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In a fiery online discussion, ladies have opened up about their biggest relationship blunders, and the responses are nothing short of jaw-dropping. From forgiving serial heartbreakers to funding dubious "business ventures," the confessions shed light on how far some have gone in the name of love.

What’s the biggest mistake you’ve made in love?

All these ones are nothing compared to what Nigerian men are passing through in the hands of Nigerian bannies...

TBH,since I handicapped my relationship,I've noticed how fat my neck has become .

Letting emotions of Love lead instead of common sen**

All of u una dey craze

Wen you are going out with wrong partner, thre is absolute nothing you can do that
would satisfy him, but ,wen a lady is hell bent to date/marry, a tall and complete handsome dudes, let her face the outcomes fully.


The lamentations of ladies above, made me remembered a lady, that was using all her resources to feed one lazy guy, claiming unsuccessful yahoo boy.

A guy that, didn't respect you by smoking India hemp & cigar, even in the room that the lady rented to accommodate the guy.

Immediately the guy got money to get accommodation, in which the lady even contributed part of it,.....he showed her, his true colour.

Let's listen to d beautiful daughters of EVE

Most times, it's not the fault of the ladies. Their guys get fed up with sleeping the same girl and move on. If people are allowed to divorce a spouse because they are fed up with marrying the same person, cases of breakup will be equal to cases of divorce.

I have nothing to say other than:

The Cardinal Rule of Relationships In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

Gistmedia10:
What’s the biggest mistake you’ve made in love?

Biggest mistake I've made in love is dating a girl who was not worth it. I was a blue pilled slowpoke who believed in "Romantic love".
She was a promiscuous mgbeke, in fact na me make that girl dey exposed.

If I had invested that effort into learning a skill then. I for done hammer early.

"ONEitis: An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person. Usually accompanied by unreciprocated affection and completely unrealistic idealization of the said person." - Rational Male

"ONEitis is paralysis. You cease to mature, you cease to move, you cease to be you. There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE." - Rational Male

"There is no needle in the haystack – that is Scarcity / ONEitis thinking – the point is to mold yourself and any woman who you do exclusively end up with into your own frame." - Book 1, RM

"Whatever you do, don’t settle for one girl (oneitis) until much later in life. Play the field, spin plates, date lots of girls. This is the only way you’ll be able to separate the wheat from the chaff and realize what you really want in an LTR relationship down the road." RM

I'm not really concerned about what the women put up there (na who nor know woman dey fall yakata to their gaslight and manipulation). What I'm particularly concerned about is how romantic engagement between the male and female keeps dwindling by the day. With so many so called feminists trying so hard to poison the minds of their followers. Knowledge corrupts truly because you have no idea the peace that comes when you're innocently ignorant..

But let it be known on this day;19/11/2024 to all here and elsewhere that, women can never win the gender battle they're trying to start (prolly started) with us men. The more they misbehave, the more they help us in decision making and drawing conclusions that will end up hunting/hurting them (women) the more...

Learn sense you will not learn.. learn understanding you will not..when them comot shock for their leg finish..them go come here to paste snipped note.. ..Gen z wahala

All this yeye post making fp dey tire person. Seun take note

Everybody just dey Shine Teeth for dis thread.

Women always play victim. Do you know what the men are also facing

Our ladies should stop making relationship a job opportunity, let your parents be responsible for your bills not your boyfriend

Ok

Ladies in love = Ndi ara

Nairaland and fake news or internet reports o ti one ati two.

Know when to end the relationship when the love and respect is gone

Holding on and thinking that it would go back to what it was is a mirage

If you slippers don cut, nor try to sew am became it would never be like it used to be

A lady once told me
I was too good for her
Last last she was right
She was busy cheating and her conscience won't give her peace.
Her inner circles later confirmed my suspicion
I left her to where she wanted to stay.
She wanted me back but me
I no dey follow person drag woman
Something wey surplus
No regrets at all at all.....

If a girl or guy tell you
You are too good for them
No waste your time staying with such person
Moveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

SmartPolician:
Most times it's not the fault of the ladies. Their guys get fed up with sleeping the same girl and moved on. If people are allowed to divorce a spouse because they are fed up with marrying the same person, cases of breakup will be equal to cases of divorce.

Yet those guys want decent wife, good marriage, and by extension just society.

Indeed, man doesnt know what they want.

Lol... When I look at my relationship and home, I just thank God sha.

This is why I pity Gen Z and the generation after them.

There truly ain't no more love in the city.

Even marriages and relationships today are mostly nothing but business transactions being kept together by availability of funds.

What a pity!!!

No reason , she was just fvcking someone else ND the moment I knew about it she felt insecured with me and nothing was serious anymore , then we dumped each other

theophorus:
Letting emotions of Love lead instead of common sen**

Dem dupe you

I have never seen a woman who will say "it's all my fault" and it only takes high level of emotional maturity to admit your fault and say sorry

Nothing like relationship for naija again. Na knacking mate dey reign now.

I'm too conscious of everything...