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AngelicBeing:
Hahaha 🤣, your cat is drunk and crying 😂

Broo,😂😂😂😂😂😹😹😹

will never happen in nigeria, next please?

even the most conservative couple will want to have at least 2 kids here.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo

😂😹😹

Douglad:
will never happen in nigera, next please?

Wait for it... 👀

BabbanBura:
This is not a new thing in this era. For this purpose, some men go as far as severing their sperm supply ducts. Haven’t heard of women getting rid of their tubes or ovaries / uterus for same reason though.

To me it feels so selfish to only care about oneself and not raise little beauties - would you have existed without some people making the sacrifices to make and bring you up?

This is definitely distorting God’s design / order and it goes with consequences be it not instant.

anyway, whatever rocks your world!

I TOTALLY disagree with you . In fact in the Bible , nothing stops you from procreating outside of marriage . Marriage is between two people and ultimately their values .

If these couples decide they don’t want to have kids , it is their choice . I have kids in my marriage and it was a decision we agreed on . If another couple want to travel the world and have financial freedom , it is their choice.

After all there are people with 11kids and can’t take care of half . Having the financial means or not should not be the criteria for married people to have kids . It is the couple’s choice

luuvv:
E no go better for DINK.

am an example and it been fun

blaise26abj:
I TOTALLY disagree with you . In fact in the Bible , nothing stops you from procreating outside of marriage . Marriage is between two people and their ultimately their values .

If these couples decide they don’t want to have kids , it is their choice . I have kids in my marriage and it was a decision we agreed on . If another couple want to travel the world and have financial freedom , it is their choice.

After all there are people with 11kids and can’t take care of half . Having the financial means or not should not be the criteria for married people to have kids . It is the couple’s choice

people hate to alter the norm of life, our fams questioned our decision to the point i started doubting myself but that what we actually wanted no regrets what so ever

oyinbo people it's not compulsory they have kids for them. Some of them have cats and dogs as their family members.

It is still the gender that claims marriage and children do not benefit them that are crying the most on this thread.

Makes me wonder...pheeew!

BabbanBura:
This is not a new thing in this era. For this purpose, some men go as far as severing their sperm supply ducts. Haven’t heard of women getting rid of their tubes or ovaries / uterus for same reason though.

To me it feels so selfish to only care about oneself and not raise little beauties - would you have existed without some people making the sacrifices to make and bring you up?

This is definitely distorting God’s design / order and it goes with consequences be it not instant.

anyway, whatever rocks your world!

Have the unborn children expressed any desire to be born? Imagine demanding that people should give birth to others just because they exist... That is your argument. Is human experience necessarily happy? Will you be there to be sure that the unwilling parents love and cherish any kids they bring into the world?

BabbanBura:
This is not a new thing in this era. For this purpose, some men go as far as severing their sperm supply ducts. Haven’t heard of women getting rid of their tubes or ovaries / uterus for same reason though.

To me it feels so selfish to only care about oneself and not raise little beauties - would you have existed without some people making the sacrifices to make and bring you up?

This is definitely distorting God’s design / order and it goes with consequences be it not instant.

anyway, whatever rocks your world!

Let them keep up with their oyinbo woke attitudes. We need am more for Nigeria sef cos people too plenty in hunger so it's systematic reduction of population.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Wait for it... 👀

wait for what? it will never happen anytime soon come what may

the highest we will see is fewer kids per household. the current stat is that population growth has dropped by 21% since 1950 in nigeria

12inchess:
oyinbo people it's not compulsory they have kids for them. Some of them have cats and dogs as their family members.

I call them idiots. They do virtue signalling by placing pets above humans. They want to shy away from the natural responsibilities man has had over time. These idiots will scream at Zuma kicking a cat but will laugh at their soldiers killing African kids or using them for child Labor for their smartphones.

Cocolatti:
Selfish retarded couple.
If your parents had made same decision, you wouldn't be in existence.

some one that didn't exist does not know what is existence, does it matter

I'm childfree and an antinatalist as well. The benefits are tremendous

As long as they stand by it. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs

Mine is DVIL: Don't Vote in Idiotic Leaders such as Putin, Xi, Kim, Netanyahu, Wike and Trump

Padipadi:
Let them keep up with their oyinbo woke attitudes. We need am more for Nigeria sef cos people too plenty in hunger so it's systematic reduction of population.

Not necessarily . The more some don’t give birth , the more some do . Unless there is an actual law that restricts birth rate of couples , other people will “born” pass their quota . If you are in doubt , ask the north !

More DINKs more chances to migrate

Hmmm...

Promoting DINK is now a crime in Russia because of dwindling population and the threats surrounding as they engage in war with Ukraine and the West

Pootle:
people hate to alter the norm of life, our fams questioned our decision to the point i started doubting myself but that what we actually wanted no regrets what so ever

As long as a spouse is not “convincing” the other and it is mutual agreement , Abeg live una lives .

I always ask this question especially people in Nigeria where we don’t keep records . How many of you know the full names, livelihood and lifestyles of your your grandparents parents parents ( great great grand parents ) ? In this life, we are all nothing but memories that fade with time . The time you have , experience this world and impact it .

ednut1:
More DINKs more chances to migrate

When they stop we LIMKs (Less Income More Kids) from entering their countries with our battalions, we would start crying.

Quite popular. My director and senior director are examples.
In graduate school, I had a colleague who she and her husband believed they couldn't raise a child properly while many decided one kid is good. I guess it is just about preference but anything after two na work because two sef na serious work.

Instresting.....

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Lands are available in Otuoke , Which host the Federal University Otuoke in Bayelsa state.
Self contain for rent .

Yankee101:
Ladies don’t do it
A man can have kids at 70
You can’t

And what if the woman doesn't want kids?

All I have to say to those practising DINK is ENKR.

DyshApp:
Everyday a new type of relationship comes up😒🙄

Using the word "rugrats" tells us everything we need to know. Bye

"In Sana's case, it all comes down to her and her spouse's decision to put themselves first in life and protect their 'core values of freedom'.

In the video, which was originally shared online last year, the content creator said: "When my husband and I started dating, we both fell in love with how independent we were and how dedicated we were to our careers, ambition, our purpose and our devotion to our own individual happiness"



Selfishness presented in a fancy Harvard-like manner.

I can't imagine a life without my mini ones. They are everything I got.

The world has reached the tethered end of civilization. It's on a reverse civilization now.

You are going to see more weird, outlandish and unexplainable lifestyle that will make you cringe.

One pervert justified paedophila and sought recognition for people like him and that that's the way they are created.


Sometimes it's best not to have the internet. Its allowing one have an interface with creatures that pretend to be humans.

Baronthecelebri:
Go for them, my own is MMNM- More Money No Marriage.

Lol smart guy

Fryx:
Not even cats? How selfish.

Not as selfish as having kids when you're broke.


Why the news pepper you ppl like this?

How can anyone not want those early mornings when your little kid come into your room and jump on you and your wife in bed. Those lofty little creatures will just rid you of any sadness with their smiles and carefree way of life. God abeg oo!!

1Sharon:
Not as selfish as having kids when you're broke.


Why the news pepper you ppl like this?

Especially men!
Why? I thought they see marriage and fatherhood as slaving for women to enjoy. Lmao! 😂😂😂