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Chukwudi4naija:
So you will rather marry from unbroken home with someone that has ugly past. Don't forget that so many unbroken homes pretend to be happy and remain so because of what people will say. Most women from broken homes fight not to repeat the mistakes of their parents. My wife is the reason while my marriage is still intact because I have anger issues. She apologies any time we have misunderstanding even when I know I'm wrong. However, I hope to change for good soon. Single her out and live with her before marriage. But don't expect to get 100% perfection from her. You are not perfect either. She must respect your judgement and give suggestion if need be.

alpharoyalty:
Wished I married earlier.... 😔
Enjoyment unlimited 😁

nwirinedu:
Which is why I support polygamy. There is strength in having options if no1 is messing up switch to number 2. Never hear polygamists having regrets. Its the fools who chose to spend their life with one partner that always rant.

Do you eat 1 meal for the rest of your life?

Jman06:
Why do you ladies hate your in-laws Perhaps because you feel that having your inlaws around would prevent you from carrying out your selfish agenda of enslaving the man and making him do all your biddings.

Y'all know that only your husbands' blood relatives like siblings can genuinely and unconditionally love him and protect his interests; including protecting him from your manipulations. That is why you do everything to keep in-laws away. And women have successfully turned the narratives against in-laws and made the society believe that in-laws are the villains and cause of marital problems

Clazzone:
These ones are facing reality just like I am facing mine now.

Marriage na your mate

danzaki63:
Marry a woman who hates sex, Marry a woman who doesnt have a Orgasm. Marry a woman who is educated and who is working. But dont marry a woman you will depend upon.





If you can find all the above in a woman, you are good to go. She will be a Jewel to you.

StUriah:
The marriage they so much glorified.

The Woman you married is another man's séx object.

emu22:
Like someone said,pay serious attention'I mean serious attention to your mother inlaw,like one elderly man told me'he said if you marry a stubborn wife and your in-laws are good the marriage will last but if your wife is good and the in-laws are bad,it takes d grace of God for that marriage to last,imagine my wife telling me anything she tells her mother that is what her mother will believe.

Adewale1603:
What I know is, it's better for a woman to be the one to truly love the man, than the man to love the woman. If I see such, I will sharperly marry such woman, I'm looking for such woman, that will be the one to love me. I automatically love such woman back, even if she ain't that pretty

lendahand:
my father got married at 48! At 38 now I'm still single bro.

1stDoggystyle:
If she wants to leave, let her leave.
They believe they can do well as a single parent or as an unmarried woman. Having sex with several men and begging on whatsappp for 2k.

Perhaps that works for them since they have several men to rely on. If they beg 20 men for 2k they can probably rake more that 20,000naira.

At least she's not doing that under my roof. Whatever sooths her. Let's see how long she can do that.

AngelSlay:
No FINANCE, No ROMANCE!!

Samantha125:
I'm here to take notes.

Fryx:
I made mention of her in this context because she is naturally the one I want to marry. But not so soon.

nevilbot:
Next time, read to understand and not to be ist to comment. Everything isn't about emotion , sometimes apply common sense before commenting.

In your rush to comment, you totally ignored where I said "if your economic situation allows it".

Or are you saying there are no peeps in their late 20s or early 30s whose economic situation allows settling down and having a child?

Nonexisting:
I can imagine the mugu that sits in his car for 10minutes before going into his house all because of a bad wife, dancing on his wedding day, shinning his brown teeth and asking his unmarried friends the most foolish question in this current earth today "what are you waiting for?". One fool who asked him that question when I attended his wedding, I had to return home with the envelope I came with and never gave him shishi.

DrFunmisticGlow:
congratulations! Longest time!

placeofallure:
Because you didn't give him shishi, he has died abi, or his marriage has scattered? Some of you attach too much importance to yourselves, that's the issue. Self-aggrandizement, much ado about nothing!

There's nothing perfect in life; there'll always be grey areas. As women are not perfect, so also are men.
I love my husband. I love him because he knows I'm not perfect, but he's willing to teach, correct, and nurture. I do the same to him. His weakness is my strength and vice versa. Marriage is only for mature people who won't run to third parties like family, friends, or social media at the drop of a pin. Leave your friend and his wife alone. That is their truth; let them live it!

AngelSlay:
Senior Bachelor!

lendahand:
I was actually married before but marriage ended last year.

Tayorshd87:
God bless u .,
I read your writeup so I can testify u are truly matured for marriage but my own problem is ,

I know none of us is perfect as u said BUT she hardly listen to what I said like in terms of advices or adding impact to her life but if it causes problem if an elderly one or third party talk to her Abt same thing she will oblig 🤔

Infact most time she doesn't see me as someone more experienced in life than her that can advice her Abt life and d likes .

Inclonclsion she is not willing to learn and improve from ME 🤔

What could be d problem

Tayorshd87:
U got the narrative wrong ,what he was saying is that d voice smile etc u are talking Abt should be only the reason to marry her ..

Look for her best part in terms of finance and kindness and someone that have bussiness prospect Etc that can add value to both of you financially etc or else u will still regret it

Afolue:
If the babe no fine to your expectations, your eye still will not go to those attributes. That’s why many marriages don’t last, because no feeling.

It’s beauty that triggers feelings… get that!

Nonexisting:
I can imagine the mugu that sits in his car for 10minutes before going into his house all because of a bad wife, dancing on his wedding day, shinning his brown teeth and asking his unmarried friends the most foolish question in this current earth today "what are you waiting for?". One fool who asked him that question when I attended his wedding, I had to return home with the envelope I came with and never gave him shishi.