Friends that want the best for you, the ones that want to see you fail. The real and the fake. What have been your experience so far keeping friends?

Make I sit down learn...

They envy u secretly and planning for yur downfall to be like them
U can't trust anyone except yourself
90% are looking for how to exploit you etc

I learnt many tings abt my 4riends guys precisely.there are some that will neva help you finacialy if u ar down,many are just looking 4 an oppoturnity to chop 4rm you.i hav only 2 friends that can help finacialy.the worst of them ar those richer than you who find it dificult to dial your numba 4 many months.i use to delete some of their numba 4rm my sim. Remba that some ar judas iscariot.

If you're the only one going higher in your friend's circle, you may learn the hard way that your friends can become sworn enemies. Your success is a reminder of their failure, and a mirror to their incompetence. The relationship will progressively becomes a burden to you, since they will expect that you pay the bills of each outings afterall, you're doing better than all. If you refuse to always comply and even worse, started avoiding them, you've planted the seed of hatred, which may lead to something sinister. With the thought of these, you may just decide to keep no friends at all.

pansophist:
If you're the only one going higher in your friend's circle, you may learn the hard way that your friends can become sworn enemies. Your success is a reminder of their failure, and a mirror to their incompetence. The relationship will progressively becomes a burden to you, since they will expect that you pay the bills of each outings afterall, you're doing better than all. If you refuse to always comply and even worse, started avoiding them, you've planted the seed of hatred, which may lead to something sinister. With the thought of these, you may just decide to keep no friends at all.

How about doing everything to make them work out their own success too as you are going higher?

Wow! I wonder what Otedola's and Dangote's friends that did not make it think of them?
It is not easy being rich.

pansophist:
If you're the only one going higher in your friend's circle, you may learn the hard way that your friends can become sworn enemies. Your success is a reminder of their failure, and a mirror to their incompetence. The relationship will progressively becomes a burden to you, since they will expect that you pay the bills of each outings afterall, you're doing better than all. If you refuse to always comply and even worse, started avoiding them, you've planted the seed of hatred, which may lead to something sinister. With the thought of these, you may just decide to keep no friends at all.

seguno2:


How about doing everything to make them work out their own success too as you are going higher?

How about the understanding that you can take a horse to the river but won't make it drink water ?

angelfallz:
Wow! I wonder what Otedola's and Dangote's friends that did not make it think of them?
It is not easy being rich.

He probably won't keep in touch with them.

Never trust anybody

pansophist:
How about the understanding that you can take a horse to the river but won't make it drink water ?

Very valid point. Thanks
The likelihood of having a few who will drink is there sha, hence we have prosperous and progressive societies with less stratification and more social mobility.

seguno2:


Very valid point. Thanks
The likelihood of having a few who will drink is there sha, hence we have prosperous and progressive societies with less stratification and more social mobility.

Yes. It's more of a problem of third world countries with wide income gap and social gap.

It points to a fault, which is the lack of contentment in people. Normally anyone can be friends with even a billionaire, only if they will not burden their billionaire friends with their life issue, and see him as friend that happens to have billions. Friendship between social classes is very possible, but contentment must be practiced.

Friends, I stop keeping friends the day someone I trusted so much someone I took like a brother almost took advantage of me in my own father's house just because I was the only one at home, seriously that why I have trust issues with men, since then I stop keeping friends especially male friends that why I'm always on nairaland most times at least to keep myself company.

We wanna dwell on the positive and good side alone.......for the topic.

They taught us to Always stay motivated and to know that there is always a brighter side in life.

They taught us that we Are Never Alone.

They taught us how to Be Better.

They taught us that Some Secrets Are Better when Shared.

They taught us how to Apologize.

They taught us that Quality is More Important than Quantity.

They taught us how to Really Trust Someone.

We Rise.

Never pass weed to dem
Dey will finish it

Hmm
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No matter..... Never rat on your Friends.
And always keep your mouth shut.

A Friend In Need Is a Friend Indeed.
Be wary of your Friends..... The same cats that you hang with can set you up and wet you up.

neonly:
They envy u secretly and planning for yur downfall to be like them
U can't trust anyone except yourself
90% are looking for how to exploit you etc

Preach

Don't trust them no matter how nice they are

Only GOD cares about your best interests, no money no padi. Everybody dey find easiest way out, you are mostly a tool for that

Never ever give a friend 100% trust.

Reading...

Some so called friends are low key happy that they are doing better than u,once they sense u are making things happen for yourself envy sets in n u start hearing things that will break your heart

Some will fight u straight up when they can't hide it any longer

Some will bad mouth u in front of everyone,some friends worse pass judas

From the list of friends- males and females, I have come to realize that there is no friend as Jesus

Jesus is trustworthy, reliable, always there for me

Make sure you're their friend as much as you say they are yours.

E get why.

Many!

Friends are good wen u have trusted ones, but u are a living dead wen u hv fake friends