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Kingzjayzee:
When married men were asked about their biggest regrets in marriage, their responses were truly eye-opening. Check out their surprising replies below. 😁

ellalina:
Marrying from a single mother is a big big red flag. Marrying someone with alot of inlaws is one of the worse things you can do .

PEACE2023:
Married an ungrateful woman. Who took oath not to be happy in everything I do. She wants power to control me.

Kingzjayzee:
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Diran: Live with your partner for at least 3 years before considering marriage. During this time, start adulting, learn to live with each other. Then get married.

Lagoslandlord: Get married early, face the troubles involved with your youthful strength and enjoy your later age when your kids are grown. Trust me by age 40 your worries are less


@trevorrandy: My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets

Dense1512v:
What have you done for her.

Pacesetter123:
This advice by Trvorrandy got me thinking for hours and even till now,I am still thinking about it.
It's so deep!

PEACE2023:
Married an ungrateful woman. Who took oath not to be happy in everything I do. She wants power to control me.

JOACHINpedro:
This rule no 5 is gaining momentum in west and that's really worrisome

JOACHINpedro:
This rule no 5 is gaining momentum in west and that's really worrisome

1stDoggystyle:
If she wants to leave, let her leave.
They believe they can do well as a single parent or as an unmarried woman. Having sex with several men and begging on whatsappp for 2k.

Perhaps that works for them since they have several men to rely on. If they beg 20 men for 2k they can probably rake more that 20,000naira.

At least she's not doing that under my roof. Whatever sooths her. Let's see how long she can do that.

ellalina:
Marrying from a single mother is a big big red flag.

Marrying someone with alot of inlaws is one of the worse things you can do .

ellalina:
Marrying from a single mother is a big big red flag. Marrying someone with alot of inlaws is one of the worse things you can do .

Kingzjayzee:
When married men were asked about their biggest regrets in marriage, their responses were truly eye-opening. Check out their surprising replies below. 😁

franchasofficia:
Marrying for love, marrying for beauty, don't ever marry for any of these reasons if you are a single guy reading this, if not you will regret it.


Marry for:
1.) financial freedom
2.) economic growth
3 ) political expansion
4.) business growth and expansion

It is better to marry an ugly or average looking lady with a great career or business prospect that will help you solidify your finances and guarantee a great financial future for your kids than to marry a broke, jobless, visionless, lazy hot looking beautiful lady. I give you two years after you marry that your hot looking supermodel girlfriend, she will be naked in your front and you wont have an erectiøn


Romantic love and physical beauty are not enough reasons to marry any lady, be warned, romantic love is a fallacy

PEACE2023:
This is a stewpid question from a supposed stewpid woman like the one's we are talking about.
A wicked woman is a wicked woman even if you kill yourself entire family for her she will remain ungrateful.
Nothing please them.

Karleb:
Are you guys seriously saying nobody regret not marrying a woman with big nyansh?

Hmmmmm2024:
and get divorced every Monday

Zonefree:
Love alone does not sustain marriage. It takes more than love to be in a healthy marriage.

Nonexisting:
I can imagine the mugu that sits in his car for 10minutes before going into his house all because of a bad wife, dancing on his wedding day, shinning his brown teeth and asking his unmarried friends the most foolish question on this current earth today "what are you waiting for?". One fool who asked him that question when I attended his wedding, I had to return home with the envelope I came with and never gave him shishi.

Dense1512v:
You are the problem not her.
See how you are disrespecting her on social media.

Kingzjayzee:
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Diran: Live with your partner for at least 3 years before considering marriage. During this time, start adulting, learn to live with each other. Then get married.

Lagoslandlord: Get married early, face the troubles involved with your youthful strength and enjoy your later age when your kids are grown. Trust me by age 40 your worries are less


@trevorrandy: My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets

PEACE2023:
I don't know whether you are a man or woman but if you are a woman I pray no man should marry you because you will be a disaster in marriage.
Untrained or badly trained woman. That are looking for a man to enslave.

godswilld10:
My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets



This is the reason for my downfall in marriage,I love my wife too much,she capitalize on that

occfx:
I no dey regret anything but e dey chop money and sometimes you wished you have plenty money. If you don't have money, you will suffer in marriage.

Fryx:
You people got me thinking marriage early. Even though I wan reach 30 before I start considering it.



Funny thing, my babe don already Dey tell her friends say she go marry immediately she graduated. Women and fallacies.

Emma09:
First Marriage in 2012. Got separated/Divorced in 2018, remarried in 2023 to a Single mother. I must say I am very lucky to get married to her cos Single mother's like her is very rare. Union is blissful and going smoothly. Communication is very strong between us and we are compatible. We both love each other and she's my friend. No regrets whatsoever. We would be one Year old this Month. It takes two to tango. Just get luck to marry a woman that would give u rest. No regrets I walked out of my stupid first marriage. Lastly, she's very hardworking and not a Gen Z. She contibutes immensely to the family.

IamHonourable1:
1. Don't marry a person from a broken home
2. Don't develop a woman at the detriment of your own development all in the name of nonsense love.
3. Love your loved ones (parents and siblings) more than you love your wife and do not let her bring any problems between you and your loved ones.

dododawa1:
No regret in marriage.




MOSTLY issues is money.

Chukwudi4naija:
I married from a broken home, but the marriage is bliss. She adores me well, even when I am not there financially. Forget about all these herd mentality of Nigerians. Single her out and watch her closely. Ask people from her community about her character and promiscuous tendency.

Body count really matters when selecting a partner, otherwise you will find it difficult to get her to orgasm within few minutes. She must definitely compare sizes

Marry a kind and selfless woman, or else you won't see kobo from her even when she has billions.

Druss:
No regrets but lessons I can give to my son when he is about to.

Wisdom is wasted on people who think women are scum or marriage is a scam. As you lay your bed so shall you enjoy it.