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Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by AngelSlay(op): 5:42am On Nov 15, 2024
Married Women, what's your biggest regret about marriage? Share some advice for the single ladies—anything you wish you'd known before getting married.

Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by OwoukoUrua(m): 7:57am On Nov 15, 2024
Those ones that always get fatter after marriage?
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by WeddingParol: 10:28am On Nov 15, 2024
Not having full access to his bank account and phone huh tongue embarassed
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Samantha125(f): 10:53am On Nov 15, 2024
I wouldn't say it's a regret, but I'm someone who easily gets home sick and I sometimes wish I wasn't married to someone who lives far from home.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Natbrowny: 12:07pm On Nov 15, 2024
Samantha125:
I wouldn't say it's a regret, but I'm someone who easily gets home sick and I sometimes wish I wasn't married to someone who lives far from home.
That's hard. But u moved on as culture says. So make ur new home a place u dont wanna leave.

I know its hard - Make use of video calls to see dem all the time, tell them how much u love and miss them (u probably didnt tell them enough while with them )

I like d fact that u said its nt regret but homesick. One love. ✌️
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by AntiChristian: 1:09pm On Nov 15, 2024
Hmmm!

Wished you can still get married and still not be married!

Like eating your cake and still having it...ish!


dalass:
I miss single and carefree life cool

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it grin
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by MadamVanessa(f):
shocked



Marry who you're attracted to in all ways, desperation shouldn't push you to marry who's available and ready to do the needful. In a long run, you'll feel irritated and disgusted in whatever he does and nothing he does to please you will please you.

7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regrets or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


To me, Marriage isn't worth it at all. It's simply overrated. I regret ever getting myself involved in this nonsense. I was probably naive then , I can't blame myself much.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by qtx(m): 1:10pm On Nov 15, 2024
Here to read comments. isokay
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by dalass(f): 1:10pm On Nov 15, 2024
I miss single and carefree life cool

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it grin
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Baronthecelebri(m): 1:10pm On Nov 15, 2024
No regrets just for them to Bleep around
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Zooposki(f): 1:10pm On Nov 15, 2024
WeddingParol:
Not having full access to his bank account and phone huh tongue embarassed

Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by OboOlora(f): 1:11pm On Nov 15, 2024
Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Obakoolex(m): 1:11pm On Nov 15, 2024
dalass:
I miss single and carefree life cool

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it grin
Your ex included huh
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Kingpele(m):
grin grin grin nothing to regret after marriage especially If u took out time to study your spouse...even at that u have to make it work...missing your single life is been childish....it like a grand father wishing he was a toddler....that irresponsible...but if there's something to regret it should be getting married in Nigeria with crazy leaders in charge of national life
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Klington: 1:12pm On Nov 15, 2024
cool
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Tallesty1(m): 1:13pm On Nov 15, 2024
If you're single and promote breakups, abeg join me on this bench.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by diamond68: 1:13pm On Nov 15, 2024
shocked
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by whytediamond(m): 1:13pm On Nov 15, 2024
My biggest regret.

I married a man I couldn't control to do my bidding sad

I want to quit even though we are financially more than comfortable but he doesn't care about my emotions and manipulations.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by thesicilian: 1:14pm On Nov 15, 2024
I'm sure for most of them their biggest regrets will be marrying for money (and then finding out the money is not really there) instead of the one they truly loved.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by LivingSage: 1:14pm On Nov 15, 2024
Okpo full time shocked
Good for you sad
MadamVanessa:
shocked
7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regret or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.
Marriage doesn't worth it at all. My story is long but let just stop.
whytediamond:
My biggest regret.

I married a man I couldn't control to do my bidding sad

I want to quit even though we are financially more than comfortable but he doesn't care about my emotions and manipulations.
You're angry you can't manipulate your husband?
Just leave him and become a single mother. You'll get what you're looking for. Your mentor is above u, check.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Talkisneeded(m): 1:14pm On Nov 15, 2024
Hear to read lies and truth...
I sell herbs
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Basiljoe:
The biggest regret of most married women is that they were not able to optimize their hypergamy properly, after being dick downed by the Alpha's who won't commit, hence they settle for "less", the beta provider.

Of course they won't admit this out loud.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by youneedjesus: 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
Not too many persons with regret. Does it mean that men are doing
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Bluebeach: 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
sad
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by LivingSage: 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
When you're of age and your son is about to get married, your daughter in-law would wish thesame and so shall it be.

You'll not escape it
OboOlora:
Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Efuaye(m): 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
We need your honest opinion so that the men can make the necessary changes.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Eazie351(m): 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
A prospective mother in law just laid a curse on herself up there, I won't quote though.

On God!
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Dogalmighty17: 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2024
OboOlora:
Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo
I suppose it will be fair to assume that you have no plan of staying alive to see your son get married? I don't understand the kind of needless hatred Nigerian wives extend to their husbands mom. That table turns and it will be your turn one day. That's if you remain alive to witness your son get married.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by nautybride: 1:16pm On Nov 15, 2024
grin
No Regrets. He is not a perfect person and I am not too. I have studied him like a book and I am still learning. We both have our moments, in all we move.
Re: Married Women, What's Your Biggest Regret About Marriage? by Fearurcreeator: 1:18pm On Nov 15, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked


7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regret or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


Marriage doesn't worth it at all. My story is long but let just stop.
Go check yourself
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