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Why do I feel like this message is indirectly being sent to my Ex

She got married to a man who's old enough to be her father . Shame no let the werey post their pre-season abi na pre-wedding photos . Na her family members help her post am...

Balthasar is over 50 years old.

Coming from people who would marry an ape, as long as he has money. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. You don't ask for anything....you completely obey...and submit to that man you jump at because of his money!
Address that first...then we shall discuss age disparities.

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If only there is a quadratic equation for marriage...

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allen113:
Who knows how Reginal they cope?

You mean Regina that is using social media postings here and there to conceal her inner pains?

If a girl of 22-23 married to a man of 60+ tells you she is happily married, just take it that she is likely related to Lie Mohammed.

I may be wrong but I think there's a relationship between personality and age.

Sonnobax15:

Why do I feel like this message is indirectly being sent to my Ex

She got married to a man who's old enough to be her father . Shame no let the werey post their pre-season abi na pre-wedding photos . Na her family members help her post am...

E be like say de thing still dey pain you.
No be every old man be like Regina husband wey dey embarrass himself for social media everyday. Your Ex's husband fit no like that kind paparazzi.

sirblend:
My boss is over 50 and in his office he smashed young ladies below 25 years. Funny thing is this ladies know my boss is married but still come to his office for smashing..

What money cannot do, more money will do.

Greet your Oga for me.

I don't have to read this long epistle to know that this OP typed rubbish.


Ned is 40 years older than Regina and their marriage is blissful.

I am 7years older than my wife and we been together for 9yrs+..... Women I noticed love men they can look up too..... And trust me the maturity and age gap matches both energy.... If you going marry your age mate, do it in your twenties.... So that both energy will sync.... Because after that age, omooo you on your own.... A guy I know 37 married his wife 35, he's not finding peace...... From my observation both of their will power is strong by default

The irony of the present world.

People suddenly turning to experts and motivational speakers in topics they know little about and giving advice on what they have not experienced

bestman09:
Marriage is complex

Just make sure you have lots of money as a man in NIGERIA and the wife will always respect you, no matter the age difference!

This is just it. Get batter money

bestman09:
Marriage is complex. I know someone who married his age mate and they are living happily while another buddy is always fighting with his wife because she doesn't respect him because they are the same age. However, it is always better for the man to be older than the wife with 5-10 years as the wife will give him more respect, all things being equal!

Just make sure you have lots of money as a man in NIGERIA and the wife will always respect you, no matter the age difference!

Ok, but you should know that if you as a man is respected by your wife because you have money, then she doesn't really respect you as her husband. Marriage isn't complex. It's the people involved that kake it complex.

DigitB:
I don't have to read this long epistle to know that this OP typed rubbish.


Ned is 40 years older than Regina and their marriage is blissful.

The social media paparazzi does not always tell the true story bro. Be careful with the word " blissful"

I'm 37 now and can marry a girl of 20 and we she go look old pass me especially after she gives birth

E get why

Man and woman body no be d same

sirblend:
My boss is over 50 and in his office he smashed young ladies below 25 years. Funny thing is this ladies know my boss is married but still come to his office for smashing..

The office must have a horrible stench by now. Some people have no boundaries at all.

sirblend:
@op

At 40 a lot of men are still horses and destroyers in the other room...

Forget about hearsay.......Men's libido seem to drop because of financial burden and a high level of stress...

100%

GrammarNazi1:
The age difference is too much.

well Ned Nwanko and Reginal age difference pass 20 years, while France president and wife also more like 20 years old than husband , so this life is complicated , we can’t fully understand it all

Eniitankorede:
The Equatorial Guinea sex god is 54 years and all the young women left their so called young husbands to go and have a piece of his action. He is more than 30 years older than some of the women. You have no case.” F “off please

Hehehehehe

People marry for different reasons. Age difference would matter more to a man who is looking to have babies in his marriage, while his counterpart who doesn't want more kids will not mind the age of a woman. As for women, as long as you are rich, they are okay even if you are 100 years and incapable of impregnating a woman.

seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

Abeg rest.
Age is but a number

In this life just do your mind

To marry an older or younger partner is not a sin.
But premarital sex, extra marital sex, fornication and adultery is a SIN against God, against your partner and against your body

InvertedHammer:
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If only there is a quadratic equation for marriage...

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Yes, there is, it is X + Y = Ebanga 54 , then Ebanga + 400 women = Equatorial Guinea Pablo Escobar of Sex and Marriage, QED

Is age really a thing to consider when getting married outside Northern Nigeria?

Chizmickey:
Age is just a number, most of this matured people are the healthiest to be in a relationship with

But they can't do for long

seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

age is ordinary number when money and comfort is talking. Rethink this and leave book philosophies aside for now.

I will be 40yts by next year. Am not yet married but to be sincere I will marry a girl that is not more than 28yrs..

Ramblings of a Religious Beta Male.

I don't have strength to starting debunking most false premises on this write up with hardcore RedPill facts.

Everybody should just do or go for what suits them.

GrammarNazi1:
The age difference is too much.

Regina said so before Ned came.

Equatorial guinea minister na 55yrs and still de fire pass some 20yr odds