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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by SWATMan: 10:10am On Nov 12, 2024
ThaThinka:
Him or you? 🤔

By the way, I don't sympathise with whomever was involved. I don't see any moral in all of this. Plus, na people like una dey spoil these ladies with money so tey most other guys no get rep for dem eyes. undecided
It's him. He posted a similar story here last year. It's all about a girl scamming him. If you read the 'story' carefully you will notice the point he gave himself away.😀😀😀
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by ThaThinka: 10:14am On Nov 12, 2024
SWATMan:
It's him. He posted a similar story here last year. It's all about a girl scamming him. If you read the 'story' carefully you will notice the point he gave himself away.😀😀😀
I guess it's the same portion I bold in my earlier post. smiley
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by kayyyy44: 10:34am On Nov 12, 2024
😂🤣🤣
flokii:
@OP We know you're that friend but continue mixing the zobo.. those wey go drink am dey.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by gigabyte13: 10:36am On Nov 12, 2024
😂😂😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
😂😂🤣🤣😅🤣🤣😂
Orisirisi
Thief sef dey call person thief
Person wey dey cheat dey call another person cheater.........
The girl ooooooo
You ooooooooo
Your friend oooooo
Make all of una getaaaaaat
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by trytillmake(m): 10:37am On Nov 12, 2024
Why d guy dey para, no be side chick she be, d guy too get money sef, spending money anyhow
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by GloriousGbola: 10:37am On Nov 12, 2024
all these silly made up stories for clicks and outrage

na oyibo dey give money to instagram or streaming on OF thot

nigerians will expect to see the person in person

more so when it is a standard yahoo scam of catfishing men

bull shit story.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by randymirrors(f): 10:37am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack
Friend ko.

You were scammed. You got what you deserved. Serves you right.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by fitinwell:
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
Your story sounds very immature... There is nothing to learn from your greediness...

You cannot eat your cake and have some too...

Moral lesson here sit your ass down and focus more on your family, most especially your children...

God as blessed you, do not abuse the opportunity...

Sidechick .. what if she had travelled down.. and hacked your life...

God prevented evil from happening to you... Yet u don't have sense...

You want to eat her cookies and drink pepper soup... Then we type RIP .. is this wat u want?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Savedday2: 10:37am On Nov 12, 2024
Who know that NL Op wey want marry that girl, make e tell am to listen to advise B4 him life go turn upside down.

9ja girls are not marriage able. They are good for use and dump.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Harddiskng(m): 10:37am On Nov 12, 2024
Mscheww @OP your guy is a mumu
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IamMobisola(f): 10:39am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
You and that friend of yours are foolish men. Your friend is married and yet you are encouraging yourselves to waste money on side chics and you expect to have an happy ending?

Fools!!
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IamMobisola(f): 10:40am On Nov 12, 2024
advanceDNA:
She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!!

Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú

Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K
Did you say "loyal to you"? A married man looking for loyalty from another woman not his wife? Lmao. Foolish men everywhere
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by boxypane: 10:40am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore
Did he get all his money back. I mean full investment?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by elasticlala: 10:41am On Nov 12, 2024
Your friend Bleep up.
That money he spent on one useless girl is enough to sustain at least 3 steady dedicated chicks on every arrival in Nigeria.
He claimed he doesn’t like to be playing to Bleep yet he spent a lot for the ‘untuck’…🥹🥹🥹

If he needs reasonable babes, he should contact me; I get extra
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Sonofgod1990(m): 10:43am On Nov 12, 2024
phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.
No go hustle dey there dey Wait for a Rich brother wey go come give you his 5million naira. Criminal
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Miramonica: 10:43am On Nov 12, 2024
There is so much hunger and frustration in the Land, stop telling us about your stupid friends adventure.

This same guy can tell his struggling Nigga in Nigeria that he doesn't have money to give to him, but he has to send to Ashawo.

I have said it times and times again, I value my fellow man more than a woman. My guy fit call me to send him little change, I will send for him, but a girl can call me and I will tell her I don't have.

Because a brother will always be there for you, I can't say same for bitches.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by bobbiiee: 10:44am On Nov 12, 2024
Brotherhood can't be proud of this man.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IamMobisola(f): 10:44am On Nov 12, 2024
boxypane:
Did he get all his money back. I mean full investment?
Go and collect the full investment from her on his behalf na investor 🙄🙄
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by LordReed(m): 10:44am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
Guy you goofed, this story isn't about your friend, it's about you. You are married and still looking for side chics and runs girl, something is wrong with you.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by sacajawea(m): 10:45am On Nov 12, 2024
So the Point is that this happens with beautiful Girls abi?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by jayce232: 10:45am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
Your friend is doing exact samething u are accusing yahoo boys of. Your friend is the f00lish person here, there is no yahoo boy anywhere. The girl went on vacation with his money. Sending 250k, 100k etc & then almost 500k to a girl u haven't even met & u are blaming yahoo boys?? You sound like your friend too for even bringing this here.

Your friend is a simp & there is high chances the girl is spending his money on another guy. Yahoo boys don't act this f00lish, they only entice girls with flashy cars to sleep with them, they don't spend on some ghost girl like your friend.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by torqque7(m): 10:46am On Nov 12, 2024
advanceDNA:
She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!!

Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú

Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K
Na Mu-mu na,na why the girl no send him papa..bloody simp.Guy from Yankee wey na Nija babes suppose dey hustle for, e reach him turn the bloody simp go dey fund student lifestyle for her student bf to be knacking her inside her A.c chilling room that the SIMPs money paid for..SIMPs are disgusting and an embarrassment to the brotherhood. I dey even vex for the girl why she refund the mugu money..
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by seguno2: 10:47am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore
Did this one of last year also return your money huh

Veetee:
Please house.

I will make this a brief as possible, so I met a lady of a social media platform , snap chat to be prescise. We got talking

Along the way she mentioned she is into Interior decor. I have an apartment at lekki phase one I am currently furnishing to be used for shortlet .
She told me she would do the job for 500k, and then insist I pay an initial deposit of 250k, which i did. After making the payment she refused to turn up for the job.
Please what is the best way to get her. I paid the money to her zenith bank account. I have gone through her IG she has over 14k followers

I was able to get her phone number through my friend that works in zenith bank. Friends have advised me to let go as it is not a big deal since the amount isnt so big, but i wont, i feel so stupid just parting away with 250k like that. I have called her personally to appeal to her to make a refund. she told me that she wont.

I have been thinking of ways to arrest her, a friend suggest i freeze her account. she lives in Chevron .

My question is what is the process of freezing her account account and how much will it cost.
Are there other ways i could arrest her and what will it cost.?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Taiwo20(m): 10:47am On Nov 12, 2024
if he had sent a fraction of that money to his mother or sister, He would get 1m naira worth of prayers. If you must date anyone whether a side chick or not. Kindly look for someone thats employed, those ones dey get sense pass unemployed instagram baddies because they know understand what it takes to earn and income.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Smartjob1(f): 10:48am On Nov 12, 2024
And if the wife does the same, he will start shouting up and down? Just look at your phulish friend cheating on his wife and disgracing his family and all you could come to say online is that this nonsense!

Sense.less posts and OP!
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by torqque7(m): 10:48am On Nov 12, 2024
Starz825:
I say women dey enjoy....

Dem go just siddon pretty dey collect money.... without doing nothing
Collecting from idiots na..as long as there are Idiots aka simps around..then the pvssy will always collect money without doing nothing..
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by jayce232: 10:49am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore
I doubt if she sent back that money
A woman that can go this far is corny & was only tricking your friend to get money from him. I don't believe she sent back the money.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by naturefellow(m): 10:49am On Nov 12, 2024
Talkisneeded:
Your married friend?? We should start from there first...
Cheating on his woman and expecting truthfulness from his side-chick..
Corny man die, corny man bury am...

I sell herbs for sexual enhancement tho
cunning (for next time)
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 10:49am On Nov 12, 2024
Sapasenator:
I don't believe this. Money was not sent back.
She sent the money back bro, she sent it. I have nothing to gain by telling you she didnt send the money, it would have even made the gist sweet. I didnt even believe she would send back the money but she did. My friend told her to send the money to his travel agent, but the account he gave her was that of his chef. he didnt want to act like he desperately wanted a refund, The girl too is arrogant, i guess because she is very pretty. she too was trying to proof a point that she is not after his money.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by MaziObinnaokija: 10:50am On Nov 12, 2024
sad Good morning @Op sad undecided.Nah today daybreak for your side sad undecided undecided. Wise ones will tell u to borrow money from ur friends for the fares that she get it back when she come.If she tellbu ogbonje story that none of her friends have money,then use your 6 sense.That's all
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 10:51am On Nov 12, 2024
francisbarrack:
My mind is telling me that d said girl might b a man pretending to b lady... no loose guide
No she is not a catfish. if you read the story well, I mentioned they had severial chats including video calls.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by pharoah: 10:53am On Nov 12, 2024
He should have bought the ticket himself and sent to the lady.
If she dosen't now use it or eventually uses it when he must have returned, then she will explain
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