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tanigororo:
Aunty Aisha, the Head Girl but not for class.

u mas gan ooo

Sharpsharp00123:
sorry porn have messed u up, the west propaganda have ruined many

They make licking plate look normal with their press n now they are done with that they are now making gay look normal

In no time gays will start coming here to create threads about how their partner isn't doing it well

Nope. She is an healthy, sexually expressive lady who knows what she wants and love to enjoy sex with her partner. Nothing wrong with that and I wish most Nigerian women can be open about sex like the op. The thing is we are too hypocritical in our society and nothing wrong with porn too.

Sapasenator:
Nope. She is an healthy, sexually expressive lady who knows what she wants and love to enjoy sex with her partner. Nothing wrong with that and I wish most Nigerian women can be open about sex like the op. The thing is we are too hypocritical in our society and nothing wrong with porn too.

ok

I hear u

Make I no talk my mind make fight no start

tanigororo:
Aunty Aisha, the Head Girl but not for class.

If you are indirectly wondering if I am smart or not, I studied medicine. Honestly, I usually don't care what strangers think of me.

You would have to be important in my life for your opinion of me to even count.

Sapasenator:
Sexual compatibility is very important in a romantic relationship and as you mentioned earlier some of his his other endearing qualities. It is something you guys will hash out between yourselves. I believe any skill can be learnt and he is not a lost cause plus if you trully love your woman, you will want to have her satisfied.

I am naturally a curious and experimental guy but I despise receiving heads, I like to giving though but for whatever reason I never enjoy blowjobs. I would rather a handjob than a head .

I have had request to try an*al which I had to decline, also a request for sexual congress during menstrual period was roundly turned down by me as well. Other than those boundaries I don't see why a normal heathy guy should not be able to ravish and engage in a health sexual congress with his girlfriend.

You may have to teach and guide him.

Thank you for understanding. I wish more Nigerian men were like you.

Sharpsharp00123:
sorry porn have messed u up, the west propaganda have ruined many

They make licking plate look normal with their press n now they are done with that they are now making gay look normal

In no time gays will start coming here to create threads about how their partner isn't doing it well

Clearly you don't get it. No use explaining further.

Sharpsharp00123:
ok

I hear u

Make I no talk my mind make fight no start

I promise I no go fight you. The only time I fight someone is when I am paid to do so.

AishaDant:
Thank you for understanding. I wish more Nigerian men were like you.

I wish more Nigerian ladies can be like you as well. Our society is steeped in hypocrisy and religion and I do not do both. You have only one life to live and it I best to fully enjoy yourself while you still can. It may not be a sufficient reason to walk away from the relationship if he is willing to slowly work on himself.

Sapasenator:
I wish more Nigerian ladies can be like you as well. Our society is steeped in hypocrisy and religion and I do not do both. You have only one life to live and it I best to fully enjoy yourself while you still can. It may not be a sufficient reason to walk away from the relationship if he is willing to slowly work on himself.

I just smiled reading this.

Nigerians and hypocrisy, tell me about it.

Well, he has this month to do better or we are done. My happiness is important to me.

I would rather lick a toilet bowl than go down on any woman. You giving BJs does not qualify you to be a recipient as well. The male organ is a not a reservoir of microbes like the female organ. So good luck finding a plate licker.

I have enjoyed BJs when I have had it, but if I love a woman and she is not ok with doing it then I'll have to go without. There's so much more to consider than one sexual act.

AishaDant:
He likes bjs but does not give head.

Sex without head is like trying to use a piece of wood to start your car when the key is lying right beside you. It just doesn't work for me.

A place that looks like raw meat, a place that bleeds monthly and is hardly odorless is where you want a man to stick his mouth because you want to be satisfied? When your man is not a vampire.


Many men won't even finger a woman with their right hand let alone tongue.

AishaDant:
It is a very important part of sexual satisfaction. Most of you males do not understand it but it is fine. 😒

Have you bleeped me before? You don’t know me so don’t be telling me all that. Just giving you a response based on your post. Never said I don’t give my girl BJ

AishaDant:
If you are indirectly wondering if I am smart or not, I studied medicine. Honestly, I usually don't care what strangers think of me.

You would have to be important in my life for your opinion of me to even count.

Noted
I sha still stand with the fact that you are an Headmistress but not for school
I sha know I can make you cum, when you come as the headmaster myself.

*sighs*

This one's problem is that his mumu boyfriend doesn't give head?

You just told everyone that his dick wasn't good enough to make you cum, so you need his tongue.

I'm a redpiller...I don't give head..my dick does a good job already. Make una no feminize us finish.

It's this kind of nonchalance see finish that made the she-goat develop a beard like the he-goat.

Sapasenator:
Na, that Is a fail in my book. He should be able to give at least an hour of "head", 40minutes head alone and about 20minutes of head in combinations with dexterous fingers before proceeding with intimacy. At least two orgasms for the lady before penetrative intercourse.

What reason/s is he giving for failing in this important duty?
What was is background? Are you his first date?

Dafuq is wrong with you?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I have sworn never to put my mouth inside a woman's pussy even if I bath her myself. I will never disgrace my ancestors by subjecting myself under a woman's authority. A woman can give a man bj but it will be foolishness for a man to do the same. These days I don't agree to bj sef because I don't know who dey suffer from epilepsy before they use teeth cut my dick.

AishaDant:
If you are indirectly wondering if I am smart or not, I studied medicine. Honestly, I usually don't care what strangers think of me.

You would have to be important in my life for your opinion of me to even count.

Yeah right!!! Yet you are creating threads looking for attention

Medicine kee you dia

Nonexisting:
I have sworn never to put my mouth inside a woman's pussy even if I bath her myself. I will never disgrace my ancestors by subjecting myself under a woman's authority. A woman can give a man bj but it will be foolishness for a man to do the same. These days I don't agree to bj sef because I don't know who dey suffer from epilepsy before they use teeth cut my dick.

The epilepsy part is crazy...she will bite straight through the spongy tissues of the dick and all hell would be let loose

luminouz:
Yeah right!!! Yet you are creating threads looking for attention

Medicine kee you dia

Last time I checked, silence is still the best answer to a FOOL!!!

AishaDant:
Last time I checked, silence is still the best answer to a FOOL!!!

Yet you replied me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Logic is really far from women

Tallesty1:
A place that looks like raw meat, a place that bleeds monthly and is hardly odorless is where you want a man to stick his mouth because you want to be satisfied? When your man is not a vampire.


Many men won't even finger a woman with their right hand let alone tongue.

The dick can be described the same way. It is An excretory organ, after all.

Let him start small. Fingering first, let him perfect the fingering technique. Next will be intimacy gadgets, he should be the one to use intimacy gadgets on you and throughout those small starts, guide him how to satisfy you encourage him to try his best and boost his ego/confidence when he does well. With time, he may get confidence boost to want to try more like giving head or just be contented with the compromise if he can't.

Macnnoli4:
Let him start small. Fingering first, let him perfect the fingering technique. Next will be intimacy gadgets, he should be the one to use intimacy gadgets on you and throughout those small starts, guide him how to satisfy you encourage him to try his best and boost his ego/confidence when he does well. With time, he may get confidence boost to want to try more like giving head or just be contented with the compromise if he can't.

Thank you but we are way past this now.

He takes two steps forward and five steps back. It is now frustrating for me.
I have a decision to make at the end of the month. My happiness is important to me.

Make use of intimacy gadgets.

MrAmbrose:
Make use of intimacy gadgets.

Been there, done that.

What's the use of having him as a boyfriend if intimacy gadgets do better work than him?

GloriousGbola:
The dick can be described the same way. It is An excretory organ, after all.

The difference is blood; and nature knowing where the dick would work deprived it of all senses but one 😂 😂 😂 😂

Carry his coconut head to your pusssy. The sweet smell alone will entice him to suck it.

Let me tell you the truth it is only man of strong heart that will suck woman. It takes strong heart to do that. So force him during romance to give u head. Once he does it for the first time, he will be doing it always

AishaDant:
We have been dating for exactly two years now and to be honest, he is a very sweet and romantic man. I absolutely adore him because he is kind, caring, gentle and considerate. He also listens... Most men these days, do not listen. My boyfriend listens when it comes to most things. However, when it comes to matters of the bedroom, he is closed-minded, shy and quite reluctant. These are a huge turn off for me but I know nobody is perfect so I talk to him about it and it goes in one ear and out the other. He says fine he would try harder and do what I ask but when the time comes, he shys away, leaving me upset and even frustrated.

Am I being too coded? Alright! He enjoys bjs... He would moan, shake - these things I enjoy. I absolutely enjoy being able to fully satisfy him but what of me? He does not give head!
Crazy huh? Imagine wanting and enjoying something you refuse to give. How is your partner supposed to feel?
Oh and for those of you wondering, I am extremely clean. Maybe too clean even.
This is a problem for me. He is too reserved and finds it difficult to try new things.
Guess what guys? He is talking about marriage when he cannot even satisfy me in the bedroom. I just smile and change topics because I know I am not gonna marry him.
I don't want to be sad and miserable. I am young and I want to be happy and satisfied.

He wants to introduce me to his family officially before he comes to see my family this December. What do I do? He is a very nice man and he is well-behaved, sane, stable but he does not know how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom. What do I do?

OH and he is not on nairaland. He thinks nairaland is boring. He prefers Instagram so hopefully he doesn't see this ever. 😒

if I handle you one night ehn you go dump his broke and impotent ass straight up

Sharpsharp00123:
I don't give head n I don't take it

I believe only a man who can't use his dick rightly will use mouth

I have never used mouth n I will never use it n I don't accept it too cos to me it's dirty no matter how clean u claim u are

Probably it's because of d course I studied in school cos I know much about micro organisms a lot

rubbish post.
No wonder you support Tinubu all because he's your kinsman.
God will punish you miserably for supporting an evil administration

Y everybody jst de para for what d gal said she likes…If you can’t give head, it’s ur choice,stop condemning her on her fantasy..what if una com jam man wey de gv head and also leak ass?She knows what she wants, best she should do is to cont talkin to d guy abt it and if she doesn’t c any change,she look for someone her match

TrustNone:
if I handle you one night ehn you go dump his broke and impotent ass straight up

He is not broke. He is also not impotent. He is just closed-minded in the bedroom. Please don't insult my man. Thank you.

galantjoe:
Carry his coconut head to your pusssy. The sweet smell alone will entice him to suck it.

Let me tell you the truth it is only man of strong heart that will suck woman. It takes strong heart to do that. So force him during romance to give u head. Once he does it for the first time, he will be doing it always

I cannot force him. If it is not something he enjoys, I will not force him.

To be fair, I enjoy going down on him. If he doesn't enjoy doing same for me, I cannot force him.