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| Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by FRANCISTOWN(op): 2:03pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Hi guys! It's been a while. I took on a project and the client wanted to choke the life out of me. These retired professors are dangelos with their big big grammars. First thing first, no Nigerian 21st century woman is good for a romantic relationship. They might be good for something else, but you see this romantic relationship, forget it. All of them are like that. But some men will swear with their lives that their own women are different. Some men in Equatorial Guinea would have sworn that their wives were different until they saw the videos they made with Baltasar with their own eyes. To those men who say their woman is different. I agree with you that your woman is different, but she's only different because her secrets have not been exposed. The only decent woman is a woman whose secrets have not been exposed. My older cousin once bought a car and smuggled it in from Coutonu, he repainted the car and fixed every other thing and the car was looking new. Two years later he wanted to go out one morning but the car wouldn't start. He called a mechanic only to discover that the engine knocked. How come? The car he drove home himself the previous day. He was even more confused because he serviced this car regularly. Since then, he made up his mind to only buy brand new cars with nylon. He bought another car, this time around it was new , and he used the car for almost 6 years before he sold it out. I'm not saying new cars won't get faulty, but it will be a known fault, a fault that'll arise under your use and with proper maintenance, the faults can be managed before they escalate.. For those who use cars. You'll understand that you don't make just any random mechanic repair your cars. You'll have your own dedicated mechanic. The reason is because several mechanics have different skills and approach to fixing a car and also, when you suddenly change your mechanic, it will tell on your car. The same way with phones. If a phone that has never been loosened to repair develops a fault. The technician will ask if the phone had ever been loosened or fixed. This is to show you that new things comes with less complications even when they get faulty. I've broken up with women who came back begging. I once asked one of them why. One said because I was very honest and straightforward, one said because I'm a loner,one said because I have a very weird and unfriendly personality. Now! That's not even the point 'cause this is where it gets interesting. One told me there was a particular sex we had that she just can't get it out of her head. Another said I've spoilt her life that no other guy fits in. These don't make me special shit because some of these girls also did that to me. One went back to kiss her ex because he was a better kisser. One went back to her ex because he was richer. One went back because the ex was taller even when I'm 6.3. One even told me her ex had a longer p*nis but my own was thicker and she liked something that'll push her stomach. I said whao! But here she was, begging. What happened? Did stop liking long bajumba? She said she didn't know that thickness was better. I understood that she was tired of the length and wanted girth. What do you think will happen when she's tired of the girth too and will want length again. She'll be back into her ex's arm. Or when she finds a guy with a thicker stuff than myself, of course I'm very small compared to what some men pack in their pants. This is a typical scenario of a non Virgin girl with many exes. A non virgin girl is constantly accessing your bed skills with her ex. There is always one particular ex that she can't get out of her head. While I was working with a certain firm, there was this girl that naturally showed me hatred. So, one day, she came clean to me that I had the same eyes and I speak like her ex whom she had bad memories with. Imagine if she had had a good memory of him, what do you think woulda happened? She'll find herself helplessly falling into my arms. On the other note, guys. The more we make girls cry, the more they get more feminine. Not cheating or nothing, but by strictly standing our grounds. Women can never be tamed but they you can get them to respect and honour you at least. There was this girl who had A1 in silent treatment. If she felt offended, the next thing is for her to go silent and form busy. And I used to just give her time and she'll be back the following day. So one day, I said to her: "I understand that you can be angry, but taking your silent treatment up to 48hours is the end of this relationship. I appreciate your companionship but my honour as a man is mostly important to me". She thought I was joking. About a month, she did her silent thing again. And I didn't just wait for 48 hours, I blocked her after the first day. I guess she remembered what I said and called me with an unsaved number 12PM the following day. I already blocked her everywhere so she couldn't reach me, the reason for the unknown number. She was shocked, that was the day she knew she was in trouble. She left her place of work under the guise that she wasn't feeling fine to come to my house. Come see the way a whole baddie was begging. You see, men are very intelligent but women make fools out of men thru tactics and deceit, men are easily deceived. But as tactical as women are. They have a very terrible weakness. Women are very pruned to manipulation. If you're very good with the art of manipulation, there is almost no woman you can't conquer. Now back to the point. I'm not saying virgins are hundred percent faithful, but I'm saying. You won't be having an unknown competition that you must exceed. Dey chop this one dey go first. I'm about to get busy. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by revived2: 2:12pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Op continue I dey your back Nah virgin or nothing Your pen game is too notch Oya feed me more 😎😎 |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Bizmind95: 2:19pm On Nov 10, 2024*. Modified: 11:18am On Nov 22, 2024 |
Oga this is 2024 not 1924....So just marry a woman that will add a financial value to your life....it's just all about interests these days! That shit called true love and loyalty died way back in our parents' era...no be person wey don chop belleful dey find love ...So never allow a girl without any financial value to tie you down all in the name of virginity or fake love! Your eyes go just clear after marriage!..all these virginity nonsense is just cus we place too much emphasis on sex in this part of the world...a girl's virginity will never stop her from cheating after marriage!...the reverse is even always the case cus she will be much eager to enjoy as many dicks as possible that she didn't get to enjoy before marriage...so just go for financial value bro when looking for a wife! |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by RedpillAnalyst: 3:16pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Bizmind95:Yes, true your choosing a life partner is the biggest decision in life. What the OP mean is not an exact science, but it is a good predictor. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Softmirror: 3:50pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
RedpillAnalyst:How is marrying a virgin a good predicator? How? It is one thing to be married as a virgin it is another thing to remain faithful in marriage. The fact that a man married a virgin doesn't prove that she will be faithful. It's only an assumption that she would. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by RedpillAnalyst: 4:20pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:Yes, it is no guarantee. You traveled abroad does not mean you will be successful. You go to best school does not mean you'll be successful. You eat healthy. food does not mean you will live longer, but this will have significant impact on your success. Guaranteed. There are so many researched publications on this. Anything is risky but you minimize risk by not marrying an ex slay queen or some lowlife hookup girls. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Softmirror: 5:57pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
RedpillAnalyst:In Northern Nigeria it is a FACT that girls are being married at very early puberty age very most likely Virgins. What is their success story? I understand your point but there is more to marriage than narrowing it to a piece of HY-MEN. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by advanceDNA: 6:31pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:Lol....You are the one trying to make it about only the hymen...... it is actually about sexually discipline different levels of sexual discipline exist.. what the op is suggesting is just basic risk management, but everyone, weda man or woman is free to choose to a life partner based on their risk appetite and ofcourse live with the consequences.... |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by okoroemeka(m): 7:36pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
RedpillAnalyst:cars and phone are predictable but human beings are not,all of those women in equatorial guinea was once virgins,the nymphomaniac was once a virgin,you cannot predict what will happen after you disvirgin a woman and good luck in your mission impossible to find a virgin of marriable age in 2024 |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Badmashiii: 7:39pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:You dey 6'3 you be senior manchi be that o. Carry on boss,i dey with you. Abeg this your wisdom ogara olohun,help me with some books recommendations na. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Softmirror: 9:00pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Being a virgin doesn't define Sexual discipline because it is very subjective to circumstances and the truth is some people who avoided sex before marriage do lack that 'discpline' after getting married which is also subjective to circumstances in their matrimony. My point is, Men are too deluded about 'VIRGINITY' so much that they get carried away from the REALITY of what makes a successful marriage. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by advanceDNA: 9:06pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:Lol.....u read my comment, saw that my context is on women who are consciously sexually disciplined, not throwing their bodies at available penis....., but u are creating ur non-existence circumstances just to nullify the discipline as part of journey of lady that consciously refuse to sleep with men enticing her... Baba.....wateva version makes u sleep well at night is totally fine by me |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Softmirror: 9:23pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Exactly the narrow mindset I am talking about. Lol 😂. Most of you have this mentality that once a woman is married as a virgin then that equates to fidelity but in reality it is not true. Marriage comes with lots of challenges which have made the most disciplined woman who never FORNICATED commit ADULTERY not because she wished to but was subjected to due to circumstance. Examples of circumstances are very numerous, advanceDNA. A virgin married to a man who after a few months travelled out of the country and have been there for years. His virgin wife unable to hold herself any longer soughted for a sexual comforter. Another is a virgin married to a husband who after some year became sick, so sick that he can't have sex any longer with his wife for life. In a nutshell it is called SEXUAL FRUSTRATION in marriage as well as SEXUAL DISSATISFACTION. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by ukaface(f): 10:36pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:So what’s your body count? The story in your write up is too much, unnecessary I must say, I got lost with what the main topic was about because of the stories. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Jman06(m): 11:08pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:Why not marry non virgin and live with your choice and allow others marry their own choices Many of us prefer virgin girls and will stop at nothing to have them, so stop trying to guilt-trip us into accepting to marry non virgins |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Jman06(m): 11:13pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:Northern Nigeria has the highest marital success rate in the country. Don't be deceived by few reported cases of marital challenges, in comparison with southern Nigeria, the north is still more successful in terms of marriage and family values! |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by advanceDNA: 11:22pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Softmirror:i never said virginity is a guarantee of anything...u nust assumed whatever u liked.... I specifically said the ops suggestion is just basic risk management....but its clear u dont get the context of risk management Softmirror:like i said earlier..u can create as many hypothetical scenario as u like.. doesn't nullify the place of discipline in chastity .....and this discipline is not something that just jump out of things air after a wedding ceremony or a ring in the finger..... It's usually an over the years practice...... If u want a decent, sexually disciplined woman for marriage which many pple want ....u can decide to chose a random woman you have no idea what her body counts and hope for the best or make take a more calculated risk, even though u dont have any guarantees. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Softmirror: 11:50pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Now you get my point. As simple as A,B,C. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by advanceDNA: 1:02am On Nov 11, 2024 |
Softmirror:Get ur point?? ...I was only explaining mine... |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by timmydrogba(m): 1:42am On Nov 11, 2024 |
advanceDNA: ![]() Person no explain his but he talk say shey you get his point. ![]() |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by immortalcrown(m): 9:59am On Nov 11, 2024*. Modified: 11:02am On Nov 11, 2024 |
Your logic is well-balanced. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Mopeola(f): 10:04am On Nov 11, 2024 |
U r much incredible, I hope to read more sessions from you again |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by FRANCISTOWN(op): 10:17am On Nov 11, 2024 |
Bizmind95:This is exactly what I was waiting for. Your emphasis was on "Finding a woman that will help your life financially". But what if I'm very comfortable financially and do not need a dime from a woman? Your comment simply means, non-virgin girls are for broke men. No rich man should go for a non virgin girl. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by goran3310(m): 10:42am On Nov 11, 2024 |
Bizmind95:Not everyone is poor and sees everything through material values. You are probably always hungry. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by goran3310(m): 10:43am On Nov 11, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:Right! |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Bizmind95: 10:57am On Nov 11, 2024*. Modified: 11:12am On Nov 11, 2024 |
goran3310:LOL Oga...you have been SIMPly conditioned by hungry Naija girls...So it is only a man that has to be of financial value to marry a poor broke Naija girl right? What happens to the girl also being of financial value? You think yourself rich abi...go marry a broke jobless virgin girl out of fake love nah...Then lose your job or let your bizness go south tommorow and see if that girl will remain loyal to your sorry broke ass Oga...hungry broke Naija girls whether virgins or non-virgins don't love...You can't give what you don't have!!!..It's all about survival for them!!! The earlier you realize this...the better for you... |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Bizmind95: 11:08am On Nov 11, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:Oga even if you're rich...just don't make the terrible mistake of marrying a broke jobless Naija girl just cus she's a virgin or out of fake love....the girl is just using you!...she won't even look your way if you were as broke as her...neither will she remain with you if you loose your job or your bizness goes down the drain tommorow....See eh in this life...you're either using someone or being used...so choose wisely! |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Baronthecelebri(m): 11:53am On Nov 11, 2024 |
I believe you bro, I can't let women manipulate me into doing something I can't do. |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by FRANCISTOWN(op): 1:01pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Bizmind95:You mentioned fake love. You are still under the delusion that a woman can ever give a man real love. A woman's love for a man is simply transactional, whether things that are intrinsically valuable or not. It is solely based on what she's gaining. Everyone in life is a user, whether you care or agree or not. Every quality that you can find in a non virgin can also be found in a virgin, but the virginity of a virgin cannot be found in a non-virgin. Do you now understand? A woman can be financially supportive, respectful and still be a virgin, so that's not a valid argument. There are several non virgin girls who wouldn't still give a f*ck about you even if they themselves were broke. You see, I no dey argue. You are free to marry whoever, but as for the wise men. They know what to do |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by FRANCISTOWN(op): 1:02pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Bizmind95:If both virgins and non-virgins are exactly the same, why not go for virgin instead? |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Bizmind95: 1:51pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:Alright then...good luck..but that doesn't in any way mean she won't cheat... |
| Re: Why it is not just essential, but compulsory to marry a virgin by Bizmind95: 1:53pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:Lol this man sef...aren't we saying the same thing Peace Sha... |
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...So never allow a girl without any financial value to tie you down all in the name of virginity or fake love! Your eyes go just clear after marriage!..all these virginity nonsense is just cus we place too much emphasis on sex in this part of the world...a girl's virginity will never stop her from cheating after marriage!...the reverse is even always the case cus she will be much eager to enjoy as many dicks as possible that she didn't get to enjoy before marriage...so just go for financial value bro when looking for a wife!