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Was this a good reason to end a relationship?

So this is the continuation of the chat.
Who do you think is wrong?

Update: So, he has agreed that there will be no sex, but they won't be seeing each other in person.
There will be no need for her to visit when they can just talk online. And there shall be consent in the relationship, like the girl is not allowed to kiss the guy if he doesn't permit her; no hugs if he doesn't permit her. And she would only be invited out when he has enough money to take her out.
The guy is 24, the girl is 22, and the relationship is up to a year old. The guy is also an orphan. For the one who said if it were him, he wouldn't return the money, well, FYI: the girl lent him money while she was still in school, and he was already a graduate.
Although she is done with schooling this year, the main reason she requested the money back was that the guy forgot he had been borrowing money from her when he came to borrow another amount. That was why the girl requested only the borrowed money and not the ones she had willingly given him. And yes, the guy is also trying and giving too.

A boy and a girl conversation

Really tho, some girls

This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

You get mouth dey talk break up you wey the girl dey give money you still get mind dey talk am owing 22k for tpain era t he girl sef try at least you dey see her nude she suppose no even show for your side at all oga go pay her money back goan hustle

As long as she is not a virgin and she says no sex just know she is cheating they is someone she is giving it to and lying to you.

The first sign of a simp is to allow a girl make rules for you in a relationship or marriage

Well she is not..
She only wanted the guy to go out there and find work

Verydarkhearted:
As long as she is not a virgin and she says no sex just know she is cheating they is someone she is giving it to and lying to you.

His loss. The babe should be grateful he's leaving her life. He will eventually rape her if she doesn't cut him off. If you know her tell her not to feel guilty at all.

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

Lol, you dey mind the clowns?

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

If 20% of Nigerian girls behave like this girl do you think people will chastise you all? Accountability is most times alien to most women, it has become a big issue holding people accountable for their bad behaviors? Unlike women men don't support a man that isn't doing the right thing.

I would have said the dude is right if all the only thing the lady offers is sex and nothing else but it seems she is not like you so the dude is wrong to look her that way. I have always said a lady who doesn't want to do sex shouldn't also do money in the relationship both parties should only talk and know themselves but no spending and no sex should come together.

The dude messed up if she is willing to share finances after putting no sex relationship.

Except you are married, YOU REMAIN SINGLE

When ever a wise man sees himself in a mess , he traces his steps back , you can't gaslight him and accuse him at the same time , its a clear fact of manipulation and prostitte craft

idahme:
If 20% of Nigerian girls behave like this girl do you think people will chastise you all? Accountability is most times alien to most women, it has become a big issue holding people accountable for their bad behaviors? Unlike women men don't support a man that isn't doing the right thing.

I would have said the dude is right if all the only thing the lady offers is sex and nothing else but it seems she is not like you so the dude is wrong to look her that way. I have always said a lady who doesn't want to do sex shouldn't also do money in the relationship both parties should only talk and know themselves but no spending and no sex should come together.

The dude messed up if she is willing to share finances after putting no sex relationship.

Who and who is chastise you all? Like the audacity some of you have on this forum to box everybody up with your pathetic realities is nauseating! See mouth like chastise you all... Delusions of grandeur!Lol

I stopped reading at first line...abeg get out!

Anny69:
Lol, you dey mind the clowns?

Original follow come clowns who want to eat their cake and have it.

I know the health importance it gives me

Two mumu people.

Something like this will never break your heart.

rule number 3 never borrow money from your woman to avoid see finish

Only borrow money from a woman if you're gonna pay back the same day. He's useless for owing her.. She has nothing to lose, better guys full outside

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

22K investment 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

backtalkG:
rule number 3 never borrow money from your woman to avoid see finish

Quotes from broke people sha.

Any reason is good enough to whoever doesn't want to be in a relationship with another ...

I can't fault this guy for breaking up with her ...

I mean, the girl isn't giving him what he wants, so it's better he walks away than become abusive ...

Relationships can get toxic really fast, when either partners isn't getting what they want from it ...

In summary, regardless of the reason for their breaking up, it's a lot better than allowing this charade to continue ...

Don't be surprised the girl is giving it to one "bad guy" who cares less about her. Never trust any woman even if she covered herself from head to toe and displaying fake decency.

This guy is one out of many men that will abandon a girl they got pregnant


She even borrowed you money and you still get aroused are you not ashamed of yourself?

You can't even take care of yourself and you want to get pregnant with your incessant persistent demands for sex


Foool

Tallesty1:
Quotes from broke people sha.

why the comment dey trigger you

are you broke

Tallesty1:
22K investment 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

Boda Tallesty1 Ermmmmm

Outstanding means yet to be completed. Meaning it was more than 22k

Glory018:
Was this a good reason to end a relationship?

Yeye guy, na oniranu both of una be!! Who tell una say relationship na marriage? Better don't start what you can't finish. You are still single. Period!!! If you want s'x, then marry. Oniranu, omo radarada!!!

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

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No mind am. Be like say em head don bend to Yaba left

Proserpina:
Who and who is chastise you all? Like the audacity some of you have on this forum to box everybody up with your pathetic realities is nauseating! See mouth like chastise you all... Delusions of grandeur!Lol

I stopped reading at first line...abeg get out!

It has triggered that innate feelings of women to never be accountable, test of irresponsibility and not being accountable confirmed. Enjoy bitter leaf

ibtommy:
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No mind am. Be like say em head don bend to Yaba left

Lol for this economy

He will be alright

idahme:
It has triggered that innate feelings of women to never be accountable, test of irresponsibility and not being accountable confirmed. Enjoy bitter leaf

You go about quoting any monicker that sounds feminine with slurs and you expect a pat on the shoulder?
Are we not done with the caveman idea that being a man/boy gives you the privilege to be unnecessarily rude and condescending to anything perceived feminine? This is what you do on every thread and I wonder what stone age you are locked in.

If to say I mention you first, I go talk say na me go look for madman trouble .

Until you learn to hold conversations in a civil way, please stay away from my monicker. Go do that machismo for your family compound!