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Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Nefort: 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2024
Cocolatti:
Selfish retarded couple.
If your parents had made same decision, you wouldn't be in existence.
Do you think their parents did them a favour bringing them to the world to suffer?
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Cocolatti(m): 10:15pm On Nov 22, 2024
Nefort:
Do you think their parents did them a favour bringing them to the world to suffer?
May be you should take your own life or kill your parent since your parents did you a disfavor by bringing you to this world
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Faposky95: 10:49pm On Nov 22, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
Go for them, my own is MMNM- More Money No Marriage.
I may speak because we're all human in this....
why use SM to propagate your self inflicting thots all because you can spare some GB...?
make more money if you want......people live on.....don't marry, like who cares......
Until you REPENT, you will know no peace and you know it.
Take on a new journey to find peace while you can here....not even there......
Kids....DINKs indeed
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by 1Sharon(f): 11:48pm On Nov 22, 2024
Yankee101:
I’m a man and I know how men think. Most likely the man just dey wind you. He’ll have his kids later so don’t follow him
So you're saying shouldn't be submissive?
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Yankee101: 12:04am On Nov 23, 2024
1Sharon:
So you're saying shouldn't be submissive?
Being submissive and being foolish are not the same thing

A man has billions of potential children is his system for a lifetime, you have only a few hundred during the woman’s reproductive life as a matured woman. Why would you ever want to pause even till 40 which is super risky as she crosses the late 30s not to talk of a lifetime

If you both change your mind he is ok and you’re not unless you spend millions of naira to store your eggs
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by tunjilana: 12:36am On Nov 23, 2024
They will soon age and wont have all the drive, passion and energy and will want to rely on younger people for physical, emotional and mental support...That is when they will wish there were grandkids to play with or son/daughter in-laws to sweat about or just some bloodlines to keep their names in the mouth of people ( even close by)....so they will just be packed away and forgotten...no grandchild to mention them as an inspiration during school award ceremony, no grandkids to pack to church or stroll down the neighborhood with....no teenage grandkids to remind them of their youthful times and puppy love....they will just fade and fade
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by BigIyanga: 1:24am On Nov 23, 2024
BigIyanga:
How many kids have u adopted today or provided for?? Naija analogue brain overworking 24/7
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by cococandy(f): 2:35am On Nov 23, 2024
brain54:
Na to dey come up...

With more useless acronyms every day because of overfeeding.

And some yeye Africans with little or nothing on their plates go dey copy and follow do catch up in a bid to be woke.

WINK my foot!
Woke doesn’t mean what you want it to just because you don’t understand what it means.

I’m tired of nairalanders misusing the word. Ugh
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Cousin9999: 2:41am On Nov 23, 2024
Franzinni:
Dink haha these Genz can come up with acronym for everything
It's not new. I think gen x came up with it.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Cousin9999: 2:43am On Nov 23, 2024
Procashtips:
Selfishness and self centredness on a new high.

When you care only about yourself, decisions like this are easy to make.
Actually, there are plenty of selfish people who have a kid for many other reasons besides wanting to bring a life into this world and love and nurture them.

Many people who choose not to have children are being honest about who they are instead of doing what's expected of them, and being bad parents.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by cococandy(f): 2:43am On Nov 23, 2024
pocohantas:
It is still the gender that claims marriage and children do not benefit them that are crying the most on this thread.

Makes me wonder...pheeew!
If I weren’t already known to be married and have kids, I’d be randomly on here saying I don’t want kids or marriage just to see them cry.😭

The way they clutch their pearls when they hear a woman doesn’t want children is something else. Thesis upon Ted talks and analysis start to flow.

Too entertaining.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Cousin9999:
Laple0541:
When they die, the kids of their brothers and sisters will help them spend all the money they saved. Even the government will have their share.
Why is that a bad thing? They say it takes a village to raise a child. Those aunts/uncles can help secure the future of nieces/nephews. And government has resources to improve quality of life for everyone.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by SAMBARRY: 5:26am On Nov 23, 2024
chidiokay:
these one wey you carry the matter for head like gala, what happened to your womb huh
why are you crying in my mention sef? grin na your
head abi na your gala? grin tongue By the way What happened to your bank account

Weakling grin

So e fit pain you like this sotey you carry your smelling infested sef into my mention grin tongue

Ok you have been noticed, now disappear tongue
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by brain54(m): 5:27am On Nov 23, 2024
cococandy:
Woke doesn’t mean what you want it to just because you don’t understand what it means.

I’m tired of nairalanders misusing the word. Ugh
What does woke mean...?

Can you explain pls... And how I used it wrong in this instance.

Learning never ends!
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by SAMBARRY: 5:29am On Nov 23, 2024
pocohantas:
I have always known this. I reiterated my stand on why birthing many is not my thing and one troll spent days crying in my mentions. You would have thought my decision has a negative effect on his prosperity which doesn't even seem attainable based on his history. Man cried so much, I was tempted to give him biscuit and promise to birth 8. Even the kids, I don't think majority love them as such because when push comes to shove, they will use those kids to punish the woman.

Imagine the uproar from a set of men who are notorious for having most babymamas around the world. A set of men that would wrestle Angel Michael just so they don't pay child support. Every woman should better born the number she can handle.
one dirty mannerless clown has started crying in my mention sef grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Ramirezkhay(m): 6:54am On Nov 23, 2024
cheesy

E Bu Die Si grin

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kingharzy:
LOL...
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Ramirezkhay(m): 6:58am On Nov 23, 2024
cheesy

LOL e nor New na!

Be like make RVR. F & Sister dy sha'shu si'ewa arawon


grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by chidiokay: 7:08am On Nov 23, 2024
cococandy:
Woke doesn’t mean what you want it to just because you don’t understand what it means.

I’m tired of nairalanders misusing the word. Ugh
how about those claiming to be woke, shouldnt there life be a propounder to define woke.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by chidiokay: 7:24am On Nov 23, 2024
SAMBARRY:
why are you crying in my mention sef? grin na your
head abi na your gala? grin tongue By the way What happened to your bank account

Weakling grin

So e fit pain you like this sotey you carry your smelling infested sef into my mention grin tongue

Ok you have been noticed, now disappear tongue
Naa evening newspaper she don nearly boil her eggs chop finish

Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Acidosis(m): 7:26am On Nov 23, 2024
Africa has too many wandering kids for the developed world to care too much about population decline.
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by chidiokay: 7:30am On Nov 23, 2024
1Sharon:
Yeah. When they believe women exist simply to serve men, that's what happens.
thats your creator words, argue with him

Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by SAMBARRY: 7:36am On Nov 23, 2024
chidiokay:
Naa evening newspaper she don nearly boil her eggs chop finish
awwwww grin

I no get bucket bring to cry o grin because you go cry me a lagoon grin


So you mom boiled all her eggs give you chop? grin no wonder you're slow grin

You lament on top another person headache o grin tongue

Another mannerless pig no want my mention to rest o grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Procashtips(m):
Cousin9999:
Actually, there are plenty of selfish people who have a kid for many other reasons besides wanting to bring a life into this world and love and nurture them.

Many people who choose not to have children are being honest about who they are instead of doing what's expected of them, and being bad parents.
I'm not disputing this either but these guys just went straight for the jugular.

As for what you said, majority of Nigerian parents have children so that they can serve them when they become old even when they left them nothing as inheritance or a good foundation to grow on- Pure selfishness
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by MarketDispatch: 7:44am On Nov 23, 2024
DyshApp:
Everyday a new type of relationship comes up😒🙄
So SINK na wetin?
DIWK na wetin?
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by Iamzik: 8:10am On Nov 23, 2024
ehikwe22:
I'm childfree and an antinatalist as well. The benefits are tremendous
Lol old age go tell you
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by pocohantas(f): 8:14am On Nov 23, 2024
cococandy:
If I weren’t already known to be married and have kids, I’d be randomly on here saying I don’t want kids or marriage just to see them cry.😭

The way they clutch their pearls when they hear a woman doesn’t want children is something else. Thesis upon Ted talks and analysis start to flow.

Too entertaining.
Why though? Shebi it doesn't favour them?
😂😂😂
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by chidiokay: 8:14am On Nov 23, 2024
cococandy:
If I weren’t already known to be married and have kids, I’d be randomly on here saying I don’t want kids or marriage just to see them cry.😭

The way they clutch their pearls when they hear a woman doesn’t want children is something else. Thesis upon Ted talks and analysis start to flow.

Too entertaining.
In reality who goes to her son house to furstrate nd mock a barren woman,

i know you are tew woke to own a bible, google search those that mocked hannah cos she couldnt have a child before she ran to shiloh ... M or F smiley

you gurls just suckle up in a fairy world, and never take reality into cognisance. ciao
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by pocohantas(f): 8:19am On Nov 23, 2024
SAMBARRY:
one dirty mannerless clown has started crying in my mention sef grin
I think it is same clown that almost had a heart attack because I want just 2 kids. If his parents insisted on same, maybe they would have had better resources to ensure he doesn't end up a Nairaland clown. grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by SAMBARRY: 8:24am On Nov 23, 2024
pocohantas:
I think it is same clown that almost had a heart attack because I want just 2 kids. If his parents insisted on same, maybe they would have had better resources to ensure he doesn't end up a Nairaland clown. grin
person wey never see food chop finish dey cry about another person's decision grin

It's always the poverty striken narcissist that have the most to say about other peoples lives and intimate decisions when their own lives is a complete mess grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by chidiokay: 8:25am On Nov 23, 2024
SAMBARRY:
awwwww grin

I no get bucket bring to cry o grin because you go cry me a lagoon grin


So you mom boiled all her eggs give you chop? grin no wonder you're slow grin

You lament on top another person headache o grin tongue

Another mannerless pig no want my mention to rest o grin
So you know its your headache ! abeg paste your location make i buy bokku hot bread cum make we fry more eggss ! ko kuku wu lo

Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by SAMBARRY: 8:42am On Nov 23, 2024
chidiokay:
So you know its your headache ! abeg paste your location make i buy bokku hot bread cum make we fry more eggss ! ko kuku wu lo
ehyaaaaa this tears have not started well na.pump it up grin

So you have finished frying your mother's eggs you're looking for another girls eggs to fry grin


Wetin do your testes? grin cut am fry na grin tongue

grin grin grin grin
Re: Woman In DINK Relationship Divides Opinion After Explaining The Benefits by pocohantas(f): 8:44am On Nov 23, 2024
SAMBARRY:
person wey never see food chop finish dey cry about another person's decision grin

It's always the poverty striken narcissist that have the most to say about other peoples lives and intimate decisions when their own lives is a complete mess grin
Oh, you should see him, his kitchen and his babe. It is always them. He sure looks like the bitterness he exudes. grin
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