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Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Douglad: 7:27pm On Nov 06, 2024
Absolutely nothing
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Babaflenjor: 7:27pm On Nov 06, 2024
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Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by MTCLimited(m): 7:27pm On Nov 06, 2024
Hmmmm
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Mrwhite09: 7:28pm On Nov 06, 2024
I learnt that all these women that i see as saint creatures they r not and also i should stop being afraid of approaching any lady i want for knacking
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:29pm On Nov 06, 2024
People are not usually what they think/claim to be.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by blackboy(m): 7:30pm On Nov 06, 2024
Fear women.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by tutudesz: 7:31pm On Nov 06, 2024
undecided switch off your phone when cheating simple
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Natbrowny: 7:31pm On Nov 06, 2024
He was taken in for a corruption case.
. Tapes were found and leaked. He suppose sue them for cash out.

No correlation between a corruption charge n his sexcapades.

In the tapes shown so far.
**No woman seems forced - no rape (dem dey collect happily n jejely)
**No underage was seen in the video
** No blackmail story so far from the women involved (the guy didnt blackmail nobody)

If the husbands to the women shown wanna do anything - they shud face their wives.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by bamideleoyin(f): 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
grin grin
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Yungbliss(m): 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by BlackyOne: 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
ebubeson:
There are many lessons, opinions, assumptions you may have had from the Equatorial Guinea scandal... You can give yours..

But with what happened, on a sample space, many married women may be living in adultery. So in a place like Nigeria, some of the married women you see around, in your neighbourhood, in your office or maybe religious centres etc, may be living in adultery...

Now assuming, camera was taken for married women in Nigeria, will the case be worse or less?

We have good women in Nigeria.
Trust women at your own risk, I will secretly carry out DNA for all my children.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by VinnyBaba: 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
Dat when it comes to Sex,
only 2 of out 100% of Humans have Morals. sad
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Heffalump(m): 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2024
Nothing is hidden forever.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by chopnaira: 7:33pm On Nov 06, 2024
Fear women.

They are very jealous beings as long as they are not the one that was caught.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by blackboy(m): 7:33pm On Nov 06, 2024
As I said somewhere, the guy is a learner come Nigeria
AmiableMosquito:
Saliva is the best lubricant.
Have a handsome face, a nice body build and a rich pocket, no woman will be able to resist you, even the ones who pretends to be pious.
Trust women at your own peril.
Your boring wife in your bedroom may be a IndecentStar in another man's bedroom.
I no longer trust any EFCC/NFIU Chairman in Nigeria, past or present. Like EQ, like NGA. grin.
Women prefer sex without condoms.
Fvck but don't record. It may hunt you in future. cheesy
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Ebeano49(m): 7:33pm On Nov 06, 2024
Biggest lesson?... AIDS no too dey as they dey hype am. Many for don kpai finish remaining only me and 5 others. grin grin
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by 2mininuP: 7:34pm On Nov 06, 2024
Ah Ah nawa oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo see different comments truly life no balance at allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by DollarLanda: 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2024
ebubeson:
There are many lessons, opinions, assumptions you may have had from the Equatorial Guinea scandal... You can give yours..

But with what happened, on a sample space, many married women may be living in adultery. So in a place like Nigeria, some of the married women you see around, in your neighbourhood, in your office or maybe religious centres etc, may be living in adultery...

Now assuming, camera was taken for married women in Nigeria, will the case be worse or less?

We have good women in Nigeria.
Lessons learned:

1. No ever name your pikin Ebanga you can leave the name for your dog!

2. All wives of notable politicians are pretenders, they all have secret knackers somewhere, all of them!

3. Some or most women are insatiable! Power, money, position or influence can never be enough.

4. There's always someone out there who can do it better than your spouse, if you don't want to find out, better not to start at all!
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by VinnyBaba: 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2024
NamelessOGBENI:
People are not usually what they think/claim to be.
Dat's just it. sad

The most Sexually Depraved Pple are not peeps like Wizkid, Rema, Burnaboy, Tiwa Savage, etc
But Individuals wearing Suit, Tie and Tailored skirts. undecided
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by engrelvis(m): 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2024
six packs dnt attract women.Money n power deos.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Moniya4Real(m): 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2024
The whole episode is a pointer to the fact that"99% of women ,don't like and don't insist on a man using protection. They All like it raw. Personal experience says it all as well.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by popesco123: 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2024
But that guy carry gbola sha.
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by RemiClitHoris: 7:37pm On Nov 06, 2024
Seven Key Takeaways from One Man’s Reckless Affair with Over 400 High-Profile Married Women

The shocking story of a man who allegedly had unprotected encounters with over 400 married women offers a brutal, unfiltered look at modern relationships and exposes uncomfortable truths about commitment, loyalty, and the nature of marriage today. This isn’t just a story of reckless behavior—it’s a wake-up call, a harsh reminder of how fragile marriage can be in today’s society. Here are the seven key takeaways for any man who’s paying attention.

1. Marriage Does Not Guarantee Faithfulness

Marriage is often seen as a commitment, a vow of fidelity. But here’s the harsh reality: a wedding ring doesn’t guarantee loyalty. These women took vows, publicly declared their commitment, yet still sought companionship elsewhere. This isn’t just about one man; it’s a reality check that many people in marriages, both men and women, don’t hold loyalty as highly as society pretends. Marriage should represent trust, but this story reveals that without integrity, that trust is just a hollow promise.

2. Women May Cheat Without Apparent Reason

Society likes to create excuses for why women cheat—dissatisfaction, neglect, or lack of emotional connection. But this situation highlights a disturbing truth: sometimes, there is no clear reason. Some of these women, likely from comfortable, seemingly happy homes, still sought excitement elsewhere. While men are often painted as the ones likely to stray, this story challenges that narrative. Women may not need an apparent reason to cheat; for some, it’s about thrill-seeking, rebellion, or simply the chance to experience something different.

3. Wealth Cannot Ensure Loyalty

Many of these high-profile women were married to wealthy, influential men. Yet even financial stability, luxurious lifestyles, and social status couldn’t keep them from stepping outside their marriages. This is a stark reminder that money alone won’t secure someone’s loyalty. If your relationship’s foundation is based solely on wealth or material comfort, it’s built on shaky ground. True loyalty goes beyond luxury and status; it’s about respect, values, and genuine connection. Money might create comfort, but it can’t buy commitment.

4. Society Lacks a Strong Moral Compass or Clear Guidelines

The sheer scale of this situation underscores that our society’s moral compass is slipping. The idea of integrity, loyalty, and respect in marriage has become blurred, diluted by casual relationships, temptation, and moral relativism. Today’s society has fewer clear guidelines, and loyalty often takes a backseat to instant gratification. The lack of accountability, both personal and societal, feeds this culture of recklessness, where betrayal and disloyalty are treated as “private issues” rather than ethical breaches.

5. Women Might Cheat More Often Than Men—Men Just Handle Theirs Differently

This situation suggests that women may be stepping outside of their marriages more frequently than commonly believed. Men and women might be equally prone to infidelity, but how each gender handles it can differ. Men might compartmentalize or keep affairs strictly physical, while women often seek emotional connection, which can lead to deeper betrayals. The bottom line? Infidelity isn’t a “male problem.” The reality is far more complex, and any assumptions based on gender alone are both misleading and dangerous.

6. Perhaps Marriage Is Overrated?

With so many examples of betrayal, infidelity, and broken vows, it’s valid to question whether marriage in its traditional sense is still relevant. Are people entering marriage for the right reasons, or are they pressured by societal expectations? For many, marriage may no longer represent a lifelong commitment but rather a phase, a temporary state until temptation proves too strong. If marriage is treated so casually by both parties, is it a partnership worth investing in, or is it an outdated institution in need of serious re-evaluation?

7. Many Women Look to Marriage as a Source of Validation

For some women, marriage is less about loyalty and more about social validation. Marriage is often marketed as a milestone, a “goal” to achieve, yet when it’s seen solely as a status symbol, the commitment aspect becomes secondary. This leads to situations where some women, even after securing a “successful” marriage, continue seeking validation elsewhere. They’re looking for excitement, attention, or affirmation outside the confines of marriage because their need for validation wasn’t fulfilled by simply wearing a ring or saying “I do.” This mindset erodes the essence of marriage, turning it into a status rather than a commitment.

The Bottom Line: A Wake-Up Call for Men

This story isn’t just scandalous; it’s a brutal wake-up call about the state of modern relationships. If this situation doesn’t make men rethink their approach to commitment and relationships, nothing will. Don’t get blindsided by the “fairy tale” of marriage. Choose a partner with integrity, loyalty, and mutual values—someone who views commitment as a lifelong promise, not a temporary contract. Because if you’re marrying for superficial reasons, or if she’s with you for status, wealth, or validation, the risk of betrayal is real.

Stay sharp, men. Relationships aren’t what they used to be, and the game has changed. Understand what you’re getting into, set high standards, and never settle for less than a partner who’s in it for the long haul. Choose wisely, because the consequences of ignoring these truths can be devastating.

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Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Bendeco2020: 7:37pm On Nov 06, 2024
Mrwhite09:
I learnt that all these women that i see as saint creatures they r not and also i should stop being afraid of approaching any lady i want for knacking
Na you dey fear them before ni grin

Women are local normally no matter their class or look.

The man is even a high rank official with money also.

Men wey ugly without money can run women if you know the trick to enter them.

When i was in Owerri, i know howmany married women that gave me green light. But i thank God i did not enter them
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by ecomalchemistt(m): 7:39pm On Nov 06, 2024
Go forth and conquer
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Hassanmaye(m): 7:40pm On Nov 06, 2024
ebubeson:
There are many lessons, opinions, assumptions you may have had from the Equatorial Guinea scandal... You can give yours..

But with what happened, on a sample space, many married women may be living in adultery. So in a place like Nigeria, some of the married women you see around, in your neighbourhood, in your office or maybe religious centres etc, may be living in adultery...

Now assuming, camera was taken for married women in Nigeria, will the case be worse or less?

We have good women in Nigeria.
The girl you are treating like an egg someone is fucking her like his dog.

Trust women at your own peril, you can never please them,

They love sex both the hypocrite pretend

They give bad guys free puna while they bill Simpsons

They hate nice guys

The fact that you are Rich that doesn't mean she won't give okada man your puna, how many okada dey Bleep people's wives in Lagos?
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Hmmmmm2024: 7:41pm On Nov 06, 2024
Leave no traces
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Omoawoke(m): 7:42pm On Nov 06, 2024
No woman is unkackable!
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Damilola0147: 7:43pm On Nov 06, 2024
Softmirror:
😂😂😂 The lesson is very obvious. 😂😂😂😂 If the society is wired in such a way that women are allowed to choose their sexmate without any restrictions. 😂😂😂😂 95% of men will be without a woman. Lol ...... 😂. Except the 5% among them who women find sexually appealing. Most of una na just management. Hahahahaha for real this is a FACT.
95% is too much abeg. Who are the 5% ?
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by maxiuc(m): 7:44pm On Nov 06, 2024
Don't keep a memory or a recording of your wrong behavior

Erase Asap
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by wiseone28: 7:45pm On Nov 06, 2024
what is the essence of filming yourself while having s3x when you are not doing porn?

Was he trying to sell the videos in future?
Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by anonymuz(m): 7:46pm On Nov 06, 2024
banom:
What I learned is that Nigerians are unhealthy people.

A man was seeing having unprotected sex with over 400 different women, and no one is talking about the health implication of such careless act..

Everybody is busy talking about the Bleep ...and not the amount of people the man's actions put into health risk.

We just have no value and consciousness for health.
I observed that as well. The guy might be infected and infecting them
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