Just start with a decent lady, well-covered, looking innocent, focused and reserved. From your first sight, you just assumed this one may be a virgin, wife-material or maybe a mum's girl. She looks so tender and fragile; indeed you even started telling your friends that this lady may be a virgin or so; but you discovered that as you started dating her, she told you she has had sex about 30 times, and she has had 5 boyfriends. Not just a lady, a guy too. As a girl, you saw a decent-looking guy, looks like a pastor, tender and "innocent"; but as you started rolling on, he told you he had done 5 abortions with his ex-girlfriends..

How will you keep it up?

we all have pasts but then pasts get levels, some pasts are so deep and can never be forgotten. Some pasts are so bad that if care is not taken,whenever karma shows up, anybody around the person involved may also partake in d punishment. As 4 me,if I can't take it,I move on.

Honestly this things you mentioned are pardonable but if you mention that you were a cultist and you've killed before no matter how I try to hid my disappointment and fear you'll still notice it and once I leave no more

chiommy123:
Honestly this things you mentioned are pardonable but if you mention that you were a cultist and you've killed before no matter how I try to hid my disappointment and fear you'll still notice it and once I leave no more

can't you marry an ex-cultist that has killed? They kill rivals mainly...You no dey forgive?

warriorguy:
can't you marry an ex-cultist that has killed? They kill rivals mainly...You no dey forgive?

rivals ko rivers ni my dear my life is very very important to me

chiommy123:
rivals ko rivers ni my dear my life is very very important to me

we have retired cultists...

warriorguy:
we have retired cultists...

retired kwa? As in he was working in an office before he retired. Once you mention that word iam miles away from you whether active oh, inactive oh, retired or whatever

the only past I can pardon is a non-whôré past.

if you were a whôré before you'll be a whôré forever. people don't change.

when it comes to sex our history is our present. if you were a whôré and got AIDS you can't call Aids your history. it's your present. just like if whoring made you a single mother, you can't call your child your history. the kid is your present.

I can't marry a single father.

Preshy561:
I can't marry a single father.

you are on your own. most women dig single fathers.
check out this post from NYpost.



source:
https://nypost.com/2016/08/31/anthony-weiner-is-right-kids-are-total-chick-magnets/

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Anthony Weiner is right:
Kids are total chick
magnets
When John David goes to the grocery store with
his 2-year-old son, his main concern isn’t
managing potential tantrums or finding the proper
brands of food — it’s fielding flirtations from the
women who ogle his kid in the checkout line.
“Women have definitely hit on me while I am with
my kid,” says the 35-year-old project manager
from Battery Park, dad to Benjamin and married for
five years. “It happens once or twice a week that I
get approached by women … I get approached the
most at the grocery store when I’m at checkout,
since you are kind of stuck there.
“The opening line is usually, ‘How old is he? Is
that your only one? Are you here by yourself?’ ”
When news broke earlier this week that Anthony
Weiner, 51, had allegedly sent sexually suggestive
pictures of himself to a woman on Twitter, the
shocking part wasn’t that he had been caught
sexting yet again — but that he included a picture
of his sleeping 4-year-old son in the picture .
He then suggested his son was “a chick magnet.”
While it’s appalling that Weiner used pictures of
his son to woo women online, he’s accurate about
one thing: To many woman, nothing is more
attractive on a man than a child.
“I have been approached by women twice,” says
Justin Key, a 28-year-old member of the Army who
lives in Brooklyn with his wife and 3-year-old son,
Jair. “The opening line is usually, ‘Oh, he’s
handsome, just like his father.’ It’s very flattering;
it’s nice to know somebody is checking me out. I
am never rude about [turning them down], I just go
about my business.”
According to Susan Trombetti, a celebrity
matchmaker and owner of Exclusive Matchmaking,
the attraction single women feel for men with
babies is completely instinctual.
“Nothing like a cute toddler to make a woman’s
baby clock start that inaudible ticking that only she
can hear,” says Trombetti. “Women love to nurture.
Also, I think women with their biological clock
ticking fall for it. They think, ‘This man needs a
mommy for his baby,’ and many women scoop up
men like that. The perception is that women can
take care of children better than men, but this isn’t
always true — but women love to play the role of
mommy and it appeals to them.”
But even though Weiner may be guilty of using his
baby as date bait — as were the guys in the 1987
flick “Three Men and a Baby” — most New York
men find the practice abhorrent.
“Me and my friends have spoken about this very
subject, guys using their kids as chick magnets,”
says Nicholas Horovitz, 32, an architect based in
Manhattan who has two kids, ages 3 and 1. “I
think that it is kind of desperate for guys to use
their kids to get women. I have never had an
interest in doing that and I will leave that for the
guys who have puppies.”
David agrees, but says he’s seen others commit
the sin. “I have never used my son to get women.
But I do have some male friends that have used
their kids [to get dates]. It’s an easy ice breaker.”
According to a recent study by
MummyPages.co.uk , a website aimed at mothers,
71 percent of single dads have posted pictures of
their kids on their dating app profile, apparently in
a bid to attract hormone-riddled women.
In comparison, only 24 percent of single mothers
include their kids in their online dating profiles,
which some say is indicative of how society views
single moms versus single dads.
“There’s definitely a double standard,” says Leah
Klungness, a psychologist and co-author of “ The
Complete Single Mother .”
“Single dads typically enjoy ‘hero’ status, and
understand that these images boost their appeal.
Single moms know that their kid responsibilities
are often seen as an unwanted burden by potential
romantic partners.”
While his sleazy approach might have scored
Weiner some flirty messages from women, it might
have backfired in more ways than one. It was
reported Wednesday that the state Administration
for Children’s Services would be launching a probe
into the care of the boy.
But dads say that even if they’re not out looking for
the attention on their own, they can’t help it if they
get it — and at the very least it provides a nice ego
boost.
“One time a woman did approach me at the
supermarket and my wife stepped in and rolled her
eyes,” says David. “But I have to admit, it does
feel good, like, ‘Yes, I still got it!’ ”

Preshy561:
I can't marry a single father.

wat if he Neva tell u b4 marriage

past is past,
it's better u know,
what u don't know is dangerous.
NB: no one has a 100% decent past.

Easybela:
we all have pasts but then pasts get levels, some pasts are so deep and can never be forgotten. Some pasts are so bad that if care is not taken,whenever karma shows up, anybody around the person involved may also partake in d punishment. As 4 me,if I can't take it,I move on.

this ur comment get better weight...nice one.

ubunja:
the only past I can pardon is a non-whôré past.

if you were a whôré before you'll be a whôré forever. people don't change.

when it comes to sex our history is our present. if you were a whôré and got AIDS you can't call Aids your history. it's your present. just like if whoring made you a single mother, you can't call your child your history. the kid is your present.

this nigga deep oh

warriorguy:
can't you marry an ex-cultist that has killed? They kill rivals mainly...You no dey forgive?

so u want her make she become young widow...rival gangs no wan know whether u don quit oh

It's better you bear it all to your partner how dirty your past is so they don't get very disappointed along the way when they start discovering themselves

I won't want to hear my girls past in that detail especially her sex life, it's not necessarily

Deepfeel:
I won't want to hear my girls past in that detail especially her sex life, it's not necessarily

it will be very painful abi

warriorguy:
it will be very painful abi

Not just painful, it will corrupt the sweet lovely taste I have for her, so it's better I don't hear her past

Deepfeel:

Not just painful, it will corrupt the sweet lovely taste I have for her, so it's better I don't hear her past

it's good u hear small abi

That's why people don't give too much details. You start saying "i have had sex 100 times"..., "I had 10 partners"... Who is even asking for all these details?

Is it either you are a virgin or you are not. The guy can as well go for a virgin. And the ladies that are no longer virgins were deflowered by a guy. It's just a crazy selfish cycle.

Am so glad some one brought this up.so some days ago I was having a conversation with some friends and so this guy brought this topic up cause he had a gf who appeared simple, modest,and she was from a Rich home but u would never see this babe outside except on errands,she was always on her own,no friends except her younger sister.anyone who came to their house had something nice to say about her so this made this guy proud of her and besides it took years to get close to her b4 asking her out and another two years before he could sleep with her.to his surprise she was a Virgin.so years into their relationship he noticed she started being extremely insecure and she watches porn and even sexchats on 2go.but she's not on fb or any other social media. Right now he's confused about being with her and it wrong to leave her maybe she's was too lonely and this made her channel her loneliness into things of the world.I told him to talk to her and know what she's going through at least she doesn't cheat on u that is a big thing

emmysolo2001:
Am so glad some one brought this up.so some days ago I was having a conversation with some friends and so this guy brought this topic up cause he had a gf who appeared simple, modest,and she was from a Rich home but u would never see this babe outside except on errands,she was always on her own,no friends except her younger sister.anyone who came to their house had something nice to say about her so this made this guy proud of her and besides it took years to get close to her b4 asking her out and another two years before he could sleep with her.to his surprise she was a Virgin.so years into their relationship he noticed she started being extremely insecure and she watches porn and even sexchats on 2go.but she's not on fb or any other social media. Right now he's confused about being with her and it wrong to leave her maybe she's was too lonely and this made her channel her loneliness into things of the world.I told him to talk to her and know what she's going through at least she doesn't cheat on u that is a big thing

let him be patient with her

depends on the past.....but it will be in the Lady interest, if she tells me first..because if I hear from secondary sources... the marriage/relationship ends!!!

babyfaceafrica:
depends on the past.....but it will be in the Lady interest, if she tells me first..because if I hear from secondary sources... the marriage/relationship ends!!!

end marriage?

warriorguy:
end marriage?

yes

warriorguy:
it's good u hear small abi

Just a shallow of it, not in details like how many times she had sex how many men, how many abortions etc I don't want to hear that

Deepfeel:

Just a shallow of it, not in details like how many times she had sex how many men, how many abortions etc I don't want to hear that

That one is painful ooh!!

Bad past will hunt the person to the grave. Thank God, my past was clean.

There’s no point looking like a pastor, or somewhat decent when you’re not.. just be yourself. We all have our pasts. Some are worth remembering while some we wish never happened, all na past. Told my wife 2 ladies did abort for me while I was still in the world, she told me hers too.. she once had to removed an unwanted baby. She didn’t know wussup then. That doesn’t take away the fact that she’s a good girl to me. We shared all the gist, laughed about them and moved on.. now when copulating I eat her well cos she’s clean right there.. this is a thing I never did with all d babes I dated oh . We good and bouncing

I gotta think long and hard about this one

It is well