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A Nigerian woman, Chizoba Ibebuike Okeke, is currently trending over a comment she made, boasting about her husband being afraid of her. The viral post has elicited varying reactions on social media, with many people dragging her for publicly disrespecting her husband.

Reacting to the post, former Managing Director of Anambra Broadcasting Service, ABS, Dr. Uche

Nworah, wrote: “Where una dey see this type of wife? I have a friend that is looking for a wife."
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There was a swap. Husband is now the wife while the wife is now the husband

No nagging, abuse or complaining, not going to touch you physically but you must still fall on your knees sha ni.

Man gat to be a real man not sissy like the lady's husband

Provided the marriage is in peace, I have nothing to say. But coming outside to boast about it, E no make sense to me.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga to if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

since you nor tell them make i tell them

Lalami3232:

what do i know if not to share the good news


My brother if you did not meet your wife as a virgin go for Dna test because this borehole aka non birgins are not to be trusted

Story for the gods...You never meet me.

U get coconut head, I get coconut head, heart and balls. If I deal with u, u sef go reason whether devil get pikin.

And na Igbo woman sef...taa!! Comot for road

We have lot of foolish weak men this days.

This type of women respect their husbands and they are the most humble in their homes.
I've seen it countless times.
I don't know what women gain by deceiving other gullible women.

She's the bread winner of that house I guess.
Coming out publicly to say such horrible thing is a no no, for me it's not respect.

When you're holding a man's dangerous and damaging secret or you're the breadwinner, you can speak like this to him.

This is why Will Smith will never see anything wrong in Jada because she knows his darkest secret and if he messes up, she exposes him as a payback. (Imagine if the secret is raping or killing a minor).

I don't have anything to say to her but her husband deserves two heavy slaps.
First one to reset his brain, the second one for bringing shame to we men.

The worst mistake to make as a man or woman is to marry wrong...you will dīe before your time

Skyfornia:
The worst mistake to make as a man or woman is to marry wrong...you will dīe before your time

Their is nothing like marry wrong in an African man dictionary. Any woman that misbehave will have herself to blame. Western culture has turned all men to simps. Period

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The husband has wisdom(playing safe). The best defence is to act like an idiot in order for you to get knowledge in some situations.

Later in the nearest future, the wife will realize she is the one who is the weaker one and less knowledgeable!

Love800:
The husband has wisdom(playing safe). The best defence is to act like an idiot in order for you to get knowledge in some situations.

Later in the nearest future, the wife will realize she is the one who is the weaker one and less knowledgeable!

Waiting for future means be ready for years of disgrace publicly.

What arrant nonsense.

No matter any gra gra from any lady, they still need a man in terms of making critical decisions( confidant), if you have been the guy from the onset, she can never try such nonsense with you.

Reasonable number of all those online feminists still wash their guy's clothes , singlets and boxers, forget about their online activism

I realize that people that boast, talk too much, wanting validation, displaying their lifestyle extravagantly are most times less intelligent. Like the case of this woman. In summary, pride is the biggest downfall of anybody.

Leave your pride. Act like a fool and you will realise many profits, knowledge and wisdom that you will gain in life. You will live absolutely peacefully.

helinues:
Waiting for future means be ready for years of disgrace publicly.

What arrant nonsense.

Well, some badly behaved Nigerian men deserve this. I refuse to even blame her!

Love800:
I realize that people that boast, talk too much, wanting validation, displaying their lifestyle extravagantly are most times less intelligent. Like the case of this woman. In summary, pride is the biggest downfall of anybody.

Leave your pride. Act like a fool and you will realise many profits, knowledge and wisdom that you will gain in life. You will live absolutely peacefully.

The compatibility is not there . What do you still want to be doing with the person?

She is just telling the whole world that am afraid of her and that she is above me. She is the type that talks about her wealth and position to outsiders. She is the loud type.

And, she hasn't told me that our relationship is over and that we should depart. It has not reach a stage of violence.

I will still keep my cool, pet her, romance her. I will still act my idiot character. Am not really a fool though. Then, you we see that our union will still be sailing.

She will even be surprised that, After all her boastful nature, am not worried. Na she go calm down later.
There is power in silence!

helinues:
The compatibility is not there . What do you still want to be doing with the person?

Igbo women always

Wahala for who put them for Ouse gv dem ring

Anyway God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest

It's absolutely not the best way

I am not a weak and understanding husband.
My wife is afraid of me.

How miserable this sounds.


And for women, this kind of statement is great. I Am Not A Weak And Understanding Wife. My Husband Is Afraid Of Me


What conclusion can we draw from this?

How to measure the limits of women's misery?

shortgun:
This type of women respect their husbands and they are the most humble in their homes.
I've seen it countless times.
I don't know what women gain by deceiving other gullible women.

She dey collect beating join for house . She dey also submit her salary on arrival . She just warn form say she follow for wetin dey .

Women in male-dominated spaces>>>>>> A queen! 😌

Love800:
She is just telling the whole world that am afraid of her and that she is above me. She is the type that talks about her wealth and position to outsiders. She is the loud type.

And, she hasn't told me that our relationship is over and that we should depart. It has not reach a stage of violence.

I will still keep my cool, pet her, romance her. I will still act my idiot character. Am not really a fool though. Then, you we see that our union will still be sailing.

She will even be surprised that, After all her boastful nature, am not worried. Na she go calm down later.
There is power in silence!

You are seriously spineless. In the absence of any pride there is power. Go kill yourself.

If u dont control ur woman she will control u if u are not harsh and strong wit ur woman she will misbehave.dat how woman are created if u show ur woman too much luv she turn it against u woman like it wen u treat dem harsh wit one hand and show dem luv wit anoda. Dis mad woman here did u tink she fear or respect her hubby did u tink she respect her mum in law I know she decide wat to eat d kind of house dey rent we're dey lived and who visit. God forbid my broda marry dat kid woman or my wife eva tink dis way cos na slap I go use turn her brain

Love800:
She is just telling the whole world that am afraid of her and that she is above me. She is the type that talks about her wealth and position to outsiders. She is the loud type.

And, she hasn't told me that our relationship is over and that we should depart. It has not reach a stage of violence.

I will still keep my cool, pet her, romance her. I will still act my idiot character. Am not really a fool though. Then, you we see that our union will still be sailing.

She will even be surprised that, After all her boastful nature, am not worried. Na she go calm down later.
There is power in silence!

u will be acting as a mumu till dey poison u

Can you digest comprehension deeply?

Is it because you saw romance there? I dont mean to be touching her body. I just mean being easy on her. And also, am not simping either.
Am just tolerable. If it has gotten to a stage of violence, i quit.
She hasn't told me, lets separate. I still have interest in her.

So boy, what are you saying again?

goran3310:
You are seriously spineless. In the absence of any pride there is power. Go kill yourself.

Can you comprehend deeply?

Is it because you saw romance there? I dont mean i will be touching her body. I meant be easy on her. And am not simping either.

She hasn't told me lets separate. And our relationship has not gotten to a violence stage. I still have interest in her.

So what are you saying boy?

jaksmillioniar:
u will be acting as a mumu till dey poison u

Love800:
Can you comprehend deeply?

Is it because you saw romance there? I dont mean i will be touching her body. I meant be easy on her. And am not simping either.

She hasn't told me lets separate. And our relationship has not gotten to a violence stage. I still have interest in her.

So what are you saying boy?

u and ur genaration is a boy. Dont u Eva call me dat . Na man like u dey cause all dis rubbish how can u let ur wife come on internet and disgrace yet u say u will romance her dat u still got interest in her. Are u sure u are a man.

She is a talkative. A proud type.
We still live as husband and wife. She still perform her wifely duties( taking care of the kids and home). She hasn't told me lets discontinue this relationship. She hasnt called or inform any legal body or her family people about quitting our marriage. She hasn't gone violence by calling me names everyday or threatening to injure me. I still want the marriage. So what are you saying?
Sorry for calling you a boy.

jaksmillioniar:
u and ur genaration is a boy. Dont u Eva call me dat . Na man like u dey cause all dis rubbish how can u let ur wife come on internet and disgrace yet u say u will romance her dat u still got interest in her. Are u sure u are a man.

This is not good. The woman should not expect applause for such toxic behaviour, even if her husband is bad.

Some women are naturally pompous, while others insult and disrespect their husbands as a way to retaliate for past actions. However, a woman who feels bitter toward her husband still has the option to walk away from the marriage rather than retaliate in an unpleasant manner. In fact, the best payback is walking away. Cheating is grounds for divorce, and for other toxic behaviours, one can choose to separate and remain unmarried.

Though forgiveness is not easy, and if one is not in the situation, it might be difficult to understand. One can forgive a brutal experience but still find it difficult to forget. It is better for a good woman not to allow a man's brutal attitude toward her to change who she is. Children do not deserve to grow up in a toxic environment, and those who do not know what she has been through may misjudge her and assume she is simply a wicked woman.

I know a woman in the UK who insults and disrespects her husband at every opportunity. She is richer than he is; in fact, she is very wealthy.

I initially assumed her husband was a gentle and kind man, and I pleaded with her to be kind to him. However, when she shared her story, I began to understand her pain. She used to be very humble and respectful, but her husband mistreated her; he would beat her, cheat on her, and insult her at every opportunity.

She was a virgin when she married him, and they had six children together, both male and female. However, he still impregnated other women and had children outside their marriage. She was broke and depended solely on him, and at times, she even had suicidal thoughts. But with great determination, she became a successful woman.

Marriage is supposed to be a private affair, not a public spectacle. If you can't tolerate each other, why not separate in peace? Husbands and wives should avoid speaking ill of each other in public. Such a marriage is toxic and lacks love and respect. Healthy marriages are built on mutual support and understanding.

Some couples are merely tenants in their marriage; their relationship may have ended a long time ago.