Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Of course, it ok if you love her and she agrees to marry you.

Nothing wrong with that.if you two are mentally matured enough to be married then Go ahead .

But be on the look out for endless possibilities

good luck to you

It’s very ok, infact that’s how it should be

virginprincess:
Of course, it ok if you love her and she agrees to marry you.

You like your guys older and matured too?

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

35-22 is not an issue...as long as no ody is forcing anyone.....look out for red flags. dont just marry a woman for beauty or youthfulness....

That aside

Has she graduated...?? If you are planning on funding education before marriage dont be like emeka who did the same thing....paying school fees and upkeep yet her fine boy mate was offing pant on campus...

by the time emeka's babe became a graduate of law...emeka don clock 43 years plus thanks to ASUU....

26 year old babe say emeka too old for am that the heart cannot be forced to love....and u know how women talk..." shebi its ordinary help emeka did" why is emeka trying to make it look like she mist marry him.....

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Please consider a more mature lady in age and orientation. Marriage to an 18 - 25 years old can be very challenging. I hope you survive it, if you do.

Just make sure she's not the lastborn of the family so she won't wake up one midnight and be shouting"I Want To See My Mummy"
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IRMC with my kenya loud

Were you supposed to marry an evening news paper?

Nothing wrong in it, Bro.

As far as she is Fine, simple, down to heart, respectful and have some Maturity...

because most 22yr old Babes in Naija, na Iphone, Instragram, Tiktok, Asoebi and Sharwarma full dier heads...

Rozross:
It’s very ok, infact that’s how it should be

Hahaha...Dat hw it should be.

Meaning u agree dat its wrong for a Man to marry a 30± lady..

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

I support you with three bags of rice.
Carry on my brother. May your home be filled with joy.

Quick question:
Is she a virgin or disvirgined by you?

Wallade:


Please consider a more matured lady in age and orientation. Marriage to an 18 - 25 years old can be very challenging. I hope you survive it, if you do.

Shut up!
Good things come with challenge.
Nothing good comes easy.

22 is a bit old, why not go for someone 18. Una go get sense by force. Keep marrying them in their hoe phase and continue fathering bastards.

Vinnie2000:


Hahaha...Dat hw it should be.

Meaning u agree dat its wrong for a Man to marry a 30± lady..

Even the women know that they are not appealing at that age.
They wouldn't advice their sons to marry a woman of 30+.

Go and marry a 65 year old woman na.

You are 35 years old and you don't know what you need. Hian!


When you get married, you probably would ask us which time you should have sex with your wife.

Rozross:
You like your guys older and matured too?

No,but i love at least 4-5yrs differences,what about you?

Vinnie2000:


Nothing wrong in it, Bro.

As far as she is Fine, simple, down to heart, respectful and have some Maturity...

because most 22yr old Babes in Naija, na Iphone, Instragram, Tiktok, Asoebi and Sharwarma full dier heads...

This is why you should marry a woman in her prime (18 -23).
If she has sense at this age, then you're sure that she will have sense for life.
Not the ones who received sense after their pvssies were badly used.

As we have said many times-
No, it’s not alright. Best be age mates 25-22 or 35-30.
A lady at 22 is just coming into her own. You have sown your wild oats and are looking to settle down and she’s just a spring chicken.
What are her career goals ?
Are you sponsoring her to go to school?
Is she content with being a house wife ?
How you both interact and nurture the relationship ( start with dating her ) goes a long way. Does she feels loved and swoon “ hey honey let’s hit the club or honey you look dazzling “ than marrying her father who says “ do this or do that “ “ cook this or cook that “
Personally - relationship first ! let her hit 25 years and observe the maturity.
Finally, ask yourself were you ready to marry at 22 ?

virginprincess:
No,but i love at least 4-5yrs differences,what about you?

Minimum of 10yrs, I don’t want to ever stop been a baby before my man. �

If she is through with school (or about to) and has at least one skill (sewing, hair stylist, makeup, ICT etc) please do marry her and grow together in love

rickleye:
As we have said many times-
No, it’s not alright. Best be age mates 25-22 or 35-30.
A lady at 22 is just coming into her own. You have sown your wild oats and are looking to settle down and she’s just a spring chicken.
What are her career goals ?
Are you sponsoring her to go to school?
Is she content with being a house wife ?
How you both interact and nurture the relationship ( start with dating her ) goes a long way. If she feels loved and swoon “ hey honey let’s hit the club or honey you look dazzling “ than marrying her father who says “ do this or do that “ “ cook this or cook that “
Personally - relationship first ! let her hit 25 years and observe the maturity.
Finally, ask yourself were you ready to marry at 22 ?

Are you married?
Before I ask you something fundamental

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Lol it's okay she is an adult.
I hope sha is matured because some 20 years old behave like kids nowadays.
Anyway good luck in your marriage

Judging frm ur post it seems u nd the girl haven't bond that much, I am suspecting u saw her nd find her appealing to ur standards. But if I am to advise u bros, I would say u take ur time to get to knw each other, don't rush into marriage bcus of the pressure of society. Many girls at that age are quite shallow in their heads. Don't rush into marriage.

Rozross:
Minimum of 10yrs, I don’t want to ever stop been a baby before my man. �

Really!,to me 10yrs is too much,i can't marry a guy above 30 for now,i'm still in my early 20's so i probably need a guy in his late 20's.

rickleye:
As we have said many times-
No, it’s not alright. Best be age mates 25-22 or 35-30.
A lady at 22 is just coming into her own. You have sown your wild oats and are looking to settle down and she’s just a spring chicken.
What are her career goals ?
Are you sponsoring her to go to school?
Is she content with being a house wife ?
How you both interact and nurture the relationship ( start with dating her ) goes a long way. If she feels loved and swoon “ hey honey let’s hit the club or honey you look dazzling “ than marrying her father who says “ do this or do that “ “ cook this or cook that “
Personally - relationship first ! let her hit 25 years and observe the maturity.
Finally, ask yourself were you ready to marry at 22 ?

The lady is an adult and is fine to make her own decisions, as long as she want to get married at 22 let her.
Not everyone want to sow wild oats

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jeromestarks:

I support you with three bags of rice.
Carry on my brother. May your home be filled with joy.

Quick question:
Is she a virgin or disvirgined by you?

Jesus, Old man why are you derailing the thread with your usual trash.
I wish nairaland have a block button so I wont be seeing all your trash , I mean if what you are saying is sensible you dont have to keep repeating it na.
Ejoo abeg get sense small na

you want to marry her. does she want to marry you?
is she fully aware of what she is about to get into?
You need to be sure of the answer to these questions before she wakes up one day and tells the world that you manipulated her, took advantage (this is their favourite line) and she is now aware and no longer interested. Most of them at this age bracket act on impulse and would say yes to anything that fulfils their cinderella or cardi-b fantasies and they get bored easily when the fanfare dies off.

How about you? Are you sure you are aware of what you are about to do?

I'm coming

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

I'm more concerned that a 35yr old man is looking to get the approval of unknown folks for something as minor like this. You are both adults. Don't live your life based on people's opinion