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Men, plan your wedding according to your budget. Don't allow anyone set you up for failure.

At least they both have bills to pay jointly ...

He must pay back

Well, they both enjoyed their 'big day'.... They should endure the loan repayment period as well.

Babangidapikin:
At least they both have bills to pay jointly ...

What's so important in having a big and loud wedding to begin with? Is it because people want to show off or what?

nicho450:
He must pay back

By fire by force.

And he will still borrow to do paternity test on his children soon. What a foolish man.

Oh...

Treasure17:
Men, plan your wedding according to your budget. Don't allow anyone set you up for failure.

How many people do you think can plan a wedding according to their budget ? We need to be realistic sometimes. Even a so called mediocre wedding nowadays can still cost more than a million naira, how many people do you think have that saved somewhere.

The man has set himself up for failure in marriage because debt repayment will make him financially responsible enough in marriage and many things will be lagging which will result to issues in marriage.
Always plan your event according to your size. There's no competition in this thing.
Get a good concept, plan ahead and be realistic with yourself. You will end up having very minimal bill to settle afterwards and you will be financially viable to take care of your responsibilities at home.
Peace!

thesicilian:
How many people do you think can plan a wedding according to their budget ? We need to be realistic sometimes. Even a so called mediocre wedding nowadays can still cost more than a million naira, how many people do you think have that saved somewhere.

I understand your points but the parties involved have to agreed on not to exceed their budget. Besides some saved up for their wedding without necessary borrowing. If it's 500k you have, do your stuff and have peace of mind. Peradventure I have 20M in my account breathing, I won't spend more than 3M on my wedding. We have more important things to invest our money on.

saintmm:
The man has set himself up for failure in marriage because debt repayment will make him financially responsible enough in marriage and many things will be lagging which will result to issues in marriage.
Always plan your event according to your size. There's no competition in this thing.
Get a good concept, plan ahead and be realistic with yourself. You will end up having very minimal bill to settle afterwards and you will be financially viable to take care of your responsibilities at home.
Peace!

You nailed it.

illicit:
Oh...

Should I bank roll your wedding illicit?

Babangidapikin:
At least they both have bills to pay jointly ...

Is that how it works...?? Women go follow u pay loan??

Its like u have not heard the statement. "did I force you"

Nonexisting1:
And he will still borrow to do paternity test on his children soon. What a foolish man.

😅😅😅

Treasure17:
Should I bank roll your wedding illicit?

Why not...

That marriage can't last, no be curse.. he got it all wrong right from the beginning.
Now he has started his life with huge debt he will sweat to pay back because he couldn't live within his capacity.

Treasure17:
I understand your points but the parties involved have to agreed on not to exceed their budget. Besides some saved up for their wedding without necessary borrowing. If it's 500k you have, do your stuff and have peace of mind. Peradventure I have 20M in my account breathing, I won't spend more than 3M on my wedding. We have more important things to invest our money on.

3M for a wedding? To me that's even too much

Moral lesson never try to please woman the can push the way u go take fall even to stand up again go hard you

Crestaria:
3M for a wedding? To me that's even too much

Abi o.

I personally want a small but classy wedding. I don't know why ladies be wanting loud weddings. Why exactly??

illicit:
Why not...

Holla me when you are ready.

Seunpapa65:
Moral lesson never try to please woman the can push the way u go take fall even to stand up again go hard you

Exactly. And she will still blame you for it.

Treasure17:
Holla me when you are ready.

Oya I am ready...

They will drink garri so tey

Who are they trying to impress by spending that ridiculous amount in this hardship

flokii:
That marriage can't last, no be curse.. he got it all wrong right from the beginning.
Now he has started his life with huge debt he will sweat to pay back because he couldn't live within his capacity.

Very wrong steps if he can drink garri for the whole day his wife will not, that is where problem will start from

6million for a used Nigerian woman?

illicit:
Oya I am ready...

Send the bill.

Nicepoker:
6million for a used Nigerian woman?

Be nice with your words na.

Lol werey.. Money wey he suppose use japa go better cornetree maae he go make better bar!

Instead! Egbon wey nor wise go use the money do dorime for adugbo he say he do wedding. Shior!!

Yeye parson 😁