heal, I want to be a better version of my self. I want to date. I want to chop wellar . I want to go on dates. I want to try to understand myself better.

Zonefree:
It's late...Menascum, innit?

ExceptionalCool:
Oga, when did I say that one.

atoliman:
get yourself disciplined and the rest will follow
first program yourself to get things in an organized way so your mind do not wander away
e.g first thing in the morning, I pray no matter if it is rain or not.
i do the most important thing in the morning e.g work, wash my clothes ,clean my room so my day is not wasted or unproductive
after the most important things, I have time to rest or relax.
follow a pattern when you approach people e.g I smile, greet well and show respect then start conversation
Then you can study how people behave toward you and adjust well

ExceptionalCool:
I won't even lie, there is a guy I want to just jump on him. Damn, fine guy! but I just dey reason am, I think it is better to wait. I find it honorable.

ExceptionalCool:
Hi everyone!

I am really having a hard time, I have been acting strange to people and I want to change. I feel sad most days and I try my best to pray and it has been difficult. I get distracted by things and lowkey want a man but at the same time, men dey fear me? I don't know how to move forward.

Please, kind advise only.

ExceptionalCool:
Hi everyone!

I am really having a hard time, I have been acting strange to people and I want to change. I feel sad most days and I try my best to pray and it has been difficult. I get distracted by things and lowkey want a man but at the same time, men dey fear me? I don't know how to move forward.

Please, kind advise only.

rickleye:
As you wish !all the best

MrAmbrose:
Examine yourself and adjust where necessary.

ExceptionalCool:
Hi everyone!

I am really having a hard time, I have been acting strange to people and I want to change. I feel sad most days and I try my best to pray and it has been difficult. I get distracted by things and lowkey want a man but at the same time, men dey fear me? I don't know how to move forward.

Please, kind advise only.

Sapasenator:
Hou need to get a grip of your emotions and try to find a way of controlling them. Whenever you have a strong feeling about something, do not act on them immediately, try to process them and ask yourself the reason for that emotion.
Like a kind of delayed reactions. Read lots of books on emotional intelligence, try to avoid individuals with negative energies and do things that you love doing . Remember, negative emotions sap your energies leaving you drained so you must take control of them.

You can control your life if you can control your emotions.