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Queencrayon:
Women & men cheat. Only a disciplined partner won’t cheat on you.
I know someone who has decided to stay off sex in her marriage. Sex is always boring. She has never been satisfied.Once her husband is satisfied; it is till next time. Coupled with the fact that her husband verbally, physically abuses her & cheats on her. Abuses her extended family too.
She has decided to stay married but without intimacy. She’s not cheating & has never cheated on her partner. Just psychologically checked out.
However, her husband does cheat occasionally & consistently gaslights & manipulates the whole cheating & abuses to make her feel like an insane person.
You think if she wasn’t disciplined she wouldn’t have cheated on that kind of spouse?

She is going through hell.
And what's worse she dare not say she is cheating because her husband doesn't satisfy her. This is where the feminist will make a case because of men like this.

lexy2014:
did interview all the women involved and they told you all this?

It was generated by Chatgpt

Women don't run to men for sex because of their ego and the fear of consequences when the bubble bursts, so they contain themselves more while men don't care so much.
When these women are approached, most especially by a highly placed man or rich man or one with great confidence and looks, they will get these women, either married or unmarried.

Whatever

purples25:
Men will not care for all these reasons. They feel they have the right to cheat, even the right to have excuses to cheat, but the woman does not. And unlike women, they often don't forgive it.

Nature made it so. Nobody is blaming Baltesar the Banger but everyone is blaming the married women he banged and most of them would probably lose their marriage and it will be very difficult for any of them to remarry. Even if they manage to get a relationship they will still be battling with mistrust and prejudice.

The man can easily remarry happily within weeks even if his wife decides to leave today. Some ladies on TikTok and other Social Media are even showing interest in the man already incase his wife decides to quit.

Men also cheat.....

It's konji that caused it..there are many women that cannot control their sexual urge.
They lack self discipline and self control when it comes to sex temptation ..
And the love for money and material things can also make them cheat especially if their husband or partner is not rich and cannot take good care of them and provide their needs they will prefer to date and sleep with men that are rich and can lavish them with money and material things

Greatzeus:
Very much likely because he is good in bed. It can't be money since those women are well to do and have rich husbands.

Nope, there should be other dimensions to it. Are they informing themselves about his prowess in the other room? I don't think so.

Stop the dogon turanci! Ladies cheat because they want to cheat period!

purples25:
Men will not care for all these reasons. They feel they have the right to cheat, even the right to have excuses to cheat, but the woman does not. And unlike women, they often don't forgive it.

Signature: I'm doing my best not to sit on a throne deeek that other people made for me.

just kidding.

You are a Queen!

Hahaha...money my money...no dick is so sweet that all women would agree to just go and bang someone.

He paid each woman $16k

You forgot to add hypergamy and Nymphomania.

Pennilessword1:
Hahaha...money my money...no dick is so sweet that all women would agree to just go and bang someone.

He paid each woman $16k

That na Just bloggers rumour.

MightySparrow:
Nope, there should be other dimensions to it. Are they informing themselves about his prowess in the other room? I don't think so.

They might be in the same telegram or Whatsapp naughty groups.

You omitted number 1 on the list: hoeism

purples25:
Men will not care for all these reasons. They feel they have the right to cheat, even the right to have excuses to cheat, but the woman does not. And unlike women, they often don't forgive it.

I'm a woman. I don't forget cheating.

Tor

ceejayluv:
They might be in the same telegram or Whatsapp naughty groups.

I guess you belong to one?🤣🤣🤣
If not,how do u know?

Berankis:
Women don't run to men for sex because of their ego and the fear of consequences when the bubble bursts, so they contain themselves more while men don't care so much.
When these women are approached, most especially by a highly placed man or rich man or one with great confidence and looks, they will get these women, either married or unmarried.

Why was he recording nonsense?🤣🤣..He never knew an investigator could be investigated?

Queencrayon:
Women & men cheat. Only a disciplined partner won’t cheat on you.
I know someone who has decided to stay off sex in her marriage. Sex is always boring. She has never been satisfied.Once her husband is satisfied; it is till next time. Coupled with the fact that her husband verbally, physically abuses her & cheats on her. Abuses her extended family too.
She has decided to stay married but without intimacy. She’s not cheating & has never cheated on her partner. Just psychologically checked out.
However, her husband does cheat occasionally & consistently gaslights & manipulates the whole cheating & abuses to make her feel like an insane person.
You think if she wasn’t disciplined she wouldn’t have cheated on that kind of spouse?

Check on her often..Depression is real..She's going through alot..

Franzinni:
Everyone cheats ...

Men only love to talk about it .. but woman will take it to the grave

🤣🤣🤣...

ezegenigbonine:
It only takes fear of God for either man or woman not to cheat.

Women takes revenge on there husband when they feels offended or cheated even without proper investigation, so it's only by the grace and fear of God that can quench there anger which might lead to cheating while seeking for consolation elsewhere.

Exactly, only the fear of God.

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purples25:
Men will not care for all these reasons. They feel they have the right to cheat, even the right to have excuses to cheat, but the woman does not. And unlike women, they often don't forgive it.

Women don't forgive too, we just pretend to have forgiven....

ceejayluv:
They might be in the same telegram or Whatsapp naughty groups.

I have heard more details about it. I think you are correct. I learned the man is even threatening to sue any of these women if they say anything against him that he has all of them recorded and all the things they say about their husbands!
Nawa o.

Women cheat and blame men....all of the reasons in this post and many more are what they present as the reason why. There is no doubt that some men can be unattached and refuse to show emotion as this come across as weakness. The average african man wasnt thought to show or display emotion. Anything we do now is as a result of what we are trying to learn or what we see. Some men grew up to understand that buying things and showering their women with gifts and expensive stuff (who doesnt right?) is a way to show love Now what women need to understand and how men can be help is to be UNDERSTANDING and kind. Many men need some prompts and reminders.

Chinny024:
Why was he recording nonsense?🤣🤣..He never knew an investigator could be investigated?

The guy must be a Psychopath! And the insane officials that leaked the videos should also not go unpunished severely for bringing embarrasment to the country (Equatorial Guinea) and entire continent.

GanagiBitrus:
You are not considering the kids. Imagine the trauma seeing such sordid pictures of daddy...

What about the kids of those married women seeing their mum's being lashed on office table by someone else other than their Dad, and kids of that woman observed drinking Engonga's pee.

Numerous Family feuds will be going on in Guinea

blackboy:
I really wonder why this incident is like news or surprise to many. In Nigeria worse is being done by students, nysc officials, teachers, lecturers, politicians, public servants and even gatemen. I have stories I can share. Was it not of recent someone came on nairaland or was it not a story on nairaland someone said this year alone body count was like 400( I can't remember the exact amount). This trending man is a learner come to Nigeria. It was not 400 women in one second or one day. This could have spanned years for him. Fear men Fear women.

His video clips evidence make a lots of difference

Fryx:
The best way is to never try to satisfy a woman. Learn to be dramatic and demanding as a man, and the woman will feel the need to please you. Else, she will blame you for all her stupidity.

This has always worked for me. Even the most demanding and unreasonable woman I have ever seen changed her rules for me.

How can you be dramatic and demanding. I need the tips.

member13:
Oga, did you watch those videos? Those women were so into him. They were kissing him and looking at him with doe eyes. You can't blackmail a woman into acting like that; it is impossible. The comments from many men on this site have just shown me that so many of us men do not understand women sexuality at all. Try to blackmail a woman into sleeping on tape with you and see where that will land you. Heck, so many of our African porn stars cover their faces when shooting, let alone women married to powerful men. They were there because of the good knacking. How can someone that is being blackmailed be grinning from ear to ear and adjusting the camera? Which kain blackmail be that?

Did he also blackmail the president's wife's niece? Come on man!

I want you to understand that from those videos, that was definitely not the first time he banged those women. He must have met with some resistance on their first knackiing session. The most difficult part of bedding a woman is the first time. He could have blackmailed them for the first sex. But when they discovered how good he was, they certainly came back for more and even agreed to be filmed.

These are my arguments.

kenex4ever:
is it not a shame that all the women flock around one man

One man sinned, 400women sinned. Two different things.

What about those he could not capture on video.

Yeah...they all did bad. But the man is the main topic here, he was the one featured in over 400 videos, each of those women were featured once or a few. He had 400! Yet, the focus was more on the women....is it clearer now?