₦airaland Forum

SAMBARRY:
hence the more reason why women need to stop taking anything a man says seriously because they say what suits their ego and not what is safe for the woman

No lies. And tag it LOGIC.

blackmantis:
The context which I responded is about a person without a stable income.

Still choice. You can born 10 on their behalf or adopt the orphaned kids. 🤝

Kukutente23:
How can anyone not want those early mornings when your little kid come into your room and jump on you and your wife in bed. Those lofty little creatures will just rid you of any sadness with their smiles and carefree way of life. God abeg oo!!

thats how you feel.others may not feel the same way.

The same follow rice that's the best thing that happened to Mr a might be disgusting for Mrs B that's what makes us different and diverse.

1Sharon:
Pakistani people are known for having more kids than they can afford. I love this for them. They're different.

But why does this bother you?

it doesn't tbvh

I live among them sha so I'm quite familiar with them

The ones born here, most of them will have 0-3 kids MAX

it's their grand pa's and co who migrated from the mountains that do like that

pocohantas:
No lies. And tag it LOGIC.

lol funny people

It's when I asked the definition of their favourite word = SUBMISSION that I knew that anybody that follows men's mouth does so at her own risk because their level of selfishness and self preservation is 2nd to none even if it costs you your life

I heard of a story where a mother was to birth her child but she was at the brink of loosing her child. The doctor told the husband if this woman births the child the chances of her loosing her life is high but if she doesn't birth the child we can still save her and she can always have another child. The man said my child is important to me,I want the child, let her go.that was the day I knew men will always do everything in their own interest without giving a fvck even if you die.na that kain person mouth you go follow? Lol

Why do you think they hate sheera? Because she mirrors them and why do you think they like pickmeshas? Because she's happy to be walked on all over even if it means her dying. 😆

kingharzy:
LOL...
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this

😂😂😂😂😂

Baronthecelebri:
Go for them, my own is MMNM- More Money No Marriage.

😂😂😂😂😂

RodgersAkpafu:
it doesn't tbvh

I live among them sha so I'm quite familiar with them

The ones born here, most of them will have 0-3 kids MAX

it's their grand pa's and co who migrated from the mountains that do like that

So how comes you called them oyinbo?

SAMBARRY:
lol funny people

It's when I asked the definition of their favourite word = SUBMISSION that I knew that anybody that follows men's mouth does so at her own risk because their level of selfishness and self preservation is 2nd to none even if it costs you your life

I heard of a story where a mother was to birth her child but she was at the brink of loosing her child. The doctor told the husband if this woman births the child the chances of her loosing her life is high but if she doesn't birth the child we can still save her and she can always have another child. The man said my child is important to me,I want the child, let her go.that was the day I knew men will always do everything in their own interest without giving a fvck even if you die.na that kain person mouth you go follow? Lol

Why do you think they hate sheera? Because she mirrors them and why do you think they like pickmeshas? Because she's happy to be walked on all over even if it means her dying. 😆

I have always known this. I reiterated my stand on why birthing many is not my thing and one troll spent days crying in my mentions. You would have thought my decision has a negative effect on his prosperity which doesn't even seem attainable based on his history. Man cried so much, I was tempted to give him biscuit and promise to birth 8. Even the kids, I don't think majority love them as such because when push comes to shove, they will use those kids to punish the woman.

Imagine the uproar from a set of men who are notorious for having most babymamas around the world. A set of men that would wrestle Angel Michael just so they don't pay child support. Every woman should better born the number she can handle.

RodgersAkpafu:
it's happening already

show me the stats broski

1Sharon:
And what if the woman doesn't want kids?

Most of the so called successful women regret it later in old age

Most

It’s different if she can’t have kids than being fertile and choosing not to. If you live abroad you need to come and see how they’re suffering from depression despite having money in their old age. You think the primary and most successful target of yahoo boys being single older women is by mistake?

Yankee101:
Most of the so called successful women regret it later in old age

Most

It’s different if she can’t have kids than being fertile and choosing not to. If you live abroad you need to come and see how they’re suffering from depression despite having money in their old age. You think the primary and most successful target of yahoo boys being single older women is by mistake?

You didn't read the topic did you? You just rushed to comment. She isn't single.

blaise26abj:
I TOTALLY disagree with you . In fact in the Bible , nothing stops you from procreating outside of marriage . Marriage is between two people and ultimately their values .

If these couples decide they don’t want to have kids , it is their choice . I have kids in my marriage and it was a decision we agreed on . If another couple want to travel the world and have financial freedom , it is their choice.

After all there are people with 11kids and can’t take care of half . Having the financial means or not should not be the criteria for married people to have kids . It is the couple’s choice

Anyone is free to live there life as they please, i respect people choice a lot But for a discourse its a very stupid decision to want Marriage and not want kids

It like running a business and saying you dont want to make profit .. the dividend of marriage are kids, besides when they grow old n die what happens to there big fat accounts nd asset.. they will it to cat
at some stage in life career, love , even sex will dwindle, the only thing that will give you fulfillment in old age is watching your kids grow n becoming independent on there own.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Dink is cool to me. 😹😹

I want to create my own soon

everyone is free to make the choices they want. give it a try if it is something you like. i just do not see it becoming a trend in a culture like ours for the next hundred or two hundred years to be honest. If anything, we should take the fact that the number of kids per household is reducing as a miracle.

pocohantas:
We know how it goes.
They don't want marriage, but they also hate to see women who don't want marriage.

They don't want to slave providing for kids, but they also don't wanna see DINKs.

Coignitive dissonance in Coco's voice. 😃

Yeah. When they believe women exist simply to serve men, that's what happens.

1Sharon:
You didn't read the topic did you? You just rushed to comment. She isn't single.

My first post said ladies don’t do it cos a man can have a child at 70. So clearly I read it and I know there’s a man and a woman involved.

I assume you’re educated and know the statistics that’s obvious that men die way before women in most countries. That’s why we have more older women than older men who are single. Men can also easily remarry at 70. It’s harder for a woman.

The statistics doesn’t favour a woman growing old without a child

1Sharon:
So how comes you called them oyinbo?

I'm talking of HOW THEY REASON

If you interact with a British born to Pakistani parents here, many times you will be wondering if this one came from Pakistan
Especially the ladies
The thinking is so different from that of others

They always seem happy, but they are not

Yankee101:
My first post said ladies don’t do it cos a man can have a child at 70. So clearly I read it and I know there’s a man and a woman involved.

I assume you’re educated and know the statistics that’s obvious that men die way before women in most countries. That’s why we have more older women than older men who are single. Men can also easily remarry at 70. It’s harder for a woman.

The statistics doesn’t favour a woman growing old without a child

So why then are you making it about the woman when it's a JOINT DECISION?

RodgersAkpafu:
I'm talking of HOW THEY REASON

If you interact with a British born to Pakistani parents here, many times you will be wondering if this one came from Pakistan
Especially the ladies
The thinking is so different from that of others

And that's a good thing. Better than believing in honour killings and arranged marraiges.

I'll never understand Nigerians and frothing at the mouth like rabid dogs because someone chooses to live in a way that doesn't line up with their myopic world view.

I pity the simps who signed up for this scam.
DINK actually favors the women. Dual income for them alone.

That guy is a simp, I give him just 5 years, he will cry online about how this same lady has left him to procreate with a real man.

1Sharon:
And that's a good thing. Better than believing in honour killings and arranged marraiges.

this is the stock in trade for the ones who came
hardly the ones born and socialised here.

BigIyanga:
How many kids have u adopted today or provided for?? Naija analogue brain overwoekinvg 24/7

Analogue brain

Even foreign stand up comedians agreed that Nigerians made English speaking very exciting and alive

Which one is analogue brain

Just about everyone sounding stupid in the name of appearing woke.

1Sharon:
So why then are you making it about the woman when it's a JOINT DECISION?

I’m a man and I know how men think. Most likely the man just dey wind you. He’ll have his kids later so don’t follow him

I am still not understanding her "happiness" with being silly.

Unless that man has issues "knocking" someone "swollen", most men would agree to ya face and go get children with someone serious...

At least this ancestor would do exactly that...

Mumu woman .. SMH

pocohantas:
They know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women. They are angry because they think it is the woman luring the man into this arrangement. If it were a standalone post of a man who doesn't want kids, the comments would be different.

Can she ever not twist a narrative, or is it STD ( sexual tramsmitted dumbness)

with that statement who lured who ?? olodo

SAMBARRY:
one man's meat is another man's poison. Everybody's choices will always be different from yours that doesn't make you better than them. The fact that you have kids doesn't mean everyone feels the same way. Live and let's live

these one wey you carry the matter for head like gala, what happened to your womb

BabbanBura:
This is not a new thing in this era. For this purpose, some men go as far as severing their sperm supply ducts. Haven’t heard of women getting rid of their tubes or ovaries / uterus for same reason though.

To me it feels so selfish to only care about oneself and not raise little beauties - would you have existed without some people making the sacrifices to make and bring you up?

This is definitely distorting God’s design / order and it goes with consequences be it not instant.

anyway, whatever rocks your world!

🐂💩

Wanna argue?

blaise26abj:
Not necessarily . The more some don’t give birth , the more some do . Unless there is an actual law that restricts birth rate of couples , other people will “born” pass their quota . If you are in doubt , ask the north !

North's a born to suffer region. Till they apply sense in child bearing.
To the topic, it was said out of sacarsm but as you v said, we need law of child birth control