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Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 11:33pm On Nov 04, 2024
AllBlack:
Good thing you know the females in my family from your phone screen. What phone is that? zPhone? 😁😂

And please, do not elevate yourself so high. Gold digger and LEECH are two different things, you are a LEECH. 😁😂😁
And you were senseless enough to assume my financial state as compared to my boyfriend?

You are just another pathetic slowpoke looking for attention. I will simply ignore you because you're not even worth it.

Obviously another broke loser pouring his frustration on a beautiful lady like me.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 12:03am On Nov 05, 2024
janetakan:
Stinking homo

You are jealous of a beautiful female that's why you are on her post trolling while your family members are hungry and suffering.


I won't be surprised if you are Luminouz's gay partner. Bunch of hopeless fools
K
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 12:05am On Nov 05, 2024
AllBlack:
Good thing you know the females in my family from your phone screen. What phone is that? zPhone? 😁😂

And please, do not elevate yourself so high. Gold digger and LEECH are two different things, you are a LEECH. 😁😂😁
You for leave that girl/homo to me..I go deal with am wella.

On the other femrangutan yelling and screaming for my attention since yesterday, I will soon drive her mad 🤣🤣😡
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by janetakan(f): 1:42am On Nov 05, 2024
luminouz:
You for leave that girl/homo to me..I go deal with am wella.

On the other femrangutan yelling and screaming for my attention since yesterday, I will soon drive her mad 🤣🤣😡
Same way you drove your witch of a mother mad? Eyah
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 2:11am On Nov 05, 2024
janetakan:
Same way you drove your witch of a mother mad? Eyah
K!!!
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Mryacks: 2:37am On Nov 05, 2024
You have said what you want. Forget any negatives you get on here. If you and the guy are not in tandem in that regard, you may eventually cheat in the future onces you find someone else who does that to you. But the thing is, I see you actually ike him and admire those characteristics of his that you mention. Since no one is 100% perfect, you have to really know what you are willing to sacrifice grin
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 6:48am On Nov 05, 2024
Mryacks:
You have said what you want. Forget any negatives you get on here. If you and the guy are not in tandem in that regard, you may eventually cheat in the future onces you find someone else who does that to you. But the thing is, I see you actually ike him and admire those characteristics of his that you mention. Since no one is 100% perfect, you have to really know what you are willing to sacrifice grin
True!

Thank you
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 8:45am On Nov 05, 2024
AishaDant:
True!

Thank you
See this shameless woman..asking a man to lick where stinking period blood comes from? I'm happy the dude refused. Go and find someone else to bother...homo!!

Shame on you
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by EllieJune: 8:50am On Nov 05, 2024
While I advocate s3xual satisfaction for both men and women, I do not advice you to base your entire life decision on that.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AllBlack: 10:50am On Nov 05, 2024
AishaDant:
a beautiful lady like me.
Keep tickling yourself. You should know you can't bestow such an honour upon yourself.
Self gratification shows how empty you are but thats okay.


Do not marry that guy.
Your womb will be full of demonic entities which you will waste plenty time and money on, the fun part is that you might even die in childbirth if you go ahead to marry that guy. it will never be well with you if you marry that guy.

You can go ahead and keep using your other JANATAKANA account to respond, we already know. LOL
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 12:01pm On Nov 05, 2024
EllieJune:
While I advocate s3xual satisfaction for both men and women, I do not advice you to base your entire life decision on that.
I understand. Thank you smiley
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by slimdamatrix1(m): 12:04pm On Nov 05, 2024
AllBlack:
Keep tickling yourself. You should know you can't bestow such an honour upon yourself.
Self gratification shows how empty you are but thats okay.


Do not marry that guy.
Your womb will be full of demonic entities which you will waste plenty time and money on, the fun part is that you might even die in childbirth if you go ahead to marry that guy. it will never be well with you if you marry that guy.

You can go ahead and keep using your other JANATAKANA account to respond, we already know. LOL
Bro no vex o but you be big fool. If someone should ask what the OP did to you now, what would you say?

You're acting like a bitch on a female's post. Have some self respect man.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by janetakan(f): 12:09pm On Nov 05, 2024
AllBlack:
Keep tickling yourself. You should know you can't bestow such an honour upon yourself.
Self gratification shows how empty you are but thats okay.


Do not marry that guy.
Your womb will be full of demonic entities which you will waste plenty time and money on, the fun part is that you might even die in childbirth if you go ahead to marry that guy. it will never be well with you if you marry that guy.

You can go ahead and keep using your other JANATAKANA account to respond, we already know. LOL
All the curses will follow you and your sisters.

All the curses will follow everyone in your bloodline.

Infact, from today I curse you.
Everything you ever touch will turn to sand.
Shame and rejection is your portion!

Everywhere you go or anywhere you enter, people will naturally hate you and want to harm you.

All existing children and unborn children in your bloodline will be/become imbeciles and die as imbeciles.

Imbecility is what your bloodline will be known for starting this minute.

You life shall be empty. Everyone and everything in your life will disappear.

Woe unto you.

It Wil never be well with you and your household forever and ever in Jesus name. Amen!

Everyday of your life shall be painful, empty, miserable and sad. You will look for death and you will not see.

Vagabond!

Nonentity!

Retarded bastard.

Comment on this post again if you were born by a mad witch and a drunk fool!
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by janetakan(f): 12:11pm On Nov 05, 2024
luminouz:
See this shameless woman..asking a man to lick where stinking period blood comes from? I'm happy the dude refused. Go and find someone else to bother...homo!!

Shame on you
The next time you enter a moving vehicle, the car will have an accident and only you will die on the spot.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by ElliotP: 1:53pm On Nov 05, 2024
Don't marry him, because you may end up cheating
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by pryme(m): 3:23pm On Nov 05, 2024
AishaDant:
I understand. Thank you smiley
You have to ask yourself what you can live without.

It's not everyday you find a man that is complete in every facet,
The ones that are rich may have sacrificed their time learning what it takes to be successful, thus their bed skills take the back seat,
Same goes with men that knows their way around the women body, they must have invested a considerable amount of time learning this, while their drive to make money and be successful takes the back sit.

Your decision should be based on an honest question and an honest answer to yourself.

If all fails, let your man know this will be the deal breaker (for you), no point tiptoeing around it.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 5:05pm On Nov 05, 2024
janetakan:
The next time you enter a moving vehicle, the car will have an accident and only you will die on the spot.
K
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by luminouz(m): 5:05pm On Nov 05, 2024
janetakan:
All the curses will follow you and your sisters.

All the curses will follow everyone in your bloodline.

Infact, from today I curse you.
Everything you ever touch will turn to sand.
Shame and rejection is your portion!

Everywhere you go or anywhere you enter, people will naturally hate you and want to harm you.

All existing children and unborn children in your bloodline will be/become imbeciles and die as imbeciles.

Imbecility is what your bloodline will be known for starting this minute.

You life shall be empty. Everyone and everything in your life will disappear.

Woe unto you.

It Wil never be well with you and your household forever and ever in Jesus name. Amen!

Everyday of your life shall be painful, empty, miserable and sad. You will look for death and you will not see.

Vagabond!

Nonentity!

Retarded bastard.

Comment on this post again if you were born by a mad witch and a drunk fool!
K
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 2:30pm On Nov 06, 2024
pryme:
You have to ask yourself what you can live without.

It's not everyday you find a man that is complete in every facet,
The ones that are rich may have sacrificed their time learning what it takes to be successful, thus their bed skills take the back seat,
Same goes with men that knows their way around the women body, they must have invested a considerable amount of time learning this, while their drive to make money and be successful takes the back sit.

Your decision should be based on an honest question and an honest answer to yourself.

If all fails, let your man know this will be the deal breaker (for you), no point tiptoeing around it.
Thank you so much.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 2:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
ElliotP:
Don't marry him, because you may end up cheating
Well, I haven't decided yet.

I am actually starting to see things from a different perspective based on the opinions of some men on my post. Realistically, nobody is 100 percent.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Patented: 2:45pm On Nov 14, 2024
careful, the grass is greener where it is watered. if you would rate him in the top 20% compared to most men then............... be wise
AishaDant:
We have been dating for exactly two years now and to be honest, he is a very sweet and romantic man. I absolutely adore him because he is kind, caring, gentle and considerate. He also listens... Most men these days, do not listen. My boyfriend listens when it comes to most things. However, when it comes to matters of the bedroom, he is closed-minded, shy and quite reluctant. These are a huge turn off for me but I know nobody is perfect so I talk to him about it and it goes in one ear and out the other. He says fine he would try harder and do what I ask but when the time comes, he shys away, leaving me upset and even frustrated.

Am I being too coded? Alright! He enjoys bjs... He would moan, shake - these things I enjoy. I absolutely enjoy being able to fully satisfy him but what of me? He does not give head!
Crazy huh? Imagine wanting and enjoying something you refuse to give. How is your partner supposed to feel?
Oh and for those of you wondering, I am extremely clean. Maybe too clean even.
This is a problem for me. He is too reserved and finds it difficult to try new things.
Guess what guys? He is talking about marriage when he cannot even satisfy me in the bedroom. I just smile and change topics because I know I am not gonna marry him.
I don't want to be sad and miserable. I am young and I want to be happy and satisfied.

He wants to introduce me to his family officially before he comes to see my family this December. What do I do? He is a very nice man and he is well-behaved, sane, stable but he does not know how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom. What do I do?

OH and he is not on nairaland. He thinks nairaland is boring. He prefers Instagram so hopefully he doesn't see this ever. 😒
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 3:47pm On Nov 14, 2024
Patented:
careful, the grass is greener where it is watered. if you would rate him in the top 20% compared to most men then............... be wise
Thank you
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by SITTY: 6:37pm On Nov 14, 2024
Someone is about to loose a promising relationship over trivial sex issues. There is no guarantee you will get someone to fulfill your sexual fantasies and will be eager to the relationship to the next level. Life is about trade offs, if other aspect of the relationship good you should continue with it.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 7:04pm On Nov 14, 2024
SITTY:
Someone is about to loose a promising relationship over trivial sex issues. There is no guarantee you will get someone to fulfill your sexual fantasies and will be eager to the relationship to the next level. Life is about trade offs, if other aspect of the relationship good you should continue with it.
Trivial sexual issues?

The fact that you think my sexual satisfaction is a trivial issue (something that can lead me to cheat on him even after marriage and then eventually destroy our marriage) disqualifies you from dropping an opinion on my post.

Come back when you decide to step into my shoes or see things from a female's point of view. Thank you!
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by wolexy07(m): 11:36am On Nov 15, 2024
AishaDant:
We have been dating for exactly two years now and to be honest, he is a very sweet and romantic man. I absolutely adore him because he is kind, caring, gentle and considerate. He also listens... Most men these days, do not listen. My boyfriend listens when it comes to most things. However, when it comes to matters of the bedroom, he is closed-minded, shy and quite reluctant. These are a huge turn off for me but I know nobody is perfect so I talk to him about it and it goes in one ear and out the other. He says fine he would try harder and do what I ask but when the time comes, he shys away, leaving me upset and even frustrated.

Am I being too coded? Alright! He enjoys bjs... He would moan, shake - these things I enjoy. I absolutely enjoy being able to fully satisfy him but what of me? He does not give head!
Crazy huh? Imagine wanting and enjoying something you refuse to give. How is your partner supposed to feel?
Oh and for those of you wondering, I am extremely clean. Maybe too clean even.
This is a problem for me. He is too reserved and finds it difficult to try new things.
Guess what guys? He is talking about marriage when he cannot even satisfy me in the bedroom. I just smile and change topics because I know I am not gonna marry him.
I don't want to be sad and miserable. I am young and I want to be happy and satisfied.

He wants to introduce me to his family officially before he comes to see my family this December. What do I do? He is a very nice man and he is well-behaved, sane, stable but he does not know how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom. What do I do?

OH and he is not on nairaland. He thinks nairaland is boring. He prefers Instagram so hopefully he doesn't see this ever. 😒
Lol. You think everyone likes to perform MouthAction? I for one, don't and I was always upfront with it in my past relationships. I remember one particular instance when we were about to get down, completely naked and she tried to coerce me into going down on her by saying if I don't, we are not doing anything. I told her to get dressed if that was the case. She was shocked. grin.

Seriously, if a woman gives me that condition, that is the end of the relationship because there is no way I am doing it. By the way, I believe in "give and take". Since I am not "giving", I will never expect to "receive". I have gotten a few in the past and each time, it was of their volition. I never requested for it and never will. I am totally fine without it.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by EdisonCrowd: 11:48am On Nov 15, 2024
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Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by AishaDant(op): 6:39pm On Nov 15, 2024
wolexy07:
Lol. You think everyone likes to perform MouthAction? I for one, don't and I was always upfront with it in my past relationships. I remember one particular instance when we were about to get down, completely naked and she tried to coerce me into going down on her by saying if I don't, we are not doing anything. I told her to get dressed if that was the case. She was shocked. grin.

Seriously, if a woman gives me that condition, that is the end of the relationship because there is no way I am doing it. By the way, I believe in "give and take". Since I am not "giving", I will never expect to "receive". I have gotten a few in the past and each time, it was of their volition. I never requested for it and never will. I am totally fine without it.
Okay. Do you and I'll do me.
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Nobody: 7:46am On Nov 16, 2024
AishaDant:
Okay. Do you and I'll do me.
Call me
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Nobody: 3:50pm On Nov 17, 2024
janetakan:
The next time you enter a moving vehicle, the car will have an accident and only you will die on the spot.
shocked

Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Proserpina: 4:39pm On Nov 17, 2024
Sapasenator:
Unfortunately. I am not applying for any position. Hehehe
grin grin

Hehehe
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by advanceDNA: 4:43am On Nov 18, 2024
AishaDant:
And be sad for the rest of my life? Hmm!
Hahahahahahahaha....

Sad for the rest of ur life.??. because of head..?? Is that d only way you can be sexually satisfied in life?

You are just looking for what's not lost, after filling your head with pornogràphy-driven sexual desires...

Leave the guy for women that will want him the way he is
Re: What To Do With A Closed-minded Boyfriend? � by Sapasenator: 12:29am On Nov 20, 2024
Proserpina:
grin grin

Hehehe
I like the way you laugh. Are you crushing on me? I don't mind at all, my dm is always open for you.
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