₦airaland Forum

LilMissFavvy:
A very good idea to marry for money, especially if he's an African man. No money should mean no love, but how about ladies who already have their own money? What should they marry for?

You think there is a difference between poor ladies and well to do ladies in Africa? Both think men owe them money

The way I chase out liability from my end is mind boggling , no be me make them poor no b me go make them rich

Kobojunkie:
Isn't that kind of what men mean when they regard a woman as wife-material? Or are you too high on your own bullsheet to see this for yourself?

If a man calls you wife material, you also need to run especially IF HE HAS MONEY 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

jorion:
■ If a man calls you wife material, you also need to run especially IF HE HAS MONEY 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

Wife-material/husband material, na the same logic dey behind these terms and so why bother with it at all?

see big bwess

ewedunamala:
Both. But come on, can women love without money?.

Help me ask them o

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

What happened to the womans money? Just say you want to escape generational poverty through marriage.

Baraka for the men with nothing to offer... where them de wen their mates de hustle?

Nothing to offer is relative. A man may not be rich but can offer good service in the oza room, the reverse is also true with the rich man.

Merry100:
I won't even try to explain my writeup to you because you are not even capable of comprehending it.

Let me try to act as lame as you.

Hardwork meets gift
A wealthy man meets a [b ]beautiful lady [/b]. He has what she wants, she has what he wants. Simple.

What does she have to offer the man...That an Average or UGLY Woman does not have?

idahme:
Do u know what predator means? Some of una no go school. Going to school and just learning how to read and write is waste of your parent's precious money.

Let me educate you a bit. Predator, a person who looks for other people in order to use, control, or harm them in some way. Sexual predator, a person who commits sexual crimes against other people.

Sammy101111:
Bro to bro
A warning ⚠️ don’t think of upgrading or tushing any woman up or changing her life to your taste she may end up leaving you and seeing you as no level .

myaunt did this to the guy who sponsored her through uni ..

Sharpsharp00123:
last last na here we go read news of how them butcher u into parts

I laugh, look at this kid.

purples25:
I laughed and laughed at this... You are really pained 🤣

Bag of rice is small, the bag of rice will eat until it bursts, maybe you will go crazy for a while but then you will accept it instead of dying in bitterness.

well no way you start crying foul when he takes a second or has a second .. btw, you know you're not allowed to have any other friggin partner.. only him allowed to.

DeeScan:
myaunt did this to the guy who sponsored her through uni ..

she switched it up

Woman can switch anytime

idahme:
This your mindset is the reason I no longer consider struggling ladies that are far below my earning potential, women don't love men they only care about the money they can get from men and I get surprised when same women advocate for "You should love me for me love me unconditionally" . What women advocate for they themselves can never give it. I discovered women want my money and I have made it very scarce for any woman who isn't part of my family to have access to it because women will and can never let out their money to any one.

See how you refer to men as lazy man but 90% of you ladies depend on men for anything to be done in your life then I ask who is the lazy one? The one who depend on the other or the one who is independent of the other for survival?

If you are not up to 30% of total earnings then there should be nothing you should do with me as a woman. Its pathetic that lazy ones whose life depends on a man's money to be liberated out of poverty is referring to same benefactor as lazy

Na mumu man dey bring women dream "I wasn't to marry a rich man that will take me out of poverty" to reality. I have better stuff to do my money than giving to someone who has the mindset of give me money and I will open my leg(pros*tit*utes)

Why are you just showing up? I have been shouting lazy ones, lazy ones since morning. You guys be fast I am marking attendance o.

Sammy101111:
she switched it up

Woman can switch anytime

funny enough the guy she left him for was struggling ATM .. but the bros later pick up Sha. She and him don dey u.. k like this ..

dkidd:
And any woman who marries solely for money is a what?

And any man who marries solely for beauty is a what?

Merry100:
Why are you just showing up? I have been shouting lazy ones, lazy ones since morning. You guys be fast I am marking attendance o.

Lazy ones have the time available to themselves and want others to lift them from poverty , that time of superstitious prayers are over, ho to work and take responsibility and accountability for your future that is why your parents sent you to get education unless yours wa a wasteful venture.

idahme:
Lazy ones have the time available to themselves and want others to lift them from poverty , that time of superstitious prayers are over, ho to work and take responsibility and accountability for your future that is why your parents sent you to get education unless yours wa a wasteful venture.

Don't worry I have marked the attendance already, you don't have to prove yourself any further.

Kobojunkie:
▶ Nigeria currently has over 20,000,000 out-of-school children with that number slated to balloon in the coming months if things continue to rush downhill as they have the last 16 months.
▶ Over 40 million Nigerians have been thrown into multidimensional poverty in just the last 16 months and that number continues to rise as the government has still no tangible plans in place to solve the economic situation, food affordability problems, and ever-growing problem of insecurity that continues to drive people away from their farms
▶ over 180 million Nigerians now live in poverty situation with companies laying off workers and leaving the country every so often while businesses continue to shut down operations daily as a result of profitability issues
▶ Nigerians have had to adjust to feeding formulas that have them eating less than 3 square meals a day
▶ Hospitals continue to shut down due to a lack of staff in some areas, a lack of funds, and low patronage.....

Tell us please, which of the above is the reason for any sane Nigerian out there to consider getting married and having kids at this point?

Nigerian just loves misery. I blame religion and brainwashing for all these things.

Dtruthspeaker:
So that is how few women are in the world, abi? Oshiomole is already laughing at you. 😆😆😆

If only you know why Oshiomole is laughing right now. Why do you think he keeps staring at you? I did not say you are ugly o but your look is so surprising, he can't believe what he is seeing.

Love800:
Men, avoid trying to build up with any woman. Along the line they will leave you when the pressure is too much. And that is after they have eaten all your money and finances you were expected to use and build-up.

Make enough money and pick a girl when your bank is over-flowing with money!

Then don't marry because na ashawo you go pick

Orlu13:
olosho kobo kobo...very useless women looking fr a rich man to prey on with ur useless slack pussy....thunder fire u anywhere u are

No thunder will fire me. Whenever you hear provide money you shock like live wire. Keep exploding, that fact will never change.

DeeScan:
well no way you start crying foul when he takes a second or has a second .. btw, you know you're not allowed to have any other friggin partner.. only him allowed to.

The fact that you provide as a man.
Does not give you any right to abuse me as a human being, do anything to me. That's the truth.

Accept that you guys are meant to provide the major money. Just swallow it. And stop looking for how to punish women for that.

Babe told me she was no longer interested in me again, quick, I reply okay and guess what just like that, no stress nothing nothing.

Little did she know that I've find a way to see the end from the first hello, I'm indifferent to a lot of things and relationship is part of it.


In other news,

a man that can't take care of his family can't be rich,
I've never sat down to see the godfather to catch the drift
My consciousness was forge from the street
So chivalry is a line I don't plan to meet or greet!

Dtruthspeaker:
So that is how few women are in the world, abi? Oshiomole is already laughing at you. 😆😆😆

Read again "If every woman go for handsome men how will guys like you marry".

This tears is too much now, oya sorry but you asked for it. Let me refresh your memories, you said "marry your own beautiful man and treat him how you like." 😂🤣🤣

Ashawo is less expensive than having a girlfriend that will leave you when you are poor during the stage of building your life.

drealcivilceno:
Then don't marry because na ashawo you go pick

What is so special about a woman that you are willing to work for 50yrs just to fund her lifestyle?

What if she turns out to be lazy? Why would I spend my youthful energy to provide for any woman?

Marriage should be viewed as two people who start a company but most women want to be employees but with the benefit of a co-founder.

Dear men, do not fund any woman's lifestyle that us not related to you by blood. If she wants a funded lifestyle, she should go out and work.

Shalom

toprealman:
This post must come from one of them. Guys stay away from broke ass girls! Worst still look at the background they are coming from. To some of them, getting a man that will inherit their problems and that of their family!
Not a pleasant thing at all, use your head guys!

You wish

vdestro:
It pained you so much you had to repeat yourself, lol

Sorry my dear. I was only trying to stop your tears.

Merry100:
If every woman go for handsome men how will guys like you marry? Women have high taste o. We will just be selecting men like Leonardo DiCaprio, Michael B Jordan, Lee Min-ho, Will Smith, Idris Elba. If we want to pick from Nigerian, at least we will pick guys like Maurice Sam. You should be thanking God we are considerate. 😂🤣🤣

If that's your real pix on your profile, I'm sorry. You're not pretty. See as makeup and filter full everywhere. You're unlikely to have the type
of men you mentioned. You also seem to be getting on in age. You can't demand a top value man, unless your father or family is extremely wealthy. Your best bet would be to develop your intelligence and a good character and probably lower your expectations to fully focus on those 'men with potential' you talked about before.

purples25:
The fact that you provide as a man.
Does not give you any right to abuse me as a human being, do anything to me. That's the truth.

I agree.

Accept that you guys are meant to provide the major money. Just swallow it. And stop looking for how to punish women for that.

Ok. I also agree. But the fact of the matter is that he who pays the piper also gets to dictates the tune. Sometimes you may not like the tune he choses.